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to avoid similar problems in future: always pee after sex (to avoid UTIs); wear cotton underwear (to avoid thrush and BV); make sure your husband also takes medication for the yeast infection as he could be asymptomatic but pass it right back to you good luck and god speed to your vagina
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inkblottime posted:Now when you say "Gun" oil, you're referring to a specific brand of sexual lube, not oil designed to clean firearms?  SA Forums you never disappoint.
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OwlFancier posted:I googled it and it's apparently a gay lube. Or at least advertised as such. They have a cool advert. You know, having grown up in the 80's, it is so cool seeing videos like this becoming mainstream. It gives me hope for humanity. In regards to mineral oil, I know it's used to clean/maintain stainless steel and butcher block since it's food safe. Not sure about it's insertion safety but I would assume it's no less safe than say petroleum jelly. That being said, there are so many "made for" and "safe for" sex products out there, I would just stick with them. Don't cheep out on your junk.
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That video reminded me why I don't read Youtube comments.quote:My partners and I will gladly take Gun Oil silicone lube for anal sex over inferior 'Swiss Navy' brand lubes anyday. We buy 3-bottle paks (96 oz) of Gun Oil lube every 6 months or so and couldn't be happier with the performance edge we get using this product. For frequent evenings where gay anal and rectal plugplay is likely to occur, Gun Oil lube always satisfies! Vote Trump!! Gays for Trump 2016! =) 
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KillHour posted:That video reminded me why I don't read Youtube comments. Well that post took an odd turn.
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inkblottime posted:You know, having grown up in the 80's, it is so cool seeing videos like this becoming mainstream. It gives me hope for humanity. It's more just that we've had a bit of trouble finding one that doesn't turn lumpy and horrible, and neither of us finds that sexy, and, well, I have some baby oil anyway to clean my swords with (  ) so it seemed logical.KillHour posted:That video reminded me why I don't read Youtube comments. Oh god yes I read that too. Not sure if terrible or wonderful.
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OwlFancier posted:It's more just that we've had a bit of trouble finding one that doesn't turn lumpy and horrible, and neither of us finds that sexy, and, well, I have some baby oil anyway to clean my swords with ( Try Astroglide in the tube if you haven't already. It's pretty thin so it will need re-application but I can guarantee it won't get lumpy. If it works, you can get bulk packs for not too expensive off amazon. EDIT: There's several sites that state not to use mineral oil for vaginal sex or with a condom so keep that in mind. "We're out of lube but I do have some mineral oil. You know what that means! Bare-back anal or bust, baby!" inkblottime fucked around with this message at 04:19 on May 5, 2016 |
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Well this is embarrassing but oh well. Me and my guy were having sex and he rolled me over to do doggy, but he went in the wrong hole. Like he didn't just brush up against the area, he actually thrusted forward straight into my rear end. I jumped and he apologized, and we readjusted and had a laugh over it afterwards. I feel like an idiot for not immediately stopping all activities and making him go wash his dick before going in my pussy again, but I got stupid in the heat of the moment. The problem is that my vag is insanely sensitive, to the point where if I don't use sensitive detergents, scent free soaps, lube with almost 0 ingredients, etc. I will get yeast/uti/bv infections. I'm really worried that my rear end germs got into my pussy and could potentially cause something. It feels "off" today but because I have interstitial cystitis, it's almost impossible to tell the difference between regular IC flare burning and an actual infection. What can I do to prevent or backtrack before this turns into a full-blown infection? I'm already going to eat double probiotics and some coconut oil.
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Cuckoo posted:Well this is embarrassing but oh well. I might drink 100% cranberry juice for a few days too, just in case something got up in the urethra.
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And drink a buttload of water in general.
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Anoulie posted:And drink a buttload of water in general. But not a literal buttload. Make sure it comes fresh from a bottle or a filtered tap.
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Atlas Hugged posted:But not a literal buttload. Make sure it comes fresh from a bottle or a filtered tap. Hey, this is a safe space, no kink-shaming.
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Do it on top of an OSHA warning sign. That's a pretty blatant violation.
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So looking for a reccomendation. My wife wants something that will leave lasting welts/bruises but I want to avoid causing any lasting damage or breaking the skin. I have a soft pig leather belt I was using before but it's not getting the results she wants. Any suggestions for something that will meet both our needs? I like the general idea behind what she wants I just don't want blood, or to hurt her in any real permanent way.
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Jimson posted:So looking for a reccomendation. My wife wants something that will leave lasting welts/bruises but I want to avoid causing any lasting damage or breaking the skin. I have a soft pig leather belt I was using before but it's not getting the results she wants. Canes and paddles with holes are the most intense impact toys, those are probably your best bet. Make sure to put neosporin on afterwards, it'll help prevent scarring.
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It's definitely possible to break the skin with canes, especially if you don't know what you're doing. You want something way thumpier.
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Anne Whateley posted:It's definitely possible to break the skin with canes, especially if you don't know what you're doing. You want something way thumpier. Thumpier?
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Anne Whateley posted:It's definitely possible to break the skin with canes, especially if you don't know what you're doing. You want something way thumpier. It should go without saying that if you don't know what you're doing, a lot of BDSM can harm your partner.
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Of course, but he's obviously a beginner. I'm assuming he's going to buy something we mention and try it out, not start going to classes and spend weeks practicing technique on pillows. If his big goal is not drawing blood, canes are far from beginner-proof.Jimson posted:Thumpier?
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Is there some kind of kink megathread I would be better served by?
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Jimson posted:Is there some kind of kink megathread I would be better served by? This thread gets maybe a post a week, how many sex threads do you think this forum can possibly sustain?
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Travis343 posted:This thread gets maybe a post a week, how many sex threads do you think this forum can possibly sustain? 50. But 48 of those are stdh sub threads in pyf. Idk I just know this thread is very adamant about DONT POST ABOUT KINKS OR DIE!
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Jimson posted:50. But 48 of those are stdh sub threads in pyf. Idk I just know this thread is very adamant about DONT POST ABOUT KINKS OR DIE! The last thread imploded because a few people wouldn't stop shoving their probably made up fetish lifestyle E/N into everything. It's OK to ask for advice on kinky stuff, just keep it on the practical or technical aspects.
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Anne Whateley posted:Heavier, more surface area, uhhh basically just makes a thump when it hits someone. Wouldn't heavier just create a greater chance of breaking something? More surface area would help soften it, so paddles seem fine, but like, don't hit your partner with a cricket bat, or the edge of your paddle by accident. I would suggest obviously no edges or metal parts, because that will break the skin, and perhaps learning your own tendencies and working up slowly towards things that get the right balance for both of you. Even just something a little harder will probably bruise more than a belt. OwlFancier fucked around with this message at 17:05 on May 10, 2016 |
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The rear end and thighs are hugely padded with muscle and fat so you are extremely unlikely to break something via paddling/spanking. A heavier broader paddle distributes the force across more area making it less likely to break the skin. If you're spanking someone across their back or something then yeah, maybe not that, but maybe keep it off the ribs regardless of what you're wailing on your lover with.
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Travis343 posted:The rear end and thighs are hugely padded with muscle and fat so you are extremely unlikely to break something via paddling/spanking. A heavier broader paddle distributes the force across more area making it less likely to break the skin. If you're spanking someone across their back or something then yeah, maybe not that, but maybe keep it off the ribs regardless of what you're wailing on your lover with. When ever we have sex I pretend I am Robert De Niro and she is a gangster who doesn't understand baseball metaphors
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Will viagra and the like help with losing of bone because of exhaustion? Like for example im having sex and really going at it and I start to get winded because shits hard work. And because I'm getting real tired I start losing my hard on. This might not even be it. It could be that I'm losing my erection because Im worried about losing my erection when tired. Anyway would viagra work in both of these situations?
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Affi posted:Will viagra and the like help with losing of bone because of exhaustion? It probably would, but it sounds like the problem is more psychosomatic than physiological, so I wouldn't recommend it. Have you tried the OTC remedies of weed and butt stuff?
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Just wondering. I'm a good sex haver but I'm having trouble really letting loose. Viagra isn't something I need. But it'd be fun for occasional sex occasions. Or something.
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KillHour posted:Is there a question in there? Nah I think that was mostly in reply to other dude. But I am sorta worried about side effects with pills like viagra.
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Affi posted:But I am sorta worried about side effects with pills like viagra. Check back in 4 hours, then we'll discuss if need be.
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Affi posted:Will viagra and the like help with losing of bone because of exhaustion? Please work out.
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Affi posted:Just wondering. I'm a good sex haver but I'm having trouble really letting loose. I've never used it, but I know a guy who did for a long weekend, and he said it did help his boner stay at 100%, especially after round 1. He also said it reduced the refractory period, and made him slightly less sensitive so he lasted longer, which could be a good or bad thing depending on your normal stamina. I asked if it made him hornier, and he said it didn't, it just made his dick more responsive to horniness, which sounds like what you're looking for. He also recommended I (didn't believe for a second I was asking for swole Rick Sanchez) only take half a pill if everything is generally working well. As far as side effects go, I know the big one is you can't use it if you have certain blood pressure conditions, nor can you use poppers the same day you take it. Otherwise, it's a pretty safe drug with minimal side effects. If you use it too much it could become a psychological crutch, but if you just save it for special occasions, you should be fine. If you're worried about side effects or using it too often, you could also try a cock ring. They can help you stay hard, and are pretty fun to experiment with. I'd say go for it; if you think occasionally taking half a pill would improve your sex life, well, isn't that exactly what it's there for?
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Dude above me thanks. Shine posted:Please work out. I will lift more heavy stuff and put it down again.
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hoobajoo posted:you could also try a cock ring Seconding this, they're great for keeping you erect and you even get a slight temporary boost to girth. I've also experimented with l-arginine and l-lysine supplements, they're precursors of nitric oxide which is a vasodialator. I haven't exactly carried out a blind peer reviewed study but anecdotally it does seem to help - either taking them daily or mega-dosing (4-5 grams of arginine with about half as much lysine) an hour or so before you plan on having sex has made a noticeable difference.
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Geoj posted:Seconding this, they're great for keeping you erect and you even get a slight temporary boost to girth. A cock ring will turn any dick into, to quote Superbad, a "veiny, triumphant bastard". You can also put one around just your balls, and they become like a pendulum that hits the clit if you do it doggy style. I had an ex that could only cum from PIV this way. I've taken Arginine before, it felt like it helped and actually made me more sensitive rather than less. Which is actually really helpful if you feel anxious during sex, or have to use a condom. It gives me stomach cramps sometimes, though, so I don't use it unless I'm actively dating.
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