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rgocs posted:So how was the souffle? It was genuinely the best soufflé I have ever witnessed, it was impeccable..
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 03:45 |
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lazorexplosion posted:Renting an entire restaurant for an attempt at a simple date is definitely a creative take on the "nice guy spends creepily socially inappropriate amount of money on gifts for a woman as if it buys affection" thing. It's incredibly hosed up and awkward for a date with someone you're still trying to get with, but it could see it being a really cool surprise for like your 20th wedding anniversary.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 03:48 |
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Renting out an entire restaurant for anything besides an anniversary, or proposal (not six months after meeting either) seems weird. I would be so freaked out and nervous. Am I the only person who doesn't think about who is paying what on the bill until it's time to actually pay? And then I'm just like "do you want to split it or I can pay it all or we can figure out exactly how much mine cost..." with a grin to indicate I don't care who pays for what? Is that weird? Have I offended people by doing this? Or guys, at least? Ladydates always seem more chill but that could be in my head
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 04:23 |
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Pick posted:It was genuinely the best soufflé I have ever witnessed, it was impeccable.. At least there was that! No idea how long you had known this person, you sure he wasn't married and making sure nobody saw him?
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 04:27 |
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Pick posted:an old guy once rented out a restaurant for dinner with me see that's the thing; I actually enjoy picking up the tab for people I'm dating/hooking up with but i think it's weird to just be expected to pick up the whole tab just because I'm the dude. Like, yea i asked the person out but why would a woman WANT me to pay for everything if we obviously weren't compatible and we're not gonna see each other again. and honestly 99% of the girls I've gone out with that it obviously wasn't going to work out with were the ones to make sure we'd split the check anyways so it's no big deal. I dunno what my point here is, but I guess I'd say it's kinda weird in this day and age to expect anybody to cover a check just because they were the ones to ask the other party out
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 04:33 |
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MY PALE GOTH SKIN posted:Renting out an entire restaurant for anything besides an anniversary, or proposal (not six months after meeting either) seems weird. I would be so freaked out and nervous. I think I always just tried to be prepared to pay for everything if I needed to and then otherwise just figure it out on the fly. Having strong expectations one way or another, much less getting butthurt if I wasn't allowed to pay for everything, would never occur to me.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 04:34 |
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Fat Shat Sings posted:I make whore bitches pay the entire bill, and my gas money for the privilege of them getting to spend time with me. FatShat you forgot the Very naice GAMES
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 05:27 |
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^^^ lol holy poo poo dudeBlacktoll posted:moridin itt trying to figure out how to pay a bill on a date was the most demonstrative way he could of displayed his social skills all i said was the party doing the inviting is usually obliged to pay idk why that's so weird to you drildos
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 05:35 |
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LOVEGAMES
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 05:35 |
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Look everybody I just doxxed Skylark ^^^
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 05:40 |
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Dinosaurmageddon posted:
lol jesus loving christ I want to see the rest of the comments hahaha what a loving little pussy rear end bitch that man is
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 05:45 |
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ElGroucho posted:LOL at a grown loving man wearing a video game shirt trying to impress a lady This! I saw pictures of a goon meet, an EVE goon meet, and among the sea of ratty t-shirts there was a guy in a nice dress shirt that unexpectedly made my heart go pitter pat for a sec. It was a casual event so the top couple buttons were undone, and in the later pics he had his sleeves rolled up. It probably helped that he was the skinny nerd type rather than the fat nerd type, but he was still another nerdy computer janitor who cares way too much about internet spaceships and doesn't get enough exercise or sunshine. A clean shirt that fit him well made a huge difference in attractiveness vs. the ratty t-shirt crowd. Some guys try that and go way too far tho. The nice dress shirt was paired with jeans, because it was a goonmeet, not the opera or whatever. He wasn't wearing a tie, a suit jacket, or a fedora (which can just make you look like a kid dressing up in your grandpa's old clothes). Dressing like a grown up is hard.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 05:53 |
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Same.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 05:56 |
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JFairfax posted:lol jesus loving christ I want to see the rest of the comments hahaha what a loving little pussy rear end bitch that man is Yeah, although, I want to see her with a boyfriend while continuing to let his best frandddd hold her like that.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 06:24 |
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CaptainSarcastic posted:I think I always just tried to be prepared to pay for everything if I needed to and then otherwise just figure it out on the fly. Having strong expectations one way or another, much less getting butthurt if I wasn't allowed to pay for everything, would never occur to me. Oh yeah I won't go out if I don't have means to pay, unless it's with a friend who understands I'm broke and I've already been like "hey we can just chill at home because I have no money" and they said they're cool with paying for fries or w/e. I don't do that with people I don't know well. The rest of the time money is just on a checklist of things I take and I don't really think about it until it's time to pay. And I don't care who pays. Even if I dislike someone I don't mind picking up the check, especially if I initiated. IDK, just seemed odd to me. Maybe it's a thing I picked up dating women and unconsciously applied to everyone? I'm serious about ladydates being much more chill, in my experience. Not saying I've never met a high strung woman who dated other women, just that I don't date them, I guess. But I have dated some kinda garbage dudes. Especially in my youth. Hmm.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 07:20 |
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People are weird. The girl who rejected me when I asked her out on a date but wanted to come to my place to watch netflix, using her account mind you, I dont have one lol, tried to tickle me more than once and was rubbing her legs against mine . I just wanted to watch stranger things
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 09:13 |
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punakone posted:People are weird. She's trying to friendzone you!
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 10:01 |
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Clearly this is part of her long-term strategy to keep you holding doors for her and giving her compliments while she rides the cock carrousel behind your back. Sneaky bitch.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 10:06 |
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Dinosaurmageddon posted:
I like this mentality as I've been the boyfriend in 2-3 separate occasions. The more naive the girl is about what is going on the more annoyed I get. "What, James just wants to buy me an xbox, go out to bars with him, let him buy me jewelry and go to the mall because he is that good of a friend Sure he sends me huge rants about how I'm the only one that "gets him" and how I need a "real man" but I told him I'm not interested and he totally understands that. By the way he wants me to go out to dinner with him DON'T TELL ME I CANT HAVE FRIENDS" It's less irritating when your partner realizes and goes "Yeah the guy is kinda creepy and all he does is talk poo poo about you despite never even meeting you"
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 10:57 |
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Dinosaurmageddon posted:
oh c'mon she has to know.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 11:01 |
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last time i crushed on a girl my girl best friend who i confide in said i am too nice and let myself be used so what gives be nice or not i think she meant stop letting her mulch money pot and lifts at odd hours tho butt fr no more mr nice guy lol toodle-oo
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 11:15 |
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KomodoWagon posted:Clearly this is part of her long-term strategy to keep you holding doors for her and giving her compliments while she rides the cock carrousel behind your back. Sneaky bitch. I dont mind as long it gives me free netflix
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 11:57 |
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Jesus is this thread still going? What more is there to be said than "I cant believe these people are so wrong in their mindset" and "wow that guy was scary". Can we turn this into the new general purpose r/relationships thread instead?
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 12:09 |
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Business Gorillas posted:also lol that dudes would get offended at getting taken out to dinner Is this the same woman who would bring you beer? I hope not Fat Shat Sings posted:I like this mentality as I've been the boyfriend in 2-3 separate occasions. I hate that guy. I dated a girl and her best guy friend was apparently always telling her that he didn't see us lasting for various reasons, then one night when my girlfriend and her friend were getting ready for the bar he and I were stuck in a room together and he told me he just didn't think girlfriend and I were right for each other and she'd always told him that I was a really good friend until the day he found out we were dating. Anyway, a while after she and I broke up they started dating and living together. After a night out they got home and she was barfing and hosed up. He wanted sex and she said no, she woke up the next morning to find out he had raped her while she was passed out Nice Guys!
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 12:44 |
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Curdy Lemonstan posted:Jesus is this thread still going? What more is there to be said than "I cant believe these people are so wrong in their mindset" and "wow that guy was scary". After the way the last r/relationships thread ended I'm not sure you want that
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 12:44 |
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Professor Shark posted:Is this the same woman who would bring you beer? I hope not You let this happen you total cvck
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 12:46 |
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Curdy Lemonstan posted:Jesus is this thread still going? What more is there to be said than "I cant believe these people are so wrong in their mindset" and "wow that guy was scary". wrong thread died
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 12:53 |
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KomodoWagon posted:You let this happen you total cvck Shut the gently caress up and no I didn't
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 13:37 |
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Professor Shark posted:Is this the same woman who would bring you beer? I hope not Did the guy guy end up in prison or a grave? Please tell me there's a happy ending to this story.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 13:54 |
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Professor Shark posted:Shut the gently caress up and no I didn't you got niced
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 13:55 |
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zegs posted:last time i crushed on a girl my girl best friend who i confide in said i am too nice and let myself be used
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 14:12 |
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Leon Einstein posted:It really means that you shouldn't bend over backwards to do everything you think a woman wants you to do. Kissing a woman's rear end isn't the path to eating a woman's rear end. You don't have to kiss it first but it seems rude to jump right in
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 14:18 |
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quote:"What Happened to All the Nice Guys?"
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 14:23 |
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Yeah, cause the women would be so lucky to be with a bitter guy who thinks women should've hosed him since he opened doors for them. I like how the boyfriends are always huge villains in these guys' heads.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 14:33 |
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Yeah, or they act like anyone who is muscular/fit, or dresses well can't possibly be nice or intelligent. Only a sloppy guy in a t-shirt is smart enough to really get a girl, and if she has a boyfriend who doesn't fit in that mold, it's because she's a shallow whore, not because maybe someone happened to be in shape and smart or funny, or just socially well-adjusted.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 14:38 |
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PallasAthene posted:Yeah, or they act like anyone who is muscular/fit, or dresses well can't possibly be nice or intelligent. Only a sloppy guy in a t-shirt is smart enough to really get a girl, and if she has a boyfriend who doesn't fit in that mold, it's because she's a shallow whore, not because maybe someone happened to be in shape and smart or funny, or just socially well-adjusted. Get swole, dress nice, don't be a weirdo. For some reason instead of saying that we tell kids to "just be yourself" which is only good advice for people who don't need advice.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 14:56 |
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quote:So funny how everbody jumps on the bandwagon an the females aplaud the author for being totally one sided and saying exactly what they want to hear, while he totally disregards the other side of the story, that some females indeed are bitches who just use males when they are in the need, e.g. if their rear end in a top hat boyfriend dumped her again (because he just wanted sex and nothing more, and that was clear from the beginning for everyone except for her), perfectly knowing that the guy they are using is loner who wants a girlfriend (and sex, of course) and will do pretty much anything for her, and instead of saying “You? Never!” or just talking to another person they just throw him away after use and forget it.
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 14:57 |
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I let my girlfriend take me out to dinner and buy poo poo for me all the time because she makes way more money then i do
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 15:05 |
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P-Mack posted:Get swole, dress nice, don't be a weirdo. Nice guys are loving stupid. I've never had a girl tell me, "Gee, I thought you were a real dummy on account of your biceps, but it turns out you are not dumb at all!"
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# ? Aug 12, 2016 15:27 |
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P-Mack posted:Get swole, dress nice, don't be a weirdo. No, the damage is mental. Changing physically won't do anything.
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