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ishikabibble posted:China Chinese presumably meaning chinese immigrants rather than native-born but ethnically chinese person. So Chinese as opposed to American or English or wherever that guy posted from. Got it my dude
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 06:43 |
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The Taiwan thing is plausible to me but I'm willing to bet it's like claiming there's a big difference between Canadians and Americans
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 06:44 |
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Larry Parrish posted:The Taiwan thing is plausible to me but I'm willing to bet it's like claiming there's a big difference between Canadians and Americans Lmao you couldn't be more wrong.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 07:40 |
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Yeah I don't know poo poo about the complexities of the region and even I know Taiwan is a crazy sore spot in Chinese politics on all levels.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 07:46 |
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Moon Atari posted:Jazz cabbage is an improvisational form of cabbage originally made by black cabbage artists but now enjoyed almost exclusively by pretentious nerds. You can tell when stoners hit that jazz cabbage, they start playing the piano maniacally and waving their hands around Xaris posted:modern adaption of the typhoid mary story HIV Harriet on the prowl
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 08:25 |
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E: no idea how I double-posted
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 08:25 |
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Me [29F] with my bf [29M] of 2 and a half years, had a disagreement during dinner and he physically assaulted me. Now I'm scared and in pain and I don't know what to doquote:(Sorry this might be one whole text as I'm on mobile)
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 12:44 |
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People, please stop posting stories that are just straight up sad/abusive.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 12:50 |
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Can we please stick to funny content?
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 12:50 |
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My [27F] boyfriend [24M] of 2.5 years refuses to grow up, even though I'm currently pregnant with his child.quote:For a bit of background, both me and my boyfriend still live at home with our parents. I still live as home as I have quite severe social phobia, I don't have a job and therefore can't afford to move out. I'm aware that I have issues and will work on them as much as I can so I can be a good mother to my child. My parents and I get along most of the time.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 12:53 |
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lazorexplosion posted:My [27F] boyfriend [24M] of 2.5 years refuses to grow up, even though I'm currently pregnant with his child. What is she talking about? A 24 y/o manchild that's still living with his parents and that doesn't have enough of a mind of his own to ever question them will make a great father. Also the fact that he'll be telling his kid about how they'll burn in hell if they misbehave will only do his kid good. Jack Trades fucked around with this message at 13:08 on Oct 23, 2016 |
# ? Oct 23, 2016 12:57 |
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The pregnant 27 year old in this scenario also lives with their parents and has no job.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 13:01 |
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The dude has a job, a large amount of money in savings, friends, and volunteers with kids in his church community. As weird as his situation is I think he is more of a catch than the pregnant 27 year old who is unemployed because of social anxiety.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 13:33 |
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poopnanners posted:That was this thread... Goddammit. Just ignore me. This is why I shouldn't internet when I'm half asleep. Sorry yall.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 13:34 |
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Moon Atari posted:The dude has a job, a large amount of money in savings, friends, and volunteers with kids in his church community. As weird as his situation is I think he is more of a catch than the pregnant 27 year old who is unemployed because of social anxiety. Yeah, he needs to grow up but she needs to get a job (at least after the pregnancy and poo poo)
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 13:36 |
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Also if they're hyper Christian it's a little weird that he did the sex before marriage bit but can't do the stand up to mommy bit
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 13:37 |
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Moon Atari posted:The dude has a job, a large amount of money in savings, friends, and volunteers with kids in his church community. As weird as his situation is I think he is more of a catch than the pregnant 27 year old who is unemployed because of social anxiety. I can't believe I'm saying this but it sounds like his parents will hopefully do a majority of the child rearing. I just got a cold chill.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 13:48 |
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DOMDOM posted:My [27M] Fiancé [27F] (newly engaged) gave me a "list" of requirements I need to follow in our relationship. This is someone's fetish 54 40 or gently caress posted:I can't believe I'm saying this but it sounds like his parents will hopefully do a majority of the child rearing. I just got a cold chill. Hope not, they're the ones who made him like that
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 15:43 |
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You can just feel the years of built up bullshit between the chef and the abused woman.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 15:50 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:Genesplicer, you old dog, you. Lol. That was my first thought.
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DOMDOM posted:My [27M] Fiancé [27F] (newly engaged) gave me a "list" of requirements I need to follow in our relationship. Yeaaah, kinda reads like fiction. It's too well-written and the author also removed the post and haven't replied to a single comment.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:08 |
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quote:My wife [22/F] and I [23/M] got married 5 months ago but she still isn't ready to consummate our union yet.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:19 |
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God has bestowed either a huge or tiny dick on that man and his wife is either intimidated or regretting not inspecting the package before signing.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:31 |
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She's a lesbian and was hoping marriage would fix it.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:34 |
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quote:We both were getting extremely aroused together and after the shower decided to pause and share a prayer together before we took things any further. I think I found the problem.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:36 |
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What a great relationship they have. It's absolutely not depressing as gently caress and it definitely doesn't make me want to barf.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:37 |
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if your concept of sex revolves around an invisble man watching you bone rather than, idk, your partner or enjoying yourself it is a pretty good sign you should stay well the gently caress away
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:37 |
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quote:My [25F] now ex-boyfriend [29M] sent me pictures of about 30 girls he wants to have sex with after I caught him cheating.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:38 |
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Talk about salting the loving earth
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:43 |
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military cervix posted:My wife [22/F] and I [23/M] got married 5 months ago but she still isn't ready to consummate our union yet. Apparently this can be a problem with people whose upbringings have been steeped in religious beliefs that restrict sexuality. I remember reading an Ask/Tell thread (I think by Fascinator?) about some sort of Jewish fundamentalist community that was riddled with this problem when it came to young men consummating their marriages. They couldn't bring themselves to do it because they'd been told all their lives that it was wrong and they couldn't overcome the inhibition. It's really sad that these people are made to be so frightened of something that should be so enjoyable and intimate. Sex should be a good thing, not something buried in stories about sin and shame.
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Lysistrata posted:Apparently this can be a problem with people whose upbringings have been steeped in religious beliefs that restrict sexuality. I remember reading an Ask/Tell thread (I think by Fascinator?) about some sort of Jewish fundamentalist community that was riddled with this problem when it came to young men consummating their marriages. They couldn't bring themselves to do it because they'd been told all their lives that it was wrong and they couldn't overcome the inhibition. It is sad, they build this dumb thing up in their heads whereas it's a thing most of us do after Netflix and a few drinks.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 16:59 |
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Lysistrata posted:Apparently this can be a problem with people whose upbringings have been steeped in religious beliefs that restrict sexuality. I remember reading an Ask/Tell thread (I think by Fascinator?) about some sort of Jewish fundamentalist community that was riddled with this problem when it came to young men consummating their marriages. They couldn't bring themselves to do it because they'd been told all their lives that it was wrong and they couldn't overcome the inhibition. There's also the fact that a lot of these people just don't know how to do it, beyond "insert tab A into slot B."
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 17:05 |
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But how does that explain the fact that many religious young people get married very young specifically so they can get down to loving?
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 17:34 |
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As far as I understand, this is something that usually happens in the really fundamentalist sects that would be called cults if they weren't technically a part of a legit religion. Not saying that's the issue with this girl, just saying that this sort of inhibition does happen under certain circumstances. This girl sounds like she was raised in a very religious home, and for someone sensitive who doesn't know how to think critically about their beliefs, I can totally see this sort of thing happening even if it's not a fundamentalist environment. Then again, I'm just going off poo poo I read on the net sooo
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Panfilo posted:But how does that explain the fact that many religious young people get married very young specifically so they can get down to loving? Those children were raised hearing "no sex until you're married" as opposed to "sex is bad and wrong" like that poor girl apparently got.
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Gadzuko posted:Those children were raised hearing "no sex until you're married" as opposed to "sex is bad and wrong" like that poor girl apparently got. She might have even gotten something like "when you get married your husband is unfortunately going to want to corrupt your purity by having sex with you, which sucks but that's just what is gonna happen and you need to do it if you want kids anyway so just lie back and think of England"
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 18:03 |
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Probably was taught to believe that it's incredibly painful too.
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# ? Oct 23, 2016 18:08 |
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As it turns out when you condition people to subconsciously reject the concept of sex during their sexual development, it is kind of difficult to remove that mental block after an arbitrary milestone has been met This is a problem with lots of people who had their brains broken by fundies but the ones who avoid it go on to have a ton of loving kids so their garbage lifestyle prospers
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Probably was taught to believe that it's incredibly painful too. There is an actual medical condition that just so happens to make sex incredibly painful for the woman, and several of the causes for it are psychological, including fear of sex in general, poor sex education (which I guarantee describes the prayer people up there), and childhood conditioning https://www.vaginismus.com/vaginismus-causes/ quote:Fears so unless that poor girl gets actual therapy instead of just praying to the baby Jesus every time she gets upset she'll probably never be able to enjoy sex
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Fullhouse posted:There is an actual medical condition that just so happens to make sex incredibly painful for the woman, and several of the causes for it are psychological, including fear of sex in general, poor sex education (which I guarantee describes the prayer people up there), and childhood conditioning I had this when I was trying to be straight and it's like your vagina just clamps shut vicelike. it's severely unpleasant but I don't think she even got to the penetration part but I wouldn't doubt her having it I feel real bad for her what were the comments like
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