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Dunning Krugerrand posted:Update, though we don't really get closure on why. Wow, that escalated
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Yikes, poor Sticksy. Thank goodness the op's friend just happened to work at that office and recognized him before it was too late. Kill the ex bf and treat Sticksy to a feast of his meat imo
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Nov 27, 2016 20:30
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how many vets actually put down healthy dogs upon request for no reason anyway
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Nov 27, 2016 20:34
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Lunchmeat Larry posted:how many vets actually put down healthy dogs upon request for no reason anyway Good question. I could see the argument for it because the alternative is dog abandonment/murder if they refuse, but I would hope that vets would refuse.
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Nov 27, 2016 20:41
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Lunchmeat Larry posted:how many vets actually put down healthy dogs upon request for no reason anyway Especially when they aren't the owners? Our dog is registered to our name and everything so it seems weird a vets office would agree to do that without the owner present. And he jokes he should have put her down? Wtf all around
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Nov 27, 2016 20:43
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Well the dog is obviously old and the bf might have lied and said he's in bad shape most of the time, in pain, irritable, etc
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Nov 27, 2016 20:45
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Especially when they aren't the owners? Our dog is registered to our name and everything so it seems weird a vets office would agree to do that without the owner present. The people who post obnoxious poo poo about their cats on my facebook/instagram feeds are lovely people who get obsessed with a cat due to being a lovely person. Not because if you remove the cat they'll be perfect. Should have had her put down is a good burn. I guess the other option is he just wanted to murder the dog and console her while it was gone because he's a ridiculous person. I'm not sure how likely this is. Khorne fucked around with this message at 22:05 on Nov 27, 2016 |
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Nov 27, 2016 21:59
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OP's insane ex posted:When confronted with a live happy sticksy he turned it around and it ended with him telling me he should have had me put down. 
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Nov 27, 2016 22:15
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Sticksy made that exact face
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I don't know how to maintain a relationship or make another person feel happy loved or appreciated
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Nov 27, 2016 22:23
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Oh this thread is for discussing Reddit posts. oops.
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Khorne posted:I guess the other option is he just wanted to murder the dog and console her while it was gone because he's a ridiculous person. I'm not sure how likely this is. Maybe he's one of those redditors with a crying fetish? 
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Themata posted:Maybe he's one of those redditors with a crying fetish? There was a redditor a while back who posted a thread where, essentially, her boyfriend destroyed a keepsake of her deceased sister solely so he could console her. She later told the thread that they got together during a rough period in her life, and the boyfriend got off on her being a "damsel in distress." Since their life had settled down and she wasn't as depressed anymore, he'd fabricate reasons for her to be upset. For thread content: My[20M] girlfriend [20F] has become extremely anxious about her passion [D&D] and I don't know how to help quote:Hello r/relationships! I come to you from an unlikely place... r/D&D. Also this turned out to be long as hell so... sorry about that and any formatting errors as im on mobile. (Throwaway because my gf lives on reddit)
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Khorne posted:I feel like there are omitted details still even though I got totally wrecked when she confirmed he was in good health. Like there's some big point of tension in their relationship that involves the dog and her behavior and attitude toward it. That she is omitting possibly unintentionally because she doesn't realize how obnoxious it is. "This relationship would be perfect if it wasn't for this dog" I think most people realize the problem is their s.o. and not some poor pet. I mean she already said the dude wanted to move abroad but the dog was too old to go through that soooooo pretty sure it has to do with that!
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Troposphere posted:I mean she already said the dude wanted to move abroad but the dog was too old to go through that soooooo pretty sure it has to do with that! Still, it feels like she's missed something. It's ridiculous that a guy would go right to dog murder with zero red flags ahead of time. That isn't normal. Even for crazy people that isn't normal.
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Some people are just self-centered assholes, they don't need a special reason to be an rear end in a top hat. He figured he could get away with it, so he did it.
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Facebook Aunt posted:Still, it feels like she's missed something. It's ridiculous that a guy would go right to dog murder with zero red flags ahead of time. That isn't normal. Even for crazy people that isn't normal. I agree with this. There had to have been some tell that the guy wasn't all there. Nobody goes from good guy to dog killer in one step.
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Facebook Aunt posted:Still, it feels like she's missed something. It's ridiculous that a guy would go right to dog murder with zero red flags ahead of time. That isn't normal. Even for crazy people that isn't normal. Attempting to justify the actions of legit crazy people is futile. He might have been perceived the dog as competition with his girlfriend, maybe the dog annoys him so much, maybe he secretly hates dogs. I'm sure dude didn't go from zero to killing the dog for no reason, but it could very well be a totally insane reason which was "logical" only to him. We'll never know and there is no reason to speculate. Cough Drop The Beat fucked around with this message at 23:29 on Nov 27, 2016 |
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IShallRiseAgain posted:Some people are just self-centered assholes, they don't need a special reason to be an rear end in a top hat. He figured he could get away with it, so he did it. I got my cat from a woman whose husband couldn't stand him. She had even had a cat before she met him, and he insisted that she get rid of it once they married. Pretty weird, he is a super wonderful cat. Since then, they have gotten divorced because the man was so selfish. He quit his job, didn't do anything… complained a lot, didn't help.
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Facebook Aunt posted:Still, it feels like she's missed something. It's ridiculous that a guy would go right to dog murder with zero red flags ahead of time. That isn't normal. Even for crazy people that isn't normal. I'm pretty sure crazy people have done crazier things just seems like people are trying to blame her somehow and justify what he did. but maybe he's just a shithead and it took this to see his true colors. some people hide that well
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Lunchmeat Larry posted:how many vets actually put down healthy dogs upon request for no reason anyway One of my lovely relatives used to do this with animals when she got tired of dealing with them. Her excuse was that the animal shelter would be too traumatic and they'd get put down there anyway.
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I suppose it's a good thing he tried to do a very wrong thing the "right" way. If he'd just killed the dog instead of tryina have it euthanized he probably would have gotten away with it and right now he'd be out trying to "help find" it with his distraught but fooled girlfriend.
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Lunchmeat Larry posted:how many vets actually put down healthy dogs upon request for no reason anyway I will kill any number of dogs for any reason, and I'm not even a vet anymore
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My [24M] girlfriend [24F] of almost a year spends 2 hours putting on makeup every day Posting this anonymously because my girlfriend posts on reddit and knows my account. I would also like to add a disclaimer that I am not trying to control her appearance and I understand that women wear makeup for reasons other than wanting to be attractive to men. My issue with the makeup is that it's affecting other areas of my girlfriend's life and our relationship. My [24M] girlfriend [24F] and I have been together for almost a year. The one year anniversary of the day we met and had our first date is actually this Friday. She is a good person. It's not just about looks because I am attracted to her personality as well. I really am. But her excessive makeup is affecting her life in other areas and our relationship. When we first started dating I didn't realize how long it took to put on so much makeup. I knew she wore it but I was clueless as too how much/how long it took. My girlfriend will spend at least 2 hours every morning applying makeup. It doesn’t matter what her plans are for the day, she will spend at least 2 hours doing it, whether she is just going to be at home alone watching TV or running out to the store quickly or going to work. Last year on New Year’s Eve I found out that she spent 3.5 hours doing it before she went out. I asked her once and she says she uses at minimum 25 different makeup products every day. She sleeps in full makeup and never washes it all off. The first couple of times we spent the night together I thought the only reason she slept with it on was because we had been out all night dancing or at a pub and we were tired and just kind of came back to one of our places and fell right asleep. But she does it every single night. She does it even when she is sleeping alone and I am not there. She wears her full makeup into the shower and is careful to get as little of it off as possible. She doesn’t wash off her old makeup from before when she put makeup on for a new day, she puts more on over it. She says it’s been at least 5 years since she has seen herself without any makeup at all on. As I said it’s not about her appearance (I would not mind seeing her without makeup but I don’t want to control her or tell her just for appearance reasons) but it’s about how it is affecting our relationship and her personal life as well. Some examples: Recently I had to travel for work. When I got back my brother was supposed to pick me up from the airport. He had car trouble and couldn’t make it. Before I paid for a cab I called my girlfriend and asked if she wouldn’t mind picking me or if she wanted to get some more sleep because it was after 1:00 A.M. I would have been fine if she wanted to sleep but she said she would come and get me. It took her over 3 hours to come and get me because she spent 2 hours putting makeup on before she left. 2 hours of makeup to drive to the airport in the dark, pick me up, take me home and then go back home to bed. And when she got up later that morning for the day she spent another 2 hours doing it again even though she wasn’t working that day and she stayed home alone the whole day. Back in October her sister went into labor prematurely. Thankfully both her sister and the baby are fine but at the time it was really bad and they came close to death. I was not sleeping at her place the night that it happened but her dad had called her at home that night and told her to get to the hospital because her sister was in distress and she and the baby might die. My girlfriend spent almost 2 hours putting on makeup before she rushed to the hospital. She was told her sister and her baby might die any minute and she still took the time to put on makeup before she went. She says she cut corners and took almost 2 hours instead of the full 2 t least she was in a hurry but she couldn’t leave without makeup on. Since she takes 2 hours to put on makeup she has to get up much earlier in the morning. If not for the makeup she wouldn’t have to wake up until 7 A.M. on work days. She wakes up at 4:30-5:00 A.M. instead. She often complains about being tired and not getting enough sleep but instead of sleeping for 7-8 hours she will only sleep for 5.5-6 hours. She lies to her doctor about having insomnia and sometimes takes medication to help her sleep. On days when she doesn’t have to work she can easily sleep 8 hours or more. But she refuses to cut back on her makeup to get more sleep. Before we were together she needed surgery for something mouth related. Her doctor wanted to do it in the hospital but she refused because she would have had to show up completely makeup free for the surgery so instead she opted for a dental specialist in his office because there was no makeup free rule for that. Because it wasn’t done in the hospital the dental specialist had to do it a different way and instead of a quick recovery it took her almost 2 weeks. We both had the flu recently and she still put makeup on even though she was sick in bed and throwing up. Because she sleeps in full makeup her bedding is awful and I bought some pillowcases and blankets for her when she sleeps at my place so she doesn’t ruin mine. I also have my own when I sleep at her place because I will get makeup all over me if I use hers. I had to buy furniture covers because she got makeup all over my furniture. At the beginning of our relationship she ruined a couple of my shirts because when we cuddled or she put her head on my shoulder her makeup would be left behind. Now unless we are going to get sexual I don’t even kiss her, we just blow kisses and hold hands because if we kiss I get makeup left on me. She doesn’t wear collared shirts, turtlenecks or scarves because her makeup ruins them. After we are intimate I always have makeup all over me. All of this is starting to weigh on my mind and give me doubts about the relationship. My girlfriend says she can stop wearing makeup at any time but that she just doesn’t want too. I challenged her to wash off all the makeup and not wear any for a day, even if she was home alone but she couldn’t even do it. My issue is not her wearing makeup or what she looks like, it is how it interferes with her and our lives. I was floored when I found out she took almost 2 hours to put on makeup on before going to see her sister who may have been dying. I do love her but I can’t imagine living like this forever. My girlfriend sometimes tells me that people dismiss her and do not take her seriously and I think her wearing her full makeup and not toning it down when appropriate (serious work meetings, funerals etc.) could be why. She wears full makeup to the gym and then won’t work out because she doesn’t want to ruin it. When I bring it up she says that she chooses to wear makeup but could stop at any time and that it’s no one’s business what she wears or puts on her face. I don’t know what else I can do. Is there any hope or anything that I can say to get her to listen to my point of view? She says I don’t understand and can’t fault her for wanting to present her best self in any situation. Any advice for me would be really appreciated. tl;dr: My girlfriend of almost a year spends at least 2 hours each morning putting on makeup (at least 25 different products). She does this even when she is going to be home alone all day without going out. She sleeps and showers in full makeup and doesn’t wash off all the old makeup every morning before she put the new makeup on. She has ruined bedding, clothes and furniture because her makeup gets on it. She complains about not sleeping enough but won’t stop getting up 2 hours early to do her makeup. She took 2 hours to put on makeup before going to see her possibly dying pregnant sister (who had gone into premature labor and was in distress) instead of rushing right there. This isn’t about her looks or trying to control her, but about how it is interfering with her life/our relationship. She says she can not wear makeup at any time but just doesn’t want to.
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Zelder posted:bring your pooch to me so I can end him with a devastating drop kick Is it a humane drop kick? I want it to be as painless as possible.
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Troposphere posted:I'm pretty sure crazy people have done crazier things The dog also seems legitimately cool from the pictures.
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Holy poo poo she decided that the risk of never seeing her sister again wasn't worth going out without makeup for? That was pretty distressing to read.
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At my college there was a woman who wouldn't leave the dorm for fire alarms until her makeup was done but at least she could get it down to 15 minutes.
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While that anecdote is more objectively awful, I was most bothered by the makeup-caked bedding and the fact that she never takes anything off, just puts on a new topcoat
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Holy poo poo she decided that the risk of never seeing her sister again wasn't worth going out without makeup for? That was pretty distressing to read. She may have shown up in the bimbo thread in FYAD already.
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I think Adam Pearson did a show where he talked to cosmetics addicts. I haven't been able to catch it but he seems pretty sharp.
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:While that anecdote is more objectively awful, I was most bothered by the makeup-caked bedding and the fact that she never takes anything off, just puts on a new topcoat I'm sure she'd look insanely bad without makeup at this point since her skin hasn't seen daylight or touched air in years.
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I mean gently caress I spend a good half hour to an hour on makeup IF I'm going to work or out somewhere nice but jesus that gave me the willies. it's so important to wash your makeup off at the end of the day, I can't imagine what her pores look like. I was horrified when I found out my mom sleeps in her bare minerals powder foundation, this is some next level nasty
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How does it take her two hours every day if it's caked to the point she hasn't washed it off in half a decade? 
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:While that anecdote is more objectively awful, I was most bothered by the makeup-caked bedding and the fact that she never takes anything off, just puts on a new topcoat yeah wow that is foul. Even completely setting aside the dying sister anecdote, this would disgust me to the point of attraction being utterly impossible. Reminds of (bizarrely) of an old Dilbert where the lady character did the same thing, eventually causing her head to look like a bowling ball with holes in the makeup for eyes and mouth. also lol at "I can stop whenever I want, I just don't want to" as most cliched addiction-speak so far in this thread
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and god I would never put on makeup if I'm not leaving the house fuuuuuck that!! my pores gotta breath sometime
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I've noticed that this is a thing common among British girls. Thick makeup that rarely comes off, that is.
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Play posted:I've noticed that this is a thing common among British girls. Thick makeup that rarely comes off, that is. Found the Pearson thing, and lo and behold it's a British woman. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D7sPyLZHzgA
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