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Big public proposals are a disaster waiting to happen. It puts the person on the spot since if they say 'no' it is super awkward for everybody. And I feel like the type of person who would feel it is a big deal that it happens is not someone really invested in the actual nitty gritty of marriage but rather the gilded exterior. Throw the precious into the volcano. It's the only way to be sure.
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text me a vag pic posted:Here is a very funny and very sad documentary on Incels and pick up artists: Shy Boys IRL Proclick. Yeah the correct response to incels is pity. And they are def on the spectrum.
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Dec 2, 2016 18:40
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Nothing better than a proposal at a baseball game answered with an awkward, "I'll think about it," on the jumbotron.
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Panfilo posted:Big public proposals are a disaster waiting to happen. It puts the person on the spot since if they say 'no' it is super awkward for everybody. And I feel like the type of person who would feel it is a big deal that it happens is not someone really invested in the actual nitty gritty of marriage but rather the gilded exterior.  , public proposals are a red flag that whoever's idea it was is a huge narcissistBombadilillo posted:Proclick. I like how the only responses I've ever seen are either pity or derision and yet the anon said incels are a "bogeyman" meaning he thinks people are actually mad at them or something and he feels badass about not being able to get laid "yeah I'm an incel, sorry to rustle your jimmies but I am so bad with women specifically and people in general that I talk about spending thousands of dollars on Legos like it's a good choice indicative of having my life really figured out. If u can't handle that, tough titty.  "
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I'd be an incel in one hot minute if it meant I could stop spending money on rent and start buying loads of rad lego. Those guys don't know how lucky they are, living four-year-old me's dream.
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With guys that are Incels it sounds like they don't have a lot of female peers (not just friends, but relatives, close co workers, etc). Now these guys often claim they do (simply getting 'friendzoned' at every turn) but honestly if you had a decent amount of close female friends and peers then you aren't going to get all shy and goony if you were romantically attracted to a particular lady.
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Sure, but why have relationships with human flesh when my perfect angelic 14yo hentai waifu will make me dinner and then let me watch her get plugged by three tentacle monsters while I build this awesome $400 custom Marvel lego set?
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quidditch it and quit it posted:I'd be an incel in one hot minute if it meant I could stop spending money on rent and start buying loads of rad lego. Those guys don't know how lucky they are, living four-year-old me's dream.
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I do not think that sharing your romantic moments publicly means you are a narcissist. I never heard of someone proposing because they want attention, if they really want attention there are many more ways to get it without committing yourself to marriage. Seems a little harsh to make that kind of judgement.
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Dec 2, 2016 19:20
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quidditch it and quit it posted:I'd be an incel in one hot minute if it meant I could stop spending money on rent and start buying loads of rad lego. Those guys don't know how lucky they are, living four-year-old me's dream. If it wasn't for my gf and wanting her to remain my gf I would devote a spare bedroom to making a huge Lego city.
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Shayu posted:I do not think that sharing your romantic moments publicly means you are a narcissist. I never heard of someone proposing because they want attention, if they really want attention there are many more ways to get it without committing yourself to marriage. Seems a little harsh to make that kind of judgement. It isn't. This is just the classic knee jerk goon reaction to anything they don't want or understand.
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scrubs season six posted:If it wasn't for my gf and wanting her to remain my gf I would devote a spare bedroom to making a huge Lego city. I had a youth pastor that had that room, and he was married. I'm thinking his wife probably had self esteem problems 
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Panfilo posted:With guys that are Incels it sounds like they don't have a lot of female peers (not just friends, but relatives, close co workers, etc). Now these guys often claim they do (simply getting 'friendzoned' at every turn) but honestly if you had a decent amount of close female friends and peers then you aren't going to get all shy and goony if you were romantically attracted to a particular lady. if they had genuine female friends they'd be able to see girls as actual people, as opposed to sex dolls
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Shayu posted:I do not think that sharing your romantic moments publicly means you are a narcissist. I never heard of someone proposing because they want attention, if they really want attention there are many more ways to get it without committing yourself to marriage. Seems a little harsh to make that kind of judgement. ok dude there's "sharing your romantic moments publicly" and then there's making sure everybody in this stadium is watching you get engaged on a giant screen I'm not talking about a Facebook post about how well your date went or something here
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I main Hanzo in Overwatch. I am so good at Hanzo I get four gold medal every match and often get PotG with my Dragon Arrow Beams. Every time I slam pick him at the start of a competitive match someone tells me to switch off but I ignore them. I'm confessing this anonymously because secretly it hurts me inside and you can't get headshots with tears in your eyes.
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The Management posted:It isn't. This is just the classic knee jerk goon reaction to anything they don't want or understand. While I wouldn't say they are narcissists they are certainly some type of rear end in a top hat. Its unfair to the person you're proposing to and I'm always reminded of that scene from the modern classic Son In Law starring Pauly Shore where Becca's boyfriend, Travis, proposes in front of an entire room full of people to apply as much pressure as possible on her to say yes. Not everyone has a Crawl to come to the rescue and claim that he had already proposed to them in California and show everyone that there is room in the world for both small town charm and big city attitude.
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areyoucontagious posted:Sure, but why have relationships with human flesh when my perfect angelic 14yo hentai waifu will make me dinner and then let me watch her get plugged by three tentacle monsters while I build this awesome $400 custom Marvel lego set? Why can't it be both? 
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I never thought I'd miss the dog-shooting goon or the gun-fetish goon so much
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I'm a pansexual, I find cast iron to be extremely erotic
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Panfilo posted:With guys that are Incels it sounds like they don't have a lot of female peers (not just friends, but relatives, close co workers, etc). Now these guys often claim they do (simply getting 'friendzoned' at every turn) but honestly if you had a decent amount of close female friends and peers then you aren't going to get all shy and goony if you were romantically attracted to a particular lady. welp  If I turn out like an incel, please shoot me
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areyoucontagious posted:I had a youth pastor that had that room, and he was married. I'm thinking his wife probably had self esteem problems Hey, my husband has that room. It's half our basement and it's amazing the detail he can create with those bricks. My half of the basement is the sewing room, with all my different machines and bins of fabric. It's possible to have different hobbies and still be happily married. 😊
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Your hobby is sweatshop labor?
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MongolArcher posted:Hey, my husband has that room. It's half our basement and it's amazing the detail he can create with those bricks. My half of the basement is the sewing room, with all my different machines and bins of fabric. It's possible to have different hobbies and still be happily married. 😊 I think the big difference there is that you share the room, not that your husband has a bedroom dedicated to his obsession and you just have to deal with it
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Sjs00 posted:I never thought I'd miss the dog-shooting goon or the gun-fetish goon so much Lol yes it did get odd in here didn't it.
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monkeytennis posted:Lol yes it did get odd in here didn't it. I'm not sure how to feel about the fact that I relate more to those two than to the more recent confessions. Update us canine-murder goon and Dirty-Harry goon!
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Nocheez posted:I'm pansexual; I only get off when I look at photos that show 180+ degrees field of view. I'm a pansexual; I only get off when I listen to Zamfir.
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Shayu posted:I do not think that sharing your romantic moments publicly means you are a narcissist. I never heard of someone proposing because they want attention, if they really want attention there are many more ways to get it without committing yourself to marriage. Seems a little harsh to make that kind of judgement. If you've discussed the proposal and you know that they'd want to do it publicly and that's your thing, that's probably fine. I mean, if you're doing it in front of your family and stuff and your future spouse is cool with that, I'd find it strange, but you be you. If you're doing it in front of a bunch of strangers, then part of your motivation is to get attention. I wouldn't go so far as the other guy and say your entire engagement is for getting attention if you do that, but it definitely sounds like you're looking for attention in your proposal. But hell, everything about weddings these days is to get as many people to focus as much attention on you as possible while you flaunt your wealth, so why not do it with your proposal too?
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I hate incels and mra's because they're giving old school weirdo shut ins like myself a bad name. Am I socially stunted, yes, am I a bit of a misogynist, yes, but I'm not dumb enough to think that women don't ultimately have it worse than I do, and I don't think playing with legos in my spare time is a significant anti establishment statement. Write poetry, paint, pick up a musical instrument, do something genuinely creative with all that extra time/money you loving sods, or better yet, admit that your brain is hosed and go see a shrink. Hell do drugs and/or drink thats more loving interesting than playing minecraft all day. *edit I'm dumb and I just responded to a troll. skeletonotherkin fucked around with this message at 01:11 on Dec 3, 2016 |
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Gimbal lock posted:I bless the gains down in Africa 
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McGavin posted:I'm a pansexual; I only get off when I listen to Zamfir. I'm a pansexual; The Judge says I can't get within 100 feet of a kitchen.
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text me a vag pic posted:Here is a very funny and very sad documentary on Incels and pick up artists: Shy Boys IRL
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I'm male and I think women in general are p cool, even if they don't desire sexual intercourse with me.
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quote:I saw another confession in the thread that prompted me. I too have sleep humping issues. I guess I've always had this but I really noticed it one night when I slept next to a friend. I basically jammed my hand down her pants and tried to finger her. She was pretty mad about it. Since then Ive mostly managed to not grope anyone ive slept with, aside from a few times here and there. over the cvourse of other relationships in the last 15 years ive pulled down my girlfriend's pants, tried to touch her bhole, or giving tender loving kisses on her forehead while i mumble slept gibberish. however sometimes i jerk myself off in my sleep or hump my bed and it gets real aggressive. current GF could sleep through a hoiuse fire, but i slam gently caress my bed so i know she's noticed. i wake up half way to coming and its terrible. quote:Whenever I am finished masturbating, I always wipe my penis down with a hand towel. It is not the best hand towel, so there's still loads (lol) of semen left on my red hot penis. I usually wipe it off with my hand, which I then wipe on my bedroom wall. If you were to bring a UV light into the room, the wall closest to my PC would blind you. I move apartments every other Fall. My semen is all over town.
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SniperWoreConverse posted:I'm male and I think women in general are p cool, even if they don't desire sexual intercourse with me. People who think all women are poo poo are missing out on cool as heck people. It's incredibly their loss.
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Gimbal lock posted:People who think all women are poo poo are missing out on cool as heck people. It's incredibly their loss. Deffo, I always liked working with older women too, real people are real male or female.
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Who the gently caress are you people that sleep with all these random people in your bed or rooms.....like.. wtf? Why is that so common in your life
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What the gently caress just use some tissue paper
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Waroduce posted:Who the gently caress are you people that sleep with all these random people in your bed or rooms.....like.. wtf? Some of us have trouble finding or staying in a committed relationship, but still like loving people.
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