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quote:I never get mad or annoyed at children who are acting up, being loud or obnoxious or are generally pains in the asses. I have trained myself to remember that it's not the kid's fault - it's their parents fault. For whatever reason, maybe they're too busy taking selfies, or not engaging in their children enough, but a child acting up is (in most cases) due to lack of parenting.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 03:09 |
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# ? May 9, 2024 16:12 |
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That man sounds like a superhero. A really trivial one, but still a hero.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 03:40 |
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Drunk Nerds posted:This is why my mom and dad got divorced. Well, that and the fact that my dad is gay, but I often wonder which element contributed more to the divorce. Which should let you know how destructive nitpicking random minor failures is to a relationship I've met very few moms that weren't like this to some extent. Usually their husbands are either totally on-board and equally prone to criticize and lecture or else they are totally chill and passive and just let it wash over them, the product of years and years of experience and endurance. And then there's the third type of husband, the kind that had no idea what they were in for and respond to it with arguments and passive aggression and hatred followed by divorce. ZearothK posted:In my experience people start arguing over stupid poo poo due to bigger issues that they are not addressing or are incapable of articulating, so the smallest stuff becomes a means to express their frustration. I would say this is sometimes (or maybe often) true. Sometimes, I do this a little bit just because I'm in a really poo poo mood and all of a sudden things that don't normally bother me are bothering me a whole lot. But it's crazy annoying, and I know it's crazy annoying because sometimes I'm the one on the receiving end. Usually right in the middle of me doing the whole bit I'm able to squeeze in a "don't listen to my bullshit right now I'm just in a bad mood you can ignore me" before I proceed with being a nitpicking oval office.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 03:52 |
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That is so god damned embarrassing that I would have probably dumped him on the spot
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 04:03 |
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54 40 or gently caress posted:That is so god damned embarrassing that I would have probably dumped him on the spot quote:I'm also noticing that even outside of our relationship everything bothers him too. For instance, our neighbors didn't put their trash bins up a couple of days after the trash man came to empty them. That really upset him. He rolled their trash bins to the middle of their driveway so they couldn't pull their cars in until they put up their trash bins. I thought that was very dramatic and extremely passive aggressive. this is a good way to get your face caved in corn on the cop fucked around with this message at 05:01 on Dec 10, 2016 |
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I've known some real good parents who still have some really poorly behaving kids. It's often/usually bad parenting but it isn't always bad parenting. Some kids are just poo poo.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 05:42 |
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If it matters the high strung guy op is also a guy. I gotta say, I'm amused by the idea of amping up a little kid who's being ignored by his parents. I'm sure if i have a kid in the future I'll eat those words, but for now he's okay.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 05:48 |
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I just beat up on kids until they conform to my desires. Why is Childfree having trouble with this?
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 06:14 |
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I probably wouldn't hang around him but this dude sounds pretty cool. At least he's having fun with the kids instead of whining about how terrible they are? ? ZearothK posted:In my experience people start arguing over stupid poo poo due to bigger issues that they are not addressing or are incapable of articulating, so the smallest stuff becomes a means to express their frustration. With my girlfriend at least, arguing over stupid poo poo usually seems to be just that - stupid poo poo, and it gets resolved within the day, so in this case, it doesn't extend beyond that... yet. But I'd otherwise definitely agree. Oftentimes it seems to come from having communicated something to the other, but a failure to resolve it (like because the other person just doesn't care) leading it to bleed over to other things because the other person knows/feels that trying to solve the main issue in question will be fruitless.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 06:29 |
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I recommend blanket training your child until they get married.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 06:52 |
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Dude's a dick but the same time I'm loling at this stunt so IDK how to feel.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 07:17 |
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I dunno...how hard is it to throw a milk carton away or unstack some dog beds? "I've only been home for an hour." An hour is a long rear end time. What was she doing, staring at the wall?
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 07:26 |
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I guarantee there are about 500 other things she "doesn't notice" (who the gently caress wouldn't notice an old crusty milk carton just hanging on a counter??), and dude wants her to just clean up after herself/help out some. I've been there.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 07:30 |
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And as for his slob rear end neighbors, who leaves their garbage cans out for days??? You put them out in the morning, bring them in when you get home from work.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 07:36 |
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Agentdark posted:The coffee thing has got to be drugs. Might not be heroin, but is very likely heroin. Though I cant imagine being in a long distance relationship with a heroin user, then thining they will stop using heroin if you moved closer to them. considering that he apparently calls her by her username and it was LDRcoffeeaddict if it's heroin he literally just using "LDRheroinaddict" as her name, in real life
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 07:38 |
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JacquelineDempsey posted:wait, they have a housekeeper, but an empty carton of milk was on the kitchen counter for a week?
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 10:41 |
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My girlfriend F[23] thinks my fetish is hilarious. how do I F[20] make her take it seriously.quote:I have a shrinking fetish. I've always wanted to shrink since I was a girl. I told this to my girlfriend but she laughs at me and tells me things like "You're already shrunken" (I'm 4'10") or "You still shop in the girl's section" (I buy my clothes from Justice). I would really want to shrink in real life if it was possible. How do I explain this to her? She just doesn't know why I want to shrink. edit: quote:I really want her to understand an not think its a joke or something. loooool
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 11:28 |
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Does Hallmark carry 'sorry I laughed at your fetish' cards ? If not, I'm about to corner that market
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 11:35 |
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Panfilo posted:How much of a gigantic overlap is there with childfree, atheist, and asexual? i dont want kids and dont believe in god and also i'm not getting it on the reg atm so imo pretty high
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 13:27 |
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Anony Mouse posted:My girlfriend F[23] thinks my fetish is hilarious. how do I F[20] make her take it seriously. drat this dude is living the dream e: didn't realize it was two women, it's way funnier as a tiny man with an Amazon the bitcoin of weed fucked around with this message at 15:46 on Dec 10, 2016 |
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quote:My [27f] fiance [42] just starting following a friend of mine on Instagram, after seeing her and pointing out that she's "adorable" is this a redflag, or am I making something out of nothing? Go ahead and try to guess the ages before you click.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 15:58 |
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This is from legal advice, she's asking for help with her husband who has been charged with assault and battery. You think it sounds crazy and then you actually read it quote:I was pregnant when he hit me with a pan and I called the police. He has mental problems. I don't want him to go to jail and his attorney won't reply me because he says it would interfere with the case. We are still living together and my son is now four months old. His trial is in four weeks. What type of sentence could he get? He never had trouble with the police before. We live in MA.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 16:57 |
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Girl [F23] I [M22] started seeing says she never uses protection and is not on birth control. Is this a red flag?
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 17:03 |
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Girl [F34] I [M18] started seeing says she never uses protection and is not on birth control. Is this a red flag?
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 17:06 |
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Anony Mouse posted:My girlfriend F[23] thinks my fetish is hilarious. how do I F[20] make her take it seriously.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 17:14 |
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Girl [F84] I [14M] started seeing says she never uses protection and is not on both control. Is this a red flag?LethalGeek posted:Nah this is a perfect example when kinkshammig is healthy What's so hard about going "muhahaha, my shrink ray worked and now you're at my mercy," before going down on a broad?
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 17:16 |
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well why not posted:Girl [F34] I [M18] started seeing says she never uses protection and is not on birth control. Is this a red flag? crossposted from /r/army
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 17:16 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:Girl [F84] I [14M] started seeing says she never uses protection and is not on both control. Is this a red flag? If I've learned anything involuntarily from the internet it's that shrinking and growing fetishes almost always are accompanied by vore
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 17:56 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:Girl [F84] I [14M] started seeing says she never uses protection and is not on both control. Is this a red flag? 54 40 or gently caress posted:If I've learned anything involuntarily from the internet it's that shrinking and growing fetishes almost always are accompanied by vore Basically, nothing good is down that rabbit hole. It's a sign of a broken brain.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 18:00 |
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A guy in the anon confessions thread claimed that giant fetishes are going to be the Next Big Thing, with a modest spot in the Pornhub Trends fastest-growing-tag list (a fair bit behind Hardcore Lesbian Scissoring) and the fact that Ant Man came out this year as his evidence
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 18:25 |
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^^^sounds legit, it's a rapidly expanding subgenre with small barriers to entry production quality-wise.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 18:27 |
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quote:I [23F] am friends with a lesbian couple [24F&26F] they're both models. My boyfriend [25M] thought it would be a good idea to ask them for a foursome.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 18:34 |
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Whatta maroon
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 18:37 |
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This is my favorite in a long, long time. Motherfucker they aren't even loving EACH OTHER again yet, their baby is a shrieking poo poo machine and if one of them carried him her vagina is not even cleared for use yet. I desperately want to know what his outlines for the foursome were. Like an orgy with three women isn't enough, it has to be on his terms, and he somehow thought that would work.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 18:42 |
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Hey very specific group of people, my account was hacked
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 18:52 |
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Hahahahahahha what a scumbag. Try voicing it to your girlfriend first, so she can shoot your rear end down in private.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 18:57 |
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Lockback posted:I have no idea if Coffee is a Euphemism here or what. Are these real people or is some AI learning relationship posts and awkwardly trying to make its own. Yeah, maybe it's heroin, or maybe this person's just big, shut-in, baby. Didn't she say they didn't meet for a couple of years?
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 19:30 |
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It's just coffee.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 19:35 |
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corn on the cop posted:I [23F] am friends with a lesbian couple [24F&26F] they're both models. My boyfriend [25M] thought it would be a good idea to ask them for a foursome. Before I read the post itself, I assumed crazy bro asked his girlfriend privately and she bizarrely decided to post on reddit in hysterics, as opposed to shooting him down instantly. But nope, he asked all three women. In a group chat. Man, some people have incredible behavior.
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 21:09 |
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Before I read the post itself, I assumed crazy bro asked his girlfriend privately and she bizarrely decided to post on reddit in hysterics, as opposed to shooting him down instantly. But nope, he asked all three women. In a group chat. Man, some people have incredible FTFY. I can imagine Eye of the Tiger playing in his head as he fired up the chat window. How do you even start that conversation? "Hey lezbos, despite your strong commitment to the pussy game, ever thought about taking some D?"
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# ? Dec 10, 2016 21:16 |