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Troposphere posted:I think I liked the temp derail better tbh Yeah at least out of that detail we had that one retard who thought British people use Fahrenheit lol
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I'm just so curious what the incest half sibling sister said to her mom. How on earth do you go about phrasing 'Mom. I love this dude so much and we're getting married. Also turns our we're half siblings. u kewl w/ that?' How do you say those words and not immediately think everything about that is just wrong and should not happen?
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Troposphere posted:if you value your sanity and faith in humanity don't read the further posts from the adoption guy on reddit because goddamn what an astounding lack of any sort of empathy aspergers is a superpower
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Troposphere posted:if you value your sanity and faith in humanity don't read the further posts from the adoption guy on reddit because goddamn what an astounding lack of any sort of empathy quote:My wife does not have direct experience with therapy. She just views it as a weak science with poorly researched support. quote:Why would I put my daughter before my wife? I have only known my daughter for months; I have known my wife for years. It is reasonable that my wife would take priority. quote:Why should a child come first? Children leave their parents. This is the nature of development. Parents, assuming they have a happy and loving relationship that would not necessitate divorce, are lifetime companions. Gaunab fucked around with this message at 06:55 on Dec 15, 2016 |
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Troposphere posted:the guy says he didn't realize he could have a kid and raise it right and the kid could still turn out "bad"...I...how??? how do you?? Wait am I mixing stories up isn't she like four months old?
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Troposphere posted:if you value your sanity and faith in humanity don't read the further posts from the adoption guy on reddit because goddamn what an astounding lack of any sort of empathy quote:> What did you think having a child was going to be like? Parenting, even at its best, is really hard. BEEP BOOP THE INVESTMENT VALUE OF A CHILD IS DIFFICULT TO QUANTIFY AND RETURNS ARE NOT GUARANTEED, AVOID AVOID quote:Why should a child come first? Children leave their parents. This is the nature of development. Parents, assuming they have a happy and loving relationship that would not necessitate divorce, are lifetime companions. BOOP BEEP SPOUSES ARE A BETTER LONG TERM VALUE THAN CHILDREN, OFFLOAD USELESS DEADWEIGHT ASAP BEEP BOOP quote:> And also are either of you on the spectrum? Your reactions are just... off. 
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they're just, whooph, way off the spectrum. the loving radio waves of autism
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They are what TV shows think autism is
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like oh no poo poo you mean people can make their own choices and decide what kind of individual they will be no matter how they are raised? well drat I somehow never thought about that
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Pick posted:they're just, whooph, way off the spectrum. the loving radio waves of autism That or just straight-up sociopaths. quote:
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Pick posted:That's actually kind of tough Yeah...one hand, I feel for the dude because she "changed her mind" after getting her deal. Wonder if it's another one of those "she wants to bang his friend without being called a cheater" situations and she never planned to let him have his threesome in the first place.
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This is why I'm thankful that some people at least realize they'd be poo poo parents and choose too be /childfree. These people should have gotten on that crazy train instead of the one they're on now.
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idiot posted:How the child will progress as a teen and adult. It turns out that one can do everything "right" and still end up with a delinquent, miscreant, or otherwise unsuccessful adult child.
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Gadzuko posted:That or just straight-up sociopaths. He speaks like a Vulcan or something
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Vulcans lovingly raise their children though, as it logically leads to a better society.
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I'm glad for that kid because she'll have people looking after her that actually love her, but it's still so lovely. She'll probably need some therapy herself. An ex-friend of mine had a baby despite being ~childfree~ since I knew her. About two years in she gave the baby up to a friend because she just 'wasn't feeling it'. I think the baby was cramping her meth lifestyle. Good for the kid, he was an awesome little dude, I hope he has a better life now. But goddamn. The knowledge that your mom didn't love you would have to gently caress you up no matter how good the outcome is.quote:Me [24F] with my BF [29M] wants me to lose weight My favorite part of these is always the 'otherwise he's perfect' line that they all have. Also I'm the same height and at 130 my doctor told me gain weight. Her boyfriend is gross.
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That's way too loving skinny. My mother is 5'10" and 122 and it's too god damned skinny.
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Feet and inches are stupid. Can you please adjust to normal numbers and use celcius tia.
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underage at the vape shop posted:Feet and inches are stupid. Can you please adjust to normal numbers and use celcius tia. 8.96 links tall at 293 Kelvin E: and she weighs just a tad bit over 10 stone. Batterypowered7 fucked around with this message at 08:31 on Dec 15, 2016 |
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Grem posted:This is why I'm thankful that some people at least realize they'd be poo poo parents and choose too be /childfree. a few (rare) good eggs on childfree quote:Out of curiosity, do you and your wife typically approach obstacles with a lack of emotion? The language you use to describe your feelings and thoughts seemed awfully detached. For example, in one of your posts you said that she finds being subjected to yelling "annoying". You also seem unable to grasp why people are so affected by your story, you had a baby, didn't like parenting, and want to give the baby away. As if it was so simple and logical. You just articulate things in such a detached, matter of fact manner that I have to wonder whether you have trouble understanding emotions. Are either you or your wife on the spectrum? Have you ever been tested? Giving the baby up would ultimately be in her best interest but the way you talk about her like a piece of furniture that isn't your style is... unsettling. quote:I don't think this is autism. I think one or both of them have ASPD. The way OP talks about his daughter is jarring in its apathy. Kind of uncanny valley, it makes my hair stand up a little. corn on the cop fucked around with this message at 10:15 on Dec 15, 2016 |
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Gadzuko posted:
My child was hit by a bus, this is the most irritating thing that has happened to me since I dropped my favourite mug last week. cock hero flux fucked around with this message at 10:37 on Dec 15, 2016 |
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Dec 15, 2016 10:34
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Hey it's my father's mother. He's now a confused old man that lives alone with his dog (he occasionally makes fumbling attempts to bond with me and my brother but clearly doesn't really understand how to), has a brother who killed himself (he was the only one on that side of my family that seemed like he had proper emotions) and a sister that I never met that moved far far away and never showed the slightest interest in the rest of the family until she died. Kinda think adoption might be better for this kid.
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Batterypowered7 posted:8.96 links tall at 293 Kelvin Jokes on you, British people actually weigh themselves in stone.
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Baron Corbyn posted:Jokes on you, British people actually weigh themselves in stone. 4.351 Slug
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Antivehicular posted:At least the kid ended up with what appears to be the only adult who gives a poo poo about her. Not only does it hugely go against our evolutionary senses to respond, but if a newborn baby is left to cry when it's hungry or scared or poo poo itself etc, it's tiny little body just doesnt understand why someone isn't responding the the brains response is to flood the body with cortisol (the stress hormone). If that's a regular or even semi regular thing, that seriously affects the infants long term ability to bond and respond to distress. It seriously affects how an infants brain develops at a time when it is developing so quickly and so profoundly that it can cause serious developmental damage.
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Skratte posted:I'm glad for that kid because she'll have people looking after her that actually love her, but it's still so lovely. She'll probably need some therapy herself. An ex-friend of mine had a baby despite being ~childfree~ since I knew her. About two years in she gave the baby up to a friend because she just 'wasn't feeling it'. I think the baby was cramping her meth lifestyle. Good for the kid, he was an awesome little dude, I hope he has a better life now. But goddamn. The knowledge that your mom didn't love you would have to gently caress you up no matter how good the outcome is. Holy poo poo break up with the mentalist who checks your MyFitnessPal diary to determine if he can be your boyfriend that day.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Not only does it hugely go against our evolutionary senses to respond, but if a newborn baby is left to cry when it's hungry or scared or poo poo itself etc, it's tiny little body just doesnt understand why someone isn't responding the the brains response is to flood the body with cortisol (the stress hormone). If that's a regular or even semi regular thing, that seriously affects the infants long term ability to bond and respond to distress. It seriously affects how an infants brain develops at a time when it is developing so quickly and so profoundly that it can cause serious developmental damage. Maybe that's what happened to gently caress them up so bad.
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alphabettitouretti posted:Holy poo poo break up with the mentalist who checks your MyFitnessPal diary to determine if he can be your boyfriend that day. I'd love to here the excised list of caveats around "perfect". I'm guessing it involves picking her clothes and some very serious opinions about her friends and co-workers.
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Ok, Autistic Dad is so perfectly "logical" that it has to be a troll.
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Charles Get-Out posted:I liked this a lot. Thank you. It rules. He did the whole thing in 24 hours for a contest of some kind and ad-libbed the plot as he was drawing.
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quote:My wife broke the news to my MIL of our decision to adopt just prior to Thanksgiving. She reacted poorly, which is to be expected, and with a great deal of yelling. This did not endear her to my wife, who finds yelling annoying This is the best part of the story.
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loquacius posted:this isn't actually that hard to understand I really liked this as well!
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Would the baby have been planned I wonder? Those two don't sound like the type to have an accident, what with the profound autism
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Would the baby have been planned I wonder? Those two don't sound like the type to have an accident, what with the profound autism He said in the original post that they had planned the baby all along. That is what is making this more horrifying to the family, they knew wanted this child originally then just said "Oh, this baby is profoundly annoying, beep boop must dispose of it immediately."
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"No one told us this thing would make noises! Count us out!"
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I think it was probably 'Married people have babies. Will make baby per requirement.' Not 'ohh we're so excited to have a baby' Sort of planning.
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I understand they both work full time, but I do wonder what the baby is getting in the way of. Lots of people have a family and hobbies. Like, was the crying interfering with the endless looping of sped-up music from Bubsy?
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