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well why not posted:I understand they both work full time, but I do wonder what the baby is getting in the way of. Lots of people have a family and hobbies. Like, was the crying interfering with the endless looping of sped-up music from Bubsy? dont talk poo poo about uli you son of a bitch
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Dude I'm a bleeding heart, but this guy is off the poo poo charts. I mean, how would you feel if your roommate rifled through all your poo poo? And then-- And then-- And then-- Culminating in asking for help in acquiring your girl, whose panties he just rummaged through your stuff to find, and whose sexual activities he watched and jerked off and cried to without the consent of any participants? He thinks it's unfair he doesn't get her, but he's stalking and committing crimes.
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Dec 15, 2016 18:25
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I feel like it's fake just because if it was real the guy would be mad at her for just having sex at all and not being a pure virgin. He just seems mad he'll never have great sex with a girl in general.
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Dec 15, 2016 18:31
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I'm trying to find a palate cleanser, but everything is kind of depressing. Here's some adorable high school angst:quote:How do I [17F] ask a girl [17F] out?
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Pick posted:It was clear it was a hoax the moment she said their mutual dad had Kleinfelter's, a genetic disorder characterized by full sterility. Oh sorry I didn't respond, that was a joke and intentionally ridiculous.  I think some Klinefelter's patients aren't sterile? That's tough to google for.
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Chomp8645 posted:Have you considered that a person who recognizes they have a problem and wants to change should be scorned and spat upon instead? Who is this? It isn't the incel dude. At no point does he express regret for what he did.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Oh sorry I didn't respond, that was a joke and intentionally ridiculous. Oh whoops, my bad haha, I don't seek out the real threads I just see what's here (thank you Awful App and ability to covertly check SA)
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Pick posted:Dude I'm a bleeding heart, but this guy is off the poo poo charts. Also, his major source of despair seems to be that the roommate treats his girlfriend with tenderness during sex. I really think he wanted to see some nasty rough banging so he could convince himself that he would treat the girlfriend better and thus "deserved" her love/sex more. Look, I think this dude is not hopeless if he gets some help now, and I hope he does and his life improves, but at bare minimum he needs to realize that his behavior was totally unacceptable and that he needs to get out of this girl's life and work on his own mental health. This "do I still have a chance?" poo poo is revolting.
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Pelvic Floor Wax posted:I'm trying to find a palate cleanser, but everything is kind of depressing. Here's some adorable high school angst: This is heartwarming and makes me remember the horrible anxiety of asking a girl out for the first time in high school. Also sex tape watcher is creepy as gently caress, and I realize that due to the way I was raised and my personality I could have been an incel guy. It's a horrifying thought that I have never had until now, I thought that way when I first went to college. Thank god I had a friend who repeatedly made me ask out girls and be normal in college which prevented me from staying that way.
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edit: Pick posted:It's not my anger-zone, it's my annoyance zone. Because I deal with guys like that and they never see it from the woman's point of view. If he were a super hot guy with a great, caring, smart, attractive girlfriend, should he break it off for her roommate, a schlubby girl who hates herself? Why is that his responsibility? In this situation I also would feel nothing but pity for the suicidally depressed person that expressed no ill will towards either person. empathy is not a limited resource Tolkien minority fucked around with this message at 20:10 on Dec 15, 2016 |
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extra row of teeth posted:EDIT ^^ Beaten like that incel nerd's pencil dick Oh yeah he's a ridiculously creepy gently caress, don't get me wrong, but at least he seems to acknowledge that he has a problem and wants to not be such a fuckup. That's a good start, especially compared to literally everyone else on that forum but yeah... The roommate and his girlfriend would definitely be justified in bailing.
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Antivehicular posted:I love how he can't help but call his roommate, who has never been anything but kind and friendly to him and a loving partner to his girlfriend, a "Chad" because he's getting laid. It's like how everyone below 6'2" is a "manlet." i got called a chad in TGD once for saying cards against humanity can be fun at parties lol
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food court bailiff posted:i got called a chad in TGD once for saying cards against humanity can be fun at parties lol Chad isn't even a cool name. Whoever came up with that dumb subreddit probably just really hated this guy named Chad.
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Even when I was an incel/nice guy/whatever, I kept that poo poo to myself and suffered in silence. Not even once did the thought of panty thievery, voyeurism, rifling through belongings in general, breaking up a relationship, "just making a move and seeing if she's cool with it" or poo poo like that cross my mind, or even if it did (seriously can't recall any times) I didn't act on it. Maybe that's a positive side effect of clinical depression since early childhood? Hell, even when I was going through my first period of mania at 26 and I ended ruining a great friendship, I waited until she had been out of a relationship for a few months and wasn't actively dating anyone, tried to feel things out a bit (this is around where my bipolar disorder decided to say hello for the first time), and then drunkenly wrote her a multiple page letter confessing my love and that I'd also like to gently caress her and then I did some mild stalking for a few months. Just letters and flowers and having her picture as my phone background and kissing it good morning. Y'know, lightly Crazy poo poo. She figured out to just cut all contact with me after a couple months. I got better. Who the gently caress goes through someone's underwear?
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lmao quotin dis
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Pvt.Scott posted:Even when I was an incel/nice guy/whatever, I kept that poo poo to myself and suffered in silence. Not even once did the thought of panty thievery, voyeurism, rifling through belongings in general, breaking up a relationship, "just making a move and seeing if she's cool with it" or poo poo like that cross my mind, or even if it did (seriously can't recall any times) I didn't act on it. Maybe that's a positive side effect of clinical depression since early childhood? I'm calling Picks's lawyer!!!
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My fiancé [35M] has a gambling problem should I [24F] leave him because of this?quote:He [35 M] tried to be better he let me manage all the finances. I [24 F] keep all the money. A part of me feels like his addiction is something that's a part of him now and if I truly loved him I'd accept him the way it is addiction and all. Then another part of me thinks that the addiction changes who he really is and that I should leave him because he is no longer his true self he is gone and there is an addiction taking over. These two thoughts are conflicting and I don't know what to do. In the end I always give him to his begging to gamble because it's hard for me to say no. I feel anger and resentment after and think about leaving him because we can never save any money or go to somewhere nice because he'd rather gamble instead. It's almost like he loves gambling more than me. I mean would he resort to criminal activity to try to gamble when I refuse his begging? He's pawned all the jewelry I bought him and me being stupid I got the jewelry back a couple times and he'd pawn it again and again. quote:We've been together since October last year then we got engaged this July. I've been managing the finances for a good half the year. He doesn't want to go to gambling anon but isn't it a big step that's willing to give me all the money so he can't access it? I have issues with resentment in general I resent lots of people in my life for little stupid things too. quote:Granted I have paranoia so I don't know if I am worried about him becoming a criminal to support his gambling is because of that because I read that online about people with gambling problems. I read that online and then had that thought. He never goes to clubs or partake in online gambling or illegal underground gambling in his life. So is it my paranoia? quote:I completely complete have thought the same thing that he's pathetic and a loser!! But then I feel guilty and think how can I think this about someone who loves me? It kills me inside that I think these thoughts quote:What if he gets a job moves up in position and gambles does bankroll management and only gambles some of it but leaves enough for bills and rent and survival food? Will that he ok? He's convinced if he only makes a certain amount of money to support us he won't have money to gamble because we would be homeless or not have food therefore all the money will go towards bills.
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Tolkien minority posted:lmao quotin dis Please do, I'm mentally ill, and I don't try to hide it. I find my past self compared to my current self to be almost two completely different people. I'm on meds and stable, I've had years of therapy, and done plenty of growing up since then. I made amends for that whole catastrophe, and even though that friendship is gone, there's no animosity. Chomp8645 posted:I'm calling Picks's lawyer!!! Unless Pick is married and working in psychotherapy now, I don't believe we've met, sadly. Pvt.Scott fucked around with this message at 20:26 on Dec 15, 2016 |
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Dec 15, 2016 20:23
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Pvt.Scott posted:Even when I was an incel/nice guy/whatever, I kept that poo poo to myself and suffered in silence. Not even once did the thought of panty thievery, voyeurism, rifling through belongings in general, breaking up a relationship, "just making a move and seeing if she's cool with it" or poo poo like that cross my mind, or even if it did (seriously can't recall any times) I didn't act on it. Maybe that's a positive side effect of clinical depression since early childhood? Hey bipolar buddy who also ruined a great friendship! Mine isn't exactly the same and to be fair, she treated me similarly to how the lesbian is treating that poster (cuddling, holding hands, changing in front of him, light kissing, etc.) but bipolar disorder definitely played a part in how I handled it and how the friendship ended. flick my Mr. Bean fucked around with this message at 20:32 on Dec 15, 2016 |
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Lunchmeat Larry posted:I'm crazy as he'll and I want death to come Embrace the comforting nothingness of eternity brother, but do not hurry it along. Experience your joys and miseries, they are what make us human.
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WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:My fiancé [35M] has a gambling problem should I [24F] leave him because of this? Pointing out the age difference is boring at this point, but it always explains so much.
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Antivehicular posted:Also, his major source of despair seems to be that the roommate treats his girlfriend with tenderness during sex. I really think he wanted to see some nasty rough banging so he could convince himself that he would treat the girlfriend better and thus "deserved" her love/sex more. I don't think you're reading it right. His despair isn't that he would love her and treat her better and thus "deserved" her more. His despair is the discovery, which a lot of people probably go through, that some people simply are as good or better than you in every way. The universe does not give everyone an advantage that, if they just work it hard enough, will allow them to come out on top. You see this all the time in the "I have a small dick" posts around the internet, where the "answer" is always, "You've really got to work the oral, hands, tongue, etc. to make up for it." Because people have this need to believe that people with big dicks somehow have to be sexually inept in other ways, like having a big dick makes you genetically incapable of giving good oral. No one wants to admit that they're just deficient in every way, or deficient in some ways, and not somehow magically better in other ways that will allow them to overcome it. Because that honestly is pretty loving depressing. So it's kind of crushing. You have people who want human contact, want to have sex, want a bond. They're ugly. They have physical deficiencies, some of which they are simply not going to work around. And then they discover that what their mother always told them, that you can "make up for it with your personality," or some other poo poo, simply isn't true. Because, surprise, handsome people with big dicks can also having nice, winning personalities. SlyFrog fucked around with this message at 21:33 on Dec 15, 2016 |
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A 35 year old that has nothing and gambles away all his money seems like a really good dating option for a woman in her low 20s. A nice project to work on.
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He's a fixer-upper. Renovating his personality is going to be a lot of work, but but she can flip him for a tidy profit when the market turns around.
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Clark Nova posted:He's a fixer-upper. Renovating his personality is going to be a lot of work, but but she can flip him for a tidy profit when the market turns around. The potential on this guy can only go up, up, up!
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Pvt.Scott posted:Experience your joys
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Pvt.Scott posted:The potential on this guy can only go up, up, up! Why don't we see the inverse ever? You don't see 23 year old guys having relationships with broke rear end loser women 15 years older than them.
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Leon Einstein posted:Buy low, they say. You do sometimes, usually an MMO is involved
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Yawgmoth posted:Haha what the gently caress is that. I haven't felt anything approaching happiness since I was 19. And I am currently in the grips of deep depression. Happiness is not required for contentment, peace, tranquility or enjoyment. Though I am depressed, I feel genuine joy at the knowledge that this particular bout of depression has no cause other than my mental illness, joy that due to long years of effort I am able to challenge my negative thoughts and succeed, joy that I actually love myself now with the help of cognitive behavioral therapy and I don't have to spend every moment of this depression hating myself, and I feel true joy at the fact that everything I do currently is merely exhausting but not impossible and that I haven't wanted to end my own life for years. The joy I feel might not be the warm fuzzy full-body primo poo poo, but it's enough to make me content with my current situation and be able to smile at my lot in life. It takes effort, so I'm not going to tell you to "be happy," just know that it is possible. I know that before long I will be back to normal for quite some time and then the cycle will start over. I'm ok with that. This is heaven compared to the hell I used to inhabit.
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loquacius posted:You do sometimes, usually an MMO is involved It's much more rare, and usually it is huge loser guys that go for that type. Seems that the women dating older losers are less likely to be losers themselves.
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Leon Einstein posted:Buy low, they say. To stereotype for a moment, I think that most women don't want to "slum it" with dating someone younger whose living situation may still be weird. A 38 year old doesn't want to have to walk of shame out of a house that the dude shares with 4 other dudes his age who all drink and play video games all day or whatever. Men don't care because we're thirsty as gently caress. Also, good looking young dudes want to get with good looking young girls for the most part.
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Leon Einstein posted:It's much more rare, and usually it is huge loser guys that go for that type. Seems that the women dating older losers are less likely to be losers themselves. "Whoa... this person playing this video game is a girl... and she's TALKING TO ME  ""ok so she's also a divorced 39-year-old retail worker, that's fine, I'm honestly just flabbergasted that she plays video games and is paying attention to me"
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I think women dating older losers are usually just looking for low impact relationships. Nothing wrong with going casual. You can dump em whenever. I'm starting to go grey at the temples so the coeds should be rollin' in any minute.
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WampaLord posted:To stereotype for a moment, I think that most women don't want to "slum it" with dating someone younger whose living situation may still be weird. A 38 year old doesn't want to have to walk of shame out of a house that the dude shares with 4 other dudes his age who all drink and play video games all day or whatever. also it's more societally accepted for women in a relationship to be younger and have less of their poo poo together, but a guy without his poo poo together is not a good catch. A girl who is 22 years old and sees a guy in his 30s with his own apartment and a job of some sort will assume his poo poo is together (even if that job is actually dead-end bullshit and the apartment is an IKEA-furnished bachelor studio because all his money goes into Magic cards); a 39-year-old woman will not think the same thing of a 23-year-old guy working as a lifeguard and living with 4 other dudes he splits a 30-rack of High Life with every night.
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Pelvic Floor Wax posted:I'm trying to find a palate cleanser, but everything is kind of depressing. Here's some adorable high school angst: If this works out they're about to get a bunch of guy friends they didn't know they had from all over high school
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Dating a guy with no money that pawns every nice thing he's owned is hardly low impact and casual. Sounds loving exhausting.
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