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Solice Kirsk posted:Is this something that you could have a lawyer draw up a contract to excuse you of any involvement moving forward? In the US this is basically impossible. The only way to do it is to become what's called a "known donor" and provide a cup of your man juice to a doctor to inject into her. This is a very costly and involved process, but it covers you because you are legally handing possession of your sperm to her, it is no longer yours. There is no way to do without a medical professional that will hold up in court.
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Isn't it possible to not put a father's name on the birth certificate? What do people do when they don't know who the father is, or go to the sperm bank or w/e? Why not just leave him off the birth certificate and go on with her life, if neither of them want him to be involved or pay child support just call it spontaneous human parthenogenesis or something and move on, who's gonna care
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If you know you're going to gently caress her when you're drunk/high with her, why not decide not to get drunk/high around her? Or if you think she's going to rape you, why the gently caress are you friends with her?
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TheKennedys posted:Isn't it possible to not put a father's name on the birth certificate? What do people do when they don't know who the father is, or go to the sperm bank or w/e? Why not just leave him off the birth certificate and go on with her life, if neither of them want him to be involved or pay child support just call it spontaneous human parthenogenesis or something and move on, who's gonna care Just because people have good intentions doesn't remove the risk. Say she dies in car accident and custody goes to her parents who are broke as poo poo. They know who the father was because she told them and decide to sue him for child support. Or maybe she doesn't have family and the authorities show up at his doorstep with a kid.
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Dec 19, 2016 03:43
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If she fucks him while hes high or drunk would he still have father responsibilities?
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free basket of chips posted:If she fucks him while hes high or drunk would he still have father responsibilities? nah man the court's all like "it's cool, we got you" see, e.g., State v. free basket of chips' Dad, 233 S.E. 2d 147 at 149 (4th Cir. 1985).
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Abugadu posted:nah man the court's all like "it's cool, we got you" see, e.g., State v. free basket of chips' Dad, 233 S.E. 2d 147 at 149 (4th Cir. 1985). What if he pressed charges for rape? As Anne Whateley pointed out earlier, getting someone high or drunk for the express purpose of having sex with them which you know they wouldn't want if they were sober is in fact rape.
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free basket of chips posted:If she fucks him while hes high or drunk would he still have father responsibilities? Yes, this is the exact struggle MRAs have been warning us about. We didn't listen......we didn't listen...
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quote:I'm a bi male and I'm in a really happy relationship that's been going for a few years now. I've had an interest in crossdressing since I was young. Even as early as 8 or so I remember being jealous of how cute girl's clothes were and much preferred dresses and skirts. I started actively buying and wearing women's clothes when I was 13 after I got a summer job and could hide them in a trunk in my closet. My fiances knows I have an interest in crossdressing, but I think she assumes it's a sexual thing. While a sexual part of it did manifest, and I do find it way more enjoyable to do things dressed up than not, to me it has always been more. Honestly I think you're overthinking it. I don't know a WHOLE lot about trans stuff but I think saying that "the man she fell in love with wasn't the real me" is kind of being dramatic about it, because you're the same person no matter what. It doesn't sound like you want to get surgery or hormones at this point so there aren't any huge drastic changes that will affect her life. Talk to her about it, and don't get carried away or ahead of yourself w/r/t going all-in on trans all at once. quote:Hello pervs, my favorite thing to do when staying in an airbnb is to closely examine all the host's belongings. In particular, if they're female I go through all the dirty laundry they've (hopefully) left out and jerk it while inhaling deep through soiled panties. Sometimes I do it in their bed. It really gets me off.
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Solice Kirsk posted:Yes, this is the exact struggle MRAs have been warning us about. Custody law is a particular area of gender politics that is particularly tainted with MRA stank, but I dunno it feels hosed-up to me that you can be put on the hook for the end result of a sexual encounter you did not legally consent to. Of course, women who got raped can't get abortions reliably in tons of red states either, which is also hosed-up, but that one goes without saying.
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loquacius posted:I think saying that "the man she fell in love with wasn't the real me" is kind of being dramatic about it, because you're the same person no matter what. at the same time don't rule it out completely. his girlfriend will possibly see it in exactly those terms. even if she remains attracted to him, it will be a huge test of their relationship: future plans will have to be reevaluated, it could add tension to their relationship with friends and family, it could even change the way they act as a couple, including how they have sex. it's not wrong to worry loquacius posted:It doesn't sound like you want to get surgery or hormones at this point so there aren't any huge drastic changes that will affect her life. Talk to her about it, and don't get carried away or ahead of yourself w/r/t going all-in on trans all at once. I agree, "it makes me feel better" is very different from "life is unbearable without it". many steps of medical transition are irreversible, don't do it unless your life is at stake
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loquacius posted:What if he pressed charges for rape? As Anne Whateley pointed out earlier, getting someone high or drunk for the express purpose of having sex with them which you know they wouldn't want if they were sober is in fact rape. Civil case to terminate parental rights.
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I still think getting snipped and loving the 9/10 best friend is the way to go.
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Agreed^ Or keep your junk near an active microwave right before boning
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free basket of chips posted:Agreed^ this is why i keep a thorium source under my bed. nice try ladies 
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My confession is that I'm a heterosexual man who is happy with the gender I was born into and only want to wear men's clothing and have sex with women (and womanish robots). I know there are a few others like me out there, I just wanted to tell you all to stay strong.
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The Management posted:My confession is that I'm a heterosexual man who is happy with the gender I was born into and only want to wear men's clothing and have sex with women (and womanish robots). I know there are a few others like me out there, I just wanted to tell you all to stay strong. I've been told by actual people that actually think this that this is impossible because nobody can be 100% anything as we exist on a sexuality spectrum. Sorry, partially gay man.
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I've thought about it a lot during games of "Would You Rather" and I think that I would go gay for Terry Crews or Idris Elba. For a straight dude I seem to have a type.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:I've been told by actual people that actually think this that this is impossible because nobody can be 100% anything as we exist on a sexuality spectrum. Sorry, partially gay man. In socialist Canada gay marriage is mandatory
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quote:We get along great, can share about stuff amazingly, hang out platonically pretty often, go on platonic dates when neither of us is in a relationship etc etc and even though there is quite a bit of sexual tension sometimes we both agree that a relationship is totally out of the question. She's not my special lady, she's my fuckin' lady friend! I'm just helping her conceive, man!
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The Management posted:My confession is that I'm a heterosexual man who is happy with the gender I was born into and only want to wear men's clothing and have sex with women (and womanish robots). I know there are a few others like me out there, I just wanted to tell you all to stay strong. hosed up.. if true
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free basket of chips posted:If she fucks him while hes high or drunk would he still have father responsibilities? I know MRAs freak out about this, but I'm guessing 99% of these situations had the guy consenting and just assumed or didn't think she might get pregnant. Like Loquacious said, it's much more likely women get raped and unable to get an abortion then men getting sperm jacked.
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The Management posted:My confession is that I'm a heterosexual man who is happy with the gender I was born into and only want to wear men's clothing and have sex with women (and womanish robots). I know there are a few others like me out there, I just wanted to tell you all to stay strong. you're the grandma loving prostitute aren't you
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The Mangement posted:(and womanish robots) Jose posted:you're the grandma loving prostitute aren't you He mentioned the robots cause their hips won't break during sex
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:I've been told by actual people that actually think this that this is impossible because nobody can be 100% anything as we exist on a sexuality spectrum. Sorry, partially gay man. Yeah, but wouldn't 100% on that end of the spectrum represent actually being disgusted and repulsed by your same gender and not just a lack of attraction?
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:He mentioned the robots cause their hips won't break during sex I consider anyone with a pacemaker a robot
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fruit on the bottom posted:Yeah, but wouldn't 100% on that end of the spectrum represent actually being disgusted and repulsed by your same gender and not just a lack of attraction? I don't think so, I consider myself 100% straight but have had sex with women (with men there too) and while I had zero attraction to them, I never saw any reason to be repulsed.
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quote:i pull out my pubes one by one and i run them through my teeth. not like, all of them, just a few every so often. i don't know why i do this but i cannot stop. i use to rip chunks of my hair out as a kid andd do the same. k bye gross quote:I work in a pretty high tech field, so I have my share of odd/nerdy coworkers. The odd one at my current job is named Mick. He's late-40s but has anime figurines all over his desk, plays Japanese pop music all day, and refers to people as "-san" and "-kun" at times. His hygiene is also not the best. He's been talked to by HR a few times, but he's actually not doing any real harassment, just slightly creeping people out and stinking the place up a bit. ok this one rules though, good for Mick and anon's mom 
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weeaboo dad so what
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The Management posted:weeaboo dad so what
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I hope Mick convinces anon's mom to call him Goku or Naruto or whatever in bed and anon hears it
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And I thought my Christmas was gonna be awkward
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My dad voted for trump, despite being an educated white-collar statistician. I'd much rather he were just a goony weeaboo.
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Jose posted:you should have sex with him imo cucking your own mom is pretty hosed up imo
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grumplestiltzkin posted:cucking your own mom is pretty hosed up imo The ultimate in goondom though. Gay cucked OP's mom.
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quote:I 100% truly believe that magic is real, exists in our world, and I have seen it before. People are extremely narrow minded about this, hence the anonymous confession, but I hope that in the next 3-5 years magic will be accepted. Much like homosexuality and being colored was taboo for years, and still is in many backward communities, being a true magic believer is also a social stigma. Yeah magic won't be socially acceptable in 3-5 years, not in TRUMP'S AMERICA I mean, if you put a hex on Donald Trump so he chokes on his own toupee I will go buy a crystal ball the very same day and I will chant at that motherfucker for a week straight quote:I'm assistant band director at my old high school, doing it while finishing my college degree. I don't understand fetishes involving smelling people's stuff like okay you're being a voyeur intruding on their personal space, whatever, at the end of the day you're smelling their sweat stink, how is this enjoyable Apparently they're fairly common though, I think the number of confessions involving stealing stuff for smelling purposes is in the double digits now
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Realtalk: I practice magic and it is 100% real. PM me if you are interested in explanations behind magic.
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Putty posted:Realtalk: I practice magic and it is 100% real. sent you an message on the ethereal plane
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