chitoryu12 posted:

I tried but I actually hit the GIF limit on that post.

Presteign posted:

My X of 3 years [32 m] and his new gf are trying to ruin my [29 f] life and steal my daughter 4 f

Presteign posted:

My X of 3 years [32 m] and his new gf are trying to ruin my [29 f] life and steal my daughter 4 f

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The day after I had an argument with my boyfriend (32M), he picked up my daughter (3F) from the nursery and spent the afternoon with her, without telling me [28F]. He told me he was trying to prove how good of a father he could be.

Background:Three years ago, I got married and had a daughter with my husband. My husband passed away not too long after our daughter was born (Jan 2014) and I began dating my boyfriend in March of 2015. I knew my boyfriend since I was 16. We have dated each other on two other occasions.

My boyfriend was the first man I fell in love with. He was my first everything, and there was always a special place in my heart for him. When I'm with him, I just feel so utterly content. He is smart, handsome, and does well for himself as a lawyer. He is great with my 3 year old daughter (just turned 3 in Nov). He loves spending time with her and sometimes babysits her for me when I'm away. Up until a week ago, I was certain that we were going to get married one day.

For the past week, he has been pretty stressed out at work. Two nights ago, he asked me if I could come over to his place (we don't live together) and hang out. I had plans with my friends and told him that I wasn't free. He got angry at me and accused me of not being there for him. I told him that I couldn't cancel my plans with my friends on a whim just to spend time with him. We got into a shouting match over the phone and I eventually hung up on him.

Yesterday morning, he blew up my phone with texts but I decided to ignore him (I was still pissed). I ignored his calls too. That afternoon, when I went to pick up my daughter from the nursery, her teacher told me that my boyfriend had already picked her up. This shouldn't have been a problem, because he sometimes picks her up when I'm busy so the nursery knows him, but he's never just picked her up without telling me first. I then went through the texts he sent me and he didn't mention anything about it.

I went home and they were not there. I then tried calling him but he didn't pick up for about half an hour. I texted him asking where they were but he did not respond. I must have called him over 30 times before he finally picked up. He sounded nonchalant and asked me what was wrong. I asked him where he and my daughter were. He told me that they were at a park on the other side of the city. I could hear people and other kids playing so I knew he wasn't lying.

But I still got super loving mad at him and told him to bring her home right away and that he should have gotten my permission first before taking her somewhere. He laughed and told me to calm down, that my daughter was having a great time and that they'd gotten some lunch. He said, "I'm trying to prove to you what a great father I can be and that [my daughter's name] loves spending time with me." I asked him when they were coming home. He replied, "I don't know, but I don't think she'd like coming home to an angry mother..." I started to cry at that point and begged for him to bring her home, that he was scaring the hell out of me.

I told him that I was sorry for arguing with him and that I didn't really mean it when I said I'd leave him. He laughed again and said, "Okay, calm down, I'll bring her home by sunset." They came back way later than that, apparently due to traffic. I was so relieved when I saw her and immediately asked her if she was alright. She seemed fine, her usual happy self, but holy poo poo was I mad at my boyfriend. I asked him what on earth he was thinking and told him to never do that again. He just shrugged and said, "She'll be my daughter soon anyways, what's the big fuss?"

I just told him to leave and that we would talk about this in the morning. Once he finally left I took my daughter to bed. I asked her again if she was alright and she said yeah. She then showed me the teddy bear that "Daddy" had bought for her at the park. I told her that he wasn't her daddy. I slept in her room that night.

It's morning now and I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. He has been calling me non-stop. I just want some space to think. I know that our argument a few nights ago was petty and that I shouldn't have shouted at him, but at the same time he was way out of line by taking my daughter to the park without telling me. I told my close friend about this and she completely disagreed with me. She thought it was cute how he decided to spend time with my daughter to prove that he could be a good father to her. She said that I was overreacting and encouraged me to apologize to him, that a man like him was very hard to come by.

I don't know what to think. Perhaps I did overreact? My daughter was fine and by all accounts she enjoyed that afternoon. Was my response an overreaction to something ultimately harmless?

TL;DR: I had an argument with my boyfriend. To prove that he could be a good father to my daughter, he picked her up from nursery and took her to the park without telling me. After tons of calls, he finally picked up. I am so angry with him but my friend thinks that what he did wasn't that bad, and that I'm overreacting.

Gaunab posted:

Gaunab posted:

Pick posted:

Why the hell does any daycare or school release a child to someone who isn't pre-approved?

Subjunctive posted:

No, that's the Note 7.

Gaunab posted:

But I still got super loving mad at him and told him to bring her home right away and that he should have gotten my permission first before taking her somewhere. He laughed and told me to calm down, that my daughter was having a great time and that they'd gotten some lunch. He said, "I'm trying to prove to you what a great father I can be and that [my daughter's name] loves spending time with me." I asked him when they were coming home. He replied, "I don't know, but I don't think she'd like coming home to an angry mother..." I started to cry at that point and begged for him to bring her home, that he was scaring the hell out of me.

I told him that I was sorry for arguing with him and that I didn't really mean it when I said I'd leave him. He laughed again and said, "Okay, calm down, I'll bring her home by sunset." They came back way later than that, apparently due to traffic. I was so relieved when I saw her and immediately asked her if she was alright. She seemed fine, her usual happy self, but holy poo poo was I mad at my boyfriend. I asked him what on earth he was thinking and told him to never do that again. He just shrugged and said, "She'll be my daughter soon anyways, what's the big fuss?"

ZombieJesus posted:

Yeah seriously, revoke his privileges at the childcare centre, start looking into restraining orders, cause that poo poo is hosed up

Griefor posted:

Not that the rest is a-ok, but this takes it to a whole 'nother level. Responding "Holy poo poo I completely hosed up by thinking this wouldn't be a big deal, I'll bring her back immediately" (and not doing it directly after a fight) is one thing, but holding the daughter hostage to force mommy to do what "daddy" wants is just horrible.

Tell daycare that daughter is never to go home again with anyone not pre-approved by the mother and immediately IMO. gently caress, I'd contact the police to see whether this is enough grounds for a restraining order.

Griefor posted:

gently caress, I'd contact the police to see whether this is enough grounds for a restraining order.

Cough Drop The Beat posted:

Girlfriend [19F] of 9 months cancelled our anniversary trip because I[20M] bought a different cell phone than discussed.

Tiny Deer posted:

Nah man, if someone kept pissing on me without my consent I'm with Pick here: I'm grabbing that dick and twisting.

Much like poor sweet 19F with the lunatic boyfriend should do until the loving thing comes off, Jesus.

Edit: that poor, sweet girl just wants to be Emilie Autumn and that rear end in a top hat dropped an anchor baby for the relationship in her. Yeah 'lost' those pills, I'm sure, definitely NOT your creepy rear end boyfriend trying to destroy your life.

Marijuana Nihilist posted:

Gross i cant imagine that even 4chan women would want to date 4chan men

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Like two days ago me and my LDR BF (We've been going out for 4 years) got into some silly arguement over girls sending him "romantic" gifts, but thats another story so he blocked me.
I thought he would calm down tomorrow so I just went to bed and thought everything was gonna be OK tomorrow.
Wrong.
Someone, I'm assuming on 4chan, has doxxed my BF during the night and leaked important information like his name, his Skype and house address, what state he lives in, and added some fake information like saying they had a scat/sissification/pee fetishes. Which I know isn't true, he's just a chubby chaser. I don't know what board this was posted on. It was posted pretty closely at the time I went to bed.
He posted a pic of the dox on Twitter cursing me out and probably blocked me there too, because whenever I try and talk to him he just ignores me and goes back to talking about E3 and the dox. I've tried telling him it wasn't me because I don't browse 4chan, in fact I don't go on any other imageboards besides really small ones like Uboachan and lolcow.farm...and they both don't have an orange colorscheme? Plus he knows I take privacy very seriously, I go overboard with it sometimes. I NEVER tell people my Skype or any other thingy and I make sure he does the same.

But he just keeps calling me immature, a whore, etc and that our relationship is over. Ouch, way to dump me without even telling me in private, JUST TELL THE WHOLE ENTIRE INTERNET.
I'm scared, I'm really scared, I don't know what Anonymous posters did with that information, I don't want people coming to his house or ordering illegal stuff and sending it there to get him arrested or something. I don't know why he thinks it's me. C-Can you call the police over this stuff?! He didn't even post a full screencap of the site, just the one post, so I can't tell which board it was but he won't even tell me...
If it wasn't me, maybe it was one of his friends? He has some really...mean "friends" who always argue with him and stuff. Or maybe it was one of the girls who sent him something? I really don't know...but he really thinks its me. It's not. I'm so scared.
tl;dr: Anons doxxed my BF with full name, Skype, house address, blames me, breaks up with me over Twitter and won't even talk to me.

Presteign posted:

My X of 3 years [32 m] and his new gf are trying to ruin my [29 f] life and steal my daughter 4 f

Nazzadan posted:

I don't want to poo poo up the thread but I met my girlfriend on 4chan and we have been together for almost 4 years now and live together happily

Speaking of lovely 4chan relationships

My [18F] LDR boyfriend [20M] got doxxed on 4chan, thinks it's me, completely ignores me

Gaunab posted:

Carrion Luggage posted:

stop loving showering with other people, do you poo poo as a team too?


getting clean is not a team sport

504 posted:

Handy tip: Sometime people have showers (brace yourself) NOT explicitly for the purpose of getting clean! There are... things.. that are pleasurable to do in warm water. This requires more than one person, sometimes even more than two!

Subjunctive posted:

It was not a good idea.

Gaunab posted:

FallenGod posted:

Berth ell pup

Nazzadan posted:

"Alright honey, I brought over the large negro gentleman like you asked me to, are you ready to come watch?"

"Cucking? Oh god no honey, that's so last month. Now I want you to pretend he's your stepbrother who hypnotized you."

Nazzadan posted:

"Alright honey, I brought over the large negro gentleman like you asked me to, are you ready to come watch?"

"Cucking? Oh god no honey, that's so last month. Now I want you to pretend he's your stepbrother who hypnotized you."