Mameluke posted:

[33M], my [30F] girlfriend is pregnant with another guy's kid "because she wanted her child to have the best life possible". Wants me to be the father. Don't even know how to start processing this?


Leave your unmarried girlfriend now! You're a lawyer, you know that's not how family law works! Let her raise the baby of the guy she cheated on you with!

WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:

typical MOMBIES and DADDICTS

My (34F) sister (18F) is behaving inappropriately toward my husband (33M)
I bolded those parts cause the OP started to get really defensive when posters pointed them out. Then she posted stuff like this:
so she might just be losing her mind

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My husband and I had an agreement that we would have sex once a month, it's not my fault that he routinely tried to push for more. I don't enjoy sex and I'm not about to be raped. I'm not pushing him away, I'm holding up my end of the agreement.

Pvt.Scott posted:

Is it weird that I'd be perfectly ok with letting the kids try a bite of my food?

WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:

typical MOMBIES and DADDICTS

My (34F) sister (18F) is behaving inappropriately toward my husband (33M)
I bolded those parts cause the OP started to get really defensive when posters pointed them out. Then she posted stuff like this:
so she might just be losing her mind

WampaLord posted:

Fucker should have put that in the story instead of dodging comments asking about their baby.

It also reeks of "putting myself in the best light possible now that I'm getting slammed by the comments" retconning. Honestly, why would you not mention a brand new baby in that story? It's a loving huge factor.

WampaLord posted:

Here's another illuminating tidbit from the OP:

trapped mouse posted:

I can't wait for her sister and him to attempt to sled into a tree to end their lives only to remain alive but permanently crippled

WampaLord posted:

Here's another illuminating tidbit from the OP:

go go go go ROSCOE! posted:

yes this is a very healthy mindset to have

WampaLord posted:

[30M]My Wife[29F] unexpectedly passed away, her apparent lover [30?M] revealed their affair at her funeral.

WAY TO GO WAMPA!! posted:

typical MOMBIES and DADDICTS

My (34F) sister (18F) is behaving inappropriately toward my husband (33M)

quote:

Like the post says I have been dating this girl for 3 months and it is fantastic so far. We get along great, we enjoy the same things, and I'm excited for my future with this girl. Historically in relationships I have been a bit on the jealous side, I thought it would be a bigger problem because she has a lot of guy friends, but I have met most of them and they are all great guys and I have not been jealous with them at all because I know she's crazy about me and they are just friends.
Recently she has been introducing me to her extended family. I met her cousin who is a male around our age. My girlfriend's mom told me she was very close with this cousin, my girlfriend never really mentioned much about him. I met him at a family gathering of hers. He seems like a nice guy, but I was very jealous about how they interacted with each other.
It all started with me and her sitting on the couch. He came and sat on the other side of her and he put his arm around her and she payed her head on his shoulder almost immediately and they were just cuddling. It then turned into him laying his head on her lap and she was snap chatting them without much regards to me being there.
The second meeting with him she wanted us 3 to get lunch together. We sat in a booth, she sat next to me and he sat across from her alone. The entire conversation was them talking to each other with me having to force myself into conversation. I felt like I was the third wheel in that situation and I have never felt like that with her until then.
The third and so far final meeting was just yesterday. Her parents drove me, her, the cousin, and one of her best friends downtown in the major city that we live by for my girlfriends birthday. On the drive there my girlfriend sat in the back with her cousin and again, just like on the couch, they start cuddling. I was stuck in the middle seats with her friend. I got very jealous to the point where I was uncomfortable. On the drive home, she made it a point that she wanted to sit by me so we got the middle seats on the way back which put my mind at ease a little bit about the entire situation, but I still can't help but feel uncomfortable with her and him before.
I don't believe that she is attracted to her cousin and would not cheat on me with him, but I'm still very jealous of her interactions with him and feel uncomfortable hanging out with him. Do I mention anything to her or just drop it? If I do say something, what should I say? I really like this girl a lot and do not want to mess anything up, but I don't know how to handle this so I need some advice.
tl;dr Girlfriend is very affectionate to her cousin and it makes me jealous. Do I say anything?

WampaLord posted:

Here's another illuminating tidbit from the OP:

Nissin Cup Nudist posted:

How many people have a sibling 16 years apart from them? Family dynamics

ArbitraryC posted:

Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 months, I'm getting jealous of how she acts with her cousin.


who does this

Radical and BADical! posted:

cousins who gently caress

datajugend posted:

How is that a weird thing.

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I [F/19] read text about how my boyfriend [M/21] wanted to have a New Years Party with "hoes" and I don't know how to feel about this

So I went through my boyfriends (of 1 and a half years) phone out of curiosity, which I know I shouldn't have done but I did anyways. I will be honest, I am insecure and I felt as if he was hiding something from me when he decided he was going to the mall with his friend (early in the day) and then was staying in the city for one of his old hs female friends party. But he ended up not going to the party but stayed the whole entire day in the city.. I was kind of suspicious because it didnt make sense to me. So I went through his phone. ( he was telling the truth)
I saw him telling his 2 friends in a group chat how he wants to throw a New Year party with the "hoes" (as in girls, but I guess you can't say that around your guys smh ) , atleast 10 of them. His friend responded, I don't have any, Jake doesn't have any and you don't either. (lol). Jake said he does he just doesn't gently caress them but he could. My boyfriend responds with we've all had that opportunity. They start talking about 2 of their HS friends they know that gets of girls I would assume, (he owns a clothing business and has a lot of money) and my boyfriend tells them don't worry their time will come. (Assuming once they have stable jobs/ graduate college they will be able to get girls as well). My boyfriend is also telling how he has 4 of them he's met just this month and he doesn't even really go out like that, but how he doesn't really try. He also says something to Jake around the lines if he met a attractive female would he gently caress her raw, and Jake says no, with a condom, and he said that it would be no point.
They are all in relationships, and the fact that my boyfriend could even think having unprotected sex with someone else while in a relationship is beyond disgusting to me, it also has me worried that someone could be so careless about their (and mines) health. Like who knows what he's doing? The fact that I know hes a broke college students who hates his job and I know he's struggling to make things meet and his grocery store job makes him feel horrible, but he's going to have a really good job in the future. we barely go on dates, for the most part its always dutch and I understand that he's not at a point to be able to do nice things for me because he cant afford it, but I would have assumed if we were together once he had a stable job he would want to treat me like how women would like to be treated, not worried about when his "time will come" and he'll have money for girls to like him. (i assume)
thats so freaking backwards to me and I never knew my boyfriend even thought like that. I'm really assuming that maybe this way "guy talk" but the fact that he was the one who initiated it makes me less to think that. I feel like I love him but I do envision us in the future with and him having a stable job and kids and really just living life. Like he's even brought up a couple of times how he could see us being married in the future and all.. But now after seeing his comment I feel very turned off and on edge from him.
I had no business looking in his phone and I did and I don't know how to go about what I saw, is there anyway I could bring this up and have a conversation with him about this without telling him I went through his phone. Am I looking into hard into this and maybe it was just something minor, or does my boyfriend really just sound like an rear end in a top hat.. Idk I can't even really talk to him today after I saw what I saw he know's I'm upset with him too..
TL;DR - My boyfriend was talking about throwing a party and wanted females there. He talked about how once his time will come.. makes me not understand if we should be together.

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My [27F] boyfriend's [30M] friend [32M] "accidentally" left a USB stick plugged into my laptop which contains hundreds of pictures and videos of me.

Hi, Reddit.
I've been with my boyfriend, Brady, for three years now, living together for one. He's amazing and makes me a better person. We connect in so many ways and I'm very excited to spend the rest of my life with him (we've been talking about marriage heavily lately). All is well in that department!

My issue is with my boyfriend's friend, Kyle. Kyle has always been friendly enough and we have always gotten along well. Kyle and Brady have been friends since high school and they have a very close bond. He pops by the house once a week to shoot some pool, have dinner or drinks and just hangout. I haven't had any issues with Kyle thus far, except for one incident when he said that "Brady must love to hit that" (referencing me) when we threw a house warming party. I pulled him aside and told him that language was unacceptable and objectifying and he apologized. Brady was made aware of the situation and also told Kyle not to talk to me like that and it would not be tolerated inside or outside of the house.

Today, Kyle came over in the morning to use my laptop to transfer some photos of a vacation a bunch of us went on earlier last month. Nothing was really out of the ordinary but I did notice Kyle kept sneaking glances at me and I deduced it to my bedhead. Shortly after we all had breakfast, Kyle and Brady left to go play hockey and I've been at home since.

I went to use my laptop to look through the photos and noticed Kyle left his USB plugged in. I went to go remove it when I noticed that there was a folder named after me on his USB stick. Curiosity got the best of me and I opened it. What I saw seemed to be straight from the movie "Love Actually" and I actually couldn't believe it at first. There were over 200 pictures and a handful of videos of just me, sometimes with others in the background. Me eating dinner, dancing at a bar, jumping off of a cliff, lying down on the couch, reading a book, laughing, on Brady's lap. There were videos of me doing various things too, like changing out of my beach cover-up during our trip last month, chewing on a pen. I was floored and felt really creeped out. Like, who does this? Did he want me to see these? I have a hard time thinking this was a mistake, he's pretty tech-savvy and if he didn't want me to see it, I highly doubt he would name the folder after me.

Now, normally I would have noticed if Kyle was just taking random pictures and videos of me because that's really strange behaviour, but Kyle is a famous YouTube Vlogger who vlogs daily and does pranks and whatnot. He does this full-time now and makes a comfortable living out of it. I'm used to him having his camera out to film and it doesn't bother me, but now that I'm thinking back, a lot of the time he wouldn't be speaking as if it were a voice-over, he'd just be filming and now I'm starting to wonder if he was just filming me at that time instead.

I don't have a good feeling about this. Although I gave him permission to sometimes vlog when he's around (specifically when we are out doing something fun) I did not give him permission to vlog me changing into a bikini, kissing Brady or other weird instances that wouldn't warrant filming. That, in conjunction to the hundreds of pictures that were taken over the last few years, makes me feel really uncomfortable.

Brady and Kyle are due back in a couple of hours. I know I need to talk to Brady about this, but I'm not sure if I should bring it up when Kyle is around? I have a nagging suspicion that he left the USB in on purpose. I just feel really gross right now.
Reddit, do you have any advice?

Thank you.

tl;dr: My boyfriend's best friend (a YouTube vlogger) left his USB plugged into my laptop. On it was a folder with my name on it that includes hundreds of pictures and videos of just me. I find it creepy and I'm not sure how to bring this up.

Pearnicious posted:

It was a love between two cousins that the world thought was wrong, but it was the world that was wrong...

Les Cousins Dangereux

Mameluke posted:

[33M], my [30F] girlfriend is pregnant with another guy's kid "because she wanted her child to have the best life possible". Wants me to be the father. Don't even know how to start processing this?


Leave your unmarried girlfriend now! You're a lawyer, you know that's not how family law works! Let her raise the baby of the guy she cheated on you with!

WampaLord posted:

Guys, holy poo poo.

Holy poo poo, you guys.

[30M]My Wife[29F] unexpectedly passed away, her apparent lover [30?M] revealed their affair at her funeral.


HOLY poo poo

Nissin Cup Nudist posted:

How many people have a sibling 16 years apart from them? Family dynamics

Nissin Cup Nudist posted:

How many people have a sibling 16 years apart from them? Family dynamics

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Jagger’s seven other children — Georgia, James, Jade, Elizabeth, Lucas, Karis and Gabriel — range in age from 17 to 45. He also has five grandchildren and one great-grandchild

go go go go ROSCOE! posted:

WampaLord posted:

Fairly decent batting average on the normal names, at least.

What the gently caress kind of name is Karis?

ArbitraryC posted:

Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 months, I'm getting jealous of how she acts with her cousin.


who does this

go go go go ROSCOE! posted:

chitoryu12 posted:

Trawling the latest posts:

I [F/19] read text about how my boyfriend [M/21] wanted to have a New Years Party with "hoes" and I don't know how to feel about this

chitoryu12 posted:

Trawling the latest posts:

monkeytennis posted:

quote:
My husband and I had an agreement that we would have sex once a month, it's not my fault that he routinely tried to push for more. I don't enjoy sex and I'm not about to be raped. I'm not pushing him away, I'm holding up my end of the agreement.

Lady, he's already shagging your younger, hotter, more sexual sister. I bet he's balls deep as soon as you leave the house and can't believe his luck.

Ride The Gravitron posted:

I'm actually rooting for that husband to bang that sister