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Porn is a really easy catch-all answer to "Why do so many men think x"
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Leon Einstein posted:Why are so many dudes convinced anal is a huge deal? Because it's tighter, and more degrading for the woman/receiver. I'm kidding, I think it's the taboo element of it for most men. And porn.
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Andrast posted:Porn is a really easy catch-all answer to "Why do so many men think x" I dunno, porn doesn't invent fads so much as express them. Porn didn't invent the concept of anal sex.
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Plenty of women enjoy anal as well, when it's done right.
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Andrast posted:Porn is a really easy catch-all answer to "Why do so many men think x" True but as someone mentioned recently in the thread the same can be said for things like more violent blowjobs becoming more mainstream and then people see that and I think that's what's normal and that's what they want to do and it's because that's what they've seen and has been normalized.
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Nazzadan posted:Idk, sex? Are we at a point where we really need to have an acronym for regular vaginal intercourse? If someone says "sex," to me that refers to vaginal intercourse. It's everything else that should have a different name. Anal, bj, hj, etc. All of those things are sex. If you ever had any, you'd know this. According to this nerd, gay people don't have sex.
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I like looking at butts so I stick my willy in them. So what
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JFairfax posted:Plenty of women enjoy anal as well, when it's done right.
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Lone Goat posted:All of those things are sex. If you ever had any, you'd know this. Fair point. Alright I concede I may be the sperg in the situation of people that use PIV and some SA poster who thinks they are dumb. Content also known as, "This is why you loving put the ages in the OP" Took a much younger girl's virginity- not sure if it's right to proceed with a relationship due to age gap quote:To give some background information, I'm 41 years old and last night things got hot and heavy with an 18 year old girl. She's not some stranger, I've known her since she was 16 and I could tell she's always had an attraction towards me. She's very pretty, but I never saw her in a different light until recently.
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WampaLord posted:I dunno, porn doesn't invent fads so much as express them. Porn didn't invent the concept of anal sex. it sure propogated it as the 'hardcore' sex act more extreme than missionary/cowgirl, though like it's not an unusual thing to try and maybe decide you like but there is no way all of these dudes would have independently arrived at such an intense fixation on buttholes had they not been told about that having a special significance, had media fashion gone another way they would probably all be equally obsessed with the idea of loving in public or something
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:it sure propogated it as the 'hardcore' sex act more extreme than missionary/cowgirl, though Sure, I get it, but saying that porn drives behavior doesn't explain everything, or else we'd see an uprising of incest and step-sibling loving based on current trends.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:My (25/F) boyfriend (28/M) of two years is upset that I went on a date once with someone famous 3 years ago and didn't tell him. I bet it was Dennis Rodman summering down south.
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Let's not forget that even breast fetishism is something that ended up being introduced and propagated from the west to the east. Kissing also (which some cultures still don't do). People are influenced by the culture around them, and pornography is part of culture.
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Eww, what a gross old dude. My dad has a friend his age that we knew for years, and he tried to creep on my sister too. He creeps on everything though; he's in an open marriage.
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WampaLord posted:Sure, I get it, but saying that porn drives behavior doesn't explain everything, or else we'd see an uprising of incest and step-sibling loving based on current trends. poo poo when the 13-year-olds of today start having real sex lives we might A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 19:45 on Jan 6, 2017 |
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^just look at that guy posted who wanted to see his girlfriend with he makeup all down her face and poo poo despite her clearly saying she was uncomfortable. Super hosed up. Plus I've said this before but porn, and violent porn, is very, very easy to access. It's not the same poo poo as when I was 12 years old a 14 years ago (what the gently caress) where boys in my class would try and watch the blurred out playboy channel in hopes of catching a nipple. Kids are getting more and more access to their own devices and it's not unusual for a boy or girl coming into puberty to be curious. It's just hosed up that their first points of contact can be some s really sketchy poo poo. There's no denying it.Nazzadan posted:Fair point. Alright I concede I may be the sperg in the situation of people that use PIV and some SA poster who thinks they are dumb.  mixed into one. I'm guessing he's a friend of her dads or something.
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Nazzadan posted:Fair point. Alright I concede I may be the sperg in the situation of people that use PIV and some SA poster who thinks they are dumb. This 41 yo just said PIV. No wonder he connected to a naive loving 18 yo
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54 40 or gently caress posted:^just look at that guy posted who wanted to see his girlfriend with he makeup all down her face and poo poo despite her clearly saying she was uncomfortable. Super hosed up.
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How about something not related to bustin' nuts in buttsquote:My (23/M) brother's (28/M) girlfriend (25/F) has a bunch of bruises all around her arms and neck tl;dr My older brother used to beat me up a lot growing up. It got to the point where my parents had to send him away to live with our aunt and uncle just to keep me safe. He's calmer now, and he's doing really well for himself, keeping away from negative influences. I've never seen him act aggressive towards any women, but over the holidays I accidentally walked in on his girlfriend while she was in the bathroom and I noticed bruises along her arms and neck, which she had been hiding under makeup and thick layers of clothing for most of the night. She was also unusually quiet the entire night. I'm sure you know what I'm getting at here. I don't know what to do. I don't know what's going on with them, whether he's the one who gave her those bruises, and I don't want to point fingers but I also don't want to ignore the signs like everyone did with me when I was the one he was beating up. What should I do? Talk to the police? Talk to her? I don't want to approach my brother with this because if I'm right and he's the only who gave her those bruises, he'll probably just lose his temper on her thinking she told me. Ugh, this is such a lovely situation to be in. Given the older brother's history I'd say talk to her alone and let her know what he used to do to you then offer support.
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WampaLord posted:Sure, I get it, but saying that porn drives behavior doesn't explain everything, or else we'd see an uprising of incest and step-sibling loving based on current trends. This has been observed.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:^just look at that guy posted who wanted to see his girlfriend with he makeup all down her face and poo poo despite her clearly saying she was uncomfortable. Super hosed up. Plus I've said this before but porn, and violent porn, is very, very easy to access. It's not the same poo poo as when I was 12 years old a 14 years ago (what the gently caress) where boys in my class would try and watch the blurred out playboy channel in hopes of catching a nipple. Kids are getting more and more access to their own devices and it's not unusual for a boy or girl coming into puberty to be curious. It's just hosed up that their first points of contact can be some s really sketchy poo poo. There's no denying it. tbf quite a lot of our generation grew up fixated on bad drawings of Disney's Robin Hood and girls being inflated with bicycle pumps so at least kids these days are being conditioned to get it up over other actual humans doing physically possible things analogous to healthy sex
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And Dahmer watched a lot of gay porn.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:tbf an apparently significant number of our generation grew up fixated on bad drawings of Disney's Robin Hood and girls being inflated with bicycle pumps so at least kids these days are being conditioned to get it up over other actual humans doing physically possible things I would argue that it's better for people to have fetishes for weird poo poo that is impossible that just leads them to draw bad artwork than to actively victimize other people.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:tbf quite a lot of our generation grew up fixated on bad drawings of Disney's Robin Hood and girls being inflated with bicycle pumps so at least kids these days are being conditioned to get it up over other actual humans doing physically possible things analogous to healthy sex Speak for yourself  But really, I think this is far too big of a conversation to really get into here. All I can say is that a lot of porn is based in things like degradation and that's really unhealthy for boys and girls to be exposed to, it completely fucks up the idea of what's normal/acceptable. Like someone else said, I think I'd rather someone have some weird, totally out there fetish drawing poo poo than think it's okay to go rear end to mouth and beat someone to death with your dick or w/e 54 40 or fuck fucked around with this message at 19:58 on Jan 6, 2017 |
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La Brea Carpet posted:How about something not related to bustin' nuts in butts what if it's rough sex? Don't lift shirts
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Pick posted:Let's not forget that even breast fetishism is something that ended up being introduced and propagated from the west to the east. Kissing also (which some cultures still don't do). People are influenced by the culture around them, and pornography is part of culture. I don't usually go in for this cultural imperialism business, but a culture without kissing? Well that's just not right, says I.
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because prior to incest porn there was not a single incident the world over of older sibilings sexually abusing younger ones. this one mobile article from a random new zealand (???) tabloid surely is damning evidence of evil porn making rapists of men the world over
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fruit on the bottom posted:I don't usually go in for this cultural imperialism business, but a culture without kissing? Well that's just not right, says I. In the time of New York City's "Satan's Circus", its most notorious den of depravity, prostitutes who provided anal intercourse or blow jobs were considered niche and were ostracized by other prostitutes.
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Nazzadan posted:My horse girl girlfriend got mad when I explained the stereotype of horse girls.
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Nissin Cup Nudist posted:what if it's rough sex? It very well could be. It could also be the beginning of another triple homicide r/relationships post. This is why updates need to be mandatory.
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Kid watches pornography about loving his sister, and then fucks his sister. Yeah I'm sure it was all something else though
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Pick posted:Kid watches pornography about loving his sister, and then fucks his sister. Yeah I'm sure it was all something else though you are alleging its a direct cause. you need to prove how this case is different than the sadly all too common instances of familial rape that have been going on forever.
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WoodrowSkillson posted:you are alleging its a direct cause. you need to prove how this case is different than the sadly all too common instances of familial rape that have been going on forever. jeffery dahmer also watched a lot of porn and did weird sex stuff with his victims. clearly porn made him do it. its science, bitch
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Pick posted:Kid watches pornography about loving his sister, and then fucks his sister. Yeah I'm sure it was all something else though I was talking about trends, not one-offs.
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WoodrowSkillson posted:you are alleging its a direct cause. you need to prove how this case is different than the sadly all too common instances of familial rape that have been going on forever. Not really, because this isn't really a debate stage. One of the commonest complaints that I hear when talking to my friends about sex is men who emulate pornography. I have no idea why people insist that they're thinking isn't affected by it. If a woman watches only Disney princess movies, I assume that she is affected by it. If a guy watches shitloads of anime, I assume he's affected by it. If people could easily separate fantasy and reality, advertising wouldn't work.
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Pick posted:If a woman watches only Disney princess movies, I assume that she is affected by it. If a guy watches shitloads of anime, I assume he's affected by it. Pick, do you think men watch porn in the same way we watch movies or TV shows? The time invested is way way different.
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Pick posted:Not really, because this isn't really a debate stage. One of the commonest complaints that I hear when talking to my friends about sex is men who emulate pornography. I have no idea why people insist that they're thinking isn't affected by it. If a woman watches only Disney princess movies, I assume that she is affected by it. If a guy watches shitloads of anime, I assume he's affected by it. If people could easily separate fantasy and reality, advertising wouldn't work. Do you also believe movies and video games directly cause violence than, or is that considered separate? Violent music too? People can be influenced by all of those things, and pornography, but I have never seen anything to give them the power to drive such acts alone.
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WampaLord posted:Pick, do you think men watch porn in the same way we watch movies or TV shows? The time invested is way way different. People are affected by 30 second advertisements. You seem to be suggesting that I think that pornography is different, it is not that at all. It is that I think pornography is exactly the same as all other forms of media, and influences people the same way. However, it tends to provide a disproportionate amount of the information that people receive about sex.
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