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Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

quote:

tl;dr: Coworker making sexual, racist jokes about my wife and won't stop. Why is he so obsessed with race and cheating? Should I go to HR about this?

i guarantee you this coworker jerks it to interracial cuck porn

snipe

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Mirthless
Mar 27, 2011

by the sex ghost

Moridin920 posted:

i guarantee you this coworker jerks it to interracial cuck porn

snipe

His coworker is absolutely the one wrong in this story but I can't help but think about what a loving tremendous dickhead he is for allowing a comment like that to be made by someone he worked with even a single loving time before going to HR about it

defend your wife you garbage man

like, he sits there seriously thinking about how badly it's going to negatively impact this dude, who is repeatedly inferring his wife is a whore and dropping racial slurs in front of him nonstop. who loving cares if he can't feed his family? he's not your family dude and he's clearly not your friend so why give him a pass?

Mirthless fucked around with this message at 21:38 on Jan 20, 2017

Yawgmoth
Sep 10, 2003

This post is cursed!

Mirthless posted:

who loving cares if he can't feed his family?
trump voter spotted

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Mirthless posted:

His coworker is absolutely the one wrong in this story but I can't help but think about what a loving tremendous dickhead he is for allowing a comment like that to be made by someone he worked with even a single loving time before going to HR about it

defend your wife you garbage man

like, he sits there seriously thinking about how badly it's going to negatively impact this dude, who is repeatedly inferring his wife is a whore and dropping racial slurs in front of him nonstop. who loving cares if he can't feed his family? he's not your family dude and he's clearly not your friend so why give him a pass?

And yeah I would have gone to HR about it long ago if he didn't stfu the first time I told him to.

the bitcoin of weed
Nov 1, 2014

it is WAY too perfect that the racist cuck-obsessed caricature coworker who gets too drunk at WrestleMania to work the next morning also shouts trump memes on a daily basis

which GBS poster is he

GB_Sign
Oct 9, 2012

1st offence, "Dude, I know you are trying to joke around but that is incredibly offensive to me and my wife and I would appreciate you not making remarks like that". 2nd offence, "Hey man, I talked to you already about this. I don't want to make it an HR issue but will have no choice if you continue. 3rd offence, immediate HR complaint with documentation.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

Moridin920 posted:

i guarantee you this coworker jerks it to interracial cuck porn

snipe

b-but porn is just entertainment and in no way affects people's lives outside of it !! :ohdear:

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Pick posted:

b-but porn is just entertainment and in no way affects people's lives outside of it !! :ohdear:

the porn is also a symptom of the real issue, which is his deep insecurity manifesting itself as racism

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

Moridin920 posted:

the porn is also a symptom of the real issue, which is his deep insecurity manifesting itself as racism

isn't this the foundation of like, a good chunk of racism against black people, particularly black men?

ohhhh, don't let her sleep with a black man, once she does his inevitable superior penis will forever cause her to crave such penis again foreverially

and he can jump toooo :qq:

Antivehicular
Dec 30, 2011


I wanna sing one for the cars
That are right now headed silent down the highway
And it's dark and there is nobody driving And something has got to give

"Can't work after Wrestlemania; too drunk" is my new favorite six-word flash fiction

Mirthless
Mar 27, 2011

by the sex ghost

GB_Sign posted:

1st offence, "Dude, I know you are trying to joke around but that is incredibly offensive to me and my wife and I would appreciate you not making remarks like that". 2nd offence, "Hey man, I talked to you already about this. I don't want to make it an HR issue but will have no choice if you continue. 3rd offence, immediate HR complaint with documentation.

still two more chances than I think is even remotely reasonable considering what he was saying

GB_Sign
Oct 9, 2012

Mirthless posted:

still two more chances than I think is even remotely reasonable considering what he was saying

I wouldn't fault anyone for immediately going to HR. From the tone of his post, and the size of the office it seemed he was generally okay with the vulgarity/comments in general, so I was proposing a scenario where he could easily let the dude know he was crossing the line without immediately going nuclear.

Khorne
May 1, 2002

Blue Train posted:

If it wasn't racist he'd have posted the joke
Didn't he post it? He said he was surprised customs didn't pull her aside.
Depends on frame and other factors. 6'1 230 is nowhere near morbidly obese, like at 230 my stomach didn't even pass my ribcage and that was without sucking it in. Had a decent jawline too. I've been 155 (when I was a young teen) and heavier.

Also, in a well trained individual with a larger than average frame you can have abs at as high of a weight as 235 or so. I didn't want to be pedantic though and wanted to stick to "average enough". Where 205 looks lean clothed at 6'1 if you don't have a small frame. Definitely not abs lean for most people though that was a bit of an exaggeration, because the point was to point out that not everyone has a small frame.

Pick posted:

ohhhh, don't let her sleep with a black man, once she does his inevitable superior penis will forever cause her to crave such penis again foreverially

and he can jump toooo :qq:
I'm white and can jump. Sounds like lots of these people have inferiority complexes or can't look at the positives of their genes. Also, lots of people from all races have small dicks and/or can't jump. Porn classifying black one way is pretty racist and definitely alienates lots of black dudes. Just like lots of western asian porn is racist as heck.

Khorne fucked around with this message at 22:23 on Jan 20, 2017

Nazzadan
Jun 22, 2016



Pick posted:

isn't this the foundation of like, a good chunk of racism against black people, particularly black men?

ohhhh, don't let her sleep with a black man, once she does his inevitable superior penis will forever cause her to crave such penis again foreverially

and he can jump toooo :qq:

I'd wager that a good portion of modern racism against black people is because of a perception of violence, low intelligence, and a carryover of generations of seeing them as less than human.

Not their benises.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Nazzadan posted:

I'd wager that a good portion of modern racism against black people is because of a perception of violence, low intelligence, and a carryover of generations of seeing them as less than human.

Not their benises.

It's both. It's the former making dumbos think the penis stuff is all true and whatnot.

like if you ask most people: why are most pro athletes in the USA black?

the typical off the cuff response is some idiot poo poo about extra bones or tendons or a sheepish shrug

almost no one will say "because black people on average live in horrific conditions, and the 3 most common ways to escape that poverty are: sports, entertainment industry, drugs - thus a black kid is way more motivated to be a sports star versus the average white person"

Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 22:22 on Jan 20, 2017

Nazzadan
Jun 22, 2016



I've literally never once heard someone say blacks are prevalent in sports because of extra tendons or some poo poo.

Not that people don't say it, I've just never heard it.

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

Nazzadan posted:

I've literally never once heard someone say blacks are prevalent in sports because of extra tendons or some poo poo.

Not that people don't say it, I've just never heard it.

Ask a bunch of white people that question, see what responses you get. YMMV of course.

Bonus points if they talk about running on the plains of Africa or something.

Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 22:27 on Jan 20, 2017

Drunk Nerds
Jan 25, 2011

Just close your eyes
Fun Shoe

Pvt.Scott posted:

go down to clam town to pick up some brisket for dinner

P-Mack
Nov 10, 2007

Q: Why are black men the best cuckers?

A: They have a special bone in your wife.

Antivehicular
Dec 30, 2011


I wanna sing one for the cars
That are right now headed silent down the highway
And it's dark and there is nobody driving And something has got to give

I've definitely heard people say that black people can't swim well because of increased bone density. These dumb ideas are tragically common.

Tiny Deer
Jan 16, 2012

I think that all of us are beautiful in their own ways and you don't have to defend their bodies or the bodies of your friends because self-acceptance is the most important thing.

And Pick, on a different note: don't be silly, porn couldn't influence people negatively, I like porn and I'm a good person, why are you calling me a bad person for watching porn, Pick?

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless
Idk if it is porn's fault necessarily but there's definitely people who take it too far and get addicted or get waaaaay too into the fetish hole that they can't see normality anymore. But, anyway.

Drunk Nerds
Jan 25, 2011

Just close your eyes
Fun Shoe

Khorne posted:

my stomach didn't even pass my ribcage

You're an invertebrate?

the bitcoin of weed
Nov 1, 2014

porn is extremely responsible for the ongoing stereotype of the large dicked black man and the bizarre fetishization of such

that guys just a shithead though

Personal Lucubrant
Oct 18, 2016

Just thinking about what to do with all the money I don't have.
I've heard that black people have more "fast twitch" muscle fiber and that white people have more "slow twitch" muscle fiber. Therefore black people are naturally a little better at speed and agility sports, but white people are better at strength and endurance sports. Also have heard that black people's muscles are slightly more efficient with regard to aerobic or anaerobic respiration or something, so they are better at long distance running or something.

Honestly it all sounds like horseshit. Race is a social construct, and any biological differences between people are negligible. There's no scientific basis for "race" in humans, we're all the loving same.

Mirthless
Mar 27, 2011

by the sex ghost

Khorne posted:

Also, in a well trained individual with a larger than average frame you can have abs at as high of a weight as 235 or so. I didn't want to be pedantic though and wanted to stick to "average enough". Where 205 looks lean clothed at 6'1 if you don't have a small frame. Definitely not abs lean for most people though that was a bit of an exaggeration, because the point was to point out that not everyone has a small frame.

:cripes:

the distance your gut hangs out has no bearing whatsoever on whether or not you are obese, morbidly or otherwise

if your BMI is high enough and you have two or more negative health conditions resulting from your obesity, you are morbidly obese, period. Nobody is healthy at a weight of 235 at that height unless they're a body builder, and even then probably not particularly. You are conflating a medical term with an adjective.

Mirthless fucked around with this message at 22:42 on Jan 20, 2017

Sisal Two-Step
May 29, 2006

mom without jaw
dad without wife


i'm taking all the Ls now, sorry
are we talking about cum in this thread or what

Nazzadan
Jun 22, 2016



Sisal Two-Step posted:

are we talking about cum in this thread or what

Can we talk about black people cum?

ArbitraryC
Jan 28, 2009
Pick a number, any number
Pillbug

Pearnicious posted:

I've heard that black people have more "fast twitch" muscle fiber and that white people have more "slow twitch" muscle fiber. Therefore black people are naturally a little better at speed and agility sports, but white people are better at strength and endurance sports. Also have heard that black people's muscles are slightly more efficient with regard to aerobic or anaerobic respiration or something, so they are better at long distance running or something.

Honestly it all sounds like horseshit. Race is a social construct, and any biological differences between people are negligible. There's no scientific basis for "race" in humans, we're all the loving same.
What about penis size tho

Khorne
May 1, 2002

Mirthless posted:

the distance your gut hangs out has no bearing whatsoever on whether or not you are obese, morbidly or otherwise

if your BMI is high enough and you have two or more negative health conditions resulting from your obesity, you are morbidly obese, period. Nobody is healthy at a weight of 235 at that height unless they're a body builder, and even then probably not particularly.
You won't have health conditions at that weight though? Like, at 230 right now I am at around 22% bf. My blood pressure, lipids, etc are all perfect. The only health problem I have is congenital. I'll be around 205 in June and then will probably go back up to 225 or so.

BMI is a poo poo indicator because it completely ignores frame size and lean mass. This has been pointed out in recent research. Visceral fat is far more likely to pose health problems than subcutaneous, and with a 37" waist at 6'1 230 I'm not carrying that much around.

Drunk Nerds posted:

You're an invertebrate?
I really got egg on my face there.

Khorne fucked around with this message at 22:46 on Jan 20, 2017

Ratjaculation
Aug 3, 2007

:parrot::parrot::parrot:



"he watched his girlfriend covered in the blackmans cum walk past him"

= highlight of sa

Personal Lucubrant
Oct 18, 2016

Just thinking about what to do with all the money I don't have.

ArbitraryC posted:

What about penis size tho

South Park taught me that it all depends on your nationality.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GTboGG7DMwU

e: Also I think it might be inversely proportional to how large your truck is, or how loud your sports car is.

Mirthless
Mar 27, 2011

by the sex ghost

Khorne posted:

You won't have health conditions at that weight though? Like, at 230 right now I am at around 22% bf. My blood pressure, lipids, etc are all perfect. The only health problem I have is congenital. I'll be around 205 in June and then will probably go back up to 225 or so.
I really got egg on my face there.

:shrug: Good for you, dude, but you're an outlier and it sounds like you are into fitness so it's not going to be similarly applicable.

"healthy" weight for a person who is 6'1" is between 150 and 185 pounds. There's going to be exceptions along the way but most people are not going to be healthy when they are 50 pounds overweight.

Nazzadan
Jun 22, 2016



My [31 F] girlfriend doesn't seem to think she ever needs to have any facts to back up anything she says to me [36 M]

quote:

What the hell do I do? I'm in hell right now. My girlfriend of three years says things that are demonstrably not true but when presented with facts she still says that what she says is true if you look at it a certain way.
For example, last night we were talking about something and she mentioned her eustachian tubes....and pointed at her neck. I said, 'Darling, you don't have eustachian tubes in your neck, they go from your inner ear to the back of your upper palate'. She got really angry and aggressive with me right away and didn't believe me so I did a Google image search and a very plain diagram came up that showed what I had said. The reality didn't matter for some reason and she said she was sort of pointing at her mandible and I said, they're not there either. She then said that if you push on your neck it'll make them visible is what she was demonstrating. I said I don't think so because they aren't in your neck. We got into a really big fight over it, mostly because she got angry with me over something that she didn't know was correct or not but decided to fight me over anyway. She does this ALL THE TIME and I just want to live a peaceful life with her but I don't want to be constantly bombarded with what is essentially just unreasearched horse poo poo, backed only by aggression and anger.
Please help me figure out some way of communicating with her without the conflict that arises from her false and aggressive assertions.
TL;DR Girlfriend makes up fake facts, gets angry and distant when called on them. What can I do? Please help!
EDIT: We're broken up now, thankyou all for your help in making this happen.

Apparently that's not a throwaway and he has a solid 5 other threads about her being stupid/wrong, and his girlfriend was also posting about him and reddit detectives found her account.

Breakup Advice [32F] While Having To Leave Boyfriend [37M]

quote:

I [32F] am in the midst of a break up after a three year relationship with my boyfriend [37M] and there is no possibility for reconciliation as he has forbid any contact with him.
In the process of still packing my things and realising how little the room changes after I empty out everything that represents me into meager little boxes… and it devastates me when I realise I am a blip in his life. There will be no trace I existed in his house and he will not remember me every day as I will him.
I will have to move back in with my parents, my father who has Emphazema and my alcoholic, Munchausen’s syndrome mother. I will have no house and no job.
I will displaced from every facet of my daily routine, as he lived together and spent every minute together. I will not be able to watch the shows I did with him because they will remind me of what I lost.
I won’t even be able to cuddle my beloved animals for stress relief as they must all stay here with him and I will never see them again. My pets are like my children so this loss hurts as bad as if we had kids together…
And worst of all, after all the cruel things he’s said to me and what he’s putting me through, I still love him and want nothing more every second of this to crawl into bed beside him and rest my head on his shoulder and breathe him in as I fall asleep listening to MS3TK with him…
He wanted to ‘still be friends’ even after declaring we should end the relationship yesterday but I pushed him away, considering it too painful and resenting him for what he was putting me through. The break up came as a shock to me on my end, I questioned his feelings about me after some odd behaviour in the wake of our latest unrest and he declared he wasn’t attracted to me anymore and couldn’t think of any reason to keep me around. Despite his continued insistence he still loves me but ‘he has to do this’.
There’s nothing worse than being shoved out of a relationship you still want by a person you still love, from your home and into nothingness with no money and nothing familiar to cling to. Please, can someone give me advice how to handle this?
Should I try to mend relations between us to friendly status to make this process easier or is that going to hurt more in the end?
Should I freeze out any and all contact from him before I leave?
Should I be angry?
Should I beg?
This man is the love of my life and I desperately want help from anyone who has gone through this to help ease my pain.
Please.
TL;DR: Still love my boyfriend but he has ended our relationship and I must move out. How to make it stop hurting?

Moridin920
Nov 15, 2007

by FactsAreUseless

quote:

For example, last night we were talking about something and she mentioned her eustachian tubes....and pointed at her neck. I said, 'Darling, you don't have eustachian tubes in your neck, they go from your inner ear to the back of your upper palate'. She got really angry and aggressive with me right away and didn't believe me so I did a Google image search and a very plain diagram came up that showed what I had said. The reality didn't matter for some reason and she said she was sort of pointing at her mandible and I said, they're not there either. She then said that if you push on your neck it'll make them visible is what she was demonstrating. I said I don't think so because they aren't in your neck. We got into a really big fight over it, mostly because she got angry with me over something that she didn't know was correct or not but decided to fight me over anyway. She does this ALL THE TIME and I just want to live a peaceful life with her but I don't want to be constantly bombarded with what is essentially just unreasearched horse poo poo, backed only by aggression and anger.

jfc mate this guy is like my posting but in real life

Antivehicular
Dec 30, 2011


I wanna sing one for the cars
That are right now headed silent down the highway
And it's dark and there is nobody driving And something has got to give

r/relationships: We're broken up now, thankyou all for your help in making this happen.

Nazzadan
Jun 22, 2016



She had an initial post where she was asking for help with her verbally abusive boyfriend but I'm not going to post it because it's super long with no paragraph breaks and no TL;DR because she didn't use the proper Reddiquette!!

Mirthless
Mar 27, 2011

by the sex ghost

Nazzadan posted:

My [31 F] girlfriend doesn't seem to think she ever needs to have any facts to back up anything she says to me [36 M]


Apparently that's not a throwaway and he has a solid 5 other threads about her being stupid/wrong, and his girlfriend was also posting about him and reddit detectives found her account.

Breakup Advice [32F] While Having To Leave Boyfriend [37M]

This guy sounds so loving insufferable and I'm sad his girlfriend is so broken up over him dumping her because boy howdy did she ever dodge a bullet

She was probably talking about some other tube or nerve in the neck and this guy is so literal and robotic that instead of trying to figure out what she was referring to he started shouting "Um, Um, UM, ACTUALLY...!!!" like he was on the loving internet in youtube comments and not interacting with his partner

GB_Sign
Oct 9, 2012

quote:

I said, 'Darling, you don't have eustachian tubes in your neck, they go from your inner ear to the back of your upper palate'.

This guy sounds insufferable as hell. Maybe it is just me, but I can never hear someone say "Darling" without it being interpreted as the most condescending tone imaginable.

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ThePeavstenator
Dec 18, 2012

:burger::burger::burger::burger::burger:

Establish the Buns

:burger::burger::burger::burger::burger:
how many replies were basically "dude its not worth arguing over"? because you can immediately spot the people who've never dealt with narcissists or pathological liars

e:

oh wait 5 posts, nvm that guy's a dumbass

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