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minivanmegafun posted:yep either he's loving Frosty and enjoying hot gay orgies or he doesn't exist period. The OP claims to have met Frosty once, so presumably Frosty existed at one point. There's still a chance of this being some kind of Weekend at Bernie's situation where Ralph has to pretend Frosty hasn't been buried under his floorboards for two years or whatever, though.
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Coworker: What are you going to do while your wife is out of town? DB: I'm gonna *Puts on sunglasses* Keep it Frosty
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 07:19 |
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frosty is drugs imo
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 07:30 |
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Frosty is his stage name, the wife only met him because he was in costume at the time and she didn't recognize him. "Friends from when they used to go to strip clubs together" was just a convenient cover since he was working the pole.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 07:32 |
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My [20F] (now ex) boyfriend [22M] told me he has another significant other out of no wherequote:Wednesday night out of no where, he texts me saying some poo poo like "hey interestingly enough someone came into my life and i honestly didn't know she'd be as significant as she's become. we can still be friends". I was in shock for multiple reasons, first of all I never suspected anything, we were talking about moving and he had just introduced me to all of his family a couple days before and we had just started to get serious, second he's allowing me to still be his friend, and it was through a text? Really?? So I just responded "okay thanks for letting me know" and that was that, the last words I ever exchanged with him This girl is awesome and should get with that Pete dude - "ok thanks for letting me know" when the dumbass breaks up with her by text, and that's it.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 09:36 |
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Meander posted:My [20F] (now ex) boyfriend [22M] told me he has another significant other out of no where His dominatrix who he thought was just tying him up and humiliating him for fun/money made him send the first text.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 09:48 |
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I would text him back just to see what his endgame was or how he expected that to go.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 10:34 |
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Clark Nova posted:Starbucks is a much too sophisticated and refined space to bring children to! A majority of their sugar drinks have a mild coffee flavor! Adulting! An adult safe space, you could say.
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CharlestheHammer posted:I would text him back just to see what his endgame was or how he expected that to go. Jealousy that keeps her in the relationship to prove shes better than the other woman. I saw this happen personally to someone and your opinion of a person can not drop fast enough.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 17:15 |
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Maybe it's a local chain coffee place with an S&M theme, and it was CBT and This Cup's Free Month.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 18:03 |
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I haven't caught up with the thread yet but I really want to link this video about communication, because I see a lot of by posters here that indicates a very warped view of the world. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WqAp-YsCeCs Put it on like a podcast when you're doing something mindless (gaming, drawing, whatever). The host is a former and her terms are very easy to understand. There are a lot of lead-offs for good resources. These two cover a lot of important concepts, like taking responsibility for your meltdowns and talking to your partner about doing the drat dishes. whenever I read Mirthless's posts I think of this picture and whenever I see this picture, Lacrimosa starts playing in my head.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 18:07 |
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Take him back on the condition that he breaks up with the other girl but sever as soon as he does.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:07 |
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My [26m] boyfriend is really into teenagers... I feel there isn't a way of explaining this without sounding stupid or crazy, but it's a genuine issue for me. I've (26f) been dating my (26m) partner for over a year, with its ups and downs as everybody. I've always had a concern in the back of my head, that i've ignored and have only mentioned (the most toxic way) when fighting. I know he's into teenagers, based on facts like he started hitting on his exgirfriend when she was 13 and he was 19. He used to live with his parents and a "cousin". His "cousin" is 17-18 y.o., i met her when she was 15-16 and i always felt something weird between them, i noticed he staring at her more than once. She left about a year ago. Even when looking for porn he searches for "teenagers" (porn is a personal fantasy, it isnt that i judge it, but it does fit into this concept i have of him) it does concern me that as we get older this preference will stay, i dont want to spend much time with someone like that. Yesterday that we met he was acting weird, i asked if there was something i needed to know, after he denied anything i asked about his "cousin" as if i knew something (i didnt) and admitted he had invited her over so she could make peace with his mom, that he hadnt told me because i didnt care about her and it wasnt my business. I do understand he didnt bring it up, as he knows i dont like that relationship between them, but hiding it doesnt make it any better. I'm on a break with him since yesterday, cause this is hands down a reason for me to leave, but i love him. My dad is like that and my grandpa spent time in jail because of molesting kids. I'm not traumatized but i just have no tolerance for anything related to that. I do love him as i said, and i'm aware this topic is something we've never addressed properly, not sure how to do it. He does love me, and apart for these things we've had an incredible relationship. Any advice? //English isn't my first language. TL:DR: my bf likes teenagers, we're both 26, i'm concerned this wont go away as we get older, should i accept it or leave him now for my future's sake? Edit: I forgot to mention, his "cousin" isn't a relative, is the daughter of a maid that abandoned her and his parents took care of.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:26 |
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Boyfriend a pedo
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:37 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:
there it is
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:40 |
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Is it a red flag if my boyfriend is a pedophile? Should we talk it out?
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:41 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:I know he's into teenagers, based on facts like he started hitting on his exgirfriend when she was 13 and he was 19. This lady could fall into a burning pile of red flags and still wonder if she's the one overreacting
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:43 |
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quote:I'm on a break with him since yesterday, cause this is hands down a reason for me to leave, but i love him. My dad is like that and my grandpa spent time in jail because of molesting kids. I'm not traumatized but i just have no tolerance for anything related to that.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:47 |
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I like how she has no tolerance for that kind of thing as if any normal person has tolerance for pedophilia.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:47 |
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Meander posted:My [20F] (now ex) boyfriend [22M] told me he has another significant other out of no where Ha ha this woman rocks
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:47 |
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http://www.movin925.com/2017/01/20/second-date-update-podcast-adam-levine-meet-greet/
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:I like how she has no tolerance for that kind of thing as if any normal person has tolerance for pedophilia. Sometimes you just really have to stand up for the little
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:53 |
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Me [26M] with my [27M] good friend is worried that they are a pedophile. NON ROMANTIC[new] I'm worried a good friend may look at child porn, around 2013 I was at his house using his laptop for something and there was pedo themed files, like the ones you new to avoid back in the days of Kazza and imesh. It weirded me out for a while but Ive never really thought about it since until now because hes recently moved into a friend his GF and her daughter who is 9. TLDR; Worried about a friends girlfriends daughter living with a friend.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:58 |
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Me [20's/F] with my Absentee Father in Law [60's? M] just found out he has been arrested for child molestation. Yeah.Non-Romantic My husbands family is pretty unusual and his father has been absent from his life for about the past 14 years after having a fist fight with him before he left for basic. He sent me a link to a local news page where the first thing I see is my FIL's face and the charges against him. Its incredibly damning. His dad has had some serious health problems recently and almost passed away a few months back which we learned from my MIL (they divorced a long time ago) and it seems at this point their children were taken away from them and all this was discovered. His dads bail was set very high I think, I have never had much reason to look into bail terms but someone has bailed him out. We think that his elder brother convinced his very elderly paternal grandparents to remortgage their house for this purpose. Upon his release from jail his my FIL has started reaching out to my husband, telling him how much he loves and misses him and it is really concerning me. I know he hasn't been convicted but I just feel like I want him to have nothing to do with our future family ever, we are currently trying to get pregnant and this feels terrifying. To make matters worse I actually was sexually abused from the ages of 10-14 and this is right in the age range of the girls he is alledged to have harmed. I'm not 100% sure of what advice I am looking for but just people to talk to about it would be nice. Obviously I don't want to tell anyone in the real world in case he is aquitted and everything is fine but my husband dislikes talking about it intensely which I understand. He is hurt and confused by it because he still loves his dad even though they don't speak. The drama is insane and I have no frame of reference for it since my family is as vanilla as they come. Our wildest moment was when my Grandad drank too much grappa one christmas and ended up hugging the toilet for so long we all had to pee in the garden. Good times. tl;dr: FIL might be a pedo, husband unsure to respond to his father reaching out, I have no idea what to think. Help?
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 19:59 |
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You know what, I'm just going to come right out and say it, and I don't care what anyone thinks -- I don't like pedophiles.
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Modus Pwnens posted:You know what, I'm just going to come right out and say it, and I don't care what anyone thinks -- I don't like pedophiles. Rude.
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Modus Pwnens posted:You know what, I'm just going to come right out and say it, and I don't care what anyone thinks -- I don't like pedophiles. MODS?
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tactlessbastard posted:Sometimes you just really have to stand up for the little There have been a slew of what I consider essentially pro pedophilia articles and I am pretty loving tired of it.
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Should I (24F) go visit my ex (23M) who was sent to prison for child porn?Personal issues Using a throwaway so this isn't associated with my regular account. Two years ago, I met "Rob". I was just in a good place at that time to start a relationship, and we had great chemistry and quickly began dating. Two weeks into our relationship he admitted that he was currently under investigation for having fifteen images of child pornography on his computer. My feelings were so strong at that point that I didn't care--I even testified as a character witness at his trial. He was still sent to prison for four months and I haven't seen him since (after prison he was sent to his home state). In total, our relationship lasted six weeks before he was imprisoned, and even though I visited him in prison I don't really consider that time "dating". We'd still communicate on facebook occasionally and he's expressed interest in wanting to see me again. I'm going on a family vacation soon and I realized I'm going to be in his area. I'm sure it wouldn't be an issue with my family to meet up with him for lunch one day or something. I'm pretty torn, because on the one hand, as a mutual friend stated, just because he made this terrible mistake doesn't mean he doesn't deserve happiness. It's not like he actually solicited a live child. He only had fifteen images of children while he had hundreds of images of regular porn (I don't have an issue with that). He frequented 4chan so that's how he came about them. He was young and stupid. On the other hand...he saw these images and made a conscious decision to not only save them but show them to someone else, which is how he was caught. And when he finally described them to me they sounded so horrific. These weren't pictures of posing 15 year olds, these girls were as young as 2 or 3 and clearly drugged. It's not that I want to start up a relationship but I'm pretty sentimental and I like the idea of seeing where he's at with his life right now. What do you think? TL;DR: Dated a guy who went to prison for child porn. Still on good terms. Should I visit him when I'm in his area? EDIT/UPDATE: I've decided not to see him. Not only because of his criminal past, but because I don't want him to think I want to start a romantic relationship with him, and I'm afraid he may get that idea. I actually don't want to have any kind of sustained communication with him; I'm just interested in how he's doing now, and I guess to be honest it also felt a little weird to know that I'm going to be where he lives and I might not try to see him (propriety and all). But I know this isn't fair to him, to potentially inadvertently imply that we could get back together, when really that isn't the case at all. Thanks for your help everybody.
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When Should I (28F) Tell the Guy (32M) I'm Dating That my Brother is a Convicted Pedophile?Dating Throwaway account because, well, do I need to explain? First, some history on my brother. He was convicted of viewing and downloading child porn 5 years ago in 2012. He served 6 months in prison, got out for a month and then was re-arrested because he groped a poor 13 year old (and got caught thank God). He came out 6 months later and, as far as the family knows, hasn't reoffended. However, my dad and I have recently discovered that he does secretly watch Dance Moms on TV. Let's put it this way, he's hasn't shown a previous interest in dance or reality drama. Now for me. I've been dating this really great guy for about 3 months now. I'm totally digging on him, he's great, want to keep seeing him. My issue is that my instinct is that having a pedo for a brother is something I should reveal sooner rather than later, but I'm also wondering if it's necessary at this point. I mean, I'm pretty sure my guy likes me back, but it has only been 3 months. I guess I'm just super wary of getting further down the road with him, like a year's time when we're more serious, and when I do tell him he's upset I didn't let him know sooner. So, good people of reddit, I ask if it were you, would you want to know such a thing so soon? Or would you be happy if you were only told when things got more serious in the relationship? tl;dr - brother is convicted pedo who still has tendencies towards ogling young girls; do I tell the guy I've been dating for 3 months yet?
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 20:08 |
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quote:Two weeks into our relationship he admitted that he was currently under investigation for having fifteen images of child pornography on his computer.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 20:08 |
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who the hell are these women bunch of clowns
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54 40 or gently caress posted:Lmao why is it childfree people write so goddamn insufferably.
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Ride The Gravitron posted:When Should I (28F) Tell the Guy (32M) I'm Dating That my Brother is a Convicted Pedophile?Dating I don't think she should tell him until they're a little more serious than this but he should definitely know way ahead of any commitments. She should also consider how willing she is to let a family member manage her brother out of her life. Usually it's a pretty lovely thing to have a partner cut people out of your life that that they don't like, but I think it's fair to give them that pass when your family member is a convicted sexual predator still indulging in his fantasies. If she thinks she might have a future with this guy with kids involved, she really needs to be cutting off contact with her brother all on her own. I mean it sounds like this guy is doomed to be a serial offender, he has no willpower and has already been jailed more than once for it, the old touchy uncle trope exists for a reason and it would be pretty irresponsible of this lady to let her familial obligation to her brother trump the safety of her children or the health of her own romantic relationships Mirthless fucked around with this message at 20:19 on Jan 22, 2017 |
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quote:My [24F] boyfriend [25M] of a year has been secretly getting rid of all of his body hair for the entire duration of our relationship.
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Zzulu posted:MODS? It was just the one, I think.
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 20:32 |
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Hairy dudes are gross, she should totally ask him to keep shaving it all off
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# ? Jan 22, 2017 20:33 |
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My [19 F] Aunt [50s F]'s new boyfriend [50s M] is a convicted felon and pedophile, and she's bringing him to my family's Easter dinner.Non-Romantic Sorry if I make any errors, I'm writing this from my phone. And I'm sorry if this post is lengthy My aunt has always been sort of desperate for a boyfriend/to get married. Her last husband was controlling and would throw away her makeup and any clothes he thought were too "revealing". He would accuse her of cheating on him all the time, and once even accused her of cheating on him with her own sister!! He was also racist (one time, a black man told her that her tag was sticking out of her shirt, and later, her husband told her to "stop flirting with n****rs"). He also made weird sexually suggestive comments to my mom and I (and I was 12 at the time). But I digress... Now, a few months ago, she met a guy on Zoosk and they started a relationship. My mom decided to Google his name, and we were shocked at what we found. The man my aunt is dating is a convicted felon. In 2007, he put letters in several of his neighbors' mailboxes. The letters described how he would sexually abuse and kill their children. The letters said things like: "I think I will catch me one and drag him to the woods and play with him." He also photographed the children. My mom sent this info to my aunt, but my aunt brushed it off and says he has changed. We also sent this to our other family members, including some with kids so they would know to keep them away from him. Everyone in the family seemed to hate this guy, or so I thought. Tomorrow, my family is having an Easter party. I was going to come, and I had no idea that this guy is coming, too. But today, my mom told me that the guy is indeed coming to the party. My 3 very young cousins (all boys, and the guy likes boys...) will also be there, which REALLY scares me. Apparently the parents of my little cousins are okay with him being there. My grandma, who previously hated the guy, is also going to the party and says she has just "given up". My uncle really wants my mom and I to come to the party. So, he lied to my mom and told her that I knew he would be there and that I was okay with it and I'm going to the party anyway. This is complete BS because I had no idea the guy would be there until my mom told me, and I'm definitely NOT okay with it. So my mom and I decided we won't go to the party. I'm never going to go to any family event that he shows up to. I'm scared for my little cousins and I wish my family (mostly my aunt) would wake up and realize that this is a dangerous situation. I wish this guy didn't even exist. Is there anything I can do? TL;DR: Aunt is dating convicted felon and pedophile, and is bringing him to our Easter party, where my 3 little cousins will be. What do?
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Hi can we please not post those stories. They aren't depressing they're just totally disgusting and it means there are real children being exploited and that isn't fun or funny to read about
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