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Hahahaha oh loving man, letter from social services has me scheduled for my 1 year psych evaluation for how mentally stable I am and they loving booked it in valentine's day
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Hey, valentine's day is both the day I plan on leaving, and my fiancee's birthday and our anniversary day. I feel ya.
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Feb 6, 2017 06:05
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Metal Geir Skogul posted:Hey, valentine's day is both the day I plan on leaving, and my fiancee's birthday and our anniversary day. I feel ya. Hat trick!
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Feb 6, 2017 06:09
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14 BAR RIFF posted:Hahahaha oh loving man, letter from social services has me scheduled for my 1 year psych evaluation for how mentally stable I am and they loving booked it in valentine's day Just don't read the "You were doing this 5 years ago..." stuff on facebook and you'll be alright.
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Feb 6, 2017 06:50
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Metal Geir Skogul posted:Hey, valentine's day is both the day I plan on leaving, and my fiancee's birthday and our anniversary day. I feel ya. Pretty sure that was a plot point in an episode of 'How I Met your Mother'
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14 BAR RIFF posted:rosie pls stop And if thou gaze long into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee. Eh, she just wants a cuddle. (maybe) 
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Feb 6, 2017 11:43
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maybe you were just slipping into the mindset of Rosie dude
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Feb 6, 2017 14:54
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Metal Geir Skogul posted:Hey, valentine's day is both the day I plan on leaving, and my fiancee's birthday and our anniversary day. I feel ya. Oh my god why would you not break it off sooner?
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Metal Geir Skogul posted:Hey, valentine's day is both the day I plan on leaving, and my fiancee's birthday and our anniversary day. I feel ya.  That might be a little... much.
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Feb 6, 2017 20:49
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therobit posted:Oh my god why would you not break it off sooner? No place to stay
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Metal Geir Skogul posted:No place to stay Holy poo poo, that's rough. Best of luck to you and the fiancee in your soon to be separate lives. But...have you considered letting your fiancee know with a note in a ring sized box from a jewelry store? I mean, everything else lines up, may as well make the break as clean as you can.
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Feb 6, 2017 21:35
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Metal Geir Skogul posted:No place to stay You own a home on wheels!
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everdave posted:You own a home on wheels! Seriously, consider this before you break up with your fiancee on your anniversary, her birthday, and Valentines Day. This thread is supposed to be a cautionary tale, not an instruction manual 
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Didn't mean to completely derail 14's thread. Was drunk and forgot which thread I was posting in. I could do the "move my poo poo into a storage unit, sleep in the bus in a gym parking lot (preferably next to a laundromat)" plan, but this next upcoming weekend is drill, so I don't have the time to move then. We plan on being out by the 20th, but was kind of planning on doing it sooner. I have major dental work being done the morning of the 13th, or I might have done it then. I work through starting tomorrow until then, too. Almost think it would be worse waiting until the 18-19th weekend. Celebrate, then bounce a few days later?
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Feb 6, 2017 23:24
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Metal Geir Skogul posted:Hey, valentine's day is both the day I plan on leaving, and my fiancee's birthday and our anniversary day. I feel ya. Christ, that is brutal.
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Rude Dude With Tude posted:Christ, that is brutal.
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Metal Geir Skogul posted:Almost think it would be worse waiting until the 18-19th weekend. Celebrate, then bounce a few days later? I think that this would be a more humane way to do it. Otherwise you may look like an rear end in a top hat to any mutual acquaintances.
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Yeah there's a difference between "no good time" and "ultimate combo shithouse worse possible time"
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Roger. Waiting. Every day until then sucks for me, but on the flip side, I'm looking forward to a sweet escape. Kinda the opposite for her, so I'll deal.
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Feb 7, 2017 00:10
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Metal Geir Single and ready to fuuuuuuuuuck
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cakesmith handyman posted:Yeah there's a difference between "no good time" and "ultimate combo shithouse worse possible time"
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Metal Geir Skogul posted:Roger. Waiting. Alternatively, gently caress up big time so she kicks you out on Valentines day and you won't have to feel bad or look like an rear end in a top hat.
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You mean, tell her I cheated? I don't want to get shot, but that's the only thing that would get her to kick me out
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No, see, that makes you an rear end in a top hat, and honestly, you shouldn't feel guilty about what you did or that it was cheating. I have zero respect for cheats, but I agree with the others who say you aren't in a romantic relationship with this woman, you're the caregiver. IMO, there's nothing to break off because it sounds like it was over long ago and you didn't realize it until you met someone better. I know you've said you don't feel guilt over it, but you obviously do. I'm suggesting something like, full scale decluttering of the house.
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Fermented Tinal posted:No, see, that makes you an rear end in a top hat, and honestly, you shouldn't feel guilty about what you did or that it was cheating. Fermented Tinal posted:I'm suggesting something like, full scale decluttering of the house.
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My wife's first serious boyfriend broke up with her the day after her 21st birthday - pretending like all was fine that night. Waiting is probably the harshest and most jarring way to break up. If you're not in the relationship any more why would you pretend to be?
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It sucks, and throws your life into turmoil, but honestly, rip the band aid off. E: Then again, my advice is probably terrible. My last relationship ended because of cheating (wasn't me) and that's why my left hand and I are considering marriage. Fermented Tinal fucked around with this message at 03:03 on Feb 7, 2017 |
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Nah I think you guys are right. It's fundamentally dishonest and actually pretty hosed up to pretend you're still in love with someone when you really aren't. Kiss them when they come home? gently caress them at night? Or even just say the words and go through the motions? No doubt having to sort out sleeping arrangements will be awkward and maybe you'll have to leave immediately, but that's probably still less hosed than being grossly dishonest for days or weeks just to find a day that is more convenient for you.
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14 BAR RIFF posted:I was under the impression if a door is unlocked it's legally identical to an invitation Vampire rules!!
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Mat_Drinks posted:Vampire rules!! Turns out vampires don't have to be invited in to gain entry. It's just that early Dracula was classy and Victorian as gently caress. Leperflesh posted:Nah I think you guys are right. It's fundamentally dishonest and actually pretty hosed up to pretend you're still in love with someone when you really aren't. Kiss them when they come home? gently caress them at night? Or even just say the words and go through the motions? No doubt having to sort out sleeping arrangements will be awkward and maybe you'll have to leave immediately, but that's probably still less hosed than being grossly dishonest for days or weeks just to find a day that is more convenient for you. Agree everdave posted:You do what's best for you man InitialDave posted:Wellll... I mean, fair enough, we've all banged someone we probably shouldn't have, but there is a line, and while I'm fully prepared to support MGS in this scenario, he did cross it. Also agree, on all three counts. Anyway, I'll stop the derail of...creepy night photos? But thanks, and good information. Gives perspective.
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So not a lot to report it's cold it's wet I have wheels and loving hell I need a job I'm going stir crazy
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Wait I remembered two thinge Rosie loving hates the pig from the closet and I finally got the hang nail spur that started bothering me A YEAR AND A HALF AGO
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14 BAR RIFF posted:So not a lot to report it's cold it's wet I have wheels and loving hell I need a job I'm going stir crazy We have to help find you a job that meshes with your unique talents. What about working in a Library?
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Wow, what the hell's going in on the Neitherworld, can't afford to hand out copies anymore?
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Fermented Tinal posted:Wow, what the hell's going in on the Neitherworld, can't afford to hand out copies anymore? Free market bithc
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I forgot to post the rest of today's pictures and my wise and responsible investments with the tail ends of my dwindling finances. StartING with a more effective cup holder than the factory ones. I felt this was a good price for a like new condition mini mag.     Bought this  Nearly bought these    Bought some new pants  
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