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Pick posted:That strikes me as incredibly sad because apparently it's fairly common for divorced or widowed dads to turn to their daughters for sexual purposes.
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Read a book sometime about sexual abuse in America and be prepared to be extremely sad.
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Pick posted:Read a book sometime about sexual abuse in America and be prepared to be extremely sad. Imma sit that one out and just keep assuming the other dads aren't bad
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Feb 9, 2017 23:14
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MinionOfCthulhu posted:He never did post an update. Pretty sure dude was too mentally shattered after she cheated on her. In their own house. With her dad.  That post hits new lows in disgusting scumbaggery. Man, it's so messed up.
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Feb 9, 2017 23:14
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I feel like the total lack of updates usually means it's a fakepost and I'm just gonna keep hoping that in this case.
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Feb 9, 2017 23:17
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Haha ITT: men refuse to believe basic fact presented by a woman about sexual abuse, choose to continue pretending it's not an issue because it would upset them, and will probably shortly demand a study that meets their rigorous standards of not making them have to think about bad things.
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Feb 9, 2017 23:18
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Careful guys we don't want to slut shame her for sleeping with her Dad because then that one guy is going to come in here and try to convince us that we are all bad for not being into polyamory or something.
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Feb 9, 2017 23:19
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Leon Einstein posted:I hope your definition of "fairly common" is different than mine. not in North Florida 
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Feb 9, 2017 23:20
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Pick posted:Read a book sometime about sexual abuse in America and be prepared to be extremely sad. I think I would prefer not to tbqh
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Tolkien minority posted:I think I would prefer not to tbqh Well, you wouldn't.
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It's really sad and also kind of funny but mostly sad that multiple people in this thread refuse to believe the story because it invalidates their world view that dads sexually abusing their daughters just doesn't happen.
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Feb 9, 2017 23:25
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Fullhouse posted:not in North Florida 
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Fullhouse posted:not in North Florida I for one eagerly await the day Florida is submerged
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Uh, I believe that happens but I think the dude who never followed up on an obviously hot topic, crossposted the OP in a couple different forums (and abandoned the thread each time), then joked about it when trying to buy earbuds might not have been entirely genuine in the first post.
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:It's really sad and also kind of funny but mostly sad that multiple people in this thread refuse to believe the story because it invalidates their world view that dads sexually abusing their daughters just doesn't happen. I find it kind of funny, I find it kind of sad. The dad in which I'm banging is the best I've ever had. Leon Einstein fucked around with this message at 23:32 on Feb 9, 2017 |
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Feb 9, 2017 23:30
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Tiny Deer posted:Haha ITT: men refuse to believe basic fact presented by a woman about sexual abuse, choose to continue pretending it's not an issue because it would upset them, and will probably shortly demand a study that meets their rigorous standards of not making them have to think about bad things. Seriously. I bet she'd been abused as a kid as well
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Tiny Deer posted:Haha ITT: men refuse to believe basic fact presented by a woman about sexual abuse, choose to continue pretending it's not an issue because it would upset them, and will probably shortly demand a study that meets their rigorous standards of not making them have to think about bad things. Man, what? Basic fact? I think that was probably not covered in middle school social studies for most of us
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:It's really sad and also kind of funny but mostly sad that multiple people in this thread refuse to believe the story because it invalidates their world view that dads sexually abusing their daughters just doesn't happen. Yea that's not what's going on in this thread
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Feb 9, 2017 23:33
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quote:Me [30F] with my bf [30M] - I hate his hair!
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Tiny Deer posted:Haha ITT: men refuse to believe basic fact presented by a woman about sexual abuse, choose to continue pretending it's not an issue because it would upset them, and will probably shortly demand a study that meets their rigorous standards of not making them have to think about bad things. tbf there was no basic fact presented other than 'this happens a lot.' Like post the % at least I'm not gonna disbelieve it on face value and also I'm not filling my work search history with 'incest' 'daughter' 'father' keywords lol. I mean I buy it, I just wanna know what 'fairly common' means. 20%? 30%? Surely not more than 50%???
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Feb 9, 2017 23:38
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I assume he had the bad hair when they started dating, so clearly it's not that big a dealbreaker for her. I assume some of her friends brought it up or something and now she feels weird about it. Moridin920 posted:I mean I buy it, I just wanna know what 'fairly common' means. 20%? 30%? Surely not more than 50%???
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Feb 9, 2017 23:39
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Wanna see that guys hair
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Tiny Deer posted:Haha ITT: men refuse to believe basic fact presented by a woman about sexual abuse, choose to continue pretending it's not an issue because it would upset them, and will probably shortly demand a study that meets their rigorous standards of not making them have to think about bad things. welcome to the thread, person who has somehow missed hundreds of pages of people refusing to believe various stories/details thereof
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oh good god if you're gonna do something crazy with your hair at least keep it clean you gross dude Moridin920 posted:tbf there was no basic fact presented other than 'this happens a lot.' Like post the % at least I'm not gonna disbelieve it on face value and also I'm not filling my work search history with 'incest' 'daughter' 'father' keywords lol. I don't have studies immediately on hand to back this up but the majority of sexual abuse is committed by family members of the victims and very often the perpetrator is not a "pedophile", in the sense that they are not primarily attracted to children. Drugs and/or alcohol are often (usually?) involved (hence the billboard) It's an unfortunate fact, but it's the dad a lot of the time. Mirthless fucked around with this message at 23:50 on Feb 9, 2017 |
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Feb 9, 2017 23:46
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subhuman filth posted:Man, what? Basic fact? I think that was probably not covered in middle school social studies for most of us Moridin920 posted:tbf there was no basic fact presented other than 'this happens a lot.' Like post the % at least I'm not gonna disbelieve it on face value and also I'm not filling my work search history with 'incest' 'daughter' 'father' keywords lol. TheScott2K posted:Yea that's not what's going on in this thread Goddamn it.
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Feb 9, 2017 23:47
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rape dad so what?
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Tolkien minority posted:Wanna see that guys hair It's a deathhawk
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Tiny Deer posted:Goddamn it. Lol, not saying you're wrong but surely you can see how a claim like "it's pretty common for divorced dads to gently caress their daughters" might raise some eyebrows
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subhuman filth posted:Lol, not saying you're wrong but surely you can see how a claim like "it's pretty common for divorced dads to gently caress their daughters" might raise some eyebrows I'm pretty sure the claim was "It's pretty common for dads to be the perpetrators of the sexual abuse of their daughters" and that is not an incorrect claim
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Tiny Deer posted:Goddamn it. link me to the version of the thread you're seeing, i can only see the version where what you're upset about isn't remotely surprising
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much more common than it Should be, anyway (that being absolutely never)
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Mirthless posted:I'm pretty sure the claim was "It's pretty common for dads to be the perpetrators of the sexual abuse of their daughters" and that is not an incorrect claim aye
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Here since you guys want some numbers: https://www.dosomething.org/us/facts/11-facts-about-child-abuse prepare to barf fuckos quote:1 out of 3 girls and 1 out of 5 boys will be sexually abused before they reach age 18. quote:90% of child sexual abuse victims know the perpetrator in some way. 68% are abused by a family member. quote:In 2012, 82.2% of child abuse perpetrators were found to be between the ages of 18-44, of which 39.6% were recorded to be between the ages of 25-34. if we're conservative, probably 10% or more of women have been sexually abused by their dad
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That haircut sounds stupid, but "doesn't shampoo/wash out his gel" is the real killer there. Can you imagine how that dude's hair must feel to touch?
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This "is the thread reacting with the appropriate solemnity to the reality of sexual abuse?" derail sure is so much more fun than mocking the idiots posting about their dumb problems on Reddit.
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Mirthless posted:I'm pretty sure the claim was "It's pretty common for dads to be the perpetrators of the sexual abuse of their daughters" and that is not an incorrect claim The way I read it is that "it is common for a divorcee/widower to turn to their daughter for sex purposes," as opposed to your reading which is "when a girl is sexually abused, it is commonly the dad." quote:That strikes me as incredibly sad because apparently it's fairly common for divorced or widowed dads to turn to their daughters for sexual purposes. Dunno which was meant ofc but one is a bit worse than the other. Like if you said 20% of sexually abused girls were abused by their dad, that's a much smaller number of rape dads as compared to 20% of divorced/widowed dads try to gently caress their daughter. (USER WAS PUT ON PROBATION FOR THIS POST)
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Mirthless posted:I'm pretty sure the claim was "It's pretty common for dads to be the perpetrators of the sexual abuse of their daughters" and that is not an incorrect claim No. That's not the argument. subhuman filth posted:Lol, not saying you're wrong but surely you can see how a claim like "it's pretty common for divorced dads to gently caress their daughters" might raise some eyebrows
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Moridin920 posted:The way I read it is that "it is common for a divorcee/widower to turn to their daughter for sex purposes," as opposed to your reading which is "when a girl is sexually abused, it is commonly the dad." Mirthless posted:if we're conservative, probably 10% or more of women have been sexually abused by their dad
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Antivehicular posted:That haircut sounds stupid, but "doesn't shampoo/wash out his gel" is the real killer there. Can you imagine how that dude's hair must feel to touch? Yeah I agree. If you break up with someone over a haircut you're kind of a douche but if it's for bad hygiene that's an entirely different story
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Mirthless posted:I'm pretty sure the claim was "It's pretty common for dads to be the perpetrators of the sexual abuse of their daughters" and that is not an incorrect claim No you loving dumbshit that was literally not the claim at all
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