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ArbitraryC posted:I wasn't snooping I just wanted to see who was messaging him and the gist of what the message said. Like lol at the problem and your awful parent but just be honest with yourself. You even found something so it doesn't even look bad. she clearly reads the sub cause you have to make these kind of disclaimers or Reddit will absolutely gloss right over the hot hot mom-boyfriend gently caress triangle to poo poo all over you for snooping
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ArbitraryC posted:I wasn't snooping I just wanted to see who was messaging him and the gist of what the message said. Like lol at the problem and your awful parent but just be honest with yourself. You even found something so it doesn't even look bad. lol every loving time
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:Diet incest: for when you want all the disgustingness without the depressingness That's really sad.
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ArbitraryC posted:I wasn't snooping I just wanted to see who was messaging him and the gist of what the message said. Like lol at the problem and your awful parent but just be honest with yourself. You even found something so it doesn't even look bad. my wife and I pick up each other's phones to see who's texting all the time.  that way we can be all "Hey, [x] just texted you [y], [z]?"
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Feb 10, 2017 21:23
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It is, way to mega gently caress over the person you said you loved dipshit.
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Feb 10, 2017 21:23
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ArbitraryC posted:I wasn't snooping I just wanted to see who was messaging him and the gist of what the message said. Like lol at the problem and your awful parent but just be honest with yourself. You even found something so it doesn't even look bad. I open my wife's phone when she gets a text so can tell her who is texting her. I certainly wouldn't consider it snooping, nor would she.
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Mirthless posted:my wife and I pick up each other's phones to see who's texting all the time. 
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Feb 10, 2017 21:24
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Feb 10, 2017 21:24
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:she clearly reads the sub cause you have to make these kind of disclaimers or Reddit will absolutely gloss right over the hot hot illicit mom-boyfriend triangle to poo poo all over you for snooping
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Feb 10, 2017 21:25
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A girl can dump your cheating rear end and forget about you, could dump a friend since most don't stick around for ages anyway, but fuuuuck you for burning her relationship with family to the ground
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Feb 10, 2017 21:25
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ArbitraryC posted:I just think it's funny, 'oh yeah I just picked up his phone while he was out of the room to see who was messaging him and why but i wasn't doing anything uncouth this is just normal behavior right?" It ended up paying off this time no point in being ashamed about it. it is tho plenty of couples share each other's phone passwords to answer phones and receive texts she clearly had his pin code for a reason, lol Psycho Society posted:A girl can dump your cheating rear end and forget about you, could dump a friend since most don't stick around for ages anyway, but fuuuuck you for burning her relationship with family to the ground don't put all the blame on him, her mom knew what she was loving doing
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Feb 10, 2017 21:26
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unfortunately the update for that one deals exclusively with the logistics of avoiding the boyfriend, and barely makes any mention of the loving mom this week in: help reddit I married a dog I [f 22] went on vacation, my husband [m 26] destroyed the house, am I overreacting? quote:I went on vacation for three weeks. When I came back, the house was a disaster. It's so bad that I worry that my neighbors are gonna call the landlord if they look into the window.
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Are all of you forgetting that she was only "digging for dirt" because she saw a lock screen notification of her mom talking to her boyfriend about his boner?
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Feb 10, 2017 21:28
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Feb 10, 2017 21:29
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I dunno sometimes when I text my bud something it's private and i don't necessarily want their so to be up in my business. I've read texts/texted back on my gf's phone plenty of times but it's only after she's asked me to and that just seems like pretty normal boundaries to me.
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There's a difference between what most of you are describing, which is "hey your phone buzzed, X texted you!" and "lemme just check out who he's chatting with while he is in the other room..." The difference namely is if you plan on telling your partner that you were on their phone or not. In the first case, you tell them obv. In the second, if you find nothing you just place the phone back and go about your day not saying anything. Might be okay if you've been together for years but if it was why don't you tell them what you're doing? Mak0rz posted:Are all of you forgetting that she was only "digging for dirt" because she saw a lock screen notification of her mom talking to her boyfriend about his boner? But yeah lol. A Wizard of Goatse posted:she clearly reads the sub cause you have to make these kind of disclaimers or Reddit will absolutely gloss right over the hot hot mom-boyfriend gently caress triangle to poo poo all over you for snooping also that
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Feb 10, 2017 21:30
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Maybe call them if you're worried about privacy. You don't get to dictate their phone etiquette.
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Look all I know is I've had gf's wait until I was separated from my phone, snoop through it, then challenge me if they happened to find something "suspicious" - and odds are if she is paranoid enough to be checking my phone out unbeknownst to me she's gonna be prone to misinterpreting stuff like my sister telling me she loves me with a 'WHO THE gently caress IS THIS BITCH?' poo poo sucks and is super lame and childish. That said if I saw the text alert and it was suspicious on its own that's like some probable cause. Not every situation is the same.
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Feb 10, 2017 21:33
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Moridin920 posted:There's a difference between what most of you are describing, which is "hey your phone buzzed, X texted you!" and "lemme just check out who he's chatting with while he is in the other room..."
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Feb 10, 2017 21:34
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ArbitraryC posted:I dunno to me this is like the post a couple days back where the guy was always asking his gf who was texting her/who she was talking to, it just seems kind of invasive and nosy to me. It's my phone I'll check it when I get back in the room I don't need an announcement. I'd consider it kind of invasive/nosy but that kind of thing really just depends. If Mirthless + his wife have been together for years and that's their norm then that's fine for them. Also depends on if she asked after every single buzz or if it was like "hey you've been texting furiously all night, who ya talking to?" e: Usually if my GF's phone buzzes I leave it alone unless she asks me to grab it or check it for her.
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ArbitraryC posted:I dunno sometimes when I text my bud something it's private and i don't necessarily want their so to be up in my business. I've read texts/texted back on my gf's phone plenty of times but it's only after she's asked me to and that just seems like pretty normal boundaries to me. You can also set your messages (at least on an iPhone) so the message itself doesn't display on the lock screen if you don't want just anyone to read your messages. But yeah, can we not act like she was snooping at all? She looked at his phone to see what the notification was (again, this is fine/normal for many couples) saw it was her mom and then saw it was her mom sexting her boyfriend. Her snooping afterwards is entirely warranted and fair.
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Anyone who snoops through my phone is going to be treated to conversations w/ literally dozens of people about my cat's feelings, and reciprocal communications about the emotional welfare of their respective cats
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nvm I quoted the wrong post or something
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ArbitraryC posted:I dunno to me this is like the post a couple days back where the guy was always asking his gf who was texting her/who she was talking to, it just seems kind of invasive and nosy to me. It's my phone I'll check it when I get back in the room I don't need an announcement. I don't think anyone here is asking what you do with your phone
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Sometimes sidebar conversations happen and that's fine.
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Feb 10, 2017 21:37
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There's not really much to say about "my boyfriend is cheating on me with my mom".
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Moridin920 posted:Look all I know is I've had gf's wait until I was separated from my phone, snoop through it, then challenge me if they happened to find something "suspicious" - and odds are if she is paranoid enough to be checking my phone out unbeknownst to me she's gonna be prone to misinterpreting stuff like my sister telling me she loves me with a 'WHO THE gently caress IS THIS BITCH?' basically. it indicates a baseline level of trust where it doesn't really matter if one of you's cheating anymore, all it can do is decide which party is vindicated in ending it Pick posted:Anyone who snoops through my phone is going to be treated to conversations w/ literally dozens of people about my cat's feelings, and reciprocal communications about the emotional welfare of their respective cats well poo poo now I'm tempted
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E: F, B I'll just quote this cause I hate people complaining about derails. Moridin920 posted:Sometimes sidebar conversations happen and that's fine. It's the point of the thread to discuss the topics that these stories are about. Deal with it. WampaLord fucked around with this message at 21:46 on Feb 10, 2017 |
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I get mad at a gf once for sending snap selfies when she was taking a dump. I'm that jealous
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:well poo poo now I'm tempted "hey Pick, im at the petstore... which color cat hat should i buy for Mr Whiskies? the blue or the green? i want to get one or two incredibly cute photos before he tears it off and runs under the couch and i have to cajole him out with strips of costco rotisserie chicken which i intended to eat myself, but let's be real, he's gonna get like cumulatively 60% of this chicken" "green and text me when you take a photo!!! here's a photo of my cat laying around and not really doing anything!! *  *""awwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!"
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Pick posted:Anyone who snoops through my phone is going to be treated to conversations w/ literally dozens of people about my cat's feelings, and reciprocal communications about the emotional welfare of their respective cats Is this a mailing list anyone can get on, or what
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Also ima venture a guess but if his gf's mom is regularly sexting him then i'm guessing their relationship is not one where "picking up your SO's phone to read and/or reply to their message notifications" is an established and accepted boundary.
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ArbitraryC posted:Also ima venture a guess but if his gf's mom is regularly sexting him then i'm guessing their relationship is not one where "picking up your SO's phone to read and/or reply to their message notifications" is an established and accepted boundary. once you start loving your girlfriend's mom you don't exactly get to take the high road re: "crossing boundaries"
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Pick posted:once you start loving your girlfriend's mom you don't exactly get to take the high road re: "crossing boundaries" Yeah and that's why I said from the very beginning "You even found something so it doesn't even look bad." That's kinda how this stuff works, if you're right you're right and if you're wrong you're wrong.
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Ugh can someone post a new one instead of this conversation, I can't I only go on reddit to look at pictures of cute girls
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Pick posted:btw this game is called "sweet pool" and you should read this review gently caress you!!! Gaunab posted:Op. Sounds. Adorable. Seriously. 5'2" 85 pounds (miniscule, probably the size of the average sixth grader), wears a little beanie with cat ears, and is completely and totally naive to the workings of the world. One thing she is right about though, the girls at work do hate her for exactly the reason she suspects. ArbitraryC posted:Yeah and that's why I said from the very beginning "You even found something so it doesn't even look bad." That's kinda how this stuff works, if you're right you're right and if you're wrong you're wrong. There's some truth to this, and if I had sunk to the point of needing to snoop on my girlfriend's phone I would essentially consider the relationship over at that point, the only purpose being to gather ammunition for the final showdown. Play fucked around with this message at 22:08 on Feb 10, 2017 |
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boner confessor posted:yeah declawing isn't just trimming the nails, it's completely removing the nails. look at your fingers and think about what you would have to do to permanently remove your fingernals and never trim them again terrible comparison. They don't remove the nails. They remove the bone all the way to the first joint which causes nerve damage and increases chances of other complications. here have a visual 
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Psycho Society posted:Ugh can someone post a new one instead of this conversation, I can't I only go on reddit to look at pictures of cute girls My [27m] girlfriend [26f] is an Extreme Couponer and it's driving me up the wall. Help! quote:I don't even know how to begin describing my problem so I'll give a little backstory. My girlfriend Jodie and I met in college, and we got serious so we moved in together after graduation. I really love her, she's smart and funny and beautiful and practical. She had a tough time growing up because her family was living below the poverty line, so she's extremely frugal and careful with her money. This is a blessing for me because my ex-girlfriend (the one before her) spent money like it was going to rot. Jodie takes care of our finances and keeps me up to date on what's going on and how we're doing.
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