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Mirthless posted:"Don't be completely gobsmacked by it when things blow up" I think the dude is entitled to think that the reaction wouldn't be "jerk off to anime porn with door open." Hard to not be blindsided by that, unless you're Mirthless apparently. "Oh yea, I pegged this dude as an open door hentai jerker from day 1" Mirthless posted:Oh hey yeah I missed that I'm gonna save this to quote at you.
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WampaLord posted:I think the dude is entitled to think that the reaction wouldn't be "jerk off to anime porn with door open." if that was the only thing he was shocked about it in that giant wall of text post you might have a point
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gently caress off, that guy can date who he wants and it's the roommates problem to be an adult and deal with it like someone who isn't a giant manchild. What about the girl? Oh sorry, I like you and you like me but I can't hurt my loser roommates feelings, even though you've made it clear to him that you two aren't going to happen, sorry
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Mirthless posted:"Don't be completely gobsmacked by it when things blow up" I don't understand what other form that readiness takes. He was coping pretty well as things escalated, and now he's reached his threshold. It is bizarre bordering on adorable how much you want to push responsibility for this onto the aggrieved, more-than-accommodating party.
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Feb 12, 2017 17:32
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Subjunctive posted:So what would you do? Not date the person because you can't predict the reaction of your roommate? That's a lot of power to give your roommate over you, on the strength of his maladjustment. Oh no, I'd date her. I don't mean it's OP's responsibility at all. I'm just saying I think I'd expect a pretty negative reaction out of someone I described the way OP described his roommate although I'm not sure I'd expect the open-door-hentai thing. Psycho Society posted:lol if you think even even a small portion of guys would ask their friend's permission to date a girl they both know. Cultivating creepy little possessive crushes on your friends is not something adults should do. I didn't mean it as "Do I have your blessing?" or anything.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:gently caress off, that guy can date who he wants and it's the roommates problem to be an adult and deal with it like someone who isn't a giant manchild. What about the girl? Oh sorry, I like you and you like me but I can't hurt my loser roommates feelings, even though you've made it clear to him that you two aren't going to happen, sorry I agree w/ this
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Subjunctive posted:I don't understand what other form that readiness takes. He was coping pretty well as things escalated, and now he's reached his threshold. I... didn't...??? I was commenting on a situation, I wasn't assigning blame. I'm just saying "this living situation detonating is not entirely surprising".
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Oh no, I'd date her. I don't mean it's OP's responsibility at all. I'm just saying I think I'd expect a pretty negative reaction out of someone I described the way OP described his roommate although I'm not sure I'd expect the open-door-hentai thing. Yeah mentioning it at least is a good idea for sure
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Mirthless posted:I... didn't...??? You were kind of blaming the victim.
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WampaLord posted:You were kind of blaming the victim. No, you took it that way. I put disclaimers in both of the posts where I thought I might be interpreted that way to prevent this very thing from happening, lol
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Mirthless posted:No, you took it that way. You can't just say "by the way I'm not blaming the victim" you have to also not say poo poo like "Well he should have predicted this."
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54 40 or gently caress posted:gently caress off, that guy can date who he wants and it's the roommates problem to be an adult and deal with it like someone who isn't a giant manchild. What about the girl? Oh sorry, I like you and you like me but I can't hurt my loser roommates feelings, even though you've made it clear to him that you two aren't going to happen, sorry This. The roommate can also be dealing with completely unrelated poo poo since it has been 6 months. Doesn't excuse his behavior but could be unrelated to the relationship given what was posted unless I missed something.
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54 40 or gently caress posted:gently caress off, that guy can date who he wants and it's the roommates problem to be an adult and deal with it like someone who isn't a giant manchild. What about the girl? Oh sorry, I like you and you like me but I can't hurt my loser roommates feelings, even though you've made it clear to him that you two aren't going to happen, sorry Yeah it's not the guy's job to babysit his roommates feelings.
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WampaLord posted:You can't just say "by the way I'm not blaming the victim" you have to also not say poo poo like "Well he should have predicted this." ...I was responding to somebody pointing out that variants on the roommates fighting over a girl story are pretty common. The guy is so surprised in his post about the fallout when the fallout is (not specifically, but somewhat, in a general sense) predictable. You are taking everything I am saying to an extreme when I'm not going that far. Unfunny Poster posted:This. he was jacking off with the door open and anime porn on while he knew OP's girlfriend was over, seems obvious what this was about Mirthless fucked around with this message at 17:46 on Feb 12, 2017 |
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Feb 12, 2017 17:44
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Mirthless posted:The guy is so surprised in his post about the fallout when the fallout is predictable. What loving kind of insane brain do you have where "my roommate is jerking off with the door open out of spite" was a predictable reaction? He is perfectly right to be surprised and you are loving weird for thinking he shouldn't be surprised.
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WampaLord posted:What loving kind of insane brain do you have where "my roommate is jerking off with the door open out of spite" was a predictable reaction? lol thought I had time to edit it No, him jerking off with the door open was not a predictable reaction! But their friendship melting down and him being out a roommate is a pretty predictable one, and that seems to be most of what he's broken up about in the post
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Me [25F] with my ex girlfriend [24F] should I give her back her underwear?quote:My ex girlfriend broke up with me about two months ago, after two years together. Things ended up pretty badly because she lied about the reasons she was beaking up with me, so I am currently mad other than heartbroken.
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CheesyDog posted:Me [25F] with my ex girlfriend [24F] should I give her back her underwear? why did she leave 4/5 of a pair of panties at your house
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Reddit's consensus: he should bring a shopping bag full of his ex's underwear to one of their classes
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:why did she leave 4/5 of a pair of panties at your house Girls usually get mad if you bite too many of their panties off, prob. why they broke up
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CheesyDog posted:Me [25F] with my ex girlfriend [24F] should I give her back her underwear? I get the feeling she's hoping the thread will talk her into contacting her ex, lol CheesyDog posted:Reddit's consensus: he should bring a shopping bag full of his ex's underwear to one of their classes they're lesbians
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:why did she leave 4/5 of a pair of panties at your house She also beaked up with her and slept at mines, was the GF a bat?
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Mirthless posted:I get the feeling she's hoping the thread will talk her into contacting her ex, lol for someone I just assumed a redditor worried about panties was male
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Mirthless posted:they're lesbians ...is she planning on wearing them if she doesn't give them back?
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Just saying that hating on anime nerds because of their hobbies is really juvenile poo poo and is not a good look. It does not make you seem like the bigger man/woman. In fact, it makes you seem like a dumb as heck middle school rear end in a top hat. Goons and other people on the internet have a hard-on for hating on anime, which literally not a single person out in the real world cares about, as long as said anime nerds aren't ultra annoying and incredibly socially inept about their interests. Which most people aren't. The vocal minority of the worst kinds of weirdos is not your typical anime fan out in the wild. I have plenty of friends who are into anime and it's just one of their many other hobbies that makes up who they are. Anime is good and cool and you all suck.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Yeah it's not the guy's job to babysit his roommates feelings. Exactly. And I think the only reasonable response is to leave HIS bedroom door open so that anime tentacle rape porn jerker can't help but see him smashing her back doors in when he walks by to go to the WC. Bonus point for looking him in the eye and giving two 'thumbs up' gesture without breaking stroke. Or her noticing.
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Just saying that hating on anime nerds because of their hobbies is really juvenile poo poo and is not a good look. It does not make you seem like the bigger man/woman. In fact, it makes you seem like a dumb as heck middle school rear end in a top hat. Goons and other people on the internet have a hard-on for hating on anime, which literally not a single person out in the real world cares about, as long as said anime nerds aren't ultra annoying and incredibly socially inept about their interests. Which most people aren't. The vocal minority of the worst kinds of weirdos is not your typical anime fan out in the wild. I have plenty of friends who are into anime and it's just one of their many other hobbies that makes up who they are. Anime is good and cool and you all suck. Anime is juvenile trash. What else would make a moron incel think 'if I beat off to this crap with the door open, she'll love me!'?
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Just saying that
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Just saying that hating on anime nerds because of their hobbies is really juvenile poo poo and is not a good look. It does not make you seem like the bigger man/woman. In fact, it makes you seem like a dumb as heck middle school rear end in a top hat. Goons and other people on the internet have a hard-on for hating on anime, which literally not a single person out in the real world cares about, as long as said anime nerds aren't ultra annoying and incredibly socially inept about their interests. Which most people aren't. The vocal minority of the worst kinds of weirdos is not your typical anime fan out in the wild. I have plenty of friends who are into anime and it's just one of their many other hobbies that makes up who they are. Anime is good and cool and you all suck. it's one of those things like "not ALL men" where if you think they're talking about your animes, they probably are
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Just saying that hating on anime nerds because of their hobbies is really juvenile poo poo and is not a good look. It does not make you seem like the bigger man/woman. In fact, it makes you seem like a dumb as heck middle school rear end in a top hat. Goons and other people on the internet have a hard-on for hating on anime, which literally not a single person out in the real world cares about, as long as said anime nerds aren't ultra annoying and incredibly socially inept about their interests. Which most people aren't. The vocal minority of the worst kinds of weirdos is not your typical anime fan out in the wild. I have plenty of friends who are into anime and it's just one of their many other hobbies that makes up who they are. Anime is good and cool and you all suck. 
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Just saying that hating on anime nerds because of their hobbies is really juvenile poo poo and is not a good look. It does not make you seem like the bigger man/woman. In fact, it makes you seem like a dumb as heck middle school rear end in a top hat. Goons and other people on the internet have a hard-on for hating on anime, which literally not a single person out in the real world cares about, as long as said anime nerds aren't ultra annoying and incredibly socially inept about their interests. Which most people aren't. The vocal minority of the worst kinds of weirdos is not your typical anime fan out in the wild. I have plenty of friends who are into anime and it's just one of their many other hobbies that makes up who they are. Anime is good and cool and you all suck. Dude just leave your drat door shut when you're doing that.
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:Just saying that hating on anime nerds because of their hobbies is really juvenile poo poo and is not a good look. It does not make you seem like the bigger man/woman. In fact, it makes you seem like a dumb as heck middle school rear end in a top hat. Goons and other people on the internet have a hard-on for hating on anime, which literally not a single person out in the real world cares about, as long as said anime nerds aren't ultra annoying and incredibly socially inept about their interests. Which most people aren't. The vocal minority of the worst kinds of weirdos is not your typical anime fan out in the wild. I have plenty of friends who are into anime and it's just one of their many other hobbies that makes up who they are. Anime is good and cool and you all suck. Is anime a hobby? I like crime dramas but I would never call myself a "crime drama hobbyist." I don't dress up like Grisham or quote the Wire or wear first 48 shirts every day. Obsessing over media makes you a weirdo (see also mlp, nascar, E! etc)
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HCFJ posted:Is anime a hobby? I like crime dramas but I would never call myself a "crime drama hobbyist." I don't dress up like Grisham or quote the Wire or wear first 48 shirts every day. Obsessing over media makes you a weirdo (see also mlp, nascar, E! etc) Hobbies should be verbs.
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HCFJ posted:Is anime a hobby? I like crime dramas but I would never call myself a "crime drama hobbyist." I don't dress up like Grisham or quote the Wire or wear first 48 shirts every day. Obsessing over media makes you a weirdo (see also mlp, nascar, E! etc) I think crime drama cosplay is just 
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Subjunctive posted:So what would you do? Not date the person because you can't predict the reaction of your roommate? That's a lot of power to give your roommate over you, on the strength of his maladjustment.
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