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Whenever there is a woman around, I feel like I must be extra careful and keep a “safe distance” from her. Like, when a woman sits next to me in a train, I have the urge to lean away from her. When I walk next to a woman, the distance is so large that I can hardly talk to her; when she tries to reduce it, I will often find myself walking past the roadside. If there is a woman I find particularly nice and whom I would like to date, I feel completely paralyzed. It seems kind of “forbidden” to talk to her in any way that might be interpreted as flirting. I imagine that if I revealed her my interest, she would act like I had done something really awful to her, and she would tell all our mutual acquaintances about it and they would start laughing and bullying me and never respect me again.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:oh definitely it's way worse most places, but also in lots of the world way more people really are straight up '[ethnicity] are more rat than man, I would never touch one' Yeah it's nasty bad. I just find a lot of times with this conversation it winds up being very Western-centric and it winds up erasing a lot of the issues with racism (or racial aggression) internationally
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oh shiiit it's an incelvalanche Me [42 M ] with my self - still a virgin  quote:Ok, not trolling, here goes. I am a an aspie and still a virgin. You may say its my looks but when I was a teen I had pics in a magazine modeling jeans. I'm thin and was complimented for my looks in the past. If there is any improvement I need more muscles. In my last job a girl at work gave me a compliment and I complained to HR. Maybe I'm very self conscious now and bitter. The HR lady shrugged it off and I broke down and told her my story. I don't care because I was leaving soon anyway.
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I guess to be fair, if you are totally inexperienced and you're already past middle/high school then given all the warnings about sexual harassment I can see where you would have issues identifying where that line is (esp since it often shifts wildly depending on the people in question and you gotta kinda read that too) and deciding to err on the side of caution and just not say anything ever. Esp if you have a very low opinion of yourself in the first place. I mean it is sad but I can see that. At least it isn't "I'm like this because women are the devil and evil skin folds mind control aaaaargh." A Wizard of Goatse posted:oh shiiit it's an incelvalanche I feel like this person might be gay. Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 23:41 on Feb 28, 2017 |
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It seems in the past and present when I go to bars or house parties some girls (who like me) will approach me and say I am good looking, cute and how nice of a person I am. Also a lot of the time they are drunk she they flirt with me But when it comes to them wanting to get intimate or have sex with me girls a lot of the time there just not into me 'in that way'. Could it be because of my disability (autism) perhaps? I am just about 5ft8 and workout on my body since I weigh 151 pounds of lean muscle. I mean is height really that important if you already have a toned body?
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Feb 28, 2017 23:46
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Moridin920 posted:I feel like this person might be gay. Molested by a man at around 16. More fondling rather than full blown sex. Was desperate to use a computer.
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Feb 28, 2017 23:48
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Pick please just assure me you're copyposting.
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Feb 28, 2017 23:49
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Pick has lived 100 lives and they are all incels and these are the tales of woe Also I can count the number of times a girl has come up to me and initiated anything on one hand probably (not counting eye contact like actual coming up to me and initiating with "you're cute") If you can't get from "Hey I think you're cute" to anything other than "ehhh but not like that sorry" then clearly the words coming out of your mouth are the words of a dumb gently caress and I have no sympathy for that dude bc he is obv better looking than I am. Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 23:54 on Feb 28, 2017 |
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Feb 28, 2017 23:52
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VanSandman posted:Pick please just assure me you're copyposting. obviously
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Feb 28, 2017 23:53
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Moridin920 posted:Pick has lived 100 lives and they are all incels and these are the tales of woe the karmic wheel turns, another lifetime as nature's lowest creature. it will be a kalpa before Adolf Hitler's soul graduates to dogs.
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Oh wow I was way more behind than I thought.
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Feb 28, 2017 23:55
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About 12% of new US marriages are marriages between people who select different ethnicity boxes on census data and roughly 6% of all marriages in the US are interracial. In 1970 the number was less than 1%. The true interracial number is almost certainly higher as well, because Hispanic is separately tracked so wont show up here and MENA is white in America. With that in mind, in general black men marry white women, white men marry asian women, and native americans will marry anyone who isnt native american, apparently.
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There's some bias in almost everyone, ArbC has a point there. Harvard has done studies that show as much. Imo it's also important to note however that most people live in fairly homogeneous communities to begin with. I'm not necessarily racist for only having white girlfriends in high school because at the time there was like 1 black girl for every 50 white girls (or whatever). The more rural it is, the worse it is in that regard. quote:native americans will marry anyone who isnt native american, apparently. Like as to this, if you don't live on a reservation or whatever then odds are you're probably one of the only actual native americans surrounded by a sea of white people claiming 1/16th Cherokee princess ancestry.
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Moridin920 posted:Like as to this, if you don't live on a reservation or whatever then odds are you're probably one of the only actual native americans surrounded by a sea of white people claiming 1/16th Cherokee princess ancestry. Amusingly, this process creates actual 1/16th Cherokee princesses
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Moridin920 posted:There's some bias in almost everyone, ArbC has a point there. Harvard has done studies that show as much. Really I just thought it was dumb because one: she literally said it first then somehow it blew up into this huge thing where he wasn't allowed in the international dorm anymore), and two, the people I know irl that are most vocal about that kind of poo poo are invariably lily white flowers dating frosty the snowman, you don't need to trip over yourself talking about how you might have hypothetically been okay dating a black person had situations been magically different and you weren't subconsciously gravitating towards people of your own ethnicity like p much everyone else.
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We know what your point is, it's just dumb bullshit.
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ArbitraryC posted:Really I just thought it was dumb because one: she literally said it first then somehow it blew up into this huge thing where he wasn't allowed in the international dorm anymore), and two, the people I know irl that are most vocal about that kind of poo poo are invariably lily white flowers dating frosty the snowman, you don't need to trip over yourself talking about how you might have hypothetically been okay dating a black person had situations been magically different and you weren't subconsciously gravitating towards people of your own ethnicity like p much everyone else.
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Racism is bad
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Pulling off a wicked spinning heel-smash kick and hearing the wet crack of a dog's skull turning into bone powder is good.
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a fascist dog?
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:oh shiiit it's an incelvalanche This made me cock my head at my monitor like a confused dog (who is soon to be powerbombed into a dumpster by a man in a suit)
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Mar 1, 2017 00:42
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Moridin920 posted:
Living just outside of multiple reservations in Oklahoma, most of the people ON reservation are white too
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Mirthless posted:Living just outside of multiple reservations in Oklahoma, most of the people ON reservation are white too At the reservations in the Pacific NW that isn't true, unless you are counting the customers at the ones where there is a casino. Edit: also lol at being the arbiter of who is indian enough.
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Mar 1, 2017 00:50
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Pick posted:You have to swallow at least 1 cup of African-American semen to be not racist. (240 mL) source?
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gentle pete posted:source? oberlin college student manual
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gentle pete posted:source? Any African American male is a good enough source, just make sure you ask politely
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therobit posted:At the reservations in the Pacific NW that isn't true, unless you are counting the customers at the ones where there is a casino. No, there is a bit of truth to that. It is not an easy task to find a "true Indian", even on the Rez and the lateral violence resulting from that is staggering
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therobit posted:At the reservations in the Pacific NW that isn't true, unless you are counting the customers at the ones where there is a casino. Just talking about oklahoma, lol If you lived here you would see what I mean
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Also white people can and do own land on (most? all?) reservations. My family had some land on a reservation in the PNW for a while, but we ended up just giving it to the tribe because it wasn't worth anything or really accessible and I don't even know why we owned it.
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Pick posted:You have to swallow at least 1 cup of African-American semen to be not racist. (240 mL) So at what point in the first date should I be asking if the dude takes L-arginine and eats lots of celery and pineapple?
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Pick posted:You have to swallow at least 1 cup of African-American semen to be not racist. (240 mL) goddamn one CUP *sigh* better get myself situated and ready here
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Guys! I did it! I found the perfect lady for dating men and women on the spectrum!
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Pick posted:Also white people can and do own land on (most? all?) reservations. My family had some land on a reservation in the PNW for a while, but we ended up just giving it to the tribe because it wasn't worth anything or really accessible and I don't even know why we owned it. I don't think that'd fly where I live. You have to be a band member to own land on the Rez and even then it can be pretty tough. Then again, the way indigenous communities are governed is crazy complicated (and often riddled with nepotism) E: FTR I know virtually nothing about treaties and such from a US perspective; only Canadian
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As in all things, there's a difference between having a preference and having a hard limit. Most people have moderate to strong racial preferences but saying that you will not allow your pure white DNA to be mongrelized does not win you bonus points for honesty.
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Straight White Shark posted:As in all things, there's a difference between having a preference and having a hard limit. Most people have moderate to strong racial preferences but saying that you will not allow your pure white DNA to be mongrelized does not win you bonus points for honesty. Yep he sure walked right into that one. I think we can confidently say that her trap was sprung flawlessly
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So we can probably add that to the list of topics no good can come from. -"are you a virgin?" -"how many people did you gently caress before we met?" -"on a scale of 1-10, how sexy are diapers?" -"race-mixing, what are your thoughts?"
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fruit on the bottom posted:So we can probably add that to the list of topics no good can come from. -"Seriously, what's your average ejaculate volume? The fewer loads you have to shoot into the graduated cylinder before I can be certified non-racist, the better for both of us, I figure"
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Me [31M] with my wife [30F] 3 years. Not attracted to her right now (not due to physical reasons).quote:Wife and I together 5 years. Married for almost 3. No kids. Relationship is overall good. Sexy time
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"My partner is broken and needs my support, can I repair her, or should I exchange her for a working model?"54 40 or gently caress posted:I don't think that'd fly where I live. You have to be a band member to own land on the Rez and even then it can be pretty tough. Then again, the way indigenous communities are governed is crazy complicated (and often riddled with nepotism) only kind of related but on this note (and the general whiteness of the cherokee), but the NA out here basically voted out all of the black people on the technicality that they're not "real indians" b/c, you know, they were descended from their slaves, rather than "actual" native americans
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54 40 or gently caress posted:I don't think that'd fly where I live. You have to be a band member to own land on the Rez and even then it can be pretty tough. Then again, the way indigenous communities are governed is crazy complicated (and often riddled with nepotism) I wrote a long rear end post about this that my lovely phone deleted, but basically therw was a long period of time where the BIA had as its stated goal to "civilize the indian" by making him behave like a white person and being a farmer. One of the ways this was done was to deed out "allotments" from the reservation land to individuals, some of whom would turn around and sell the land when they needed money. Some/a lot of land ended up in white hands through this mechanism. Some tribes have bought some of it back, and a lot of them have taken the remaining land and no longer allow fee simple ownership of allotments any more.
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