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Why beat a kid when you can do something simple like take away their amazon fire and then hug them after they calm down and explain why their behavior wasn't correct?
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Mar 21, 2017 19:37
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Chilichimp posted:Still, though, gently caress people who thought it was okay. Sure, but I can't fault people for being raised to believe some backwards bullshit. Can't change what they learned, only educate them now, you know? I never had to cut a switch for my dad, but he was more than familiar with the phrase, and joked about it from time to time. Cartoon Man posted:I was spanked as a child and looking back on it, I could tell my dad showed restraint. But it is completely unnecessary in today's society and I will never do it to my kids ever. There are plenty of other effective disciplinary methods, you don't need to hurt your kids just cause it was done to you as a child. Yeah the situations where it's an effective form of punishment seem few and far between to me, and it establishes the bad precedent that your authority only extends as far as your ability to inflict meaningful harm/pain on your kid. At which point if they outgrow you or your ability to hit them diminishes, now you have no authority over them, because you taught them the only reason to behave was because they'd have to face physical consequences if they didn't. I remember I got into a fight in middle school with this kid and my dad came home that day and rather than punish me, he started telling me that the kid's parents were suing him*, and went into how he planned to deal with that and what the financial consequences would be, and what we'd have to give up as a result. That poo poo had me in tears and was way more effective than any spanking. *this didn't actually happen (though I did hurt the kid's shoulder), but he told a very convincing sequence of events that could have happened, and convinced me that there were real consequences to my actions
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Mar 21, 2017 19:39
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I stopped getting whipped when I stopped reacting to the pain.
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Mar 21, 2017 19:46
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Chilichimp posted:Why beat a kid when you can do something simple like take away their amazon fire and then hug them after they calm down and explain why their behavior wasn't correct? This is like when on reddit someone posts a Life Pro Tip thats like "tell your children why their behavior is wrong, take the time to educate your kids about their behaviour" and the every actual parent is like "haha, sure".
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Mar 21, 2017 19:47
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swickles posted:This is like when on reddit someone posts a Life Pro Tip thats like "tell your children why their behavior is wrong, take the time to educate your kids about their behaviour" and the every actual parent is like "haha, sure". That's what I do.  I mean, I get mad sometimes too. For real, what's their alternative, just beat your kid because #aintnobodygottimeforthat?
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Mar 21, 2017 19:49
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Being an uncle owns
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Mar 21, 2017 19:51
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Chilichimp posted:That's what I do. Campaign to make whatever it is your kid is doing illegal as well as banning everything that you don't want your kid to see, obviously.
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Mar 21, 2017 19:56
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Azhais posted:Campaign to make whatever it is your kid is doing illegal as well as banning everything that you don't want your kid to see, obviously. Impose economic sanctions until they terminate their nuclear weapons program, imo
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Mar 21, 2017 19:59
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Chilichimp posted:I stopped getting whipped when I stopped reacting to the pain. Yeah that's kind of my point? It seems like you think I'm in favor of beating kids
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Mar 21, 2017 19:59
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TheChirurgeon posted:Yeah that's kind of my point? I was agreeing with your point, but in retrospect, I can see how I left that somewhat ambiguous.
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Mar 21, 2017 20:03
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Chilichimp posted:I was agreeing with your point, but in retrospect, I can see how I left that somewhat ambiguous. fair enough. Unrelated note: Now that most of my hosting issues are resolved, I'll be doing more avatars next week when the missus is back in town and I'm no on solo parent duty. Iirc yours is one of the next 2 or 3
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Mar 21, 2017 20:11
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TheChirurgeon posted:fair enough. Unrelated note: Now that most of my hosting issues are resolved, I'll be doing more avatars next week when the missus is back in town and I'm no on solo parent duty. Iirc yours is one of the next 2 or 3 
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Mar 21, 2017 20:26
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Chilichimp posted:Why beat a kid when you can do something simple like take away their amazon fire and then hug them after they calm down and explain why their behavior wasn't correct? My man. Taking away screen time is the perfect punishment tool now. So easy and effective. It's like taking away an addict's crack. They'll do anything to get it back.
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Mar 21, 2017 20:41
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JPrime posted:yea the bible loves kids! BTW, the rod mentioned is a Shepard's Crook, long thin staff with a curled end, so the point of the verse is not physically beating the child but guiding & sometimes correcting them.
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Mar 21, 2017 20:41
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Darth Brooks posted:BTW, the rod mentioned is a Shepard's Crook, long thin staff with a curled end, so the point of the verse is not physically beating the child but guiding & sometimes correcting them. Pffft. Next thing you'll be telling us women shouldn't be separated from society during their periods.
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Mar 21, 2017 20:44
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Jiminy Christmas! Shoes! posted:Pffft. Next thing you'll be telling us women shouldn't be separated from society during their periods. As long as we stone to death every white kid that went to spring break in Cancun, I'm happy.
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Mar 21, 2017 21:04
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Chichevache posted:As long as we stone to death every white kid that went to spring break in Cancun, I'm happy. fuckin' lol
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Mar 21, 2017 21:07
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Chichevache posted:As long as we stone to death every white kid that went to spring break in Cancun, I'm happy. 
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Mar 21, 2017 21:08
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Mar 21, 2017 21:19
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Mar 21, 2017 21:32
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Jiminy Christmas! Shoes! posted:Pffft. Next thing you'll be telling us women shouldn't be separated from society during their periods. the New Covenant supersedes the old one  according to current xtian practice/tradition, anyway GonadTheBallbarian fucked around with this message at 21:38 on Mar 21, 2017 |
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Mar 21, 2017 21:35
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I think I was threatened with a spanking more than I was actually given one, at least that I can remember. I was never really a bad kid though. I think getting a couple of spankings that, looking back, weren't very harsh, was enough that a threat of one would keep me in line. I do remember my mother telling me that when she grew up her parents would make her go outside and pick a switch off the tree. Then remember hearing the other side of it from my grandparents that they never actually spanked her, and they would watch from inside and laugh as my mom stood there debating on which stick to bring inside. That said I'm going to build a boxing ring in my back yard when I have a kid and whenever he gets in trouble we'll bareknuckle box. When he beats me, he gets to make the rules.
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Mar 21, 2017 22:37
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Enjoy those 6 years.
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Mar 21, 2017 23:36
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swickles posted:Enjoy those 6 years. You joke, but that's when their jab is balls-level.
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Mar 21, 2017 23:42
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swickles posted:Enjoy those 6 years. I could beat up like 5 6 year olds. Maybe 6.
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Mar 22, 2017 03:44
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Joey Freshwater posted:I could beat up like 5 6 year olds. Maybe 6. See, this thought experiment always leads to imagining what it would be like to be overwhelmed by 6 year olds or duck size horses or whatever, and that always seems like it would end as a horror movie.
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Mar 22, 2017 03:53
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Ok but what about duck sized 5 year olds
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Mar 22, 2017 03:56
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I think the logical solution is to force your kid to be a browns fan.
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Mar 23, 2017 04:02
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shirts and skins posted:See, this thought experiment always leads to imagining what it would be like to be overwhelmed by 6 year olds or duck size horses or whatever, and that always seems like it would end as a horror movie. 
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Mar 23, 2017 04:17
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BlindSite posted:I think the logical solution is to force your kid to be a browns fan. I turned out normal.
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Mar 23, 2017 14:25
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http://www.thedrawplay.com/comic/roberto-aguayo-gets-some-training/ lmao
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Mar 23, 2017 15:07
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Hockles posted:I turned out normal. He said... while the only picture I associate with his person is Jason as a browns fan.
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Mar 23, 2017 15:21
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Cartoon Man posted:I was spanked as a child and looking back on it, I could tell my dad showed restraint. But it is completely unnecessary in today's society and I will never do it to my kids ever. There are plenty of other effective disciplinary methods, you don't need to hurt your kids just cause it was done to you as a child. It's more necessary in today's society than any past ones, so I don't know why you bothered to make that distinction. Kids today are little bastards.
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Mar 23, 2017 21:20
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Volkerball posted:It's more necessary in today's society than any past ones, so I don't know why you bothered to make that distinction. Kids today are little bastards. Yes. Today. Certainly not when I was a boy. During my youth we all respected our elders, carried our days water ration in 2 pots up a giant hill, and in the evening... we studied the blade.
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Mar 23, 2017 21:55
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I suppose I could subject my child to the 2005-2009 49ers whenever they choose to misbehave. That'll set them straight
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Mar 23, 2017 23:40
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Just don't do what Mike Singletary did or you might get a visit from CPS.
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Mar 23, 2017 23:40
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TheHoosier posted:I suppose I could subject my child to the 2005-2009 49ers whenever they choose to misbehave. That'll set them straight Your hypothetical child will still be living through the new playoff drought until they have a child. Because Jed York will live forever because God hates us all
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Spoeank posted:Your hypothetical child will still be living through the new playoff drought until they have a child. just have to find his phylactery and we'll be free. i'm sure it's a box of soylent bars or something
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Mar 24, 2017 03:18
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Isn't Jed fairly young? Sorry, Niner fans.
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whiteyfats posted:Isn't Jed fairly young? He's in his mid 30s lol
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