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Hats Wouldnt Fly posted:This isn't even a little true. Yeah, it is. If you think operant conditioning is just getting a treat when you do something right, you don't know what operant conditioning is. Skratte posted:I [26F] found out that my boyfriend [28M] has been talking to a dating coach and getting involved in PUA forums. How bad is she getting ripped apart for snooping on her boyfriend preparing to cheat on her (or at least, treat her like poo poo and waste money)?
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Mar 30, 2017 17:33
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Mar 30, 2017 17:37
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quote:—Stress Interview— I guess I've done lovely stress interviews entirely wrong in the past, then. I just gave them as much sass as as they dealt out. I thought that was the entire point of your interviewer being a completely unprofessional dick. See if you fit into the, "gently caress you, Gary, ya big vagina," climate at the job. Either that or to see if you can take a few jabs without getting visibly butthurt. No good if you get mad at lippy customers when face-tanking.
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Mar 30, 2017 17:45
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:I had a group interview once where they wheeled out a whiteboard and timed me while I hand-wrote a Javascript script drat. Hand written coding tests are bad enough without being timed while a group of people look over your shoulder.
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Mar 30, 2017 17:51
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Nessa posted:drat. Hand written coding tests are bad enough without being timed while a group of people look over your shoulder. I was trying to intern at Amazon and had two back to back phone interviews. The first guy asked me to do something with linked lists and had me recite my code over the phone, semicolons and all.
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Mar 30, 2017 17:57
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my wife learned to give handjobs by sexing snakes in the australian outback. her toilet was full of frogs she'd have to throw out a window with a pasta strainer. one time she didn't look and there was a frog in the toilet with her leavings. she couldn't flush the frog cuz it would clog the pipes so she got a pellet gun and shot it to pieces before flushing the whole mess.
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Mar 30, 2017 17:59
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When I was in school, I went in for a secretary job at a chiropractor where they had a group interview. They gave us this weird, culty pitch, had us take Myers-Briggs tests and then just made everyone leave with a curt dismissal. The lady applying next to me was an OBGYN. It was a strange day.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:01
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Pvt.Scott posted:I guess I've done lovely stress interviews entirely wrong in the past, then. I just gave them as much sass as as they dealt out. I thought that was the entire point of your interviewer being a completely unprofessional dick. See if you fit into the, "gently caress you, Gary, ya big vagina," climate at the job. Either that or to see if you can take a few jabs without getting visibly butthurt. No good if you get mad at lippy customers when face-tanking. yeah this was the track I went with in that interview and it was a mistake i accidentally dodged a bullet.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:01
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Das Boo posted:had us take Myers-Briggs tests I worked for a church-owned thrift shop in college that made me take that, also another personality test that determined what my spiritual gifts would be. I tied between apostle and prophet lol.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:20
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Mar 30, 2017 18:21
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Huntersoninski posted:I worked for a church-owned thrift shop in college that made me take that, also another personality test that determined what my spiritual gifts would be. I tied between apostle and prophet lol. want this test for my facebook wall
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Mar 30, 2017 18:23
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Jfc what a maroon My (41F) husband (43M) sent a picture of his nude butt to one of his male students over snap chat "as a joke". He might be fired from his job. Is there any recovering from this? Relationships quote:523 points 226 comments submitted 7 months ago by Marriagehelpthrow2 to r/relationships Just chilling, snappin' with my teacher bro, sending each other pics of our butts nbd
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Mar 30, 2017 18:40
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That was a super dumb thing to do but the wife is being way dramatic about it. He's a goofball idiot, not a philandering abuser.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:42
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Mar 30, 2017 18:44
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new phone who dis posted:That was a super dumb thing to do but the wife is being way dramatic about it. He's a goofball idiot, not a philandering abuser. she didn't call him or imply he was a philandering abuser at all? i'd be having massive doubts as well if my spouse got themselves fired and taked their career over sending nude pictures to a minor for whatever reason
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Mar 30, 2017 18:45
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boner confessor posted:she didn't call him or imply he was a philandering abuser at all? i'd be having massive doubts as well if my spouse got themselves fired and taked their career over sending nude pictures to a minor for whatever reason Yeah her reaction was kind of subdued really.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:46
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boner confessor posted:she didn't call him or imply he was a philandering abuser at all? i'd be having massive doubts as well if my spouse got themselves fired and taked their career over sending nude pictures to a minor for whatever reason The whole "hurt is too much" thing is a bit of a stretch. OK, it's humiliating and embarrassing but it's not heart-wrenching. It's the kind of thing you chew someone's rear end for, not withdraw into a depression.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:48
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Surprised more wives don't cut off their husband's asses preemptively to stop this tomfoolery once and for all.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:50
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new phone who dis posted:The whole "hurt is too much" thing is a bit of a stretch. OK, it's humiliating and embarrassing but it's not heart-wrenching. It's the kind of thing you chew someone's rear end for, not withdraw into a depression. she says they've struggled through money problems and now her husband has completely ruined his career, imploding his income and loving up his retirement, which would require substantial financial outlay to fix as they uproot their lives and move household and children to a different state. all because her husband thought it would be "funny" to send a picture of his bare rear end to a minor. why the gently caress is he snapchatting with his students anyway. even if she takes the very charitable stance that this wasn't actually a sex thing, and the dude better thank his lucky star that the parent didn't press charges for sex crimes on a minor, he's still unfathomably lucky she didn't throw him out of the house or file for divorce. he's lucky his wife is just withdrawing into depression
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Mar 30, 2017 18:51
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new phone who dis posted:The whole "hurt is too much" thing is a bit of a stretch. OK, it's humiliating and embarrassing but it's not heart-wrenching. It's the kind of thing you chew someone's rear end for, not withdraw into a depression. 'wow this woman is super butthurt about her husband probably getting blacklisted from his career as a diddler. so salty, so much Care' - A Goon
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Mar 30, 2017 18:51
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Denying it was smart - it was a snapchat and it was unlikely they had evidence - the private school is probably not gonna subpoena the company. Unlucky for him. Warning though I'm a grownup and don't know how snapchat works. Also man, I was a goody-goody in school but there were some teachers I couldn't stand - it sounds super-easy to photoshop something to get a teacher fired these days and I worry I might have been tempted.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:52
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Pvt.Scott posted:At least a sternly worded letter from the Queen Mum about how disappointed she is or something. Uh. Dictated via Ouija board?
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Mar 30, 2017 18:52
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"whats the big deal? he can just go into IT and frontend web development  "
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Mar 30, 2017 18:53
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boner confessor posted:she says they've struggled through money problems and now her husband has completely ruined his career, imploding his income and loving up his retirement, which would require substantial financial outlay to fix as they uproot their lives and move household and children to a different state. all because her husband thought it would be "funny" to send a picture of his bare rear end to a minor. why the gently caress is he snapchatting with his students anyway. even if she takes the very charitable stance that this wasn't actually a sex thing, and the dude better thank his lucky star that the parent didn't press charges for sex crimes on a minor, he's still unfathomably lucky she didn't throw him out of the house or file for divorce. he's lucky his wife is just withdrawing into depression I don't think you have to be that charitable to realize that it's not sexual given the context. The school system may not see it that way due to zero tolerance and appearances but let's try to keep a reasonable view, here. It definitely sucks what's happening to him and his family but acting like it was some sort of thought-out betrayal or intentional sabotage instead of a momentary lapse in judgment is over-dramatizing it.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:55
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Denying it was smart - it was a snapchat and it was unlikely they had evidence - the private school is probably not gonna subpoena the company. Unlucky for him. Warning though I'm a grownup and don't know how snapchat works. the student took a screenshot and passed it around his friends which is like reason #1 you never send nudes to anyone, ever, for any reason, unless you are completely ok with the consequences of everyone seeing that picture. which for most high schoolers is just being slut shamed or people constantly making fun of your fat awkward body or weird looking tits, because high schoolers are literal children with non-adult senses of empathy or consequences. which is why you drill this lesson home for teenage girls, and it's extra special stupid if a middle aged father falls prey to the same dumb loving trap new phone who dis posted:I don't think you have to be that charitable to realize that it's not sexual given the context. The school system may not see it that way due to zero tolerance and appearances but let's try to keep a reasonable view, here. It definitely sucks what's happening to him and his family but acting like it was some sort of thought-out betrayal or intentional sabotage instead of a momentary lapse in judgment is over-dramatizing it. here's this non sexual picture of my bare rear end, next are coming some completely platonic pictures of my rippling pecs and then a impressive but clinical shot of my turgid penis also lol at you doubling down on "why is everyone freaking out so much that this grown man blew up his career and permanently did lasting harm to his family by sending ill advised nude pictures to children, just chill out everyone" boner confessor fucked around with this message at 18:59 on Mar 30, 2017 |
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Mar 30, 2017 18:55
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I wonder if he could change the parent's tune if he started demanding all the students who sent him pictures of their asses be expelled for their obviously inappropriate actions.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:58
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new phone who dis posted:I don't think you have to be that charitable to realize that it's not sexual given the context. The school system may not see it that way due to zero tolerance and appearances but let's try to keep a reasonable view, here. It definitely sucks what's happening to him and his family but acting like it was some sort of thought-out betrayal or intentional sabotage instead of a momentary lapse in judgment is over-dramatizing it. if taking a picture of your rear end and sending it to a child you're engaged with professionally is a 'momentary lapse in judgement' to you your day-to-day life gotta look like something out of Jackass
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Mar 30, 2017 18:59
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boner confessor posted:the student took a screenshot and passed it around his friends They mooned him and he mooned them back. Let's not add any other malign intent that doesn't exist.
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Mar 30, 2017 18:59
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what's the big deal? he was found passed out on the side of the road with a bac of .19 in a running car with his crying children in the back seat. big whoop, we all have momentary lapses in judgement. the mother should relax in my opinion, like she's never made a mistakenew phone who dis posted:They mooned him and he mooned them back. Let's not add any other malign intent that doesn't exist. officer, i swear, it's not what it looks like. the kid flashed his dick at me, what was i supposed to do? back down like a little bitch? no officer you dont need to cuff me, this isn't-
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Mar 30, 2017 19:00
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:if taking a picture of your rear end and sending it to a child you're engaged with professionally is a 'momentary lapse in judgement' to you your day-to-day life gotta look like something out of Jackass It's colossally stupid but(!) it's pretty clear there was no sexual intent.
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Mar 30, 2017 19:01
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just platonically sharing pics of my unclothed body with my underage bros, nbd
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Mar 30, 2017 19:02
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i cut my dick off and fed it to a German pervert the other day, haha, whoopsy, I never could get the hang of Tuesday!
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Mar 30, 2017 19:02
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Just what this thread needed, a contrarian gimmick.
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Mar 30, 2017 19:04
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boner confessor posted:what's the big deal? he was found passed out on the side of the road with a bac of .19 in a running car with his crying children in the back seat. big whoop, we all have momentary lapses in judgement. the mother should relax in my opinion, like she's never made a mistake See, people like you are the reason this ends up being a bigger deal than it needs to because they have to construct some weird sex fantasy out of dumb juvenile behavior. Sometimes idiots playing grab rear end isn't actually homoerotic. Sometimes they're just morons.
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Mar 30, 2017 19:03
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I want to know how it's clear from a picture there is no sexual intent. Considering all we have is a pic and the story as told by the husband.
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Mar 30, 2017 19:03
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new phone who dis posted:See, people like you are the reason this ends up being a bigger deal than it needs to because they have to construct some weird sex fantasy out of dumb juvenile behavior. Sometimes idiots playing grab rear end isn't actually homoerotic. Sometimes they're just morons. ugh, all this "think of the children" panic when a middle aged father sends pictures of his bare rear end to minors. this politically correct nonsense is ruining society. back in my day you could send unsolicited pictues of your nude body to children from sunup to sundown and nobody cried to mommy about it, because boys were boys and men were men
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Mar 30, 2017 19:04
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boner confessor posted:just platonically sharing pics of my unclothed body with my underage bros, nbd Phone is the guy who found the guy hiding in his girlfriends closet and posts on Reddit asking if that means something.
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Mar 30, 2017 19:05
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CharlestheHammer posted:I want to know how it's clear from a picture there is no sexual intent. If everyone in the situation admits to and agrees that the group sent him the mooning pic first, I think we can safely discard the sex pervert angle.
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Who cares if he had sexual intent? It's grossly inappropriate at the very least and she should kick this idiot to the curb.
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