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new phone who dis posted:If everyone in the situation admits to and agrees that the group sent him the mooning pic first, I think we can safely discard the sex pervert angle. We don't actually know this
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new phone who dis posted:They mooned him and he mooned them back. Let's not add any other malign intent that doesn't exist. ...You understand that the only person who is claiming this first mooning photo exists is the guy being accused, right?
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just joshin around with the boys, y'know, as you do I [19 F] found out that my boyfriend [20 M] of four years has been searching for porn of his ex. quote:I wouldn't typically post here, but this isn't really something I can ask my friends or mom about. Throwaway for obvious reasons.
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'completely nonsexual, preexisting snapchat relationship with a minor' would be a great nick if it wasn't too long
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Mirthless posted:...You understand that the only person who is claiming this first mooning photo exists is the guy being accused, right? The parent involved seems to be reacting in a way more in tune with "inappropriate joke" than "underage grooming". I'm sure the kids involved have admitted to sending their own pic at this point, or the dude would be getting arrested.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:just joshin around with the boys, y'know, as you do The Worst Lie Ever Told
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Bubblyblubber posted:Jfc what a maroon This was absolute career suicide. We had a derail over this a couple hundred pages ago or something but teachers need to always be careful about what they do that could potentially look bad to parents. One angry parent can form a mob that'll put a ridiculous amount of pressure on the school to fire you.
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new phone who dis posted:The parent involved seems to be reacting in a way more in tune with "inappropriate joke" than "underage grooming". I'm sure the kids involved have admitted to sending their own pic at this point, or the dude would be getting arrested. uh "I want his job or I'm going to the police" is not how most parents respond to inappropriate jokes. sending nudes to your minor students is way past "inappropriate joke", besides.
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Mar 30, 2017 19:13
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:This was absolute career suicide. We had a derail over this a couple hundred pages ago or something but teachers need to always be careful about what they do that could potentially look bad to parents. One angry parent can form a mob that'll put a ridiculous amount of pressure on the school to fire you. which is why it's pretty suspicious for a teacher to be snapchatting - the social media network basically designed to send nude photographs - with a minor why you would have any social media contact at all with your students is beyond me (oh i gave someone a D in math and they went through all my photos and printed them out with dicks drawn on the faces) but snapchat, christ
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:This was absolute career suicide. We had a derail over this a couple hundred pages ago or something but teachers need to always be careful about what they do that could potentially look bad to parents. One angry parent can form a mob that'll put a ridiculous amount of pressure on the school to fire you. Yeah, if I was ever a teacher I would NOT add students on any sort of social media, that's like adding co-workers/your boss, except worse, you're just asking for trouble. Also, make sure to work at a catholic school because if you gently caress up like this they will cover it up and you will not be fired, but instead leave under amicable terms, and be given a recommendation to your next job. Source: I went to a very prominent catholic high school, a math teacher had sex with AT LEAST 2 students, everyone knew it, and when it was found out, the exact thing I stated above happened.
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boner confessor posted:i gave someone the D in math this one'll come out a couple years down the road after he's somehow swept the snapchat thing under the rug
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Dienes posted:Yeah, it is. If you think operant conditioning is just getting a treat when you do something right, you don't know what operant conditioning is. Imprinting is an example of an organism learning that is not operant conditioning. I've [24F] been applying for jobs. My "friend" [26F] snuck into my computer and added "gently caress you" into my cover letters. I've been unemployed for months because of this. Is there anything I can do about it? Non-Romantic quote:After college graduation, I got a job at a start-up in the tech industry. Unfortunately as you may know, many start-ups fail. After about 1.5 years working there, I was out of a job. My closest friend at that job was Beth.
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Hats Wouldnt Fly posted:Imprinting is an example of an organism learning that is not operant conditioning.  If you're not paying the person to do your resume, do it yourself. All of it. Don't outsource editing and spellchecking to your friends. Just assuming they're too nice to gently caress you over is incredibly foolish. Also, "I'm using a template to make this" means that you should read the whole loving resume every time you make a new one off the template because you're also assuming that the computer's not going to gently caress up and that's also incredibly foolish. Mirthless fucked around with this message at 19:25 on Mar 30, 2017 |
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Hats Wouldnt Fly posted:I've [24F] been applying for jobs. My "friend" [26F] snuck into my computer and added "gently caress you" into my cover letters. I've been unemployed for months because of this. Is there anything I can do about it? Non-Romantic  This calls for some lighthearted  Me [30F] with my BF[28 M/F] of 2 years... should I worry about his math-addiction and possible mania? Personal issues quote:5 points 12 comments submitted 5 months ago by zeenalavey to r/relationships "No babe, everything is fine, everything is fine!" He says, his head lightly moving to the rhythm only he can hear.
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Hats Wouldnt Fly posted:Imprinting is an example of an organism learning that is not operant conditioning. lmao that's fuckin evil maybe like four people actually read that line, though
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MF_James posted:Yeah, if I was ever a teacher I would NOT add students on any sort of social media, that's like adding co-workers/your boss, except worse, you're just asking for trouble. Yup. My wife is an english teacher and she has an absolute rule on not adding students to any kind of social media. I still keep in touch with a few of my teachers who let students close to them add them the day after graduation but not a day before. boner confessor posted:which is why it's pretty suspicious for a teacher to be snapchatting - the social media network basically designed to send nude photographs - with a minor When my wife started teaching, other teachers told her it's a bad idea to have snapchat at all and if you do need it, keep it absolutely anonymous with a fake name to where the only way anyone could even figure out it was you is if they got on your phone.
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Hats Wouldnt Fly posted:Imprinting is an example of an organism learning that is not operant conditioning. god that loving sucks. A Wizard of Goatse posted:maybe like four people actually read that line, though lol
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I like how someone in this thread is arguing that sending nude photos to teenagers is cool and good. Stay classy, goons.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:When my wife started teaching, other teachers told her it's a bad idea to have snapchat at all and if you do need it, keep it absolutely anonymous with a fake name to where the only way anyone could even figure out it was you is if they got on your phone. haha, that's not good enough. There's been teachers fired over their students stealing their phones and getting nudes off them. A Wizard of Goatse posted:lmao that's fuckin evil FWIW, I have a story kind of like hers except instead of a swear it was a "fill this section out" placeholder and I think I got maybe five or six calls back on that resume - I sent out dozens and dozens and dozens of applications. Fixing it made a huge difference. It was in one of those sections people say "nobody reads anyway", though I don't remember exactly where
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:just joshin around with the boys, y'know, as you do How did everyone cruise right past this? Dude is looking for porn of the girl he dated when he was 14!
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Mirthless posted:haha, that's not good enough. There's been teachers fired over their students stealing their phones and getting nudes off them. Well yeah, but why would you have nudes on your phone to begin with if you're that careful? Besides, how would they even get into the phone if it's locked and you've got your settings to where they can't back it up or anything without the passcode? e: I meant that you should keep it anonymous, if for some reason you want it like to follow certain celebrities or popular accounts, on top of everything else. flick my Mr. Bean fucked around with this message at 19:37 on Mar 30, 2017 |
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Well yeah, but why would you have nudes on your phone to begin with if you're that careful? Besides, how would they even get into the phone if it's locked and you've got your settings to where they can't back it up or anything without the passcode? Pretty sure every reported case had a dumbass teacher with an easy to guess passcode or without a passcode at all because they don't understand how security works.
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:Well yeah, but why would you have nudes on your phone to begin with if you're that careful? Besides, how would they even get into the phone if it's locked and you've got your settings to where they can't back it up or anything without the passcode? probably because most people set their password to something you can guess in like four tries
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Nah, he needs to tackle dif calculus while he has the energy.
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i'm still kind of amazed that anyone would take a nude photo of themselves with an internet capable device which by default wants to back up images to some dumb cloud thing. you can get a cheapo digital camera for like $70 if you want to take tit selfies, but we all know the real reason is phone sex. i mean it's only been like three years since half the women in hollywood had their nudes hacked and leaked?
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:This was absolute career suicide. We had a derail over this a couple hundred pages ago or something but teachers need to always be careful about what they do that could potentially look bad to parents. One angry parent can form a mob that'll put a ridiculous amount of pressure on the school to fire you. No teacher should ever interact with kids on snapchat (or really any social media, but especially snapchat), the only exception to this would be if you set up a twitter for your school stuff and only talk about school related poo poo.
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Ouhei posted:No teacher should ever interact with kids on snapchat (or really any social media, but especially snapchat), the only exception to this would be if you set up a twitter for your school stuff and only talk about school related poo poo. I'm not talking about interacting with students. That's the point of keeping it anonymous with a fake name and no profile picture or whatever. It keeps students from searching your name and immediately finding you on snapchat. More or less I don't think you should have snapchat at all in that profession but there are people who do because they want to follow certain popular accounts that use it. A Wizard of Goatse posted:probably because most people set their password to something you can guess in like four tries Well yeah, and that's dumb, but the teacher's that told my wife about that were specifically referring to snapchat if you were going to keep it anyway. There was plenty of other advice but I didn't think that was relevant to a post specifically about snapchat. flick my Mr. Bean fucked around with this message at 19:48 on Mar 30, 2017 |
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it's the adult's responsibility in that kind of power imbalance to shut down that kind of poo poo in the first place, and set the loving boundaries, which he clearly wasn't doing, goddamn
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yeah personal/professional social media account security is something a lot of white collar professionals just profoundly don't grasp. as an ESL tutor I keep a professional account where I put stuff that might be of use to the learners who follow me, because i am a firm believer in that every opportunity is a learning opportunity. put the material where the student interest is, and the learning does itself. my wife however is a breeder of rare beetles so her personal/private life is more blended together, she uses twittler to find other beetle breeders to swap bugs with. occasionally she also shows me pictures of dogs she approves of.
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boner confessor posted:i'm still kind of amazed that anyone would take a nude photo of themselves with an internet capable device which by default wants to back up images to some dumb cloud thing. you can get a cheapo digital camera for like $70 if you want to take tit selfies, but we all know the real reason is phone sex. i mean it's only been like three years since half the women in hollywood had their nudes hacked and leaked? Only iPhones do this and it is terrible
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:I don't think there is any issue whatsoever with adults taking nude photos of themselves as long as they secure their phone. People get horny and want to send nudes to their partner and smartphones make that so easy. What's hard to understand? Boner confessor hates smartphones and will find any excuse to poo poo talk them.
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Mirthless posted:their server names were split 50/50 between comic book characters and woodstock acts, which I guess is exactly what you would expect from an IT department of four 40-50something grogs with no oversight in a company with <200 employees you don't by any chance live in philly, do you? i worked at a place with a setup like this, and it was mostly un-terrible although i did get hit on it uncomfortably a lot
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:If I ran the world, there would be a website for looking at your teacher's hairy rear end, whenever you want. Asses in classes dot com
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flick my Mr. Bean posted:I'm not talking about interacting with students. That's the point of keeping it anonymous with a fake name and no profile picture or whatever. It keeps students from searching your name and immediately finding you on snapchat. More or less I don't think you should have snapchat at all in that profession but there are people who do because they want to follow certain popular accounts that use it. Snapchat has settings where you can lock your profile down so no one can find you even if they search your name. Most social media allows you to do this, just a ton of people don't bother to set it up. subhuman filth posted:Only iPhones do this and it is terrible Counterpoint - it's pretty great if your not taking a bunch of naked pictures all the time.I love being able to easily grab my phone pics from my laptop. Alternatively you can turn it off if you don't want to use it.
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Ouhei posted:Snapchat has settings where you can lock your profile down so no one can find you even if they search your name. Most social media allows you to do this, just a ton of people don't bother to set it up. I've never used it personally so I wouldn't know. That seems smart though.
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