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ADHD/anxiety/depression goon above wrote the whole thing using non-gendered pronouns. Let's not pretend like this is acceptable.
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# ? Apr 2, 2017 19:13 |
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# ? May 12, 2024 08:17 |
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quote:I enjoy wearing women's clothing. quote:I'm a survivor of an abusive relationship and just want to write some of this poo poo down and get it off my chest. I'm part of a support group too, but it's difficult for me to admit this to friends and family because there's a thought in society that men can't be abused. And a lot of people look down on you if you're an abused man admitting it. Hell, I still have a hard time admitting it.
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# ? Apr 2, 2017 19:38 |
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Uh. Ok. Glad poo poo is better.
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# ? Apr 2, 2017 20:23 |
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I thought I've seen everything here but nope .
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# ? Apr 2, 2017 22:05 |
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Now the assumption when I reflect that the writer was a man.
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# ? Apr 2, 2017 22:12 |
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LingcodKilla posted:Now the assumption when I reflect that the writer was a man. gently caress off.
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# ? Apr 2, 2017 22:24 |
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Kim Jong ill posted:gently caress off. Eat a dick. It makes a big difference because men are told they need to big and manly and not report this stuff.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 00:33 |
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LingcodKilla posted:Now the assumption when I reflect that the writer was a man. This sentence doesn't make any sense to me.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 01:20 |
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Solice Kirsk posted:This sentence doesn't make any sense to me. I wasn't sure if the writer was a man or a women when I read it at first.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 02:05 |
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grumplestiltzkin posted:I don't see the problem with soon to be dead wife. Unless she had super obvious crazy beliefs before the cancer took over, she's probably just freaking out. Plus, I mean, she'll be dead. There's gently caress all she can do. She literally won't even know. Promise her you wont date, take care of her till she's gone, spend some time grieving and taking care of you/your emotions, then go out and smash some strange. She dies thinking you're a perfect husband, you get to be comfortable knowing you did as much as any reasonable person could do AND eventually get to play the dead wife sympathy card when its time to find a new girlfriend. Everybody wins.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 02:37 |
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quote:My boyfriend really enjoys Dragonball and we have been marathoning it together. It's okay enough, but the problem is he is using it to ask a lot of bizarre hypothetical questions about our relationship. I should stress we have been dating for 4 months and have no kids together, or plans of kids or marriage or anything like that yet. quote:I might have killed someone years ago, and I'll never know for sure. I hate it, and I hate myself for being such a coward.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 03:03 |
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Dbz is dumb as poo poo. You probably didn't have to stomp his face but you live by the knife you die by the knife(shoe).
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 03:09 |
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ADD GOON posted:My child is literally the only thing in my life that brings me any sort of happiness. My brain is so riddled with ADHD/anxiety/depression (not diagnosed, so I'm just guessing) and I can't afford to talk to someone for any great length of time, unless two sessions can fix it or at least start to. Dude, ADD is a blessing. You are surrounded by people who all think the same - slowly. You are always one step ahead, or, you think of poo poo normal people can't even begin to imagine. Just learn to write the important poo poo down, and set aside a time block EACH DAY to get your tasks done. If you have nothing to do that day, free time. Don't let your to do list get bigger than 3 items. Own your advantages and work to find solutions to your downfalls. What helps me is to get away from normality; Go camping - go for an overnight trip somewhere, get out of your comfort zone, and then when you return to your family you will have had plenty of time to think about your next course of action.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 03:19 |
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quote:I am considering ending things but need to know if this is normal nerd behavior or not, I haven't dated anybody into anime before. if you hear the word "anime" on the first date it's a big blinking red warning sign to stay away
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 03:24 |
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Jesus, being white and walking around Bronzeville at 3am is a pretty balls out move. Don't really have any advice for you, but you really have to kick the living gently caress out of someone to kill them so you probably just knocked him out. I've had a group of about 4 guys put the boots to me until I went unconscious and all I got was a couple broken ribs and a busted up nose and eye. I looked like death when I got home though. So yeah, most likely didn't kill the guy. It was also self defense so you didn't do anything wrong.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 03:25 |
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E: IGNORE ME
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 03:26 |
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DBZ feshes are starting to be less fun
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 03:27 |
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DBZ bf deserves to die alone
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 03:57 |
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LingcodKilla posted:Eat a dick. It makes a big difference because men are told they need to big and manly and not report this stuff. Yes, and what you wrote implied that because it's a man you would apply "the assumption". With "the assumption" in this thread being that a confession is fake.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 07:13 |
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Kim Jong ill posted:Yes, and what you wrote implied that because it's a man you would apply "the assumption". With "the assumption" in this thread being that a confession is fake. that's probably not what "the assumption" was, and getting upset over your reading of, frankly, one of the worst posts in terms of communication i've seen in a while, instead of trying to figure out what he meant with that word salad, is not going to help anyone
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 07:16 |
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Is this like me having "the assumption" that all goons are autistic?
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 07:22 |
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Hedrigall posted:Is this like me having "the assumption" that all goons are autistic? That's just fact.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 07:27 |
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Kim Jong ill posted:Yes, and what you wrote implied that because it's a man you would apply "the assumption". With "the assumption" in this thread being that a confession is fake. Like I said 843 pages back, we should assume every fesh is fake but still treat them like they were real.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 07:52 |
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loquacius posted:I'm gonna default to "your wife is going through a lot right now", don't hold this against her but yeah I also wouldn't let your life just kinda be over 2nd post: I'd be worried that making up stories about your relationship to bum free drinks off people at the LOCAL gay bar will come back to bite you if the people you mooched off encounter you outside of that situation. Or you know you go back there and they recognise you.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 10:10 |
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quote:I'm a survivor of an abusive relationship and just want to write some of this poo poo down and get it off my chest. I'm part of a support group too, but it's difficult for me to admit this to friends and family because there's a thought in society that men can't be abused. And a lot of people look down on you if you're an abused man admitting it. Hell, I still have a hard time admitting it. Well done for getting out. Anyone who would look down on you for this poo poo is a child, either literally, developmentally or emotionally. Anyone who has had a meaningful relationship go south understands the mental gymnastics you can go through to try and preserve it. A friend of mine got abused by a woman he was seeing, he didn't get out early enough and it culminated in her throwing him into a wall and then beating him about the head with a full wine bottle. Luckily he didn't die, he just has problems with intense migraines that he'll probably live with for the rest of his life. No-one thought any less of him, in fact I gained a new respect for him with the candour in which he told us about it.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 10:32 |
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Gridlocked posted:2nd post: I'd be worried that making up stories about your relationship to bum free drinks off people at the LOCAL gay bar will come back to bite you if the people you mooched off encounter you outside of that situation. Or you know you go back there and they recognise you. Also, it's a real shithead thing to do.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 11:04 |
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At this point I'd like to see another "I'm ban alien from fuckulon 5" fesh.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 14:37 |
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quote:Several months ago I got out of a long term, on-and-off relationship with the woman who I believed to be the love of my life. In retrospect I realize that I was in a toxic, unhealthy relationship, but at the time I was devastated that I'd lost this person. quote:I have recently been dealing with some anger issues that seem to be flaring up more severely as time goes on. Last night I was doing my normal routine of playing Hearthstone while my live-in girlfriend was watching TV. I was in the middle of a game right on the edge of being promoted to Legendary and the guy emoted "thank you" at me a bunch on the turn he killed me. I could actually feel my head get hot (a regular occurrence, even in matches that I end up winning) and I threw my keyboard at the wall and started screaming at the computer. Anger issues are a thing you can get help for fairly easily
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 17:29 |
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Don't play video games that make you want to kill your girlfriend, angergoon
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 17:38 |
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"My girlfriend ran in fear of her life because I tried to kill her in a fit of rage, but to be fair, someone I played a children's card game with was sorta mean to me"
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 17:47 |
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Yeah, you need to get a hold of your anger before you do something even more stupid. I nearly threw a guy from a fourth floor balcony under the influence of the red mist, and that scared the poo poo out of me enough to get help. Therapy, before someone gets hurt.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 17:53 |
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I hate hearthstone as much as the next guy but lol. You know you can just mute them at the beginning of the game right?
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 18:03 |
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yeah I eat rear end posted:I hate hearthstone as much as the next guy but lol. You know you can just mute them at the beginning of the game right? Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 18:04 |
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Danaru posted:"My girlfriend ran in fear of her life because I tried to kill her in a fit of rage, but to be fair, someone I played a children's card game with was nice to me but sarcastically" fixed that
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 18:07 |
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quote:ADD GOON posted: Man that's a long time to go without any sort of treatment or diagnoses for an attention/learning disability. If you can't afford it you can't afford it, but one or two sessions might get you at least a diagnoses and a route to treatment or medication. One piece of advice though. If you're planning to get life insurance buy it before any sort of diagnoses/medication. They will ding you real good. Life insurance sees people with ADHD taking medication as one step above smokers. It certainly sounds like ADD, but again I'm no internet doctor. I've been using medication for years which helps a lot but doesn't fix everything. I use a system of lists, phone alarms, email reminders and verbal reminders with my spouse to make sure I get things done, and I still forget a decent amount. Often if my spouse asks me to do something I'll repeat it out loud to her so that it kind of gets into my head, then often set an alarm for myself to do it. I deal with some anxiety with making phone calls and such because I'm afraid I'll lose track of information and forget the info I need so if that rears it's head I often write up my introduction and the key points I need answered. And sometimes the best tactic is to literally do something immediately. Have to remember to pay your rent/mortgage? Just go do it right then. My wife can get annoyed as anyone would, but my good faith efforts do alleviate some of her frustration over my forgetfulness. She knows it's not that I don't care. I do have anxiety over forgetting stuff with my kid though, so I feel you. Non-medication/non-therapy advice: Exercise. Preferably in the morning. Especially cardio but anything that's going to really wear you out. It definitely helps to focus me far longer than just "trying real hard."
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 18:24 |
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I stopped playing Hearthstone and Heroes exactly because they turned from fun evening stress relief to infuriating shitfests. still, throwing your keyboard and attempting to hit your gf is pathetic no matter the reason git gud
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 18:31 |
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necroid posted:I stopped playing Hearthstone and Heroes exactly because they turned from fun evening stress relief to infuriating shitfests. I never got into either of these games but I'm curious what makes them so infuriating. I know with MOBAs I've played having toxic teammates can really kill the enjoyment of the game.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 18:34 |
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 18:37 |
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necroid posted:git gud You don't even need to do that anymore. Just buy enough card packs and copy some legendary deck off hearthpwn and it's hard not to stumble into legendary once you learn the basics of the deck. The reason why it's not fun is because everyone that still plays the game does exactly that, so you'll only ever see a handful of different decks each season. That makes it boring and predicatable though, not infuriating. The only time I get mad at it is when people intentionally take the entire time limit for their turns just to be a dick, but that's "roll my eyes and alt-tab for a bit" annoying, not bash my loved ones' faces in annoying.
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# ? Apr 3, 2017 18:40 |
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Panfilo posted:I never got into either of these games but I'm curious what makes them so infuriating. I know with MOBAs I've played having toxic teammates can really kill the enjoyment of the game. heroes was great because I never played mobas and it promised quick 20 minute matches with cool blizzard characters. for a while it was exactly that, then the player base opened up and you got all sorts of retards in quick matches. a friend of mine also explained how the match making ratio works (worked?) and basically if you were too good a player I think it put you in bad teams on purpose. when you start losing game after game because your teammates do the opposite of what they're supposed to do with their characters it gets annoying fast. also in my experience the matches tended to become longer, 30-40 minutes struggles between two teams of spastics flailing aimlessly around the map. hearthstone was great fun but yeah everybody ends up using copies of the same top decks from hearthpwn, you have to either play A LOT or buy a lot of packs to have a chance.
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