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boner confessor posted:i mean i guess you could compare this to a severe food allergy if we assume that she's healthy despite being allergic to 99% of food, sure Except he literally stated that she doesn't avoid specific foods, when they're made for her (such as eating out with friends). She just doesn't cook them for herself.
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SpaceClown posted:is eating olives and pickled peppers every few minutes a nutritious diet? Yea it's the Mediterranean diet super healthy
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i feel like a very common bit of advice given to people living on their own is "cook meals in bulk and freeze em and you'll have food for the week and it is super cheap" and just based on what the girl is doing in that post it doesn't sound like she has an eating disorder https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Avoidant/restrictive_food_intake_disorder like yeah this is real but this is like the girl I dated who would only eat cheese pizza from pizza hut, fruit roll ups, twix, cheese quesadillas (white cheese not yellow cheese), and cheetos this girl is just being super organized and recognizes her lack of self control so she nips it in the bud by not loading the pantry. there's nothing inherently wrong with that. it's not negatively impacting her life (if anything it saves her money and aids her health) and the only issue really is the boyfriend wants to be able to store more food if/when he moves in. Moridin920 fucked around with this message at 19:45 on Apr 6, 2017 |
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Improbable Lobster posted:How much soylent do you drink? You're being an idiot. Do you really think it's impossible to make a nutritionally complete meal without dumb gimmick food?
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Xombie posted:Except he literally stated that she doesn't avoid specific foods, when they're made for her (such as eating out with friends). She just doesn't cook them for herself. you've spent two pages saying she avoids "snacks" you can't go back on that now, friendo. she avoids specific foods in the form of any food in her house that doesn't pass her strict food ritual refusing to keep "snacks" as in food that isn't in your crock pot dump meal is an unhealthy coping mechanism for an eating disorder
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Blue Train posted:Yea it's the Mediterranean diet super healthy I hope I get a luxurious Mediterranean sheen to my mane.
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boner confessor posted:you've spent two pages saying she avoids "snacks" you can't go back on that now, friendo. she avoids specific foods in the form of any food in her house that doesn't pass her strict food ritual A wild mirthless has appeared. You're dumb.
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boner confessor posted:really it's not like it's any less weird if she optimizes her macro/micro nutrition in her sunday night giant pot meals to prevent scurvey because it's still just her way of avoiding not putting food in her pantry which is not a healthy coping mechanism for her admitted eating disorder Gotta say, you're really stretching the limits of "eating disorder" when the "problem" it causes isn't medical, it's just that her boyfriend has to take his half-eaten burrito home. boner confessor posted:you've spent two pages saying she avoids "snacks" you can't go back on that now, friendo. she avoids specific foods in the form of any food in her house that doesn't pass her strict food ritual A snack is not a "type" of food, it's a time that you eat your food. Eating at three times a day isn't a "food ritual". quote:refusing to keep "snacks" as in food that isn't in your crock pot dump meal is an unhealthy coping mechanism for an eating disorder Someone behaving in a way that you wouldn't doesn't mean that their action is unhealthy. Xombie fucked around with this message at 19:49 on Apr 6, 2017 |
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Honestly it sounds exactly like she has a binging disorder of some kind, especially the part where she goes ham while out and about and cannot prevent herself from eating if there's excess food in the house. Either this is her way of trying to control it herself or this is something she's come to as part of recovery and she hasn't told her bf about it for whatever reason. My money's on the first though, if only because an ED program would likely be trying to work her towards a healthier relationship with food. I mean, as long as she's not purging after bingeing it's probably not the worst way to handle it in the short term, but if he moves in with her they're going to need to address it at some point.
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Moridin920 posted:there's nothing inherently wrong with that. it's not negatively impacting her life (if anything it saves her money and aids her health) and the only issue really is the boyfriend wants to be able to store more food if/when he moves in. if your eating disorder coping mechanism prevents other people in your household from using a room for its intended purpose then that's a negative impact imo Xombie posted:Gotta say, you're really stretching the limits of "eating disorder" when the "problem" it causes isn't medical, it's just that her boyfriend has to take his half-eaten burrito home. i've continually said "unhealthy coping mechanism for an eating disorder" repeatedly so i'm just going to assume you forgot how to read and claim victory. thank you for agreeing with me that she has unhealthy behavior that negatively impacts her life. i'm glad we were able to work this out and that i could show you the error of your ways boner confessor fucked around with this message at 19:49 on Apr 6, 2017 |
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boner confessor posted:you've spent two pages saying she avoids "snacks" you can't go back on that now, friendo. she avoids specific foods in the form of any food in her house that doesn't pass her strict food ritual "Strict food ritual" here having the meaning "she cooks in advance?" Everyone avoids specific foods it's called "things you don't like to eat" or "things you know are bad for you so you avoid them." boner confessor posted:refusing to keep "snacks" as in food that isn't in your crock pot dump meal is an unhealthy coping mechanism for an eating disorder She over eats so she decides to buy less food so it isn't on hand when she has the munchies from smoking weed. Seems reasonable to me? Is it really that alien for you guys to not have chips and whatever on hand all the time?
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Avenging_Mikon posted:You're being an idiot. Do you really think it's impossible to make a nutritionally complete meal without dumb gimmick food? 
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He just needs to submit to her will totally on it and it'll be fine.
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:No, it's not. Go into YLLS and tell them all they have an eating disorder. She doesn't keep other foods around because she can't trust herself with food. That's 100% disordered eating.
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She doesn't have a binging disorder either. She gets the munchies.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Yeah I dunno what the controversy is here or why folks are so angry about it. Sounds like she's healthy and disciplined enough to stick to a regimen, good for her. Goons are super jealous
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Yeah I dunno what the controversy is here or why folks are so angry about it. Sounds like she's healthy and disciplined enough to stick to a regimen, good for her. im pretty sure goons are literally just angry and jealous because she is practicing the self control they all advocate constantly yet fail to actually enact thus they remain chubby while this girl is probably fit as hell and has a banging body she's worked hard to get also bring back the fit ladies thread we can make it fit people and have dudes in there too if that's what is necessary no skin off my dil
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Maybe if I post a mad fatty you fatsos will stop with the dumpy derail My older sister[24f] hates me[21m] for making my younger sister[18f] pretty and healthy Non-Romantic quote:300 points 243 comments submitted 1 year ago by Melotri to r/relationships
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Yeah I dunno what the controversy is here or why folks are so angry about it. Sounds like she's healthy and disciplined enough to stick to a regimen, good for her. the problem isn't that she only eats bulk meals, the problem is that she has so little self control around food that she has to strictly control the amount of food stored in her house. hopefully she's still working on this because imagine trying to move in with the woman who won't let you keep food in the pantry because she might eat it all
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if that's the worst problem this super fun attractive fit lady who cooks regularly has then i literally would not care lol hide your chips in your car if you really need to
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boner confessor posted:if your eating disorder coping mechanism prevents other people in your household from using a room for its intended purpose then that's a negative impact imo "Doctor, I think my girlfriend has an eating disorder! It's negatively impacting me!" "My god, what is happening?" "I have to eat MY OWN BURRITO" quote:i've continually said "unhealthy coping mechanism for an eating disorder" repeatedly so i'm just going to assume you forgot how to read and claim victory. thank you for agreeing with me that she has unhealthy behavior that negatively impacts her life. i'm glad we were able to work this out and that i could show you the error of your ways Not getting to leave your leftovers in other peoples' fridges is not a "negative impact" on your life. Why exactly should this woman have to go to therapy to find a completely different solution for something she's already found a solution for, just so this guy can leave his garbage at his girlfriend's house?
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boner confessor posted:she has to strictly control the amount of food stored in her house. like basically everyone does this otherwise half your food would spoil lol you realize that right? normal people don't just stuff their pantry full of as many goodies as they can like they are squirrels getting ready for the winter
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Xombie posted:"Doctor, I think my girlfriend has an eating disorder! It's negatively impacting me!" imagine that instead of food, she wouldn't let her boyfriend leave alcohol in her fridge because she doesn't trust herself around alcohol and she would drink it all. would you say she does, or does not, have an adequate coping mechanism for alcoholism? keep in mind people need food to live and while only 30% of people keep alcohol in their kitchen, 100% of people keep food in their kitchen
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"Oh the behavior is most definitely unhealthy." Meanwhile the behavior actively contributes to his girlfriend's physical health.
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boner confessor posted:imagine that instead of food, she wouldn't let her boyfriend leave alcohol in her fridge because she doesn't trust herself around alcohol and she would drink it all. would you say she does, or does not, have an adequate coping mechanism for alcoholism? you've described basically everyone that has gone through AA
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boner confessor posted:imagine that instead of food, she wouldn't let her boyfriend leave alcohol in her fridge because she doesn't trust herself around alcohol and she would drink it all. would you say she does, or does not, have an adequate coping mechanism for alcoholism? keep in mind people need food to live and while only 30% of people keep alcohol in their kitchen, 100% of people keep food in their kitchen now, rather than projecting your own fat rear end, imagine that if she has an extra beer then she has to run for an extra three miles the next day.
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Yeah I dunno what the controversy is here or why folks are so angry about it. Sounds like she's healthy and disciplined enough to stick to a regimen, good for her. She is very specifically not disciplined. If she was having snacks in the house would not be an issue.
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boner confessor posted:the problem isn't that she only eats bulk meals, the problem is that she has so little self control around food that she has to strictly control the amount of food stored in her house. hopefully she's still working on this because imagine trying to move in with the woman who won't let you keep food in the pantry because she might eat it all
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he should just get his own mini fridge and put a padlock on it, the combination to which she will never know their future children can call it the forbidden fridge, and the family can create their own myths and lore about it "it was here when we moved in" he'll say. "you must never look within it, lest you be forever tainted by its malign light"
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she's recognized a flaw she has and has taken steps to correct it, steps which the absolute worst thing you could say about them is "i have to take my leftovers home" and "i can't store a ton of chips in the pantry" which are easily corrected by a "bf food only" shelve with a lock on it
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Hot Smart ARYAN Girl posted:he should just get his own mini fridge and put a padlock on it, the combination to which she will never know someone repost the story where the roommate's binge eating girlfriend broke the padlock off the pantry Moridin920 posted:she's recognized a flaw she has and has taken steps to correct it banishing food from your house is not a healthy correction mechanism imo. it's extremely normal for people to have food in their house that they do not plan on eating that day maybe this is just an extension of goons playing millenial poverty olympics. "heh, you have EXTRA food in your house? look at richie rich over here, buying two loaves of bread between student loan payments  "
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boner confessor posted:imagine that instead of food, she wouldn't let her boyfriend leave alcohol in her fridge because she doesn't trust herself around alcohol and she would drink it all. would you say she does, or does not, have an adequate coping mechanism for alcoholism? Not keeping alcohol in the house is literally the first thing they make alcoholics do when in recovery.
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Moridin920 posted:she's recognized a flaw she has and has taken steps to correct it, steps which the absolute worst thing you could say about them is "i have to take my leftovers home" and "i can't store a ton of chips in the pantry" Not really correct more like desperately pretend it doesnt exist.
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Lotta people don't understand the difference between self control and a disordered relationship to food. But hey, her method is a thousand times better than starving herself or binge/purge. He'll prob just need to lock up his snacks if they live together.
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Xombie posted:Not keeping alcohol in the house is literally the first thing they make alcoholics do when in recovery. ok, we've made a step here. now keep going! if not keeping booze in the house is the sign of an alcohol disorder, not keeping food in the house would be a sign of coping with an e____g d_____r? (fill in the blanks)
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when offered an opportunity to teach abroad I specifically avoided India because I knew I'd get SO loving FAT. APPARENTLY goones think that means i have an India Disorder. I would be unable to teach because you can't talk if you're drinking curry directly from the buffet vat. j/o into a rolled up naan, freeze it, gently caress myself with it in a korma bath while the theme song from Singham plays. make it fuckin rain saffron on my basmati rear end. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BM0PnqV5-iM tear off my sack, fry it onion bajj style. let vultures tear the meat off my bones for samosas. none of you saltless calorie counting bitches even fathoms less than a thousanth of a percent of the glory that is indian food. sister is upset cause her sibling brought Honkey Bullshit into her sacred kitchen. skim milk? motherfucker should be hung from his ears. how DARE he.
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Werong Bustope posted:Lotta people don't understand the difference between self control and a disordered relationship to food. But hey, her method is a thousand times better than starving herself or binge/purge. He'll prob just need to lock up his snacks if they live together. Lotta people itt don't get the munchies while staying very fit.
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boner confessor posted:ok, we've made a step here. now keep going! if not keeping booze in the house is the sign of an alcohol disorder, not keeping food in the house would be a sign of coping with an e____g d_____r? (fill in the blanks) Xombie posted:It's likely she has a binge eating disorder, which is why she doesn't keep extra food around. Were you late to the party or something?
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I dunno, I don't think that "likes to eat snacks when they're around" is an eating disorder. Maybe I should talk to someone about all the oreos that have entered my home only to mysteriously vanish!!!
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