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ArbitraryC posted:this level of nuance is perhaps impossible with this thread. You either agree with her actions or you disagree, there's no "more than one party was wrong" to be found asking someone to say grace isn't even wrong. it's an entirely polite request from their perspective. nobody's trying to trick you into becoming a christian. it's the same as offering meat to a vegan, or bread to a celiac, or salt to a goon
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I was half-considering leaving off the grace story for mostly being generic "heh, invisible sky wizard " stuff, but leave it to goons to make it a heated debate somehow.
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boner confessor posted:asking someone to say grace isn't even wrong. it's an entirely polite request from their perspective. nobody's trying to trick you into becoming a christian. it's the same as offering meat to a vegan, or bread to a celiac, or salt to a goon Once you say the words that's it, game over. It's how they get you
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Just add "hail Satan" at the end, it's all good.quote:My (23/F) best work friend (23/F) is planning to give the office bully (30/F) sugar free gummy bears the day before her wedding. This seems like a bad idea. I really think this is a great idea, and they should film it. GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 04:37 on Apr 13, 2017 |
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If you love sweets you prolly won't eat a bag of sugar free candy, and the person who posted that is insufferable
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# ? Apr 13, 2017 04:46 |
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I hope that this cattiness eventually spills over into hair pulling on the office floor and someone swinging a high heel at someone else.
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Barudak posted:As the door finally swings free you find that behind it, there is nothing but a bare brick wall. "It leads nowhere," shes says, suddenly behind you, "just like a relationship without trust" GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Just add "hail Satan" at the end, it's all good. OP is just jealous that Katie has so much better ideas than her this one's just got some fun bad taste brinksmanship going on [30m] My girlfriend [28f] is overdoing it with tattoos and they are BAD. How do I have an intervention with her without coming off as controlling or judgmental? quote:The worst one is just some woman's face on her back for no loving reason. And it's BIG. Who the gently caress gets that? quote:I had a best friend for 10 years who ended up getting one horrible tattoo after another. Little did she know I hate tattoos, but I was happy she was happy. Here are some examples: quote:Her entire side is a skull surrounded by tribal bullshit and roses with thorns. A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 05:34 on Apr 13, 2017 |
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I don't know, I mean I'd introduce her to an awesome tattooist but that's just me.
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boner confessor posted:asking someone to say grace isn't even wrong. it's an entirely polite request from their perspective. nobody's trying to trick you into becoming a christian. it's the same as offering meat to a vegan, or bread to a celiac, or salt to a goon it really isn't
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Haifisch posted:My (27m) girlfriend (26F) of 5 months has become "spiritual" after taking drugs and I'm staunchly atheist. This guy single-handedly proves that it is possible to be a joyless, closed-minded, stuffy turd without religion. (and I mean the "BUT SHE MEDITATES " part more than the drug stuff)
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ArbitraryC posted:it really isn't The idea of it being a passive aggressive attempt to push out the girlfriend keeps slipping out of my grasp. If it was, the double barrel response is appropriate. Like maybe there was a running battle of cattiness between the girlfriend and his mom the whole night. "She's not good enough for my little boy" isn't a new concept but I'm writing fanfiction at this point. I'm okay with this being a game we're playing itt
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Elsa posted:The idea of it being a passive aggressive attempt to push out the girlfriend keeps slipping out of my grasp. If it was, the double barrel response is appropriate. Like maybe there was a running battle of cattiness between the girlfriend and his mom the whole night. "She's not good enough for my little boy" isn't a new concept but I'm writing fanfiction at this point. its not passive aggressive at all unless you're the kind of person to sit there silently fuming if someone assumes you do plebian things like watch sports or network television like 70% of america does "oh what a nice picture of you two we can put it on the apple cloud!" *internally screaming has this yokel never HEARD of android???*
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boner confessor posted:its not passive aggressive at all unless you're the kind of person to sit there silently fuming if someone assumes you do plebian things like watch sports or network television like 70% of america does It makes sense if the mother disliked the girlfriend and knew she was atheist because the son mentioned it some point during the relationship. Either way I'm leaning toward the girlfriend's corner because that response was loving awesome. That atom bomb at the dinner table
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Elsa posted:It makes sense if the mother disliked the girlfriend and knew she was atheist because the son mentioned it some point during the relationship. if church mom dislikes the girlfriend and the worst punch she throws is asking gf to say grace, and gf blurts out some r/atheism poo poo, then drat
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maybe it IS a fairy tale you don't know
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Elsa posted:Either way I'm leaning toward the girlfriend's corner because that response was loving awesome. That atom bomb at the dinner table That's true. I'm still playing it as some kind of hosed up advice councillor and what's the point.
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boner confessor c'mon debate me. Prove god exists and the girlfriend is wrong for her comment boom ultimate burden of proof I win
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Finally, a pointless way to end your relationship that I empathize with. This is kind of like that. Except, the person closest you knows and is hiding it instead. It's real weird. Especially because he's moving in. If it was like his new gf or something then it's none of your drat business I suppose.
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# ? Apr 13, 2017 07:49 |
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I'd just be like stay the gently caress outta there, and it's just sentimental reminders of my highschool yaoi collection. you didn't know, you don't wanna know.
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boner confessor posted:its not passive aggressive at all unless you're the kind of person to sit there silently fuming if someone assumes you do plebian things like watch sports or network television like 70% of america does
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Pick posted:yaoi I just googled that and found it very unpleasant.
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I find myself lost at not knowing what is behind the door.
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ArbitraryC posted:this level of nuance is perhaps impossible with this thread. You either agree with her actions or you disagree, there's no "more than one party was wrong" to be found Yeah, that's it. We're just not enlightened enough to "get" your posts. That must be the problem.
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ArbitraryC posted:this level of nuance is perhaps impossible with this thread. You either agree with her actions or you disagree, there's no "more than one party was wrong" to be found Nuance is a smug assholes crutch.
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CharlestheHammer posted:Nuance is a smug assholes crutch. stop just pick an unusual opinion and defend it, it's not that difficult to get
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I'd move in and try to get her to spill the beans. If that doesn't work, lock pick that poo poo.
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Psycho Society posted:I'd move in and try to get her to spill the beans. If that doesn't work, lock pick that poo poo. It'd keep me awake at nights wondering. I'd love a mission like that to pick the door. Pick pick pick click An entire room full of sexual trophies and / or bees. GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 10:32 on Apr 13, 2017 |
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Inspection cameras are cheap and really cool:
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Gorilla Salad posted:Inspection cameras are cheap and really cool: Whoa that's badass. I can't imagine the havoc i would have wreaked with one of those as a kid
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Girlfriend [23f] wants extreme space after ever little right with me [24m]quote:So, any time me or my girlfriend fight she is basically incapable of talking to me about during any disagreement/fight we have. I want to try to see exactly what happened that pissed her off or hurt her but she just wants to shut down and go in the other room and have me leave her alone until she calms down or now it's escalated to her wanting to leave (or more ideally) me to leave our apartment because of the stupidest poo poo because she says she can't get unmad at me anymore if I'm anywhere near her. Another case of "please stay together so no one else has to deal with either of you"
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Danaru posted:Girlfriend [23f] wants extreme space after ever little right with me [24m] Jesus gently caress, this fight started over a disagreement of a fictional character's hair color.
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Dude writes like he's 15 at most. ESL maybe?
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WampaLord posted:Jesus gently caress, this fight started over a disagreement of a fictional character's hair color. It's doubly weird, since they're wrong. Cindarella's hair in KH is pretty much identical to her hair in the movie. When you make a game with a Disney license they send all these charts and sheets and things to guarantee that every character you include is canon, with the correct colours, costumes and proportions and things. They're really protective about it too, messing up Cindarella's hair colour would never fly. Movie: Kingdom Hearts:
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I wish we had a dancing smilie I [34/f] turned to my husband [34/m] for support after some bad news. He pointed out a blemish on my face in response. Is this a big enough straw to break the camel's back? Relationships quote:submitted 1 year ago by RenaeElaine In the update, he learns to use his words, yaaaaaay quote:Thank you so much to everyone who commented on my original post earlier this year! Bubblyblubber fucked around with this message at 13:03 on Apr 13, 2017 |
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Just add "hail Satan" at the end, it's all good. Is this what american workplaces are like? Basically like kindergarden school? I can literally not even imagine people in my workplace loving showing pics of other people and making fun of their weight there is no office bully here jesus gently caress you guys are weird
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ArbitraryC posted:it really isn't I had an evangelical tell me I was going to hell so many times, for such a long period of time that religious discussions could literally send me into a panic attack for a number of years and somehow I still get less offended than you over somebody asking me to say grace in a huge part of the country it's cultural tradition, lip service to god more than anything, and if you get militant about having to participate in it and are rude to the people who asked, maybe you're just being an rear end in a top hat for no reason? seriously though this poo poo is ubiquitous in the south and in the bible belt. I married into a religious family and despite my atheism I can somehow make it through a dinner without insulting their faith beyond the emptiness of my participation in prayer BTW the whole point of grace is saying what you're thankful for and it doesn't even have to have a religious context. I've bumbled through plenty of pre-dinner handfolds without having to drop a single empty "Lord' or "God" or "JEE-ZUS" and have yet to be called out as a heathen. They didn't ask her to start reading psalms dude. If your contempt towards other people's religious beliefs is so strong that you can't be in proximity to it that's a problem with you, not a problem with the religious people, lol. Mirthless fucked around with this message at 13:50 on Apr 13, 2017 |
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:All she needed to do was say "I'm not comfortable with saying grace right now" or the like. She had absolutely zero reason to denigrate their religious beliefs. Its 100% okay to denigrate Catholics because they're part of the lunar plot to unseat the moral authority of Christ.
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God made feet, let's eat. Simple and to the point.
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Mirthless posted:A huge dumbass post arguing against something no one said
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we dont do prayers at dinner in this country because we're not medieval loving villagers or whatever jeez you seriously sit down and pray to god at dinner every time??
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