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Make sure you warn him his daughters a real lightweight, and that it's normal for her to pass out after 1 beer
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If we go to war I hope there is a bunch of sick new anti war songs written
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Ehud posted:If we go to war I hope there is a bunch of sick new anti war songs written gonna see metallica's long-awaited followup...."Two"
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JPrime posted:gonna see metallica's long-awaited followup...."Two" zero it all goes back to zero man
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ZenVulgarity posted:zero One - Human Adds up
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JIZZ DENOUEMENT posted:What the gently caress. Do you have a ballpark estimate % of this occurrence? Woo, wall of text time! No idea honestly, the foster home question is tough to predict because we have such high turnover to begin with, plus in my state it's become a kind of a feedback loop; over the last five years we have fewer treatment programs and fewer foster homes, which means we're both putting higher needs kids into lower levels of care, less able to match kids to providers meaning less stable relationships/rapport, and overfilling foster homes more often. The antecedents are debatable, but definite factors have been decreasing foster parent payments in 2010 or so with no subsequent increases or adjustments for inflation, fewer supports available, and provider frustration at the aforementioned dealing with greater numbers of high needs kids. All that being said, this tends to be less concerning to me, foster parents are inherently intended to be short term, and while that's often not the case and I'd rather they be more invested, it's a different animal than what's intended to be a permanent placement. I'm sure somebody in the agency could compare the number of yearly adoptions to adoptive parents having new cases open or kids coming back into care, but I don't have access to that data. I've had 3 such cases in 3 1/2 years, compared to an estimated 30 or so overall, but my caseload is hard to compare to the agency's overall numbers; I'm assigned to a teen unit, so on the one hand I deal with a number of delinquency cases independent of parental safety risks (in this state there's a memo of understanding between DHS Child Welfare and DoJ Juvenile Services Division, that is, protective services and juvenile probation officers, allowing the court to grant temporary custody to DHS on a delinquency petition for the purpose of services and placement), but on the other hand I've a greater likelihood of handling failed adoption since older kids are more likely to be returned (it takes time for adoptive parents to bail, so the kid is more likely older, plus teens are more likely to be utter turds). It's also important to note I've had just plain bad luck with these cases, I've handled as many failed adoptions as caseworkers who've been with the agency for 20 years, so my experience is obviously subjective. And, while I appreciate the kind words, I just view it as a question of fit. I love the role I play, equal parts coordinator, attorney, therapist, teacher, and guidance counselor, but without the added weight of having to be particularly good at any of those. Ultimately I don't have to worry about a major commitment on any of those fronts, my job is to be in the background and connect the kid to the necessary figures to do all those things, so I can exit gracefully. Naturally that often winds up not being the case, but I decided after about 5 years I hated being a therapist, I enjoy clocking out at 5 so I'd be a really bad provider (as much as I like my own kid, just the 1 is enough for me), and I get to play lawyer without learning Latin or $150,000 in law school debt. There are way too many people who commit way more than me, I'm just the bureaucrat with a bleeding heart. Therapists, mentors, CASAs, and most of all, foster parents are the really impressive people in the system.
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Ehud posted:luke 8:14 I couldn't find 8:14, but I found 8:10 http://www.bricktestament.com/the_parables_of_jesus/use_of_parables_explained/lk08_10.html
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New star wars looks dope
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Blitz7x posted:New star wars looks dope Hell yeah star war
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Same director as Brick so I'm actually excited.
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Blitz7x posted:New star wars looks dope That teaser was awesome fuuucckkkkk
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A Man and his dog posted:I kinda wonder what my life would be like if I had a family. What kind of things do you like to do? Now imaging getting to do them four times a year and being made to feel guilty the whole time.
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Amy Pole Her posted:Make sure you warn him his daughters a real lightweight, and that it's normal for her to pass out after 1 beer Lmfao
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A Man and his dog posted:I'm 30 and have no kids and life is great. Instead of constantly disappointing a different woman and her family all the time, you would be disappointing the same woman and her family all the time.
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Apr 14, 2017 19:51
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Apr 14, 2017 19:55
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A Man and his dog posted:Talk to me when you can perform a successful open heart surgery Talk to me when you can perform a successful omelette or fish taco
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Apr 14, 2017 20:02
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If we go to war in Korea can you guys squat in my house so my poo poo don't get looted like what happened to Japanese Americans when they drag me my sister and my elderly mother to the Korea Kamps
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Apr 14, 2017 20:11
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Yeah this is about to get terrible for Koreans (and east Asians in general, let's be real). Sorry dude.
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No Irish Need Imply posted:Yeah this is about to get terrible for Koreans (and east Asians in general, let's be real). Sorry dude. Are there people in the world who think all vaguely Asian looking people are sympathetic to North Korea of all places? Well aside from Bill Parcells.
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Jiminy Christmas! Shoes! posted:What kind of things do you like to do? Now imaging getting to do them four times a year and being made to feel guilty the whole time. You missed the part where he brags about his dad's money that he won't inherit because he's going to die from cirrhosis of the liver
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Hot take: Ryan Getzlaf and John Gibson are good
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A Man and his dog posted:Talk to me when you can perform a successful open heart surgery I prefer to practice on things that are actually difficult 
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Apr 14, 2017 20:38
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Ehud posted:lol I was wondering what it was gonna say The trick to fake gospel verses is just have a chapter of Mark in the twenties.
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Grittybeard posted:Are there people in the world who think all vaguely Asian looking people are sympathetic to North Korea of all places? Probably not and I'm mostly joking but also I'm not expecting a lot of rational actors too. Star Wars looks dope though!
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Probably Magic posted:The trick to fake gospel verses is just have a chapter of Mark in the twenties. nah, 2 Kings 2:23-24 is where it's at.
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No Irish Need Imply posted:Yeah this is about to get terrible for Koreans (and east Asians in general, let's be real). Sorry dude.  Maybe I'll be dead before Trump defunds my program.
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I just had ribs for lunch because I'm a dumb idiot and now I need a nap
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best bible verse is Isiah 36:12 "But Rabshakeh said, Hath my master sent me to thy master and to thee to speak these words? hath he not sent me to the men that sit upon the wall, that they may eat their own dung, and drink their own piss with you?" -KJV
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The filthy rags in the classic Jesus verse about man's righteousness is actually a sanitized translation of menstrual cloth
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Grittybeard posted:Are there people in the world who think all vaguely Asian looking people are sympathetic to North Korea of all places? There are people that are actually sympathetic to North Korea and it is very strange
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Deuteronomy 23:13 has always been a favorite. "And thou shalt have a paddle upon thy weapon; and it shall be, when thou wilt ease thyself abroad, thou shalt dig therewith, and shalt turn back and cover that which cometh from thee" It's just good advice.
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the mean lunch lady posted:There are people that are actually sympathetic to North Korea and it is very strange I mean I'm really sympathetic to everyone stuck there outside of the top leadership. Can't remove those guys without making things way worse for a whole lot more people then them though. That people go there as a tourist has always been weird as hell to me though, but thanks to it, we've gotten a lot of pictures of what NK wants and doesn't want the world to see, and it's fascinating in a very late 80's soviet block kind of way or like the brightly painted slums where every cruise ship sails past. Like giant supermarkets where you see the small section that's fully stocked with food, and the sneaked out pictures of where people actually get groceries.
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Kalli posted:I mean I'm really sympathetic to everyone stuck there outside of the top leadership. My mom saw some of those pictures and she said it was really weird to see their fashion as it was all 50s like to her so it's being a time traveler to when she was a little girl in rural post war Korea
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I'm reasonably sure that huge rear end bomb we dropped yesterday could've paid for several years of Meals on Wheels. That's kind of depressing to think about.
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Chromatic posted:I'm reasonably sure that huge rear end bomb we dropped yesterday could've paid for several years of Meals on Wheels. gently caress the poor though, it's a war economy now Snake
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Apr 14, 2017 22:29
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I have a lot of nieces and nephews because I have a lot of sibs. Would definitely like to have kids someday.
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Can't remember where I read this but I remember a story of some visitors to NK walking into a big mall to check out the local fast food joint, but when they got there there was just one guy in an empty restaurant. When he saw the visitors approach, he quickly ran to the backroom and a minute later the "restaurant employees" appeared in their uniforms and started serving burgers.
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I just ate Soft shell crab 6 oysters Fried scallops Fried clams Calamari 2 beers I'm ready to gently caress!!
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5 RING SHRIMP posted:I just ate Hope you don't have to poo poo in mid coitus and let some slip out
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I am stuck in the middle of nowhere for the weekend because my wife's parents decided that Irvine was too busy of a city so they moved north of SLO. I am so bored.
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