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quote:I pulled her back and told her to stop. It was just pointless. Then she pulled her arm back and said "you junkie piece of poo poo" and "you are still such a loving addict" and left.  Like yeah, slip ups happen, but he doesn't acknowledge at all that locking yourself in your apartment and blazing for an entire day isn't the healthiest coping response. Neither is grabbing your girlfriend in a fit of anger.
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Still stunned at that absolute retard considering staying with his 5mo gf who got drunk and banged two guys on holiday. pussy drought
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Elsa posted:pussy drought she wasn't even putting out for him tho haha, which is why the story just felt like a redpill spankbank.
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ArbitraryC posted:she wasn't even putting out for him tho haha, which is why the story just felt like a redpill spankbank. yeah she's his best chance of getting laid
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He needs good friends to mock him for even considering it. Reddit's kneejerk therapy wouldn't fix that broken. I want to be his irl friend so i can mock him for at least a decade. GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 01:42 on Apr 25, 2017 |
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Maria Bamford! I don't know why Pick reminds me of her. Content: My [32F] BF [33M] has declared no further education. Red flag? u/lolwutdafuqbro TL:DR Bf of 6+ years rejects the idea of additional schooling, declines a trade school unless he gets tired of his life. Unsure if new thing. Giant red flag? BF- attended some college classes, didn't get far before dropping out so he has a HS diploma, that's it. He's brilliant, no known learning disabilities. I knew he'd dropped out within the first few months of the relationship, but he had a comfortable job so it didn't appear to be a problem. He no longer has that job due to a failed random drug test. He knew they did random drug tests but continued to smoke mj very heavily due to leg pain. We cannot survive financially unless he has a significant ($14+/hr) income. We've lived together for 4 years now. Me- On my third (!) Associates, this time in hopefully something that I won't need to back out of, which is Cybersecurity. (I'm aware that a third one is probably not the greatest thing to have in the world. In my defense, I was very young and foolish when I first hosed up my life, and was in an abusive relationship but didn't know it yet. That's now over, but I burned a lot of bridges.) I'm very pro-trades, I think Mike Rowe has the right idea, I have zero expectation out of BF besides gainful, profitable employment. He doesn't need a college degree for that, my brother (31) is proof of that. (Industrial maintenance.) This all came about as I was cooking meal prep for the week, I asked BF "have you given any additional thought to school?" We had discussed it about a month ago, he mentioned he'd been thinking about dabbling in computer sciences again. (What he was originally going to school for.) His answer was "I'm not doing school, I'm not going into debt for nothing. If I get tired of doing what I'm doing, I might think about a trade school." My reply was to point out that he's very eligible for a ton of free money (state funds and federal) but agree that the local electrician's union is a good idea as well, and I mentioned their starting pay. That's basically the conversation. This is kind of new, except maybe it's not. He's never been a fan of furthering his education, he readily admits he dropped out of college because he hated it and didn't want to become a corporate drone. His level of ambition has always been pretty low, certainly lower than mine. He's not much of a house husband, doesn't clean or cook very well. Am I just really in denial and this is truly him, and everything else has been lip service from him? Is it time to plan an exit strategy or flat out hit the bricks?
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Batterypowered7 posted:
her effort to act nonchalant while cooking takes me right back to my childhood and it makes me feel stuffy. Way to be my mom about it
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:He needs good friends to mock him for even considering it. Reddit's kneejerk therapy wouldn't fix that broken. Kinda petty I guess but ultimately it was the right call. These people really could use friends to make them realize how pathetic they look to everyone else when they have so little self respect that they'd just continue a relationship after something like that. e: I don't think it's worthwhile arguing over whether the stories are real or just meant to rile people up but I think that they weren't loving, it was specifcally a mmf threesome with strangers, her friends didn't think it was unusual she went off to bone two dudes, and much later when she realizes she has to come clean about what she did she starts suggesting it wasn't consensual all kinda tick a redpill bingo page of how they believe beta's date. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 01:43 on Apr 25, 2017 |
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If she was too drunk to consent then she was raped, in which case leaving because of it is a horrible thing to do. On the other hand you would think the friends she was on vacation with would have been looking out for her if she was that drunk.
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Batterypowered7 posted:My [32F] BF [33M] has declared no further education. Red flag? How does somebody end up with three associates degrees? Shouldn't they coalesce and form one larger degree, like three associate cells forming a bachelor multi-cell or something? Haifisch posted:She didn't start hurling the junkie insults until he started manhandling her, so I'm kind of assuming the whole situation was worse than he was letting on. Dude who wants to lock himself in his room and blaze all day should hook up with girl who lives in a room full of stinky lizards and birds.
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quote:Kinda petty I guess but ultimately it was the right call. These people really could use friends to make them realize how pathetic they look to everyone else when they have so little self respect that they'd just continue a relationship after something like that. I don't really see that as petty, though - hanging onto self respect is super important. I wouldn't hang about either after reflection.
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GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:I don't really see that as petty, though - hanging onto self respect is super important. I wouldn't hang about either after reflection. I say petty because it was mostly "but what will other people who know what happened think of me? Won't they look down on me", you could argue that's self respect or you could argue that self respect would be not caring what other people think so long as you believe you made the right decision. I think in my case it was mostly a reflection of how I'd view other people in my position, I'd probably think poorly of a person who stuck around in that context so I in essence was just sticking to my own standards.
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TOOT BOOT posted:If she was too drunk to consent then she was raped, in which case leaving because of it is a horrible thing to do. On the other hand you would think the friends she was on vacation with would have been looking out for her if she was that drunk. uh they haven't had sex so I don't think he's exactly her rock and anchor or on the hook to raise the child
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Haifisch posted:She didn't start hurling the junkie insults until he started manhandling her, so I'm kind of assuming the whole situation was worse than he was letting on. That's one way to read it, but in my opinion not the only one. He may have manhandled her or may not have. Still a pretty lovely way to talk to someone if you care about thier continued recocery. Betacuck dude needs to leave so his balls don't fall off, if it's real. Even if her story is true and 100% how it was conveyed in the story, why would anyone consider sticking around to raise someone else's kide and care for a potential rape survivor with whom they have not ever slept after 4 months and they went on a binge and either got too drunk to consent and had no sense that cheating on you was wrong or were sober enough and did it anyway. Also if she is sober enough to walk off into the sunset into a MMF threesome without her friends who were watching her intervening she was probably not blackout drunk. Unless you think one or two drinks renders someone unable to consent. But really it is a redpill fantasy.
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ArbitraryC posted:I think this is a huge part of why "they cheated but I'm genuinely considering forgiving them" seem so common on the reddit subforums. Like I've been cheated on in a pretty minor way (then gf was at a party, drunk, and made out with a friend that had been chasing after her for a long time). She told me about it the next morning and was super honest/apologetic about it, I took a day to think about what I wanted to do and ended up calling things because after talking with friends about it I just decided I didn't want to be that dude who pathetically stuck around after infidelity. Like with the way she handled it I wasn't even so much worried about future slip ups or the trust being gone, I just honestly was concerned with how it'd reflect on me. holy poo poo yes, if you get cheated on tell your loving friends! they will remind you that's bullshit, because their heads aren't stuffed with lovey dovey idiot hormones i didn't tell anyone when my ex cheated on me because i thought i was taking the high road or some poo poo and guess what, it took 2 more times and also finally telling a friend for my gently caress stupid brain to realize that hey, maybe i should.......NOT forgive them???
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I think between hiding it until nature itself made it so she couldn't lie anymore, her friends being blase about her going off to gently caress people when she's partying, and the "you don't deserve this, you deserve better" line it's pretty clear where the chips fall here which is why the whole consent thing shoehorned in at the end seemed like super obvious redpill bait. Either way it's a super dumb derail.
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quote:Me [27/F] with my boyfriend [28/M] of 1.5 years, can't take his anti-Semitic jokes anymore.
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putrid aidsman posted:Jew joke guy. She is being really stingy in her appraisal of his behavior.
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can you even be half jewish? IANAJ but I thought it was a p simple system, jewish mother = jewish, non jewish mother = not jewish.
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new phone who dis posted:I think that the person who has the discipline to master a couple of martial arts and collects swords and poo poo is not in the realm of the guy who just does it because he likes them. lmao Buzkashi posted:Dude's worried he's gonna catch the gay if he likes having his butt touched in any way she already took his tentative agreement as a license to start pushing his boundaries once, if dude doesn't put his foot down next thing he knows she's gonna cram her whole fist up there and work him like a Muppet A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 02:20 on Apr 25, 2017 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:lmao Nah, men don't need to consent to being penetrated. - Buttblaster Girl
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ArbitraryC posted:can you even be half jewish? Yeah but if I remember correctly, this guy named Hitler kind of made non-binary jewishness into a thing.
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ArbitraryC posted:I say petty because it was mostly "but what will other people who know what happened think of me? Won't they look down on me" I find it difficult to disconnect that way, so I could easily be projecting. But I wouldn't want to be that guy, either. I'm efb by someone above saying friend's heads aren't stuffed full of oxytocin. quote:she already took his tentative agreement as a license to start pushing his boundaries once, if dude doesn't put his foot down next thing he knows she's gonna cram her whole fist up there and work him like a Muppet 
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boner confessor posted:a 25 year old is barely old enough to make their own decisions. the legal age of majority is 18 but that's largely an outdated concept from when life expectancy was like 40. the prefrontal cortex, the part of your brain that allows you to consider the consequences of your actions, isn't done maturing until your mid twenties. this is why teens and young adults are so prone to making lovely decisions lol @ this
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tsa posted:lol @ this if this guy collides with a technically it's called ephebophilia guy you'll get an explosion bigger than an atom bomb
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25 year olds can literally serve in the house of representatives and make laws n poo poo but decide who they can have sex with??? a bridge too far. fuckin' lmbo!!!!
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tsa posted:25 year olds can literally serve in the house of representatives and make laws n poo poo but decide who they can have sex with??? a bridge too far. fuckin' lmbo!!!! Lol at you using the house as a symbol of responsibility
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Let's be real, twenty five is old enough to know better than to bang your mom's friend's ex-husband, let alone call your mom afterwards to gush about it. I have this funny feeling that she didn't sleep with him so much because he's a hunk of red hot sex so much as she wanted to teach her parents a lesson.
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I think the same thing, why is she so eager to get their relationship out in the open? It's awkward at best so it seems like it would be better to wait and see how things shake out first.
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ArbitraryC posted:I think between hiding it until nature itself made it so she couldn't lie anymore, her friends being blase about her going off to gently caress people when she's partying, and the "you don't deserve this, you deserve better" line it's pretty clear where the chips fall here which is why the whole consent thing shoehorned in at the end seemed like super obvious redpill bait. Either way it's a super dumb derail. wtf is all this redpill poo poo you seem to know so much about
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but how old is old enough to have your own sword shrine in the living room
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tsa posted:25 year olds can literally serve in the house of representatives and make laws n poo poo but decide who they can have sex with??? a bridge too far. fuckin' lmbo!!!! there are horses I'd rather have in the house of representatives than currently serving congresspeople
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Elsa posted:wtf is all this redpill poo poo you seem to know so much about There's subforums devoted to the idea that there are two kinds of dudes, alphas that smash all the fresh pus they want, and betas that are stable income providers who are lucky to get sad handies once a month. They also think women cheating and claiming it was rape is a common thing. Basically the whole story reads like a validation of their worldview and i'm sure is already being shared around their own subreddits. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 03:39 on Apr 25, 2017 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:but how old is old enough to have your own sword shrine in the living room 25 is th e upper age limit. Lower age limit depends on how cool your parents are multiplied by how good their judgment is.
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ArbitraryC posted:There's subforums devoted to the idea that there are two kinds of dudes, alphas that smash all the fresh pus they want, and betas that are stable income providers who are lucky to get sad handies once a month. They also think women cheating and claiming it was rape is a common thing. Basically the whole story reads like a validation of their worldview and i'm sure is already being shared around their own subreddits. what seems odd to me is how sure you seem to be that it's redpill bait followed by calling the discussion a derail. Are you sure you don't subscribe to whatever school of thought this is, like why did you call it out as redpill and then get so repulsed by it.
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Hey, she cheated on him with her co-worker. gently caress her, gently caress her friends, and gently caress her friends' families both literally and figuratively. Just revel in it. Scorch the earth!!!
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