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Blue Train posted:Rape fantasies are super common v. problematic
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It is weird how rape fantasies are more acceptable for women to have. A guy fantasizing about raping women would be a walking red flag.
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May 4, 2017 17:34
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Leon Einstein posted:It is weird how rape fantasies are more acceptable for women to have. A guy fantasizing about raping women would be a walking red flag. They just call it hardcore BDSM to make it more socially acceptable.
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May 4, 2017 17:38
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Leon Einstein posted:It is weird how rape fantasies are more acceptable for women to have. A guy fantasizing about raping women would be a walking red flag. That's a raper fantasy which is different
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May 4, 2017 17:36
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new phone who dis posted:They just call it hardcore BDSM to make it more socially acceptable. It's called noncon jeez
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May 4, 2017 17:38
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Leon Einstein posted:It is weird how rape fantasies are more acceptable for women to have. A guy fantasizing about raping women would be a walking red flag. It ought to be a huge-rear end red flag for a woman to have it either.
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May 4, 2017 17:36
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Leon Einstein posted:It is weird how rape fantasies are more acceptable for women to have. A guy fantasizing about raping women would be a walking red flag. A woman who fantasized about raping woman would also be a walking red flag. It's a raper-rapee distinction.
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May 4, 2017 17:37
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I fantasize about an exciting long term relationship with someone reasonable and maybe sorta consistent?
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May 4, 2017 17:37
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Pick posted:It ought to be a huge-rear end red flag for a woman to have it either. Agreed.
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May 4, 2017 17:39
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Elsa posted:I fantasize about an exciting long term relationship with someone reasonable and maybe sorta consistent? We know you are incel
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May 4, 2017 17:39
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Blue Train posted:Rape fantasies are super common And they start at a shockingly young age in my experience. The first (and only) girl I've had sex with that told me about a rape fantasy was at like 16 or 17? It really threw me off and made me uncomfortable. Also why do I keep finding age gap stories Ny boyfriend [22M] of 3 months and I [16F] are being threatened w/ legal action from my family. quote:I'll try not to make this a wall of text, but chances aren't likely - sorry!! Comments quote:I'd like to know exactly what the hell is wrong with this adult man that makes him so desperate to cling to a 16 year old girl. Red flags abound here. OP posted:Firstly, I'd appreciate it if you didn't insult my boyfriend, because I posed this question to this community in a respectful manner and would like that same respect and courtesy given to me. You don't have to agree with me, but I wouldn't immediately jump to conclusions saying that "something is wrong with him." Secondly, to add to that, nothing is wrong with him. He's always been in very healthy relationships with people in his age group 20 - 25. When I met him, he was under the impression that I was older than I was and didn't find out my actual age until after we'd gone on a date. Once he found out, he tried to break things off but eventually decided against it because he wanted to take the risk. As far as large age gaps and taboo relationships go, he's been as non-creepy and non-threatening as anybody can get - and trust me, I dated a guy his age at 13 who was nothing but red flags. I know the difference after that. Also holy loving poo poo, I went to her profile and she has started so many threads it's insane. She also looks like the kind of girl that would date a way older guy, so take that as you will.
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May 4, 2017 17:38
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Elsa posted:I fantasize about an exciting long term relationship with someone reasonable and maybe sorta consistent? pervert
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May 4, 2017 17:40
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Maybe, and this is just a wild notion from a flagrant sex-hating conservative hyperchristian victorian prudebot, we have gone too far in communicating to people that their sex weirds are actually sex hoorays and we are witnessing the downsides of telling people that wanting flag poles in their butts and to rape are in fact natural and good.
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May 4, 2017 17:39
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Family should drop ultimatums and just prosecute. Theres no joke, just, goddamn do it.
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May 4, 2017 17:40
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Pick posted:Maybe, and this is just a wild notion from a flagrant sex-hating conservative hyperchristian victorian prudebot, we have gone too far in communicating to people that their sex weirds are actually sex hoorays and we are witnessing the downsides of telling people that wanting flag poles in their butts and to rape are in fact natural and good. Idk if this is part of your shtick or not, but it is probably the truest thing I've seen you post yet.
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May 4, 2017 17:40
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Pick posted:Maybe, and this is just a wild notion from a flagrant sex-hating conservative hyperchristian victorian prudebot, we have gone too far in communicating to people that their sex weirds are actually sex hoorays and we are witnessing the downsides of telling people that wanting flag poles in their butts and to rape are in fact natural and good. Once you get old enough you realize most of the people you dated in the past with extreme kinks weren't exciting or adventurous, they were just mentally hosed up and re-enacting whatever abuse made them that way in the first place.
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May 4, 2017 17:44
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(MN) Deadly plants VS. teenagers? (self.legaladvice)quote:Hello reddit. I live in northern MN in the middle of nowhere and have for the past decade. For most of that time I've kept a garden of dangerous plants. These are plants that when eaten or in some cases touched can cause coma and death. They are a hobby of mine. Most of these plants can be found growing naturally in north america. I've kept this garden for a long time with no issues. This guy is in training to be a supervillain
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May 4, 2017 17:42
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Pick posted:wanting flag poles in their butts If this is unnatural then call me yellow #5
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May 4, 2017 17:43
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Pick posted:Maybe, and this is just a wild notion from a flagrant sex-hating conservative hyperchristian victorian prudebot, we have gone too far in communicating to people that their sex weirds are actually sex hoorays and we are witnessing the downsides of telling people that wanting flag poles in their butts and to rape are in fact natural and good. if someone tells me to put on nothing but a ski mask and go to town unless they say beetlejuice three times, it's not rape they want, it's cosplay
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May 4, 2017 17:43
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maskenfreiheit posted:if someone tells me to put on nothing but a ski mask and go to town unless they say beetlejuice three times, it's not rape they want, it's cosplay
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May 4, 2017 17:44
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You know that girl thinks she's sooo mature. This girl has a bad creepometer if no alarms went off when she was 13 and dating a guy in his 20s.
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May 4, 2017 17:44
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Nazzadan posted:And they start at a shockingly young age in my experience. The first (and only) girl I've had sex with that told me about a rape fantasy was at like 16 or 17? It really threw me off and made me uncomfortable. The number one reason women fantasize about rape is because they want sex, but have been told by society that they are worthless whores who will burn in hell if they want sex. So they imagine that they have no choice but to have sex, they remain "good girls" and still get to imagine the sex act. It's a way of justifying it to themselves. I think it would be more common in younger women who haven't grown up and realized what they actually want out of sex and relationships.
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May 4, 2017 17:44
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purple death ray posted:The number one reason women fantasize about rape is because they want sex, but have been told by society that they are worthless whores who will burn in hell if they want sex. So they imagine that they have no choice but to have sex, they remain "good girls" and still get to imagine the sex act. It's a way of justifying it to themselves. I think it would be more common in younger women who haven't grown up and realized what they actually want out of sex and relationships. I always knew you were holding something back
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May 4, 2017 17:46
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new phone who dis posted:Once you get old enough you realize most of the people you dated in the past with extreme kinks weren't exciting or adventurous, they were just mentally hosed up and re-enacting whatever abuse made them that way in the first place. TBH I was never at a point in my life where I thought someone wanting to be pooped on wasn't weird, gross, and indicative that they're hosed in the head
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May 4, 2017 17:46
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I'm a kinkshame lifestyler
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May 4, 2017 17:46
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kinkshaming (everything about it)
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May 4, 2017 17:47
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purple death ray posted:The number one reason women fantasize about rape is because they want sex, but have been told by society that they are worthless whores who will burn in hell if they want sex. So they imagine that they have no choice but to have sex, they remain "good girls" and still get to imagine the sex act. It's a way of justifying it to themselves. I think it would be more common in younger women who haven't grown up and realized what they actually want out of sex and relationships. Hot af
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May 4, 2017 17:48
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Pick posted:TBH I was never at a point in my life where I thought someone wanting to be pooped on wasn't weird, gross, and indicative that they're hosed in the head What about piss
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Beekeeping and You posted:(MN) Deadly plants VS. teenagers? (self.legaladvice) Dear Reddit, Some crazed man with severe psychological issues relentless stalks me. Every time I move he eventually tracks me down and tries to get me thrown into pyschiatric care despite him being the insane one. I am currently growing a variety of deadly poisons that i plan to smear on my collection of vintage movie props, in an effort to finally stop him. How do I tell my roommate politely to not touch my plants while they are growing? Thanks.
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May 4, 2017 17:50
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Tacky-rear end Rococco posted:A woman who fantasized about raping woman would also be a walking red flag. It's a raper-rapee distinction. What if the woman fantasizes about raping men? purple death ray posted:The number one reason women fantasize about rape is because they want sex, but have been told by society that they are worthless whores who will burn in hell if they want sex. So they imagine that they have no choice but to have sex, they remain "good girls" and still get to imagine the sex act. It's a way of justifying it to themselves. I think it would be more common in younger women who haven't grown up and realized what they actually want out of sex and relationships. A lot of rape fantasies are incredibly 'sanitized' (if that's a word we could use here) and resemble the dubious consent sex scenes of bodice-ripping Romance novels, not the kind of rape that happens in reality.
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May 4, 2017 17:50
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Dienes posted:What if the woman fantasizes about raping men? I knew a girl like this. She uh, couldnt find any men in college who would agree because when men hear "get raped" there are 0 bodice ripper fantasies in their heads and millions of extremely hosed up things.
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May 4, 2017 17:53
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Dienes posted:A lot of rape fantasies are incredibly 'sanitized' (if that's a word we could use here) and resemble the dubious consent sex scenes of bodice-ripping Romance novels, not the kind of rape that happens in reality. and then there's Supernatural noncon dog dick oviposition and vore and now we're full circle
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May 4, 2017 17:55
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Dienes posted:A lot of rape fantasies are incredibly 'sanitized' (if that's a word we could use here) and resemble the dubious consent sex scenes of bodice-ripping Romance novels, not the kind of rape that happens in reality. I once saw a guy, maybe on this site, defend hentai by saying that in 99% of cases, the woman being raped comes to enjoy it, and that it's really a fantasy about being able to break down her ~barriers~ And I just thought, then why isn't your fantasy about making a woman comfortable enough with you that she wants to have sex with you. like is that just tooooooo crazy.
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May 4, 2017 17:56
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Barudak posted:I knew a girl like this. She uh, couldnt find any men in college who would agree because when men hear "get raped" there are 0 bodice ripper fantasies in their heads and millions of extremely hosed up things. they all said no so they were exactly who she was looking for?
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May 4, 2017 17:55
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Elsa posted:they all said no so they were exactly who she was looking for? lol
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men only get raped in prison and only in the rear end, and then they deserve it because they are devious criminals who must be punished
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95% of fetishes these days seem to be "i have bad self-esteem: the sexual experience". 4% are "i am a narcissist" and the last tragic 1% are "i saw a video of a woman washing socks at exactly the wrong moment in my sexual development"
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May 4, 2017 17:57
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Me [20s M] with my girlfriend [20s F] ~3 years, she does not approve of a hobby of minequote:My girlfriend thinks mechanical keyboards are a waste of money. Let your boyfriend spend 20 bucks on his keyboard, you ladysperg.
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May 4, 2017 17:58
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purple death ray posted:The number one reason women fantasize about rape is because they want sex, but have been told by society that they are worthless whores who will burn in hell if they want sex. So they imagine that they have no choice but to have sex, they remain "good girls" and still get to imagine the sex act. It's a way of justifying it to themselves. I think it would be more common in younger women who haven't grown up and realized what they actually want out of sex and relationships. or simply enjoy an ocassional dominant partner, but can't manage to grasp the distinction between "dominant partner who i've set up a safe word and limits with" and "rape"
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Pick posted:95% of fetishes these days seem to be "i have bad self-esteem: the sexual experience". 4% are "i am a narcissist" and the last tragic 1% are "i saw a video of a woman washing socks at exactly the wrong moment in my sexual development" I want a t-shirt that says this.
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