Pick posted:

He'd also accuse me of being a tramp, like in any case where I was talking about something that involved a man he would imply that I probably hosed him and I would always have to laughingly but seriously affirm I did not gently caress the guy in the story, even if he was just like a mailman or whatever.

Faffel posted:

Well, that's how it works in the porn. You made a whole thread about that! It makes perfect sense.

quote:

My girlfriend and I had plans to hang out last night. She wanted to get food and I offered to get her fast food but she said she was on a diet and didn't want to eat that. Fair enough. She tells me she's going home to change and eat there as well. I leave my house later to go pick her up. Turns out she never ate anything and was still hungry. I told her that my mother cooked spaghetti which I know she loves(Spaghetti the meal not my mom's in particular) She hesitated but later gave in and ate it. I warmed it up for her and then she asks for some ketchup. Something I thought was odd but I know that is how she eats it. So we're in my room watching TV and she asks me to try some. I keep telling her no thanks but takes no for an answer and really wants me to try it. I respectfully declined and she then she gets upset at me for not trying it ruining her night.

I didn't try it because... point blank I didn't want to eat or try that. So then she gets upset at me and refuses to cuddle,talk to me or acknowledge me and sleeps on my bed for a few hours. Once it was time to go. I did apologize for hurting her feelings but she didn't care. She told me that I ruined her night. I dropped her off and we haven't spoken since.

Am I wrong in this situation for telling her no? Im mindful majority of the times and will try new things that she'll want me to try out but these few times I say no she loving trips over it. Really annoying
TL;DR: Girlfriend was hungry, I gave her spaghetti that my mom cooked. She ate it with ketchup and wanted me to try it. I said no thank you and she got pissed off at me not having to do anything with me and telling me I ruined her night

Pick posted:

ketchup is spaghetti abuse

GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:

She's foodshamed. That's probably a thing.

quote:

Been with my fiance for 2.5 years, engaged since Christmas, our son just turned 1, I am due baby 2 (a girl) in August. Since our son was born last year he has become more and more angry, impatient and says hurtful things and I feel completely alone and isolated because we have a large social media following centred around our happy family image and worked so hard on that that I barely see friends or family anymore. It makes us a lot of money but it's becoming miserable.

Examples:

never gets up for our son during the night and gets angry at me when he wakes him up crying, says I should 'have that under control by now'

told me our son looks too much like me and not enough like him, he had a paternity test done behind my back

regularly says mean things about our son's appearance like his eyes are too small or he doesn't look anything like him, yet says our son is the spitting image of me..

has told me once after he'd had a drink that he thought my eyes were too small and too close together but other than that I was perfect

has already mapped out an extreme fitness plan for me to get my body back in shape after giving birth

once told me our son 'smells like poo poo' and that he can't be around him when he has a dirty diaper

made me take down a picture I posted of our son because he had chocolate on his face and it looked 'dirty'

has demanded sex during pregnancy when I am not feeling like it because he wants to make the most of not using condoms

our son was an accident because my fiance slipped the condom off and didn't pull out in time, and I am not allowed to take hormonal birth control

our next baby is a girl and he is disappointed because he wants a son that looks more like him

whenever I eat any food that isn't healthy he makes a huge deal over calculating how many hours in the gym it will 'cost me'

he justifies this by saying our income is partly reliant on looking good and we can't afford to let our standards slip

Aside from when he's being like this he can be very sweet, and we have done very well for ourselves for our age, that will all go away if I leave the relationship I will be a single mother of two with next to no assets, no education, no support network except my mother, and no employment experience.

What should I do? What is wrong with him? It's a marked change in behaviour since our son was born :/

TL;DR fiance says nasty things about son and me and its killing me

YeahTubaMike posted:

Can men get post-partum depression?

elise the great posted:

Postpartum depression doesn't extend to the pre-pregnancy period though. He took off the condom and didn't pull out in time, conceiving a child because she's "not allowed" to use hormonal BC.

That sounds less "depressive episode" and more "calculated abuse strategy" right there

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I don't mean he chews on my head or anything, but he chews on and eats the hair the falls out.
We've been together for a few months and I'm just finding out about this. Today, after I brushed my hair in his bathroom, he came out flossing with a piece of my hair. I asked wtf he's doing and he was very nonchalant about it. After "flossing" he sucked it into his mouth and swallowed.
So of course I have 20 questions about wtf he's doing. He's been doing it for about 3 months. Doing it comforts him. At first hed do it when he missed me, now it's that and it's just a habit. When I've used his brush he's kept the hair I left behind to chew on and stuff. He eats it whenever he feels too lazy to throw it out (which is often) but to him it's comforting to have a piece of me in his mouth.
I know this sounds like trolling, but I'm completely serious. I'm uncomfortable but I don't know if it's that big of a deal for me to complain. He doesn't take hairs from my head so it has no impact on me but it's just...odd. I'm not sure if I should view this as a cute quirk or if I need to start doing my best to get rid of any hair I leave behind, or I need to straight up tell him stop. So my issue is it's not hurting me so should i not bring it up? Please help.
Tl;dr: bf eats my hair and has eaten it for months. What do i do?

Dunning Krugerrand posted:

Are there any social media "celebrity" families that aren't completely dysfunctional?

I [22F] am seriously scared by my fiance [21M] he is saying horrible things about me and our son [1M], I am 8 months pregnant

Charles Get-Out posted:

Bf [24M] eats my [20F] hair. It makes me uncomfortable and I'm not sure what to do.

Charles Get-Out posted:

Aside, do you have a link handy to whatever gross medical story that red title is referencing?

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My girlfriend wants to go on this trip with these guys that she met through a friend like a year back. They have invited no other girls except my girlfriend and I can’t help but feel very worried about this. One of them has expressed interest in her in the past and openly flirts with her. This isn’t something I really mind since both of us can be flirty but it’s one thing to flirt at a bar or something while I’m there and another to go off with them for 9 days.
We’ve argued about it. She says I have nothing to worry about and should trust her. We’ve both been cheated on before and that line is something my ex said to me and her ex said to her so she already knows I absolutely hate that she said that. But I do trust her. I just don’t trust those guys to respect that she’s in a relationship and a week-long trip where there’ll be some alcohol and probably weed (one of the guys is a stoner). Of course I’m worried about what could happen while she’s under the influence since you’re probably more open to doing things in the heat of the moment while you’re drinking. I'm also not invited since I'm not really close with those guys. Which is fine since I'm not exactly buddy buddy with all her friends nor is she super close to all of mine.
Am I being irrational or controlling here? I told her I don’t like the idea of her going on this trip and would prefer it if she didn’t. She cried because I don’t trust her and she should be able to do things like this with friends. I agree but that doesn’t mean I’m not allowed to look at a potential disaster from the outside and go yeah ‘maybe it’s better if you try to avoid that’.
If I wanted to go on a hike with 3 women and no invite extended to her she would be completely pissed off so I really don’t see why she doesn’t get where I’m coming from. In fact, I'm pretty sure she knows where I'm coming from and just doesn't want me spoiling her trip. She says she’d be fine but I know her well enough to know she’d be very uncomfortable if she were in my position and giving me tons of crap. I should also add that they’re staying at one of the guys family owned cabin and they’ll be hiking around from there and returning to sleep some of the nights.
What should I do?
Tl;dr Girlfriend wants to go on a camping trip with 3 guys for 10 days, there’ll be drugs/alcohol and I’m not invited since the guys and I really aren’t that close

elise the great posted:

I don't even remember which post it was about, "NECROTIC BUTTSLOUGH" is more of a life theme than a single tale for me

But I could dig through my post history in the healthcare goon thread if necessary, it will just be a slow process and I will be crippled with cringe halfway through and wander away to stress eat

WoodrowSkillson posted:

My (25M) girlfriend (24F) wants to go on a 9 day hiking and camping trip with some guys (24M, 24M, 27M) who I’m not all that comfortable with her being alone with. We’ve been disagreeing about it and I’m at a loss as to what else I can say or do. Help? Together 4 years.


This dude is getting cheated on so hard

WoodrowSkillson posted:

My (25M) girlfriend (24F) wants to go on a 9 day hiking and camping trip with some guys (24M, 24M, 27M) who I’m not all that comfortable with her being alone with. We’ve been disagreeing about it and I’m at a loss as to what else I can say or do. Help? Together 4 years.


This dude is getting cheated on so hard

putrid aidsman posted:

quote:

My gf for 5 months is perfect in almost every way except for when we drink. Last night we went out and met up with some acquaintances from the Uni. As soon as she stole her 3rd drink, she started making out with 3-5 guys at the bar from the uni. Then she grabbed their crotches and started dancing. I saw that poo poo happen right in front of me. I couldn't leave her alone with them but I didn't even want to be there.
So when I wrapped up my tab, I was already carrying her as she stole everyone else's drinks. We took a train back to where I parked my car but during the train ride, she started getting aggressive so as we exited our stop; she wouldn't even let me carry her. When i would try to help her walk she would punch my stomach, balls, etc. So it was a long long long walk to the car.

As we get to the car, she starts talking (while sobering up) about one of the guys in the bar that we both knew. How she wanted him as his carebear and that she would prefer him rather than me to sleep with at night. Dude lives in Barrie, we are in Toronto.

As we were going home, she told me to drop her off her sorority's sisters house. She exploded when I said no so I did it. I entrusted her to someone I knew and that was it.

After all that I drove to our apartment and packed all my things in a box and moved it into my parents garage/house while the sun was coming out.

I know she is going to say she doesn't remember. So what do I do now?
We are both 21.

EDIT: I should say that she always forgets what she did when she was drunk. I dont believe it.

EDIT 2: This is not the first time shes done this. She would kiss random strangers at the bar but more like an innocent kiss. I thought she would have stopped but... But it is the first time she went too far.

EDIT 3: She sent a text asking what happened last night. Going ignore her. I dont want to give her closure. gently caress the bitch Im going to the mall.

Thanks Reddit. You made today go by easier.

Bonzo posted:

so I skipped 3000 posts. Did I miss any good meltdowns?

Gf makes out with people when she is drunk. What should I do?

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submitted 8 hours ago by Husband2016

My friend had asked me to watch her son for the day. He was not feeling well, and she really had to go to work. She work as sort of a talent scout. What she does is people come to Audition for roles in a television program, and she oversee's what happens.

My friend is latina/Hispanic whichever one it is. Her son is white and he is adopted. He comes from a friend of ours who changed her mind last minute. My friend can't have children, and she really wanted to be a mom. She is a wonderful mother. gently caress with the kid and may god have mercy on you. Her son is white. My stupid husband blurted to the kid that he's adopted.

Now before you say anything like he was annoyed that the kid was here again. This is his first time at my place. I always go to visit him, and my husband said it was OK if he stayed the day. He blurted this out because he tripped over a toy. He was trying to apologise and said he was joking. The kid was having none of it. I had to call my friend. She came and got him after giving my husband a piece of her mind. He was trying to apologise but she told to gently caress off.

2 questions. How do I repair relationship with friend? And what do I do about my husband?

tl;dr: How do I repair relationship with friend? And what do I do about my husband?

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ShelfLifeInc [score hidden] 5 hours ago
No one trips over a toy and blurts out, "You're adopted!"
"Oh gently caress!" or "Jesus Christ!", sure. But not "She's not your real mom!"

Bonzo posted:

so I skipped 3000 posts. Did I miss any good meltdowns?

Gf makes out with people when she is drunk. What should I do?

putrid aidsman posted:

elise the great posted:

Also if you leave a $30k watch out on the dresser with a known thief in the house, you are DEFINITION asking for it, this is a biotruth

quote:

submitted 3 hours ago by canukys

I've known my wife for a long time, we met in high school and i totally fell in love with her after talking to her a few times, i knew since we started dating that she likes to flash people her tits or sometimes her panties, she did sometimes when we went to a restaurant or even when we're out walking and stuff like that, she just has fun doing it and i don't mind that because i like how daring and confident she is to do it, i know that some people don't like but i know that not everyone agrees with our mind set.

Anyway, last week, i started thinking about surprising her by taking just the two of us away from swinging (yes we swing, we just started doing it two months ago on recommendation from one of our friends) but i want her to stop flashing people at that period, i don't know exactly how to say it but i just want to show her how much i f**king love her and how much she means to me but i'm afraid that she might think that i don't like it when she flashes people which is totally wrong, i'm okay with what she does.

I know that she has fun doing it and for it's fun watching her do it so i don't mind, i know that some people might not understand what i'm feeling right now but i just can't explain it exactly, i can't find the words.

tl;dr: thinking about taking my wife for a 2 week vacation but i want her to stop flashing people her boobs and panties while we're there and i don't know how to talk to her about it

Bubblyblubber posted:

In other "kinky people are fundamentally broken" news:

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Bubblyblubber posted:

In other "kinky people are fundamentally broken" news:

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