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Skelicopter
Feb 19, 2013

More like Prince Alarming
Earlier I somehow came across this transcript of the tragic death of Candace Newmaker, and I was completely unprepared for it. I've read some pretty horrible stuff online, but for some reason this really got to me. Don't read unless you're prepared to be consumed by rage and sadness.

Read the Wikipedia page for more information on the circumstances surrounding her death. Pseudo-scientific "alternative" therapies like this can kill people, and they especially kill those children unlucky enough to have stupid parents. There's something about ignorance like this that makes me much more upset than when I'm just reading about some run-of-the-mill psycho.

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Sarcopenia
May 14, 2014

Skelicopter posted:

Earlier I somehow came across this transcript of the tragic death of Candace Newmaker, and I was completely unprepared for it. I've read some pretty horrible stuff online, but for some reason this really got to me. Don't read unless you're prepared to be consumed by rage and sadness.

Read the Wikipedia page for more information on the circumstances surrounding her death. Pseudo-scientific "alternative" therapies like this can kill people, and they especially kill those children unlucky enough to have stupid parents. There's something about ignorance like this that makes me much more upset than when I'm just reading about some run-of-the-mill psycho.

"Fun" fact. Nancy thomas the woman who adopted "Child of Rage" Beth Thomas is one of the biggest proponents of attachment therapy. She has no degree in psychology or therapy.
She's basically the Jenny McCarthy of AT.


Candace isn't even the only child who have died in relation to this quackery . Most of them where perpetrated by overwhelmed adoptive parents who used tips they had learned through AT.

Solice Kirsk
Jun 1, 2004

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Skelicopter posted:

Earlier I somehow came across this transcript of the tragic death of Candace Newmaker, and I was completely unprepared for it. I've read some pretty horrible stuff online, but for some reason this really got to me. Don't read unless you're prepared to be consumed by rage and sadness.

Read the Wikipedia page for more information on the circumstances surrounding her death. Pseudo-scientific "alternative" therapies like this can kill people, and they especially kill those children unlucky enough to have stupid parents. There's something about ignorance like this that makes me much more upset than when I'm just reading about some run-of-the-mill psycho.

This is disgusting. You weren't kidding about being consumed by rage. Quick googling tells me none of them are in prison anymore either.

Brawnfire
Jul 13, 2004

🎧Listen to Cylindricule!🎵
https://linktr.ee/Cylindricule

My baby daughter was born two days ago.

Why am I reading this? gently caress.

Rev. Bleech_
Oct 19, 2004

~OKAY, WE'LL DRINK TO OUR LEGS!~

Brawnfire posted:

My baby daughter was born two days ago.

Why am I reading this? gently caress.

Mine is now 15 months old. Let me tell you, this thread gets less and less entertaining for me through no fault of its own.

Aaaaaaarrrrrggggg
Oct 4, 2004

ha, ha, ha, og me ekam

Rev. Bleech_ posted:

Mine is now 15 months old. Let me tell you, this thread gets less and less entertaining for me through no fault of its own.

My son's 18 months, and it's not less entertaining to me, just makes me realize how I could absolutely end some people with no remorse.

RC and Moon Pie
May 5, 2011

Finding Lisa: A story of murders, mysteries, loss, and, incredibly, new life: A handyman and single dad releases his young daughter to live with another family because he can't care for her.

Turns out that he's been molesting her.
Turns out he's not her biological father.
Turns out he's likely murdered her mother.
Turns out he's a serial killer.
Turns out that his true identity is still unknown.

There is somewhat of a happy ending for the daughter, who's able to find some of her real family.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
That one is incredibly depressing.

Pretty good
Apr 16, 2007



Skelicopter posted:

Pseudo-scientific "alternative" therapies like this can kill people, and they especially kill those children unlucky enough to have stupid parents. There's something about ignorance like this that makes me much more upset than when I'm just reading about some run-of-the-mill psycho.
This site is a very thorough compendium of pseudoscience/woo/other non-reality-based poo poo getting people killed, or, failing that, permanently loving their lives up in nasty ways. They've got everything from vaccine denial and homeopathy to UFOs and satanic ritual abuse, with links and citations for every entry.

e: OK maybe it's not all dramatic poo poo, but you get the idea

quote:

Age: 30
Bayswater, Greater London, England

Trip delayed
May 2008

He was wearing a T-shirt depicting a cartoon robot holding a gun. Security officials forced him to change his shirt before boarding an airplane.

Telsa Cola
Aug 19, 2011

No... this is all wrong... this whole operation has just gone completely sidewaysface

HAT FETISH posted:

This site is a very thorough compendium of pseudoscience/woo/other non-reality-based poo poo getting people killed, or, failing that, permanently loving their lives up in nasty ways. They've got everything from vaccine denial and homeopathy to UFOs and satanic ritual abuse, with links and citations for every entry.

e: OK maybe it's not all dramatic poo poo, but you get the idea

My favorite is the GPS section.

Pretty good
Apr 16, 2007



Hmm also it doesn't seem to have been updated since like 2008. Shame, it could really use a "punched in face" entry in their holocaust denial category

Pretty good
Apr 16, 2007



Sorry for turning this into a derail but oh my god lmao

quote:

Bart Sibrel
Age: 37
Beverly Hills, California

Punched in the face
September 9, 2002

Bart is a major proponent of moon hoax misinformation. When he decided to harrass astronaut Buzz Aldrin about it, Buzz fought back. Bart became the recipient of a punch to the face.

theflyingorc
Jun 28, 2008

ANY GOOD OPINIONS THIS POSTER CLAIMS TO HAVE ARE JUST PROOF THAT BULLYING WORKS
Young Orc

HAT FETISH posted:

Sorry for turning this into a derail but oh my god lmao

There's video

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o5dr7SEzWBA

Samovar
Jun 4, 2011

I'm 😤 not a 🦸🏻‍♂️hero...🧜🏻



quote:

Age: 30
Bayswater, Greater London, England

Trip delayed
May 2008

He was wearing a T-shirt depicting a cartoon robot holding a gun. Security officials forced him to change his shirt before boarding an airplane.

I remember this one! Specifically, it was Megatron. The best part was an internet comment (I know, I know) which said:

"That's not a Sam (or whatever the guys actual name was), that's a Robert in disguise."

Remember that from b3ta, back when it wasn't completely terrible.

Jedit
Dec 10, 2011

Proudly supporting vanilla legends 1994-2014

I think it's worth mentioning in this thread that Ian Brady is dead.

JibbaJabberwocky
Aug 14, 2010

A lot of podcasts get passed around on this thread which isn't really my cup of tea, so I thought I'd show up with another youtube channel suggestion for some entertaining general weirdness. In this thread or the last thread some books were suggested, one of which was Smoke Gets in Your Eyes about the experiences of a young woman working as a crematory operator in California. The author, Caitlin Doughty, is now a licensed mortician who runs a very transparent "green funeral business" and she also has a youtube channel. If you liked her book, you'd more than likely enjoy this channel. She's hilarious but also tackles some hard topics in a very respectful way. If you ever wondered about the weirder aspects of death (coffin birth anyone?) this is a good channel for you.

Cum Galleon
Oct 16, 2004

Your shipment has arrived.

Samovar posted:

I remember this one! Specifically, it was Megatron. The best part was an internet comment (I know, I know) which said:

"That's not a Sam (or whatever the guys actual name was), that's a Robert in disguise."

Remember that from b3ta, back when it wasn't completely terrible.

Does b3ta still exist? I used to enjoy the question of the week thing that was 99% nerd fantasies and the increasingly poo poo Friday newsletter that just randomly stopped.

Toxteth OGrady
May 28, 2013
B3ta still exists, but it's a shadow of its former self

pookel
Oct 27, 2011

Ultra Carp

Brawnfire posted:

My baby daughter was born two days ago.

Why am I reading this? gently caress.
When I was in the hospital, one or two days postpartum with my first baby, still drugged to the gills and full of new-mom hormones, with nothing else to do but watch TV, I watched an SVU episode about a shaken toddler, and some true crime show about that Carolina Panther player who hired someone to murder his pregnant girlfriend (she died, the baby lived).

My point is: I don't recommend watching/reading this stuff during an emotional time like that, because every bit of both shows is permanently stuck in my long-term memory.

The Wild Man of YOLO
Apr 20, 2004

A little cross-country, gentlemen?

pookel posted:

that Carolina Panther player who hired someone to murder his pregnant girlfriend (she died, the baby lived).

Rae Carruth. He stopped his car while she was following him so that a hitman could pull up next to her and shoot her. Carruth gets out of jail next year. http://www.charlotteobserver.com/sports/spt-columns-blogs/scott-fowler/article109620807.html

Amphigory
Feb 6, 2005




Toxteth OGrady posted:

B3ta still exists, but it's a shadow of its former self

They've just resurrected the newsletter, oddly enough

See they're not releasing Brady's ashes without guarantees they won't be spread on the moors...

Danger
Jan 4, 2004

all desire - the thirst for oil, war, religious salvation - needs to be understood according to what he calls 'the demonogrammatical decoding of the Earth's body'

Brawnfire posted:

My baby daughter was born two days ago.

Why am I reading this? gently caress.

Rev. Bleech_ posted:

Mine is now 15 months old. Let me tell you, this thread gets less and less entertaining for me through no fault of its own.


186 posted:

My son's 18 months, and it's not less entertaining to me, just makes me realize how I could absolutely end some people with no remorse.

Here, hold my beer.

>Have 2 year old
>Reread this

Pendragon
Jun 18, 2003

HE'S WATCHING YOU

Danger posted:

Here, hold my beer.

>Have 2 year old
>Reread this

While I cried reading that article not long after my kids were born, I'm glad I read it. One time when one of my kids was sick, I took both of them to daycare but only dropped one of them off, taking the other home with me. As I was pulling away from daycare, I realized this was the perfect time for me to completely forget about the other guy in the back seat because it was a change from my normal routine of going home and just starting work. I stuck my cellphone in the car door handle as a reminder to take the little guy out.

Still a haunting article though. Christ....

Aaaaaaarrrrrggggg
Oct 4, 2004

ha, ha, ha, og me ekam

Danger posted:

Here, hold my beer.

>Have 2 year old
>Reread this

Here's the weird thing - I completely empathize with the parents in this case. It wasn't malice, they just... forgot. Maybe it's a sign of the times that we're all too drat busy to remember our children in the car, but this is something that person will live with forever. And, quite frankly, it wouldn't surprise me if "forever" for them is only a few months or years before that pain gets to be too much.

Now, those kids that walked off and killed the toddler just for fun - the thought of manual decapitation comes forth...

Basebf555
Feb 29, 2008

The greatest sensual pleasure there is is to know the desires of another!

Fun Shoe

186 posted:

Now, those kids that walked off and killed the toddler just for fun - the thought of manual decapitation comes forth...

As horrific as school shootings or these other heinous acts carried out by kids are, I have a tough time fantasizing about the whole vigilante thing because its easy to imagine that they've matured into completely different people than they were before.

Fully grown adults who suffocate a child to death? gently caress them, I have no problem enjoying a vigilante fantasy about what could possibly happen to them if someone decided to do something.

Solice Kirsk
Jun 1, 2004

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I struggle with my thoughts on vigilante justice. On the one hand I think certain criminal acts deserve death outside of murder and I absolutely understand the logic behind seeking your own justice outside of the law, and on the other hand its basically just a loving lynching. I always tend to lean toward "vigilante justice is bad" but there's sometimes (mostly when it's crimes against children) that I just wouldn't give the smallest poo poo if the perpetrators got raped to death in prison or murdered in the street.

Stairs
Oct 13, 2004

Danger posted:

Here, hold my beer.

>Have 2 year old
>Reread this

That's the most heartbreaking thing I've read in a while.
But then the end. The end was loving incredible.

Basebf555
Feb 29, 2008

The greatest sensual pleasure there is is to know the desires of another!

Fun Shoe

Solice Kirsk posted:

I struggle with my thoughts on vigilante justice. On the one hand I think certain criminal acts deserve death outside of murder and I absolutely understand the logic behind seeking your own justice outside of the law, and on the other hand its basically just a loving lynching. I always tend to lean toward "vigilante justice is bad" but there's sometimes (mostly when it's crimes against children) that I just wouldn't give the smallest poo poo if the perpetrators got raped to death in prison or murdered in the street.

I just try to make sure I'm always aware that its just a fantasy, and the actual reality of tracking one of these people down and doing something to them would not be like it is in the movies. Violence makes me physically ill and its not like I have some delusion that I'd ever be able to actually carry something out. I think its pretty harmless and probably a pretty natural thing that goes through most people's head at one time or another.

pookel
Oct 27, 2011

Ultra Carp

Stairs posted:

That's the most heartbreaking thing I've read in a while.
But then the end. The end was loving incredible.
She'll have a hell of a time finding a fertility clinic to go along with her plan. I offered to be a surrogate for a high school friend, and we went through months of preparation before they denied me for mental health reasons. Three other friends of hers had also volunteered and also gotten turned down. And these were not major mental health problems, but things like anxiety or a history of postpartum depression.

Basically fertility clinics are terrified of lawsuits, and they won't implant embryos in anyone they don't 100% trust to follow through on the agreement without any drama.

Jedit
Dec 10, 2011

Proudly supporting vanilla legends 1994-2014

Basebf555 posted:

As horrific as school shootings or these other heinous acts carried out by kids are, I have a tough time fantasizing about the whole vigilante thing because its easy to imagine that they've matured into completely different people than they were before.

Assuming the discussion has moved to the killing of Jamie Bulger, one of the two boys was banged up for possession and distribution of child pornography.

Basebf555
Feb 29, 2008

The greatest sensual pleasure there is is to know the desires of another!

Fun Shoe

Jedit posted:

Assuming the discussion has moved to the killing of Jamie Bulger, one of the two boys was banged up for possession and distribution of child pornography.

True, I didn't want to get into debating specific people and the merits of hurting them or going vigilante on them though.

Aesop Poprock
Oct 21, 2008


Grimey Drawer

Skelicopter posted:

Earlier I somehow came across this transcript of the tragic death of Candace Newmaker, and I was completely unprepared for it. I've read some pretty horrible stuff online, but for some reason this really got to me. Don't read unless you're prepared to be consumed by rage and sadness.

Read the Wikipedia page for more information on the circumstances surrounding her death. Pseudo-scientific "alternative" therapies like this can kill people, and they especially kill those children unlucky enough to have stupid parents. There's something about ignorance like this that makes me much more upset than when I'm just reading about some run-of-the-mill psycho.

Every single person responsible for this should be buried alive

MacheteZombie
Feb 4, 2007

Solice Kirsk posted:

I struggle with my thoughts on vigilante justice. On the one hand I think certain criminal acts deserve death outside of murder and I absolutely understand the logic behind seeking your own justice outside of the law, and on the other hand its basically just a loving lynching. I always tend to lean toward "vigilante justice is bad" but there's sometimes (mostly when it's crimes against children) that I just wouldn't give the smallest poo poo if the perpetrators got raped to death in prison or murdered in the street.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HYLLoG8zd74

Freudian
Mar 23, 2011

RC and Moon Pie posted:

Finding Lisa: A story of murders, mysteries, loss, and, incredibly, new life: A handyman and single dad releases his young daughter to live with another family because he can't care for her.

Turns out that he's been molesting her.
Turns out he's not her biological father.
Turns out he's likely murdered her mother.
Turns out he's a serial killer.
Turns out that his true identity is still unknown.

There is somewhat of a happy ending for the daughter, who's able to find some of her real family.

This was cathartic for me to read. I teared up a bit at the last few paragraphs, where they interviewed Katherine Decker. If she hadn't done that one decent thing, then that girl would be dead, Evans would have lived to kill again, the Beaudins wouldn't have their granddaughter, and we wouldn't know what happened with the Bear Brook Murders. I realise this is the worldweary cynicism thread, but it's nice to think that sometimes good deeds pay dividends like that.

Terrible Opinions
Oct 18, 2013



Solice Kirsk posted:

I struggle with my thoughts on vigilante justice. On the one hand I think certain criminal acts deserve death outside of murder and I absolutely understand the logic behind seeking your own justice outside of the law, and on the other hand its basically just a loving lynching. I always tend to lean toward "vigilante justice is bad" but there's sometimes (mostly when it's crimes against children) that I just wouldn't give the smallest poo poo if the perpetrators got raped to death in prison or murdered in the street.
I figure it's one of those things where I wouldn't convict someone who committed certain types of vigilante violence, but I also really don't want to live in a culture that legally encouraged that sort of behavior.

Varkk
Apr 17, 2004

Pendragon posted:

While I cried reading that article not long after my kids were born, I'm glad I read it. One time when one of my kids was sick, I took both of them to daycare but only dropped one of them off, taking the other home with me. As I was pulling away from daycare, I realized this was the perfect time for me to completely forget about the other guy in the back seat because it was a change from my normal routine of going home and just starting work. I stuck my cellphone in the car door handle as a reminder to take the little guy out.

Still a haunting article though. Christ....

I read that just after my son was born. As a result I got in the habit of putting his bag etc in the passenger seat when in the car with him and if I drive alone to work I put my stuff in the back seat so I am in the habit of getting things out of the back seat.

Apraxin
Feb 22, 2006

General-Admiral
Atlantic just put out a longform (and sadly posthumous) article by a Pulitzer winning-reporter on being raised in the US by his immigrant parents and also Lola, the slave they imported with them from the Philippines:
https://twitter.com/TheAtlantic/status/864609984570675202

Florida Betty
Sep 24, 2004

Apraxin posted:

Atlantic just put out a longform (and sadly posthumous) article by a Pulitzer winning-reporter on being raised in the US by his immigrant parents and also Lola, the slave they imported with them from the Philippines:
https://twitter.com/TheAtlantic/status/864609984570675202

Also worth a read is the obituary from when she died.

quote:

Eudocia Tomas Pulido lived a life marked by a devotion so rare that even those closest to her still struggle to comprehend it.

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Oct 13, 2007

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