|
maskenfreiheit posted:I'm not sure I'm comfortableslut shaming an unmarried dad for engaging in perfectly legal sexual behavior with an 18/f. But the age gap! Oh, wait, that was mirthless' thing wasn't it. I wonder what happened to him.
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 22:45
|
|
|
|
| # ? May 16, 2024 16:30 |
|
|
The age gap is a huge tell though.
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 22:48
|
|
|
Bubblyblubber posted:Am pretty person, can confirm am soulless, like gingers I loving hate people that drink like this and think they have to pressure other people around them to drink as well so that everyone can have ~~fun~~. Some people go out and don't need to drink one of everything behind the bar to enjoy themselves, or they can have a couple of drinks over the night and be good. Don't loving shame them into doing shots and all this bullshit. Jesus, gently caress, it makes me so goddamned angry. My ex used to get guilt-tripped into going out for drinks with her co-workers and would then get guilt-tripped into drinking way too much (she was a lightweight to begin with and on meds that didn't play nice with too much alcohol) and would inevitably end up calling me for a lift home because she was poo poo-faced and her co-workers had ditched her somewhere. But if she tried to say she didn't want to go for a drink or only wanted one beer she'd get called a spoilsport and a party-pooper. The times she didn't go out for drinks they'd loving text her saying how much fun she was missing out on. It was goddamned insane. Why do you need other people to validate your over-indulging? This sort of manipulation and guilt-tripping is worse than straight-up abuse because if you try to call people out over how lovely it is they hide behind the bullshit excuse of "I just wanted you to enjoy yourself" rather than admit they're at fault or that they're trying to normalise their excessive behaviour. At least if the mom had have punched her or something she'd clearly be the bad guy in the story and not just the 'wacky, fun-loving mom who likes a drink'.
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 22:51
|
|
|
In my spouses culture, drinking to the point of illness is considered a polite and expected thing to do in a suitable social gathering. So the first time I met their family which in their culture was a defacto "we are getting married"I got suitably ripped and ill and everyone was happy that i felt like I was dying for like a day. The trick was, after doing that on subsequent occasions I deferred over drinking by saying it would denigrate the first time we drank together to drink the same amount for such a less important occasion.
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:02
|
|
|
Barudak posted:In my spouses culture, drinking to the point of illness is considered a polite and expected thing to do in a suitable social gathering. So the first time I met their family which in their culture was a defacto "we are getting married"I got suitably ripped and ill and everyone was happy that i felt like I was dying for like a day. this guy knows how it's done
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:08
|
|
|
Barudak posted:In my spouses culture, drinking to the point of illness is considered a polite and expected thing to do in a suitable social gathering. So the first time I met their family which in their culture was a defacto "we are getting married"I got suitably ripped and ill and everyone was happy that i felt like I was dying for like a day. 
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:14
|
|
|
LEAVE PERRY BIBLE FELLOWSHIP ALONEquote:Hi /r/relationships. I (late 20s F) am a longtime reader, but I was never expecting to actually have to post here.
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:14
|
|
|
Pick posted:c'mon, new r/incel thread. someone do it but not me. there's so much good stuff in nice guy towne As you wishhhhhhh
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:31
|
|
|
elise the great posted:My husband, god bless him, doesn't like onions. He'll eat them if they're cooked into a meal, as long as they're diced fine or cooked down really far, but in general he loathes them. He says they have a "foamy" texture that doesn't fully disappear until they're basically cooked into jam, and then they get stringy unless they're cut up fine. I prefer my onions cooked down, raw or even slightly cooked I am not a fan of the texture, but they're necessary for so many things, and not really noticeable if they're cooked a bit. This is usually why if I have a recipe that calls for onions, I'll just cook them in the pan a little bit right before I put everything else in, that way they're not too firm. But they also don't disappear. The only thing I make where they pretty much disappear is chili, but it simmers for so long I don't think there is a way to help that.
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:41
|
|
|
i prefer my onions in my bitch roommate's bed
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:43
|
|
|
gently caress you guys I touched the poop and commented on how "all a woman has to do is say she's afraid and the cops are instantly on her side and will take your kids away" is dumb and misogynist and now I've got people literally saying "I'm a woman and a domestic abuse survivor and you're wrong it's OK to say that" and what the hell is going on 
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:49
|
|
|
quote:gently caress you guys I touched the poop My [43 M] gf [46 F] will not euthanize her cat quote:Log in / Register GRINDCORE MEGGIDO fucked around with this message at 23:59 on May 18, 2017 |
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:55
|
|
|
GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:My [43 M] gf [46 F] will not euthanize her cat That does not bode well for any child they have with a disability
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:57
|
|
|
GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Don't touch it! That account name
|
|
#
?
May 18, 2017 23:59
|
|
|
Nazzadan posted:edit: tbh I literally registered for the site for the last edition of the r/relationships thread so if I'm out of line, assume that's why.
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:00
|
|
|
maskenfreiheit posted:LEAVE PERRY BIBLE FELLOWSHIP ALONE holy poo poo is this spoonful of bromide?
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:00
|
|
|
Kelp Me! posted:That does not bode well for any child they have with a disability I see what you're saying, but there does honestly come a point with old sick pets where you're actually doing them more harm and pain by desperately trying to keep them alive  . It's never an easy decision, and this guy comes off like a callous prick, but I kind of see where he's coming from.
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:01
|
|
|
GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:My [43 M] gf [46 F] will not euthanize her cat He has a point, he's just an insensitive clod. Part of being a pet owner is being able to have a little bit of distance and make that call to euthanize when your pet has no quality of life, no matter how much it will hurt you personally.
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:02
|
|
|
Kelp Me! posted:That does not bode well for any child they have with a disability I can't help but feel like his reaction to a geriatric cat plodding along to the sweet embrace of death after a long and presumably happy life tells us very little about his reaction to a disabled child.
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:05
|
|
|
Kelp Me! posted:That does not bode well for any child they have with a disability Comments: quote:JayGeezy1 
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:06
|
|
|
TOOT BOOT posted:He has a point, he's just an insensitive clod. Part of being a pet owner is being able to have a little bit of distance and make that call to euthanize when your pet has no quality of life, no matter how much it will hurt you personally. Yeah but you have to approach it the right way. Approach it the wrong way and she'll buckle down.
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:06
|
|
|
Just make her watch Johnny Got His Gun and periodically look over at that cat for a good 10 seconds. She'll get it.
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:08
|
|
|
 I don't literally believe that a guy who thinks his GF's suffering cat should be euthanized would actually euthanize his own disabled child GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Comments: However I am still amused but also kind of  at thisbut yes, the smilie could probably be renamed  e: o god there already is a reddit smilie why (it's pretty appropriate)
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:10
|
|
|
Kelp Me! posted:
That happened when SA had to peer pressure Reddit into removing their jailbait boards. Does anyone have that "Closed by order of Something Awful" image? Because that's good stuff.
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:20
|
|
|
maskenfreiheit posted:LEAVE PERRY BIBLE FELLOWSHIP ALONE this is clearlyy about goku pants guy
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:23
|
|
|
R/sex commentsquote:Zsill777 quote:Zsill777 quote:IllBeBack quote:Pinguinchen quote:koranuso
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:28
|
|
|
GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:R/sex comments 
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:30
|
|
|
Seems like only women responding. When I was like 9 or 10, I discovered a rip in the stitching of this stuffed bear I had. The floof inside felt nice so I stuck myself inside and humped away. Did that quite often for I don't even remember how long My friend's Chihuahua does this
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:31
|
|
|
This will probably sound kind of stupid. My wife and I just celebrated our 4 year anniversary yesterday and it was really good. I'd made some plans to surprise her with some stuff on Friday and we went to bed happy with our marriage. In order to explain this morning, I need to present some backstory. My wife has bipolar disorder and last year she got to a really depressive state and spent about a month in an outpatient program at a mental health hospital. I have depression as well, so I'm dealing with stuff as well. We both go see therapists, sometimes together and sometimes apart. My wife also had bunion surgery where she was unable to put weight on her foot for about 3 months. During her depressive state, I was kind of on my own with our son, she wasn't always present in our family. We had daycare from when she had started working, so my son was fine during the day. Though I think she would have been good with our son if he'd been at home. Anyways, the point of contention are the litter boxes that I'm talking about. We have three cats and 1 dog, in a pretty small, three bedroom townhouse. When we first moved in, we only had the one cat. Then we added a dog after I started looking at rescues online after we had moved in. He is my dog and I do all the walking and feeding, for the most part. Sometimes my wife helps out, takes him for a walk or feeds him if I can't. Then, a couple of months after we got the dog, we were going to Petsmart for something for the dog, and my wife wandered into the cat adoption event that was going on. And she asked if we could get two cats. I caved on it, even though we really didn't have the space. So the three humans in the house are outnumbered by the animals. So the cat in question is the first one that we had. There was a long period of time where he would pee all over the baseboards house and and he would poop on the floor in front of the litter boxes, rather than in them. From the start I was pretty much the only one who would clean the litter boxes, because I was the only one who wanted it done at least every other day. We eventually got up to three big boxes, to try and make the messes better but things didn't really get better. After my wife was able to walk again a couple of months ago, she told me she was going to step up and start taking care of the litter boxes. We've had a lot of fights it seems like about her not doing it enough for me. She'll leave it sit for a week sometimes and then the old cat starts pooping on the floor again. He has medicine that's supposed to calm him down but it doesn't help if the litter box is filthy. If I bring up the fact that they need to be cleaned, she gets all defensive and mentions all the things that she asks me to do, like picking up after myself and cleaning up the kitchen after I make a meal. These are things I've been doing better about. Sometimes its hard to remember, when I'm doing other things like taking care of our son or doing laundry and all the other things we've got to do to take care of a house. She would tell me that her getting better at the litter boxes would be a slow thing and it's going to take her awhile to get used to doing them, to get a routine. I still have no idea how to react to that. It's hard to see evidence of her even attempting a routine because it starts and stops so much. I would have thoughts that she cared more for the cats instead of me, because she would just leave it to me and she wouldn't fill up their food bowl or their water. My wife hadn't cleaned the boxes for about a week, and they were starting to really smell. I found poop in front of one of the boxes this morning, after I didn't sleep well at all and it enraged me. That's the only word I had for it. I went for a run afterwards and I thought about talking to my wife and I kept going around the thought that I couldn't handle having another baby if I was responsible for three cats and a dog. and two kids when it felt like I was all alone in the responsibilities. It would have to be either another baby or the cats. When I got back to the house, she was in the shower and when I got to the top of the stairs, the older cat that kept pooping on the floor was right on the middle of the landing and I swung my foot at it. I hit one of his legs and he scrambled away from me. I went numb inside and told her once she got out of the shower. She said the cat's leg was still OK though. There were so many things said, but once she got to work, she texted me to pick up our son because she was going to get birth control put back in. She wanted to stop pretending that I wanted another baby right now. TL'DRKicked our cat. Had a huge fight about who's not keeping up their responsibilities. Now wife is going back on birth control because she thinks I've been pretending to want another child and I'm terrified for our marriage. I have no idea what to do. Going to try and see my therapist after work. What else should I do?
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:35
|
|
|
Get divorced + therapy + don't play war of attrition with pets toilets
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:41
|
|
|
no
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:42
|
|
|
GRINDCORE MEGGIDO posted:Get divorced + therapy + don't play war of attrition with pets toilets Lol if you don't poo poo+piss in the cat box to assert dominance
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:43
|
|
|
I don't understand people that don't like onions period. Back when I was a super picky eater, onions were one of the few things I could tolerate, which means that anybody that cant handle onions is below me when I was at my absolute pickiest. They have a great mixture of sweetness and kick that you can adjust based on how you prepare them. They're carby and wonderful. *huffs onion fumes*
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:46
|
|
|
Blue Train posted:Lol if you don't poo poo+piss in the cat box to assert dominance thhis but everywhere
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:46
|
|
|
Blue Train posted:Lol if you don't poo poo+piss in the cat box to assert dominance I wanted to piss on an aggressive rabbit once.
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:46
|
|
|
I'm convinced I don't like onions because my mom convinced me to bite into a raw onion as a small child.
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:48
|
|
|
TOOT BOOT posted:I'm convinced I don't like onions because my mom convinced me to bite into a raw onion as a small child. That's completely insufficient to explain it, Tony Abbott
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:49
|
|
|
confession: i once really needed to pee at a party and the line was really long then some chick cut me just as i was going in and i got frustrated so i went to the basement because sometimes there's a toilet in the basement and there wasn't but there was a litterbox so i peed in that
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:51
|
|
|
the cat saw everything
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:52
|
|
|
|
| # ? May 16, 2024 16:30 |
|
|
TOOT BOOT posted:I'm convinced I don't like onions because my mom convinced me to bite into a raw onion as a small child. Wrong, raw onion owns
|
|
#
?
May 19, 2017 00:54
|
|