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Look, the 40M Japanese tutor has been hanging out with his new FIL for long enough to consider the guy a friend. So when FIL rages, there is a distinct possibility that he's looking back over their friendship and realizing that he wants better for the daughter he loves than the guy who brags after two or three beers about all the college-aged chicks he's nailed upstairs while their parents were home. I mean, if the querent's first response wasn't to remind FIL that they've been friends for a while and FIL should know by now that nobody will ever treat his daughter better... then chances are good FIL knows he's a piece of poo poo. It sucks to feel like an rear end in a top hat has used you as a vector to get close to another person you love and exploit their vulnerabilities, especially if you know they're gonna hurt your loved one.
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Batterypowered7 posted:He didn't elaborate much about the family friend thing, so I imagine it's more like "my cousin's friend" or something than "guy that spent so much time at my house that we're practically brothers", anyway. Could be. Like, there's an entire Shakespearean tragedy about this and the upshot is "if your friend invites you to dinner where you meet and decide to pursue a relationship with his daughter, you can head off a conflict likely to escalate to fatal catastrophe by giving your friend a heads up instead of letting him discover your relationship in a way that makes him suspicious of your motives." I mean, it's weird for something so central to western culture to have such a specific takeaway, doubly weird for someone to so directly act in contradiction of it, and triply weird to think that reddit advice can pull this situation out of the ditch. Like, "r/relationships: I've been burning children as offerings to a golden bull. Now the sons of Levi are butchering my people. How can I fix this?"
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# ? May 27, 2017 01:21 |
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Ah, I feel stupid for asking this one. But which Shakespeare is that again?
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# ? May 27, 2017 01:44 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:My [36M] wife [39F] has been cheating on me with a college student [19M] for three months! She's a cop and she met him while on the job! This guy needs to split up and move ASAP or else he's going to be getting pulled over on a daily basis.
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# ? May 27, 2017 01:50 |
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I think a guest using a dinner invite as an excuse to gently caress in the host's house is a little gauche in general, but I guess I'm just old fashioned that way.
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# ? May 27, 2017 01:51 |
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so much sex negativity itt
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# ? May 27, 2017 01:52 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:so much sex negativity itt Look I'm just saying, if I were going to gently caress my dad's hot friend (Matrix era Keanu Reeves lookin' dude) I'd have the courtesy to not do it in my parent's house is all.
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# ? May 27, 2017 01:57 |
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13Pandora13 posted:Look I'm just saying, if I were going to gently caress my dad's hot friend (Matrix era Keanu Reeves lookin' dude) I'd have the courtesy to not do it in my parent's house is all. i got the impression she is living with her parents, so yeah if you don't want here taking it from your dinner guests buy her a condo i guess
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# ? May 27, 2017 01:59 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:Sat down on my friend's MacBook and broke it, offered to pay her the money for it but now she wants more because "she was upgrading anyway" so it's this or she will sue me in small claims court. Oh man it's like a Judge Judy
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# ? May 27, 2017 02:07 |
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A girl I like [16F] prank called me [17M] after I gave her my numberquote:So I give this girl my number, everything seems fine, then later I get a weird call from her. She asks if I like her.. I ask her to clarify. She asks if I like her as a person in general, I say yes. I start hearing giggling in the background, she asks if I love her, I just happen to be walking and see her with her friends on her phone. Although I do like her, I don't wanna make a fool of myself, so I don't answer and instead say "thats a weird question". She asks if I wanna go out, I just give a casual "ok" and she says bye and hangs up.
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fruit on the bottom posted:Ah, I feel stupid for asking this one. But which Shakespeare is that again? That's Othello. The Sparknotes are that Othello (an older muslim general) and Desdemona (a girl from Venice) get married and it ends in murder/suicide. They meet because Brabantio (Desdemona's father) makes a habit of inviting Othello over for dinner, and Othello is a legit interesting guy. Desdemona falls for him, and things start going wrong when they decide to elope in the middle of the night. Brabantio flips his poo poo when he finds out his daughter's missing, since he doesn't know whether this means she's married or kidnapped or dead. So when he finds out the marriage is legitimate, he's still super pissed at Othello because the embarrassing hassle of calling the cops and the mayor and a search party could have been avoided if Othello had treated him like a friend rather than an obstacle. The rest of the story: Brabantio tells Othello that Desdemona can do better, planting a seed of doubt that one of Othello's discontended underlings eventually nurtures into a tragedy. So I'm really looking forward to the update on this one.
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# ? May 27, 2017 02:14 |
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long, but gold I [26/F] became extremely attached to my very bad influence of a coworker [46/F], until I spectacularly crossed the line while blacked out. How do I move the hell on? quote:I say "crossed the line" but I think the line was crossed way before this point, and this just sort of made it VERY clear to both of us that the entire relationship was a horrible horrible mistake.
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# ? May 27, 2017 02:15 |
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Woof
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# ? May 27, 2017 02:20 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:long, but gold holy poo poo, this was worth the read lady you need to find a new job if you can't move past this and heal, jesus
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# ? May 27, 2017 02:28 |
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I thought they were loving but she is just a friend that she did a really stupid thing to? Like she is just being dramatic here.
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# ? May 27, 2017 02:32 |
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Of course it's Othello.
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# ? May 27, 2017 02:47 |
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Brainworm posted:That's Othello. The Sparknotes are that Othello (an older muslim general) and Desdemona (a girl from Venice) get married and it ends in murder/suicide. that... is an extremely unconventional reading of Othello CharlestheHammer posted:I thought they were loving but she is just a friend that she did a really stupid thing to? two neurotic cat-laden ships passing in the night A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 02:56 on May 27, 2017 |
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:that... is an extremely unconventional reading of Othello High school and college teachers play up the race difference in Othello like it's the only one that matters. But the play really sings when Othello's insecurities are more particular.
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# ? May 27, 2017 03:17 |
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maskenfreiheit posted:long, but gold She definitely tried to put the moves on the old gal or maybe they were loving the entire time. Who knows.
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# ? May 27, 2017 03:50 |
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This one isn't really even tangentially related to relationship drama but I think it's still amazing. Vet clinic is using tainted ketamine. quote:A friend obtained vials of ketamine from a clinic and I injected it. I've done Ketamine before, and the disassociation feeling was definitely not completely Ketamine. It also made me very nauseous and caused me to non-stop vomit and faint for a day after I took it. I somehow convinced myself that maybe I was having a bad reaction because I drank a beer before, so I tried again, and had the same effect but it was worse this time. My roommate saw me getting sick and took me to the hospital and I now have mad hospital bills.
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# ? May 27, 2017 03:57 |
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Got involved with creepy craigslist man (pics for $) now FBI are investigating. Do parents have to find out? Also will I get in trouble for evidence of drug use they may find when searching my phone?quote:I live in Colorado.
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# ? May 27, 2017 04:00 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:This one isn't really even tangentially related to relationship drama but I think it's still amazing. Can you even imagine the look on the lawyers face as he starts asking if he has a case here? Like I assume the lawyer just starts calling in more people into the room because they have got to see that until the room is full to bursting.
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fruit on the bottom posted:This one isn't really even tangentially related to relationship drama but I think it's still amazing. Didn't know where this was going, at the end
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# ? May 27, 2017 04:13 |
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Found this gem in /r/legaladvice: [TEXAS] Alamo Drafthouse women-only screening of Wonder Woman? (self.legaladvice) quote:Alamo Drafthouse Austin has announced it will have women-only screenings of Wonder Woman. Is this considered discrimination? They specifically state "no guys allowed".
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fruit on the bottom posted:This one isn't really even tangentially related to relationship drama but I think it's still amazing. I want to have that court case read by rick and morty.
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# ? May 27, 2017 04:18 |
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r/legaladvice [NSFW] Simulated child porn, incest and legality - In porn and in home quote:Okay - so in the USA, Child porn is illegal, simulated child porn (a person of age pretending to be a minor) is illegal, incest and simulated incest is illegal, even while depicted in porn.
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# ? May 27, 2017 04:20 |
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Me [40F] with my uncle [42 M], who is an "unschooler" and whose kids can't read at age 10 - how concerned should I be?quote:He and his wife believe that the kids shouldn't be forced to study anything until till they express a desire to learn it. So far, their expressed desires include quote:Thank you. Unfortunately one of the relatives was cut off just because he tried to encourage the then-9-year-old twins to read. The parents were enraged because of his attempt to "coerce" the kids into reading.
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# ? May 27, 2017 04:26 |
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Gonna post seriously and say execute every unschooler
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maskenfreiheit posted:Found this gem in /r/legaladvice: People are super pissed about this. Wonder if this is the same dude who tweeted about having "only one screening" is equivalent to saying "were only relocating some jews" as though this is the first step in global gendercide.
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dudeness posted:Me [40F] with my uncle [42 M], who is an "unschooler" and whose kids can't read at age 10 - how concerned should I be? I wish my uncle was 2 years older than me <3
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SuddenExpire posted:I wish my uncle was 2 years older than me <3 I'm betting on some strong correlation between that fact and the whole "crazy rear end in a top hat ruins his kid's lives" thing. The fact that they live in a state were CPS won't lift a finger also strongly supports my trailer-based theory.
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dudeness posted:Me [40F] with my uncle [42 M], who is an "unschooler" and whose kids can't read at age 10 - how concerned should I be? I remember this one. I think someone said they knew some unschooled kids that turned out alright?
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Batterypowered7 posted:I remember this one. I think someone said they knew some unschooled kids that turned out alright? Those would definitely be exceptions to the rule
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# ? May 27, 2017 05:28 |
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Pick posted:gasp This is viral marketing for the next season of good morning call
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# ? May 27, 2017 05:39 |
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Oops totally missed that the unschooling post was done before. Me [23F] with my SO [23M] of 3 years claims he is now possessed by a demon and is acting a bit weird quote:I know that the title sounds ridiculous, and I know that theoretically if this doesn’t let up I should probably leave him, but honestly I have no idea what the gently caress is going on and really need to know if anyone else has seen anything like this before.
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# ? May 27, 2017 05:54 |
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Satan says study hard, get good grades, and call your mother on the weekends
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My [22F] younger brother [19M] has been acting strangely possessive of me and is accusing me of being jealous of his girlfriend when I confront him about itquote:My brother and I have always been very close. Growing up, we were each other’s best friends. We’ve been through a lot of stuff – our parents’ divorce, death of a few family members, even a devastating house fire when we were little. Even though we’re both adults now, we still really rely on and trust each other.
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dudeness posted:Oops totally missed that the unschooling post was done before. Dude should write a book, maybe start doing seminars.
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fruit on the bottom posted:My [22F] younger brother [19M] has been acting strangely possessive of me and is accusing me of being jealous of his girlfriend when I confront him about it What are the odds it's an incest thing, and baby bro has jerked off into his sisters undies?
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fruit on the bottom posted:My [22F] younger brother [19M] has been acting strangely possessive of me and is accusing me of being jealous of his girlfriend when I confront him about it [UPDATE] My [22F] younger brother [19M] has been acting strangely possessive of me and is accusing me of being jealous of his girlfriend when I confront him about it quote:Thank you all for your comments and messages! I appreciate all your concerns and the confirmation that I am not crazy. quote:I'm unable to post this as a separate update because this one is still receiving comments so I'll make this addition here: quote:This has definitely changed how I feel about my mom's ability to parent.
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