ElGroucho posted:

Isn't "actor" just NY speak for "unemployed"?

Enfys posted:

I am so important that I cannot waste even a precious minute of my life on social interaction with people unless they can give me exactly what I want.

Ups_rail posted:

To be fair non goons do value their time.

He just wasnt into her and if i saw him i might clock him for gay....and narcissistic

poisonpill posted:

Look we've already established that he's Dennis from Always Sunny

a bone to pick posted:

Billy lets out a huge fart during the meal, she asks if that noise came from him and Billy starts to sweat and get angry. "Can't believe someone would be so rude as to fart during dinner...." Insinuating that his date was the one who actually farted.

Ups_rail posted:

Hey pick glade your okay but


HAHAHA....HAHAHA

I wont continue the story of the lady or giving any more information on her, for fear of doxx'ing her, but she didnt have a happily ever after with the pizza dude, or the dude after that, or the dude after that or the two marriages after that.


So I am engaged right, I've also been in some pretty lovely lovely relationships and I will man up and admit that i ve been both the lovely person in some and the receiver in others.

My gf resents that she is paying for the mistakes of my ex's (her words) and I got a friends mom saying

"its all about compromise"

and other women saying

"you just need to communicate"

I just laugh at them and say "gently caress no"

For dinner she wants chinese? you want mexican? you compromise and get Italian? WTF

Compromise is not a panacea, I've seen first hand a friend wanted a hard mattress and his wife wanted a soft mattress so they compromised and spent a few years both sleeping lovely and finally got their own beds

She wants to go to paris for vacation you want to go to germany so you go to spain?

You wanna have kids she doesnt wanna have kids? I've loving seen that one play out, there is no loving compromise in that issue, and it got loving ugly. gently caress I lost that relationship cause I flat out told them

"this isnt something you can compromise on, poo poo it happened in my extended family and it was a god drat deal breaker"

Communication? That can make poo poo a million times worse

In my youth I believed in being emotionally available to my gf, in telling everything in being open.

I learned you dont tell them poo poo about your ex's period and that its best to



Because the truth is she doesnt need to know, she might want to know or think she wants to know but that knowledge will not make her happy.

I finally got that lesson from two experiences when I've had partners out of the loving blue bring up my ex's, Like literally out of the blue they are angry that I was with that black girl in college, I was stunned going "I never bring up your two marriages why are you bringing that up?" Then years later a woman I've had a long and unhealthy relationship with started bring up my ex's name in angry texts. That time I had the sense to say

"Those are my ex's name and I was with them, that is my past, nothing will ever change it, and I will never apologize for it, bringing it up doesnt hurt me or really matter."

The other reason I hate the "just communicate" advice is that they never loving mention something even more important

YOU CAN NEVER TAKE IT BACK

Be loving careful about what you say. Me and the girl had a thing happen. The result was her crying and me in whirlwind of anger/depression/rejection.

I kept my mouth shut because I knew expressing how I felt in the moment would not be constructive and it would be best to wait and see how I felt later, and honestly that issue has been worked on and improved.

Okay to swing back around to incels my idea is that they start at some point in their youth with a hosed up socialization. I bet the internet has exacerbated this, as they get older they get more bitter at their failure with girls, and pretty soon they internalize their being losers untill it becomes part of their own identity.

bewbies posted:

I share a lot of this incel content with my wife and she demands to know what percent can be reliably counted as genuine.

Pick posted:

I've met some of these guys irl.

bewbies posted:

I share a lot of this incel content with my wife and she demands to know what percent can be reliably counted as genuine.

Pick posted:

I've met some of these guys irl.

A Wizard of Goatse posted:

Define "genuine"

They're not actually a caste of unfuckables rejected by the Global Council of Stacies for their inferior clavicles, and plenty of them probably don't literally believe that's a thing, but they're all real actual twisted losers throwing themselves a real ever-escalating pity party

Who What Now posted:

You tried to gently caress one for years. Further proof incels don't actually want sex.

SaltyJesus posted:

bewbies posted:

no yeah good point, I don't mean like their delusions are genuine, but rather...how many are genuinely delusional, and how many are folks like you pretending to be.

edit - that is to say, the royal you, not you specifically a wizard of goatse

Beekeeping and You posted:

The way these guys react to eye contact or people looking at them is depressing. It's gotta be a low self esteem thing to assume anyone who glances at you thinks you're disgusting.

bewbies posted:

I share a lot of this incel content with my wife and she demands to know what percent can be reliably counted as genuine.

Mak0rz posted:

The piece is called "The Undatables" but only one of them seems to fit that description 🤔

Literally A Person posted:

I don't understand the point of the gymcel. It seems almost a step more misanthropic than a normal "slack about" incel. Why put in the effort if it's just to reject women? Someone posit a scenario where someone comes to the realization that they are a horrible piece of poo poo disgusting human sack and then decides to start bettering themselves; not to feel better about themselves but to prove that they are a horrible piece of poo poo disgusting human sack.

Mak0rz posted:

It fulfills a revenge fantasy. Dumb, but not complicated.

Literally A Person posted:

I feel like I'm just not vengeful enough to get how this is any worse than just poopin' in someone's backpack and going back home for some totino's and mountain dew..

Mak0rz posted:

They think a girl getting rejected by them will be just as heartbroken and damaged as they were when they got turned down by their high school crush.

Literally A Person posted:

In the incel fantasy though aren't modern women only happy with Chadly S. Chadmire anyway?

Literally A Person posted:

In the incel fantasy though aren't modern women only happy with Chadly S. Chadmire anyway?

Pick posted:

Don't look for internal consistency.

Captain Yossarian posted:

I'm a fat retard WITH a girlfriend who is both more attractive and makes significantly more than me. Owned incels

Literally A Person posted:

I don't understand the point of the gymcel. It seems almost a step more misanthropic than a normal "slack about" incel. Why put in the effort if it's just to reject women? Someone posit a scenario where someone comes to the realization that they are a horrible piece of poo poo disgusting human sack and then decides to start bettering themselves; not to feel better about themselves but to prove that they are a horrible piece of poo poo disgusting human sack.

Barudak posted:

Yo if you put a white mask over your face and show off your six pack abs there is a literally endless supply of theater people who will listen to your music of the night.

Mak0rz posted:

ya but how big your dick tho

General Dog posted:

It's better to be alone and have people wonder why you're alone than to be alone and have it be obvious why you're alone.

Pick posted:

Don't look for internal consistency.

General Dog posted:

It's better to be alone and have people wonder why you're alone than to be alone and have it be obvious why you're alone.