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A Wizard of Goatse posted:even reddit knows this guy's slime and is telling her to take him to the cleaners, she's just scared to ask for what she's owed all around There was a post on reddit from a pastry chef from when they were a first year student their friend wanted them to cater an equally large wedding by themselves and pay half the cost for the ingredients. As their "gift" to the bride and groom. The bride wanted loving roasted duck for 200 people which would be $2,000 or so right out of the OP's pocket.
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ArbitraryC posted:Do they really think the reason people cheat and lie about it is to protect their partner's feelings rather than the much more obvious "to avoid consequences for my actions". They do because based on that one post they only think about their own happiness and don't really take the other person into consideration at all.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:23 |
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Haifisch posted:None in the /r/relationships thread, but he also posted in /r/polyarmory and: Not her fault, not her fault ever that she's a horrible person. Lol at all these pathetic people.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:24 |
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Though to be honest the one penis policy is a pretty funny thing, like for bi girls that are poly just don't agree to it, it's that simple. Find a poly dude that doesn't impose lopsided restrictions. That "I started things off with an "only girls" rule because I figured he'd eventually let me ride other dudes" strategy not only seems ineffective from the stories posted, but honestly a bit insulting to their sexuality.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:25 |
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Keyword" Military" My [23M] girlfriend [23F] (of 2 years) wanted me to send a photo of my military ID so her father (not military) could get military discounts. I said no and she's upsetRelationships quote:My girlfriend is visiting her father, so she's out of state right now. Out of the blue, she asked me if I could send her a copy of my military ID for her father to use to try and get military discounts. STOLEN VALOR My [32f] ex-military husband [35m] has started training my son[12m]Non-Romantic quote:My husband is a former military officer who left the military after 10 years of service and went into civilian work. isn't this the plot of a damon wayans movie? My (31m) girlfriend (25f) of two years "uncovered" my military background. Says she's mortified of me and won't discuss. quote:I joined the USMC out of highschool in 2000 and served until 2006. Enlisted in infantry and ultimately made my way to the middle east during our ongoing war in Iraq and AF. i'm with the girlfriend on this, imagine the horror of realizing you'd been unwittingly dating a marine
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:26 |
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lol at the girlfriend in that last one, she's a retard So is the dad in the middle one though. Fucks he tryna do there.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:31 |
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I bet she called him a baby killer or something dumb. What an idiot, he's not even in the military anymore.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:33 |
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I could almost understand the last one if she was younger, I knew some dumb teenagers who assumed it was basically impossible to be in the military without being a child killing rapist, 25 seems well past the point you should have a more nuanced opinion than that tho.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:34 |
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on reflection i think the last one must be fake because the idea of a recently separated former marine who doesn't go around hooting about how he was in the marines orrah just doesn't sound plausible.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:34 |
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Viva Miriya posted:lol at the girlfriend in that last one, she's a retard Prepare his son to take on Skynet.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:36 |
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:on reflection i think the last one must be fake because the idea of a recently separated former marine who doesn't go around hooting about how he was in the marines orrah just doesn't sound plausible. what branch were you in because lol that you believe this
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Viva Miriya posted:what branch were you in because lol that you believe this i'll give you a hint it's the worst, gooniest one.
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:41 |
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The second one reminds me of that episode of American Dad where Stan and Francine each raise clones of their son to see who is the better parent, and Stan's son goes apeshit on him over all the pressure.
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:i'll give you a hint it's the worst, gooniest one. navy
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Viva Miriya posted:navy Chair force.
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Warbadger posted:Chair force. No way.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:44 |
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Viva Miriya posted:navy I did work with Navy dudes when I did the AFN stuff, but I was USAF. Me [25 M] with my girlfriend [23 F] of 3 years. She is freaking out about my potential career.Relationships quote:I will keep this as short as possible. A few years ago I applied to my country's air force to be a pilot, knowing that the odds of me actually getting in were extremely small. I first applied a few months after meeting my gf, Amy. IDK I'd need to know which countries air force duder.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:46 |
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:You know how slavery apologists say the Confederacy formed over "States Rights?" But everyone knows people don't propose to radically alter a working arrangement for an abstraction, so it immediately makes you ask "States rights to do what?" Missouri is the best state because they already had an open relationship grandfathered in and were fine with the Fed telling new couples what they could or couldn't do with their marriage licenses. Mizzurrah, proudly fighting for the Union while owning slaves!
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:50 |
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lol @ the marine trying to defend his pointless gay branch against the mean people in the R/Relationships thread.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:51 |
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:My (31m) girlfriend (25f) of two years "uncovered" my military background. Says she's mortified of me and won't discuss.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:51 |
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nerd plus rage posted:lol @ the marine trying to defend his pointless gay branch against the mean people in the R/Relationships thread. What if we get into a littoral conflict? Who's gonna be laughing about the Marines then?
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:52 |
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nerd plus rage posted:lol @ the marine trying to defend his pointless gay branch against the mean people in the R/Relationships thread. I'm not a marine hth.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 20:54 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:What if we get into a littoral conflict? Who's gonna be laughing about the Marines then? Like any marine knows how to apply litorral stimulation. Anony Mouse posted:How do you go 2 1/2 years knowing someone without ever getting into their life between the ages of 18-24, one of the most formative, interesting, and eventful periods of a person's life? They're both garbage people, her for being so closeminded and completely incurious about her partner's history, and him for being such a socially and/or emotionally stunted closed book that he never volunteered this information. Yeah that's super strange. What kind of courtship do you have where that kind of thing doesn't come out at the "getting to know you phase," let alone at some point over the next 24 months? I mean if she literally never asked I guess he didn't lie but seriously how does it not come up. I think the last several people I've gone out with at some point the "did you go to college" "well first I joined the USAF out of high school" exchange comes up in the first few dates, and I'm an Old for whom that's over a decade and a half ago. Owlbear Camus fucked around with this message at 20:58 on Jul 11, 2017 |
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:You know how slavery apologists say the Confederacy formed over "States Rights?" But everyone knows people don't propose to radically alter a working arrangement for an abstraction, so it immediately makes you ask "States rights to do what?" Anyone citing states rights as the reason for the CSA seceding is also wrong. One of the main complaints Southern states had was that the federal government wasn't doing enough to enforce federal fugitive slave laws in Northern states.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:02 |
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He posted an update and yeah she totally thought he was a babykilling monster because she's an idiot and after they talked about his stories he lost it sank in that he did in fact not murder children for sport. Why it never came up before then is a bit confusing i guess but i mean maybe he just didn't want to talk about it and she never asked, sounds like they started dating when he was ~29 so it's possible she never really asked him about his college life.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:02 |
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I dunno. All the vets at my college don't exactly advertise and seem to be there to get their degree and get out. Maybe he just really didn't wanna talk about it and never advertised it? He was a infantry guy, he probably saw some poo poo. Why talk about it with someone who wouldn't get it? Still lol it took that long to come out.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:05 |
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ArbitraryC posted:He posted an update and yeah she totally thought he was a babykilling monster because she's an idiot and after they talked about his stories he lost it sank in that he did in fact not murder children for sport. There are kind of a lot of people out there from super insular enclaves who if they like you will just sort of assume you have lived a life exactly like them and share exactly their values, and will brush off any inconclusive evidence to the contrary until you force them to look directly at your horrible alien visage. otoh Pac-Manioc Root posted:i'm with the girlfriend on this, imagine the horror of realizing you'd been unwittingly dating a marine A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 21:15 on Jul 11, 2017 |
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cumshitter posted:Anyone citing states rights as the reason for the CSA seceding is also wrong. One of the main complaints Southern states had was that the federal government wasn't doing enough to enforce federal fugitive slave laws in Northern states. So basically they wanted the economic security that comes with a relationship without the responsibility to actually be faithful to it. The metaphor still holds up!
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:15 |
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Most of the stories he told her when they looked through his old things together went along the lines of "oh yeah he was a great guy with a loving family back home, but then he died" so I can sorta see why he wouldn't just randomly bring it up for shits n giggles.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:17 |
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ArbitraryC posted:He posted an update and yeah she totally thought he was a babykilling monster because she's an idiot and after they talked about his stories he lost it sank in that he did in fact not murder children for sport. I hope she didn't take him back. That poor woman is gonna get murder/suicided
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:22 |
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Me [24F] with a guy [23M] I've been seeing for 3 months. I discovered that he has a confederate flag hanging on his bedroom wall.Relationshipsquote:We've been seeing each other for a few months, but last night was the first time we went back to his place. We went into his bedroom and fooled around. It was dark, so I could really see it then, but when we started cleaning up, he turned on the lights and there it was. has the turn of phrase ever been this literal? My son's [10M] grandfather [65M] gifted him a confederate flag that has been in their family for generations to display in his bedroom. Husband [37M] and I [37F] [together 14 years] disagree over what to do.Non-Romantic quote:My husband and his family have lived in state of GA, which is where we live currently, since the 1730s. They very much have their roots in the land (so to speak). I say this because as long as I have know my father-in-law he has always took great pride in this, as well as the part their family played in the American Civil War. I've never been comfortable with this (mainly because of his personal views about the war), but it's not my place to tell him what to do or how to think. I mean this sounds like it's not just a printed-in-china thing and actually is a piece of "history" on the other hand it's a traitor rag, so maybe donate it to a museum or put it in an amoire with some mothballs?
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:22 |
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light it on fire in front of the father in law and then piss on it I say. then you won't have to worry about it because he'd likely have a heart attack and keel over dead
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:28 |
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Just wait til his fifteenth birthday when he's finally old enough to inherit his great-grandpappy's Klan hood
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:31 |
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Now that I think about it a good and fair compromise would probably be to lend it to a museum or state park or something for display. That way it can stay in the family and the FIL might be pleased that its hanging somewhere with a placate underneath "this flag donated courtesy of racist shitheads"
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:34 |
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I wouldn't burn an authentic Rising Sun flag or Nazi parade banner. poo poo belongs in a museum, or at least in a museum basement with a catalogue tag on it, so dudes writing boring sperg books about what color trim soldiers had on their left boot cuff during the first month of the winter campaign can use it as reference material. I don't see why old Confederate flags should be different.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:37 |
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Confederate flag from the 20's? That's prime lynchin' years, that flags seen a few men, women, and children hung from trees for having the wrong skin tone on a Saturday night. gently caress the Confederacy and all who glorify it.
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# ? Jul 11, 2017 21:37 |
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It's not clear if the provenance is post-war from the vague timeline, sounds like it could be from the 20th century-- which would color my opinion on it as a troublesome but legitimate historical artefact versus a contemporary piece of racist iconography. Hey it's the guy from OitnB Me [29 M] with my incarcerated GF [27] of and on for 10 years. She's going to be imprisoned for a few years, and has given me free reign to explore my options. How do I go about it?Dating quote:Me and the GF have a lot of history together, and things have been rocky at times but overall they've been pretty good. Things were great before she went away, but she's made some poor life decisions that have landed her a fairly lengthy sentence of around six years. Plenty of people give the sensible advice of "just break up you moron." (the replies get him to out what the "poor life decisions" were and he cops to it being a DUI collision that resulted in multiple bodily injuries.)
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Werong Bustope posted:Edit: "It's bad to lie to your partner but I'm a good person so my lie must be virtuous." Kind of a tangent, but this is how modern evangelicalism works. They start with "I am good" and then work backwards.
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