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Just tell women they look great drat don't qualify it or dissect why like a frog on a tray.
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:Just tell women they look great drat don't qualify it or dissect why like a frog on a tray. Yes. This is the answer to how to compliment.
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Jul 12, 2017 14:45
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:Just tell women they look great drat don't qualify it or dissect why like a frog on a tray. But if they don't have at least one contrary comment, how are they gonna look smart huh???
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Jul 12, 2017 15:15
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Wow, you look great!... for it being a Wednesday
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Jul 12, 2017 15:36
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:Just tell women they look great drat don't qualify it or dissect why like a frog on a tray. sorry but this is not how you neg
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Jul 12, 2017 15:38
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How about you just treat women like human beings and be polite and have a little confidence in yourself. Crazy idea.
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Jul 12, 2017 15:38
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*in a cowboy curtis voice* what if i told u... u could get laid without treating it like a scientologist doing a magic spell?
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Sentient Data posted:Wow, you look great!... for it being a Wednesday
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:*in a cowboy curtis voice*
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Jul 12, 2017 15:42
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My Linux Rig posted:But if they don't have at least one contrary comment, how are they gonna look smart huh??? You make a great point but your grammar is atrocious. Sex me human being
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Jul 12, 2017 15:49
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Imagined posted:How about you just treat women like human beings and be polite and have a little confidence in yourself. Crazy idea. What do I look like to you, a Chad?!?
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D.Ork Bimboolean posted:You make a great point but your grammar is atrocious. well excuse me for being grammatically incorrect in the morning
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Jul 12, 2017 15:59
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A few years back I found this web site: http://www.succeedsocially.com I found most of the advice solid; would have benefited from it if I hadn't already figured it out, and was solidly on my way to fixing my broke brains. That said, I wonder what the reaction would be to dropping it in the middle of r/incels  I'm simultaneously fascinated and disgusted by these guys, and have actually found discussion of them helpful in nudging some frustrated male friends back towards normalcy.
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Jul 12, 2017 16:41
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Theokotos posted:A few years back I found this web site: http://www.succeedsocially.com Here: http://images.kw.com/docs/2/1/2/212345/1285134779158_htwfaip.pdf You're welcome.
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Jul 12, 2017 16:47
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:Just tell women they look great drat don't qualify it or dissect why like a frog on a tray. This can come across as generic, like you're reading off a conversational checklist. The better move, if a little harder because it requires some sensitivity and attentiveness, is to try to spot something she seems to be proud of or that she has emphasized / clearly put some amount of work into and then compliment that.
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Jul 12, 2017 16:48
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In ye olden days of the internet, before this kind of thing became codified as redpill or incel, guys like this used to just whine that women didn't like "nice guys". I used to link then this excellent collection of rants about so-called "nice guys".
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Jul 12, 2017 16:52
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spacetoaster posted:Here: http://images.kw.com/docs/2/1/2/212345/1285134779158_htwfaip.pdf SaltyJesus posted:This can come across as generic, like you're reading off a conversational checklist. The better move, if a little harder because it requires some sensitivity and attentiveness, is to try to spot something she seems to be proud of or that she has emphasized / clearly put some amount of work into and then compliment that.
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Jul 12, 2017 16:54
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spacetoaster posted:Here: http://images.kw.com/docs/2/1/2/212345/1285134779158_htwfaip.pdf quote:PART TWO: Ways to Make People Like You............................................................... 65 Dale Carnegie, inventor of the I Internet clickbait headline.
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One Weird Trick to Win Friends and Influence People Stacies hate him
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Imagined posted:In ye olden days of the internet, before this kind of thing became codified as redpill or incel, guys like this used to just whine that women didn't like "nice guys". I used to link then this excellent collection of rants about so-called "nice guys". I want to believe this would have made me change my tune back when I was this kind of dipshit but I think it probably would have made me worse.
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Jul 12, 2017 17:12
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mind the walrus posted:Y'know, while this remains immensely useful I do wonder why so many people treat it like a panacea. How about noticing changes in make-up, yay or nay?
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Jul 12, 2017 17:13
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In college I was friends with the drama nerds all hanging out doing college kid bullcrap in a house where like 5 of us lived and another half dozen were almost never not visiting... Anyway one gal was doing a dinner theater show in town where she literally played a french whore, complete with caked-on facepaint makeup. One night as she was going out, my best friend comments on your make up "done up like a French whore, ha ha!" trying to make an in-joke assuming she was going to another performance. She had actually just done herself up for a normal night on the town and he got some serious eye-daggers.
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spacetoaster posted:Here: http://images.kw.com/docs/2/1/2/212345/1285134779158_htwfaip.pdf
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Benny Harvey posted:How about noticing changes in make-up, yay or nay? Make-up is goddamn magic and there's no way anyone with a dong can tell the difference, so I'm gonna go with a nay. Yay if you can pull it off but it's a high risk strat.
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Jul 12, 2017 18:02
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Benny Harvey posted:How about noticing changes in make-up, yay or nay?
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What? You don't have to be goony about it and catalogue the techniques you imagine she used. Just, like, notice if she went out of her way to make her eyes particularly smoky (protip: women are not born with black eyelids, this shouldn't be beyond your powers of perception) and then say something about how she has lovely eyes.  e: or if you've seen her a few times and noticed that she tends to wear turquoise jewelry say that color looks great on her the points is, compliment something that was a deliberate choice and don't make a German technical user manual out of it SaltyJesus fucked around with this message at 18:16 on Jul 12, 2017 |
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jfc I was making a joke about being ambiguous in perceiving her eyeliner. Did you think she had nice eyeliner today versus other days? Did she screw it up and you're being a pal and pointing it out? Are you just weird and making a statement? What is it? Eyeliner is tough to apply well and instead of teaching someone who to give a compliment I'm advocating a socially inept technique that can foster resentment and insecurity. Boom frog dissected thank you very much. Apparently this thread is now a multi-layered irony competition to see which forum poster has the true secret to giving good compliments. The key takeaway seems to be to not overthink it by posting a ton of thoughts about not overthinking it.
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Jul 12, 2017 18:20
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ah sorry, I got Poe's lawed
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Do you like cigarettes? Because your eyes are really smoky. Also that gives you cancer so knock it off.
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"My actions alienate me and it's everyone else's fault but mine!"
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Actions have consequences? It's not fair, gently caress the world.
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Lol 4channers Its like a magnet for people who peaked in middle school
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Sounds like youhad a big role molding him into the man he is today and you should be proud of your accomplishments.
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Pac-Manioc Root posted:*in a cowboy curtis voice* https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcAsad-E9CQ Rich "Chad" Evans
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Dreddout posted:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcAsad-E9CQ https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/R_v_Evans
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Barudak posted:Sounds like youhad a big role molding him into the man he is today and you should be proud of your accomplishments. Chads aren't born...they're built from the tears of other Chads.
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1st AD posted:Chads aren't born...they're built from the tears of other Chads. They must gently caress their way to the top of the pecker order.
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I would love to see specific examples of "saying a few red pill truths". I'm imagining at least some of them were burned into neighbours lawns.
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wit posted:I would love to see specific examples of "saying a few red pill truths". I'm imagining at least some of them were burned into neighbours lawns. did you know that women are just weak subservient creatures that you can will into sex with insults 
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