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fruit on the bottom posted:Oh yeah??? You think so!? Maybe start dating donna?
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My (26f) fiance (28m) wants me to do a health checkup before we get married. How to feel about this?quote:My fiance and I have been together for the past 2.5 years. We got engaged a few days ago. He always thinks a lot about the future. He is a very responsible person, and organized, and also ambitious, which is why I fell for him in the first place. He always thinks about everything. She's a fine breeding mare, sir.
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Jul 24, 2017 22:47
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zakharov posted:Also, around a third of Americans don't drink at all. She'll find someone! those ones are prolly addicted to opioids tho
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Jul 24, 2017 22:48
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My Girlfriend [24 F] is going on a vacation with another guy and I [26 M] don't feel comfortablequote:I want to preface by saying it's a great relationship and we get along dandily. 2 years The anti-Pete
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Jul 24, 2017 22:51
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Intruder posted:My Girlfriend [24 F] is going on a vacation with another guy and I [26 M] don't feel comfortable Nah buddy, we're not having some kinky 3somes, NOT AT ALL
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Jul 24, 2017 22:54
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La Brea Carpet posted:My (26f) fiance (28m) wants me to do a health checkup before we get married. How to feel about this? A family friend did this, it revealed a blood issue, and his family pressured him non stop to drop his fiance to the point of family members rotating to call him every hour during the night to tell him to dump her.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:01
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Barudak posted:A family friend did this, it revealed a blood issue, and his family pressured him non stop to drop his fiance to the point of family members rotating to call him every hour during the night to tell him to dump her. My favorite part is that he's not getting himself checked. Obviously his sperm are fine, why would they need to be checked?  And then when she suggested he get checked: "I told him that then he had to check his health too, he said he would.I only said that because I thought it was fair, not because I would ever want him to have such a checkup." 
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Jul 24, 2017 23:04
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  quote:The full hormonal status checkup at a lab is about 50€ in my country and he said he'd pay for it... And he said he'd THEN take me to a gyn, with the lab test results, to discuss it with the gynecologist. And then I'll do physical exams (to check for fibroids, cysts, etc, and to check if there are any problems with endometrium/uterus/ovaries etc). I would have to spend a few days at the hospital. If your "reproductive fitness" exam involves invasive hysteroscopy and a multi day hospital stay you might be a racehorse. Also wait until this dude learns about unexplained infertility which is not uncommon.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:10
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My [17M] brother [24M] since he started med school. He keeps telling me he will achieve more in life than me and how my future career choice is uselessquote:My brother is a med school student and I can't take his attitude anymore. He talks to you like you are inferior to him in every way imaginable. His girlfriend who is also a med student is exactly the same as him.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:10
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Haifisch posted:My [17M] brother [24M] since he started med school. He keeps telling me he will achieve more in life than me and how my future career choice is useless He will either have this attitude beaten out of him in clinical rotations or he will become one of those plastic surgeons who marries a living doll replica.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:12
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La Brea Carpet posted:He will either have this attitude beaten out of him in clinical rotations or he will become one of those plastic surgeons who marries a living doll replica. Suddenly Nip/Tuck seems like a much better written show.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:12
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La Brea Carpet posted:My (26f) fiance (28m) wants me to do a health checkup before we get married. How to feel about this? I mean it sorta makes sense to avoid the whole trying to have kids for years thing online to find out one of you can't have kids, if a family is that important to him then infertility is a reasonable dealbreaker. But the way he's phrased it + the extensiveness of the tests he wants performed seems p awful.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:19
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fruit on the bottom posted:Oh yeah??? You think so!? sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeetttt
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ArbitraryC posted:I mean it sorta makes sense to avoid the whole trying to have kids for years thing online to find out one of you can't have kids, if a family is that important to him then infertility is a reasonable dealbreaker. But the way he's phrased it + the extensiveness of the tests he wants performed seems p awful. If only there was an entire branch of medicine dedicated to helping couples who have fertility issues.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:22
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ArbitraryC posted:I mean it sorta makes sense to avoid the whole trying to have kids for years thing online to find out one of you can't have kids, if a family is that important to him then infertility is a reasonable dealbreaker. But the way he's phrased it + the extensiveness of the tests he wants performed seems p awful. I can understand some genetic testing by taking blood or whatever but that dude is on a whole other level.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:25
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La Brea Carpet posted:My (26f) fiance (28m) wants me to do a health checkup before we get married. How to feel about this? It was questionable with the first post, but the extra invasive tests and multiple day (?!?!) hospital stay move it into a brand new category of 
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Jul 24, 2017 23:26
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fruit on the bottom posted:Oh yeah??? You think so!? Huh, he either went to a lot of trouble to come up with a follow up to a wildly implausible cover story to make him look good, or it was actually legit. In which case... go out for lunch with Donna, gently caress it.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:29
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new phone who dis posted:I can understand some genetic testing by taking blood or whatever but that dude is on a whole other level. Yeah genetic screening in some communities (Ashkenazi for instance) because of the high incidence of terrible genetic diseases is smart before a couple starts trying to have kids.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:30
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Bubblyblubber posted:I have it on pretty good authority that it is in fact not poison, but like a black fly in your Chardonnay. as someone who believes Ross Did Nothing Wrong, i must take this young woman's side. 
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Jul 24, 2017 23:34
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Haifisch posted:My [17M] brother [24M] since he started med school. He keeps telling me he will achieve more in life than me and how my future career choice is useless As discussed a vet who owns their own horse-based practice works like 8 hours a week and makes money that makes a radiologist weep.
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Jul 24, 2017 23:55
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"teachers are useless," says man who is going through educational system and being taught things
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InediblePenguin posted:"teachers are useless," says man who is going through educational system and being taught things It’s ok though, being med school he’s probably being taught by a doctor...
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Ah, to be 16 again. Me [16F] is being blackmailed by my twin sister [16F] she went in my diary and found something about our step brother [16M] and is threatening to tell him if I don't do what she wants and lie for her when she wants and she just threatened to ruin mothers day,. quote:So this may be kind of long. This goes back a year, so please bare with me quote:Thank you.
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Jul 25, 2017 00:22
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Haifisch posted:Ah, to be 16 again. A rare success story from the OP actually communicating! quote:Thank you.  quote:thank you. Mom has told me to go to Walmart with Gray and just buy a pair of jeans and some plain Gray or white shirts for my sister. loving owned.
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Jul 25, 2017 00:25
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Tell mom, tell grey. Yeah it was before he was your stepbrother it's weird you'll all get over it, sister will lose her leverage and people will treat her with disdain because everyone hates a blackmailed. Get out in front of this poo poo. Edit: Called it
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Hazed
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Did you have the update in that post originally, or did just skip half of your post to hear myself talk?
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Fukkin' owned I love it.
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Haifisch posted:My [23f] boyfriend [23m] of 6 years+ recently started drinking alcohol, and I want him to stop completely before it develops further. From a few pages back but I know people like this and it's incredible to see it in action. "I don't understand why you need alchohol to have a good time" "We don't but beer tastes good, the bar scene is fun, and t's fun to-" "But I don't understand why you need it"
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fruit on the bottom posted:Did you have the update in that post originally, or did just skip half of your post to hear myself talk? 
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abigserve posted:From a few pages back but I know people like this and it's incredible to see it in action. For a couple years in college I had the King Lear speech memorized until it occurred to me it'd be simpler to just stop talking to those people
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Jul 25, 2017 00:44
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:For a couple years in college I had the King Lear speech memorized until it occurred to me it'd be simpler to just stop talking to those people I'm sure no one doubted you were King Leer in college La Brea Carpet fucked around with this message at 00:49 on Jul 25, 2017 |
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Well he was certainly Gonorrhal
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Me 24M with my wife 24F, she wants to give soap as Christmas gifts to my familyquote:My wife makes soap as a hobby. She does all different kinds of soaps and is quite good at them. She's made soap sculptures, elaborate designs and some really cool wool-wrapped ones.
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Haifisch posted:Me 24M with my wife 24F, she wants to give soap as Christmas gifts to my family Make them watch the soap making scenes from Fight Club, then give them the soap. But really, that family sounds awful. Can't they tell the difference between grocery story soap in a dispenser and nicely made pretty soap?
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Jul 25, 2017 01:20
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id be kinda pissed if someone gave me fancy soap as a gift and i really like fancy soap
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Jul 25, 2017 01:21
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I like fancy soap and wouldn't mind getting it as a gift, but I also feel like it's something you shouldn't give unless you already have some idea of what scents and whatnot someone likes. On the other hand I wouldn't poo poo talk someone who made me(or someone else) fancy soap for a gift, even if it smelled like lavender and other old lady scents. anyone who can't appeciate homemade gifts, basically.
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most people learn in like 3rd grade that the utility of a handmade gift doesn't matter, it's the fact that a person went to the trouble of doing it so you should shut up and say thank you and appreciate it like a normal-rear end human barring obvious edge cases like somebody shaved their head and made you a coat with their hair (no, pick, do not give this to hugh)
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Martha Stewart Undying posted:id be kinda pissed if someone gave me fancy soap as a gift and i really like fancy soap It's not Just Fancy soap, it's fancy hand made soap made by hand just for them. gently caress this ungrateful family
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Koyaanisgoatse posted:most people learn in like 3rd grade that the utility of a handmade gift doesn't matter, it's the fact that a person went to the trouble of doing it so you should shut up and say thank you and appreciate it like a normal-rear end human Yeah the sis and Aunt are being dicks but I kinda feel like making a fancy soap bath kit for someone you aren't sure is the kind of person who goes ape over Bed Bath and Beyond is kinda like giving a fancy set of handcrafted earrings to a dude with no piercings A Wizard of Goatse fucked around with this message at 02:02 on Jul 25, 2017 |
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