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Mirthless posted:holy poo poo none of what you bolded and underlined qualifies as affirmative consent Lol do you carry a sex contract with you?
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Submarine Sandpaper posted:Lol do you carry a sex contract with you? Let the record show that Submarine Sandpaper objects to the importance of verbal affirmative consent Thank you for arguing against your own point and the relevance of your opinion in a better way than I ever could
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Sep 18, 2017 16:31
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Barudak posted:Are we sure the sister isnt still in the house and just nobody notices her? I read that one too, the cops found her and she said she's fine and an adult and wants her lovely parents not to be able to contact her which is pretty funny although it sucks for the younger sibling.
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Sep 18, 2017 16:32
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Mirthless posted:The key difference between those scenarios is that in those scenarios they are feeling bad and ask reddit for validation, in this scenario the guy had a nervous breakdown and had to see his wife within thirty minutes of it happening, and the day ended with him shaking and crying in her arms Because ONLY sexual assault can cause a man to have a panic attack. Not guilt or fear of losing your partner. ONLY sexual assault.
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Sep 18, 2017 16:32
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Mirthless posted:holy poo poo none of what you bolded and underlined qualifies as affirmative consent The question from the wife: "should I be mad at my husband?" The answer: "yes." Look, I get it, I really do. The world is full of hosed up attitudes about sexual assault, consent, crime and punishment. The massage lady clearly, by definition, sexually assaulted him when she grabbed his dick. His wife is allowed to be angry, and is justified. Part of being a human is making decisions. One of those decisions when you're in a committed relationship is not to let other people touch your genitals sexually. She grabbed his dick = not his fault. He shrugs and says, "well, lets give it the old college try!" = his fault. Experiencing guilt and shame for making a bad decision is what happens when you make a bad decision. Making mistakes causes people to feel guilt and shame. And quite frankly, making Thomas the Tugboat here the poster child for sexual assault victims is doing the narrative a huge disservice, on your part.
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Sep 18, 2017 16:33
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Look, I'm not a hateful person or anything–I believe we should all live and let live. But lately, I've been having a real problem with these masseuses. You see, just about wherever I go these days, one of them approaches me and starts tugging my cock.
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Sep 18, 2017 16:33
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Dienes posted:Because ONLY sexual assault can cause a man to have a panic attack. Not guilt or fear of losing your partner. ONLY sexual assault. Because it's IMPOSSIBLE this was sexual assault that caused a man to have this panic attack, it ONLY could have been guilt and fear over losing his partner when they found out about this thing they could never reasonably find out about. Like, what is your deal, here? Do you just think men can't be sexually assaulted? Do you think men automatically have boundaries that are further out and therefore deserve less respect?
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Sep 18, 2017 16:33
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Mirthless posted:Because it's IMPOSSIBLE this was sexual assault that caused a man to have this panic attack, it ONLY could have been guilt and fear over losing his partner when they found out about this thing they could never reasonably find out about. Man you really like putting your words in people's mouths. I didn't consent to that.
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Sep 18, 2017 16:35
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nedit: this conversation is getting stupid fast so i'm just going to let it die
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Sep 18, 2017 16:36
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Mirthless posted:Let the record show that Submarine Sandpaper objects to the importance of verbal affirmative consent how do you give verbal consent when your mouths are full of eachother's sex organs?
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Sep 18, 2017 16:36
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Remember for a while there when Mirthless wasn't posting? Me too.
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Sep 18, 2017 16:39
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Man, it's possible that he went out and tried to get a handjob from a masseuse, but considering the overall narrative of the story, I honestly kinda doubt it. He'd been feeling lovely for weeks, she suggested he go get a massage, and he had a breakdown after it. Did he maybe say "Yeah alright getting a handjob, cool"? Possibly. The main point is that it's a little weird to just jump on the dude and start saying things to the effect of "Well, he probably wanted it. Shouldn't have gone to a massage parlor if you don't wanna get jerked off, idiot." I don't think anybody is really advocating that the masseuse be treated as a rapist, but I also don't think it makes much sense to act like the guy knew exactly what he was getting into and intended to cheat when he walked into the parlor.
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Sep 18, 2017 16:39
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Me [23 F] with my BF [28 M] with fetish issuesquote:Ok...it's very awkward to bring it up but I want other girls' opinions. My BF of 8 months has some serious boot fetish. Two weeks after we started dating he picked up two pairs of nice boots (each costs over $200!) and some boot socks. I never received shoes as gifts before so I thought it was some nice gesture. He is a nice guy overall but he just could not shut up complimenting me whenever I wore them. I didn't mind them at first because I appreciated the attention. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SbyAZQ45uww
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Sep 18, 2017 16:41
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David Heinrich posted:Man, it's possible that he went out and tried to get a handjob from a masseuse, but considering the overall narrative of the story, I honestly kinda doubt it. He'd been feeling lovely for weeks, she suggested he go get a massage, and he had a breakdown after it. Did he maybe say "Yeah alright getting a handjob, cool"? Possibly. The main point is that it's a little weird to just jump on the dude and start saying things to the effect of "Well, he probably wanted it. Shouldn't have gone to a massage parlor if you don't wanna get jerked off, idiot." I don't think anybody is really advocating that the masseuse be treated as a rapist, but I also don't think it makes much sense to act like the guy knew exactly what he was getting into and intended to cheat when he walked into the parlor. Yeah, I don't think he was looking for a handjob when he walked in; I think he saw the opportunity to get one, then (not really very quickly) regretted it. His wife should be pissed.
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Sep 18, 2017 16:45
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [23 F] with my BF [28 M] with fetish issues i mean, it's definitely her in the boots that he's getting off to, otherwise he wouldn't need her to be wearing them (plenty of dudes out there with shoe fetishes who do not need the involvement of a partner to satisfy their kink) still, this is the difference between a kink and a fetish, if you can't get off without the kink you've taken it too far i think of all the fetishes i've seen people complain about, though, "my boyfriend bought me $1200 worth of gently caress-me-boots" is a pretty weird one to be at odds with Mirthless fucked around with this message at 16:52 on Sep 18, 2017 |
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Sep 18, 2017 16:48
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Since we're never going to know what happened and reading the post like tea-leaves is apparently fun to y'all here's my theory: He thought she offered him a drink and was very surprised what a "stiff old-fashioned with a twist" really was.
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Sep 18, 2017 16:49
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La Brea Carpet posted:Since we're never going to know what happened and reading the post like tea-leaves is apparently fun to y'all here's my theory: This is the most likely scenario.
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Sep 18, 2017 17:00
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La Brea Carpet posted:Since we're never going to know what happened and reading the post like tea-leaves is apparently fun to y'all here's my theory: But wild speculation and position-taking is what SA is all about??
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Sep 18, 2017 17:04
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andrew smash posted:I read that one too, the cops found her and she said she's fine and an adult and wants her lovely parents not to be able to contact her which is pretty funny although it sucks for the younger sibling. Finally, a story where what I hope happened, happened.
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Sep 18, 2017 17:06
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Barudak posted:Finally, a story where what I hope happened, happened. seriously! it's nice for one of these things to not end terribly for a change!
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Sep 18, 2017 17:09
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welcome to hell posted:Tom the Rage Monster Holy poo poo, you go, ladies. The aunt, the OP, and Lana are all loving heroes for ditching that psycho.
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Sep 18, 2017 17:12
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welcome to hell posted:I've [F25] returned from a month long trip and my roommate [F22] has moved all her things into my room and has been living there, with no intention of switching back. God drat. Glad Lana had enough of a support network to escape that garbage person, gently caress.
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Sep 18, 2017 17:23
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My (28M) sister (32F) insulted my newly-vegan wife (27F). I know I should be on my wife's side but I think my sister was justified.quote:So first off, some essential background information on my wife. I love her with all my heart. She's kind, funny, smart, and an amazing mother to our children (7F, 5F, 2M). But everyone has a flaw, and hers is smugness. When she finds a new cause or identity she gets really, really into it, to the point of being irritating to the people around her. She always mellows out in the end and becomes completely normal about it, but the first few months are always difficult. For example a couple years ago she went from being just generally agnostic to a committed atheist, and I love her but she was saying things that could have been made into a meme. But once the newness wore off she became totally fine, she's fully respectful of religious people and can have a reasonable conversation about atheism/religion. "My wife is a great person except for when she acts like a militant vegan and fights with my family!"
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Sep 18, 2017 17:25
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"Wife is an insufferable moron who got loving owned, internet please advise"
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Sep 18, 2017 17:28
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:My (28M) sister (32F) insulted my newly-vegan wife (27F). I know I should be on my wife's side but I think my sister was justified. Haha this dumbass married a ratheist. Have your sister send her a card with the dril corncob tweet in it.
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Cough Drop The Beat posted:My (28M) sister (32F) insulted my newly-vegan wife (27F). I know I should be on my wife's side but I think my sister was justified. "My partner is great aside from the times they're not." Extremist anythings are terrible. Tell her how bad for the environment organic food is. Alternatively write up a list of all the times she's taken up a new cause and become insufferable. Read them out to her until she gets the shame and stops it, or divorces you.
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Sep 18, 2017 17:36
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The Ferret King posted:Remember for a while there when Mirthless wasn't posting? To be fair he is right here and this is more a goons will be goons thing.
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Sep 18, 2017 17:40
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That was a magnificent own by the sister, holy poo poo
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Sep 18, 2017 17:45
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And yeah the carbon impact of having even one child vastly outweighs any personal consumption decisions you make in a regular sort of life in the USA.
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Sep 18, 2017 17:48
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CharlestheHammer posted:To be fair he is right here and this is more a goons will be goons thing. He's never right. He's Mirthless
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Sep 18, 2017 17:50
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I'm surprised there's not more /r/ problems involving topics like childfree/breeder/clown car/selfish child havers/selfish not child havers.
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Sep 18, 2017 17:51
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I thought Mirthless had just gotten bored of this thread once everyone stopped derailing it to pay attention to him every time he posted, I guess he was just in a hermitage the past thousand pages training up a new and enormously more tiresome look at me look at me look at meeeeeeeeee posting gimmick? My (25M) fiancée's (27F) father (55M) is demanding a bride price. I need advice. quote:My fiancee and I have been planning our wedding for a few months now. We have a picked out a venue we absolutely love and put a deposit down. My fiancee and I have been saving and planning to pay for the entire wedding ourselves (besides the honeymoon which my parents had offered to pay). Our venue can fit around 160 people. From the estimated guest list 40 would be my family and friends and the rest would be her family and friends.
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Sep 18, 2017 17:56
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The sister owns. The wife getting owned so hard that she feels the need of a formal apology to even start to recover is a cherry on top. Good luck to the husband though as the power dynamic in his marriage is pretty obvious considering him bending over backwards to excuse each of his wife's abusive behaviors.
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Sep 18, 2017 18:00
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Pay the 5,000 dollars in pennies
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Sep 18, 2017 18:06
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Admiral Ray posted:And yeah the carbon impact of having even one child vastly outweighs any personal consumption decisions you make in a regular sort of life in the USA. I can totally respect humble, decent vegetarians/vegans who feel bad for the animals, but arguing consumption is the most naive super white privileged nonsense. It's hilarious how the sister owned dude's wife perfectly.
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Sep 18, 2017 18:15
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Grow some balls and tell the father to gently caress off.
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Sep 18, 2017 18:15
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:I thought Mirthless had just gotten bored of this thread once everyone stopped derailing it to pay attention to him every time he posted, I guess he was just in a hermitage the past thousand pages training up a new and enormously more tiresome look at me look at me look at meeeeeeeeee posting gimmick? I did notice in the last couple pages that his uncle was murdered by a motorcycle gang or something, so maybe the legend continues.
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Sep 18, 2017 18:16
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:I thought Mirthless had just gotten bored of this thread once everyone stopped derailing it to pay attention to him every time he posted, I guess he was just in a hermitage the past thousand pages training up a new and enormously more tiresome look at me look at me look at meeeeeeeeee posting gimmick? $5k for a ceremony accommodating 400 loving people? That's a steal, he should do it, there's probably going to be great food.
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Sep 18, 2017 18:18
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:I thought Mirthless had just gotten bored of this thread once everyone stopped derailing it to pay attention to him every time he posted, I guess he was just in a hermitage the past thousand pages training up a new and enormously more tiresome look at me look at me look at meeeeeeeeee posting gimmick? It's these tiresome loving chiding remarks that I love the most about this thread. Every single time someone disagrees with the thread consensus, Wizard of Goatse finds the most relevant burn from his excel sheet w/r/t that poster and that's how you know the Thread Has Moved On Dude you are a person that has spent months systematically insulting other people for disagreeing but post just little enough to avoid getting the same treatment, I think you're a real jackass, unironically A few posters here genuinely make discussing the articles unenjoyable to the point that I just read the threads on reddit. It's great to see that the burns persist and the target simply shifts to whoever disagrees with the thread next.
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