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On the one hand she was a crackwhore, on the other, he wants to live in a gated community. They equally suck.
Somebody fucked around with this message at 17:05 on Oct 4, 2017 |
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Bubblyblubber posted:Jfc pull up thread! Context: quote:We were fighting about how he refused to take students loans to go to grad school and insisted to pay cash for it even though we are trying to build our savings to buy a house.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 11:54 |
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Does that make any difference? There's two valid sides to that argument. But yea, maybe don't mock your spouse edit: this forum is so ugly with the new font changes, holy cow. I'm actually browsing zoomed out
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 11:58 |
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He's dumb and doesn't understand that he won't be able to get a mortgage of they don't have any prior credit history
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 12:18 |
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Whoever said that they don't have any? I'm just visualizing a situation similar to ones I've seen before, where after crunching the numbers a larger loan later is the less expensive option overall. But then, that's probably what they where arguing about. Money causes stress, if there's going to be conflict it's not the dumbest thing to fight over.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 12:53 |
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You're right, let's focus on dumb stuff. Any good drama revolving around, say, people's favorite foods?
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 12:55 |
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mystery fluid posted:On the one hand she was a crackwhore, on the other, he wants to live in a gated community. They equally suck. This is weird, I can see your post when I quote it, but your original post is just blank. EDIT: I can also highlight it. Megillah Gorilla fucked around with this message at 13:05 on Oct 4, 2017 |
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ArbitraryC posted:Yeah I mean gift giving can be hard but imo it's better to try and fail than it is to us to give up. Like yeah I can think of stuff I've given or received that was considerate but still missed the mark, but like the idea/effort still feels nice and counts a long way. One of the most stone-cold things someone ever did to me was re-gift me the Christmas present I had bought her four months later as a birthday present. Her reasoning was 'well, you bought it, so I thought you liked it'. Like, poo poo, just put that at the back of a shelf and forget about it. I have a friend that thinks I'm in love with Nightmare Before Christmas when I went through a goth phase at 13, I just accept the gifts and move on.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 13:27 |
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Gorilla Salad posted:This is weird, I can see your post when I quote it, but your original post is just blank. I'm getting the same thing. Weird. Edit: It's ALL his posts.
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Fil5000 posted:I'm getting the same thing. Weird. There's a style in the style sheet that specifically makes his posts invisible. code:
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 13:40 |
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Lowtax gave out invisible posting as one of the random "prizes" in one of his recent threads.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 13:42 |
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Gorilla Salad posted:I agree. This turned into a textbook case of white fragility and will be a good teaching example*. "You see my form of racism, in which I describe why I think they deserve it, is different than all other forms of racism." Way to be so ignorant that you "If you can't beat them, Join EM!" with literal racists.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 13:44 |
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Wow, the gift just keeps on giving
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 13:50 |
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Me [31M] and my wife [29F] had a the absolute biggest disaster of a wedding 3 months ago, and she won't let it go.quote:Basically me and my SO got married 6 months ago after being in a serious relationship for around 7 years (engaged for 2 year). The wedding to my wife was a huge deal, and unfortunately everything that could have gone wrong, went wrong and then some. This seems like a bit much for even a bad 90s romantic comedy.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 13:56 |
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Take her up on her suggestion of getting divorced, but maybe don't get re-married.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [31M] and my wife [29F] had a the absolute biggest disaster of a wedding 3 months ago, and she won't let it go. This isn't the first time someone has posted about people proposing during their Weddings. But while she was walking down the aisle? How many people do this? Also I'm all for Wedding Revenge. Make it a show on TLC.
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [31M] and my wife [29F] had a the absolute biggest disaster of a wedding 3 months ago, and she won't let it go. quote:she ruined her big day, why can't she ruin hers.
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VictorianQueerLit posted:This isn't the first time someone has posted about people proposing during their Weddings. But while she was walking down the aisle? How many people do this? I missed that part, that's what I get for not reading carefully enough. Yeah, they should consider some sort of revenge.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 14:24 |
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I figure that breaking contact is the only option so you might as well wait a bit and get a revenge Just upstage her entirely Spilled wine? Smack her with a wine bottle Proposed in the aisle? Propose at "if anyone objects to this union" Pulled fire alarm? Actually start a fire In general just go full Kanye in the middle of their wedding Shugojin fucked around with this message at 14:27 on Oct 4, 2017 |
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Shugojin posted:I figure that breaking contact is the only option so you might as well wait a bit and get a revenge Ask the priest/official if it's ok to do a dual ceremony right before the exchanging of vows, and be sure to walk up to the front to do so.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 14:40 |
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ArbitraryC posted:Yeah I mean gift giving can be hard but imo it's better to try and fail than it is to us to give up. Like yeah I can think of stuff I've given or received that was considerate but still missed the mark, but like the idea/effort still feels nice and counts a long way. absolutely. people need to learn to receive gifts w/ grace also. don't punish people for tryin.
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Shugojin posted:I figure that breaking contact is the only option so you might as well wait a bit and get a revenge Show up in the wedding dress. If challenged, point to the wine stain and say "see? I didn't wear white."
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Pick posted:absolutely. people need to learn to receive gifts w/ grace also. don't punish people for tryin. It surprises me that there are people who can't. It doesn't take that much effort to thank someone for the effort, even if it's the worst gift and you lack sincerity.
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This relationship is clearly going down in flames, so you might as well try to hit something when you crash. Go full Phantom of the Opera on it. Bring your drunkest, most senile relatives without warning. Start singing and don't stop.
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Pick posted:absolutely. people need to learn to receive gifts w/ grace also. don't punish people for tryin. I pity people who can't genuinely enjoy getting free stuff, even if it's poo poo that you throw away and forget about five minutes later.
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Straight White Shark posted:Show up in the wedding dress. If challenged, point to the wine stain and say "see? I didn't wear white."
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La Brea Carpet posted:Me [31M] and my wife [29F] had a the absolute biggest disaster of a wedding 3 months ago, and she won't let it go. Is an entire cruise really tied to an irreplaceable piece of paper? There isn't, like, some list of passengers the cruise line has?
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Remember the story a few months back about the woman whose daughter got molested while visiting her rear end in a top hat dad's family? She's posted another update, and it's a happy ending... [Update 2] [ME / CA] My teenage daughter was sexually assaulted while visiting her father for the summer. quote:Thought I'd post a quick update. My attorney spoke with my ex husband's attorney, and I don't know WHAT words were exchanged, but my ex agreed to the amended custody agreement, so she no longer has to see him. He made a big stink about how he's "not paying child support anymore", but I'm not very worried about it. I make enough that it's not really a concern, and I've lurked this sub enough to know that just because he doesn't have visitation, does not mean he gets out of paying child support. I'm a vindictive bitch so if he's late on a single payment I plan to pursue it as far as I can. ...OR IS IT? dun dun dunnnnnnn quote:She's joined a "larp" group
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 15:25 |
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LARPing is an upgrade from being shipped off to be molested by rapey redneck trash every weekend, at the very least.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 15:39 |
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Shugojin posted:Propose at "if anyone objects to this union" quote:She's joined a "larp" group
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 15:41 |
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Wedding ruining sister deserves a Stone Cold Stunner followed by a Rock Bottom and maybe a Tombstone.
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zakharov posted:Wedding ruining sister deserves a Stone Cold Stunner followed by a Rock Bottom and maybe a Tombstone. You could also skip the first two steps, start with the tombstone and see how it goes from there.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 16:00 |
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Or just wear your own white dress to her wedding, and pretend you didn't notice.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 16:01 |
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If you talk about politics in here I am going to probate everyone except the most conservative posters so you better watch out you tedious liberal fuckers!!!
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barack "hussein" obamacare
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:If you talk about politics in here I am going to probate everyone except the most conservative posters so you better watch out you tedious liberal fuckers!!! You're the hero this thread deserves.
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 16:35 |
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Just Carrie the bride with red wine right as she gets to the altar, and then grab a ring out of the mess and propose Okay I think I'm done thinking up ways to upstage the wedding ruiner's wedding ruination, but no promises
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# ? Oct 4, 2017 16:54 |
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My husband (34m) avoids rooms where I (27f) have messes.quote:I'm getting to my wits end with this. I will be the first person to admit that I am not the most organized person in the world. There are three areas that I struggle with:
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fruit on the bottom posted:My husband (34m) avoids rooms where I (27f) have messes. There are a lot of people who don't realize "clean" is something you do a little bit more or less constantly, not something you set aside a weekend every other month for. OP doesn't seem to get that lunch dishes can, in fact, be handled right then and should be. Kitchen poo poo is easy if you keep up with it, and I imagine the husband is annoyed with having to clean up her kitchen mess any time he needs to use the sink to clean his own lunch dishes. He's probably also gotten very used to boxes that will "only be there for a few days" taking up residence for weeks. Edit: also megaLoL at her thinking neatness and organization will make her work suffer. TheScott2K fucked around with this message at 17:24 on Oct 4, 2017 |
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fruit on the bottom posted:My husband (34m) avoids rooms where I (27f) have messes. Buy a shed and have your husband live in it alone and uncluttered.
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