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Honestly, I would feel kind of weird about it too if I found out that my husband's actual type doesn't resemble me very much.
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Palpek posted:Ahahaha "I'm not transphobic but..." I mean it is kind of a curious trend from just a coincidence standpoint. I mean if you opened up your relationship and you're partner spent months banging only a specific ethnicity different from you I dunno if it'd be entirely racist to notice it. Like that one white girlfriend who noticed had her boyfriend had 100% Asian porn on his hard drive. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 00:51 on Oct 16, 2017 |
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If he’s reliably bringing home a large variety of young trans girls all the time with no apparent drama or effort, he has to be paying for sex, right?
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Admiral Ray posted:Funny my worry in this situation would be less "Wow I'm so insecure!" and more "Wow you seem to be only selecting young and vulnerable people going through a particularly vulnerable time, you're a real sack of poo poo." I mean she opened up the relationship with the intent of staying together so he's going after people looking for casual sex. It'd be worse if he was trying to form long lasting relationships but if its just for sex I don't think the age gap really matters so much if everyone's willing.
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ArbitraryC posted:I mean it is kind of a curious trend from just a coincidence standpoint. I mean if you opened up your relationship and you're partner spent months banging only a specific ethnicity different from you I dunno if it'd be entirely racist to notice it. By itself sure, but the fact that she repeatedly distinguishes between trans women and "REAL women" indicates at least a little bit of transphobia is at the root of her thinking.
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Genocyber posted:By itself sure, but the fact that she repeatedly distinguishes between trans women and "REAL women" indicates at least a little bit of transphobia is at the root of her thinking. In the scope of it being an unlikely coincidence her husband is just running a train on mtf coeds i think her inconsiderate phrasing can be overlooked by the intent of her question/concern. This guy is obviously chasing a fetish that she can't meet herself.
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Clark Nova posted:If he’s reliably bringing home a large variety of young trans girls all the time with no apparent drama or effort, he has to be paying for sex, right? Prooooobably but it could be done. That open story has so many layers going on with it I can't even. The almost Pete one was also amazing.
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Maybe he just has a thing for women with strong jawlines and doesn't live in a Slavic country?
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ArbitraryC posted:I mean it is kind of a curious trend from just a coincidence standpoint. I mean if you opened up your relationship and you're partner spent months banging only a specific ethnicity different from you I dunno if it'd be entirely racist to notice it. The only reason it wouldn't be just as skeevy if he was consistantly coming home with 19 year old cis girls is that the addition of being trans adds an extra level of vulnerability and desire for validation for him to exploit, and I think she's got the right to be put off with his behavior, but I hope she can also distangle that from her perceptions of trans people.
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It's pretty clear the barely legal thing is barely a blip on the radar and it's more the transphobic "my husband is loving men" thing she cares about.
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[MD] Car Left at Friends Residence for Yearsquote:This is going to be a lengthy read so I apologize and appreciate any advice. Jeez my unreasonable friends won't drive 4 hours out and 4 hours back to get tires to move my heap of garbage I left on their property! Even if I paid for the tires!
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Oct 16, 2017 02:21
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Why not just scrap it at that point, can't imagine fixing it up when he already has a car would be worth the trouble. Just call one of the places that come pick up your car, junk it, and give you a cut of the scrap. Give that money to the friends as an apology.
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Danaru posted:[MD] Car Left at Friends Residence for Years he would move it himself if he wasn't
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Danaru posted:[MD] Car Left at Friends Residence for Years Your friends are being super unreasonable here. What they should do is send you a loving bill for leaving it on their property this entire time, and then bill you for the hours and fee required to junk to stupid thing.
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Admiral Ray posted:Your friends are being super unreasonable here. What they should do is send you a loving bill for leaving it on their property this entire time, and then bill you for the hours and fee required to junk to stupid thing. It wouldn't even cost money to junk it, literally a phonecall and 24 hours later it'd be gone and he'd get a small check. Less than the scraps are worth but basically no effort on his part required.
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Me, [30m]. When I was younger I let my mom [55f] pressure me into going to law school and it has ruined me financially. She doesn't really see the problem. Having trouble dealing the resentment.Non-Romantic (self.relationships) quote:I had graduated college and was working in an office. I wasn't using my degree, nor was I making a lot of money, but I was making enough to support myself and I was supporting myself in a reasonable, fine way. My mom, however, seemed to feel as if my position was beneath me and she really pushed hard for me to go to law school, to the point where I didn't feel comfortable saying no. I realize now that I should have, but I didn't.
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It seems like being a pot lawyer right now would have a lot of scope??
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depending on the state they might be able to acquire the title and once it's theirs they can do whatever they want with it.maskenfreiheit posted:Me, [30m]. When I was younger I let my mom [55f] pressure me into going to law school and it has ruined me financially. She doesn't really see the problem. Having trouble dealing the resentment.Non-Romantic ...  You finished law school? What's the loving problem, dude? Now you've gotta be a lawyer when all this time what you REALLY wanted to do was move to denver and grow weed for a living? Shut the gently caress up and get a real job you god drat baby. Nobody gets to live their dreams and you're not obligated to enjoy what you do.
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Ex unblocked me on Facebook messenger? (self.relationship_advice)quote:My ex unblocked me on Facebook messenger and I asked her why and she said "gently caress Off" why do you think she had done that? She's not messaged me since she done it untill I asked her? We are also not friends on Facebook so it's not to look at my profile? Why is it so hard to find a emo sk8r gf. (self.dating_advice) quote:Like why. I have never dated anyone. I doubt anyone will. I have no self esteem. Any ideas where i can find someone and be happy? maskenfreiheit fucked around with this message at 02:54 on Oct 16, 2017 |
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Mirthless posted:depending on the state they might be able to acquire the title and once it's theirs they can do whatever they want with it. Just think of all the weed you can buy with your lawyer money my dude. You could even put down some money to own a dispensary using your sweet law school degree.
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Anne Whateley posted:It seems like being a pot lawyer right now would have a lot of scope?? yeah but most of that would be working with and navigating dispensary laws, and he wants to live a simple life on the ol' pot farm, where he grows An Marijuana and people give him huge stacks of money, work free It's pretty clear this dude just smokes a lot of weed and plays a lot of videogames and thinks a career as a weed farmer is going to be the ticket to making that a 24/7 pursuit. He'll fail as a farmer and get himself another six figures of debt in the process.
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Mirthless posted:yeah but most of that would be working with and navigating dispensary laws, and he wants to live a simple life on the ol' pot farm, where he grows An Marijuana and people give him huge stacks of money, work free I strongly suspect weed will follow the same pattern gambling and craft beer did. (Regulations loosened, many businesses formed, increased competition tanks price of product and several fail since they were idiots who assumed prices would stay high)
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I was going to post the dead baby one that's at the top of the subreddit right now but it's far too depressing, so instead here's this sea sponge My (26M) Girlfriend (24F) of 3 years doesn't trust me as a groomsman quote:My friend since childhood is getting married and wants me to be a groomsman. I betrayed my girlfriend 2 years ago with this friend by going on a beach trip and hanging out with girls on the beach (friends of friends). I did not act unfaithfully on this trip and was very standoffish towards everyone because I was sad and in a fight with the gf over the situation. My friend and I have grown apart over the years, naturally as well as due to the incident. quote:>I'm a little confused here. What did you do on this beach with the girls that 'betrayed' her? quote:>How is 'not sticking by her side at a party' betrayal?
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chemtrail huffer posted:I was going to post the dead baby one that's at the top of the subreddit right now but it's far too depressing, so instead here's this sea sponge
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maskenfreiheit posted:I strongly suspect weed will follow the same pattern gambling and craft beer did. Basically this, and the overall weed market will be awesome because of it, just like the overall craft beer market is awesome nowadays. Mirthless posted:yeah but most of that would be working with and navigating dispensary laws, and he wants to live a simple life on the ol' pot farm, where he grows An Marijuana and people give him huge stacks of money, work free I mean law school's not a joke, and the pot industry's not a joke either anymore. He sounds like he's missing a spine but not a brain or a work ethic if he got through law school, so if he stops being such a weenie he could 100% find himself a decent-paying job in the weed industry. A buddy of mine dropped out of college and went to culinary school, had a solid job in the food industry before he realized he wanted to work in weed, and now he's running the r&d kitchen at one of the bigger edibles brands out in CO
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Virigoth posted:Just think of all the weed you can buy with your lawyer money my dude. You could even put down some money to own a dispensary using your sweet law school degree. "Lawyer money." He got lovely grades and hates being a lawyer. He's not getting into Biglaw with that combo so he's probably pulling down $30-50k working crazy hours in insurance defense or something on top of servicing $100k in student loans. At least mills like that don't usually drug test so he can continue to support the demand side of the curve.
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maskenfreiheit posted:Ex unblocked me on Facebook messenger? (self.relationship_advice) She totally wants to gently caress you, dude. You should pursue it.
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My [20m] girlfriend [20F] has gained a lot of weight and won't make any effort to lose it, my attraction is fading fastRelationshipsquote:So we have been dating for 7 months now, at the beginning she weighed 10 Kgs less than she does now.
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maskenfreiheit posted:My [20m] girlfriend [20F] has gained a lot of weight and won't make any effort to lose it, my attraction is fading fastRelationships some choice comments: reddit hero posted:You called her lazy, gluttonous, and a slob. She deserves better than you. Someone who won't insult her behind her back to strangers. OP posted:Well honestly she spends almost everyday, all day if she can, laying around scrolling through tumblr in her underwear. She washes as rarely as she can and she puts no effort into her appearance for me. I do almost all the tidying, washing dishes and cleaning whilst also trying to look at my best for her. The sadly smiling smilie in text form posted:Make sure that you have an understanding of how attractive you are because if she's in your league then good luck getting someone more attractive. It's not all about weight. I was in a similar situation and tried dating a girl out of my league and it just didn't work out cause she wasn't that into it, eventually just realized heavier women like me and over time I just got used to it and realized I can find it attractive if I change how I think. If I knew what I did when I was your age I might still have the best gf I ever had. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 04:30 on Oct 16, 2017 |
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ArbitraryC posted:some choice comments: specifically citing tumblr makes it feel like bait to me there's nothing that stirs redditors up more than tumblr
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Mirthless posted:specifically citing tumblr makes it feel like bait to me Even if it is bait it's still great because there's not just one but multiple redditors weighing in on how it's impossible to date an attractive looking woman and how much happier they've been as they slowly forced themselves to appreciate the folds and flabs of their partners.
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GamingHyena posted:"Lawyer money." He got lovely grades and hates being a lawyer. He's not getting into Biglaw with that combo so he's probably pulling down $30-50k working crazy hours in insurance defense or something on top of servicing $100k in student loans. At least mills like that don't usually drug test so he can continue to support the demand side of the curve. ironically he could probably make a business out of handling legal issues for dispensaries and pot farmers since it's an emerging market and there's not a lot of people doing it yet. But... That would be work. ArbitraryC posted:Even if it is bait it's still great because there's not just one but multiple redditors weighing in on how it's impossible to date an attractive looking woman and how much happier they've been as they slowly forced themselves to appreciate the folds and flabs of their partners. I don't know if I necessarily disagree with the thrust of what they're saying, but they probably picked the wrong situation to say it. It's pretty obvious the girlfriend here just does not give enough of a poo poo.
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Mirthless posted:I don't know if I necessarily disagree with the thrust of what they're saying, but they probably picked the wrong situation to say it. It's pretty obvious the girlfriend here just does not give enough of a poo poo. That OP is a 20 year old dude in good shape, I can p much guarantee he can find someone he's interested in and attracted to without forcing himself to become a bbw enthusiast.
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All in the title on this one: [TX]I'm leaving my pregnant girlfriend because she refuses to get an abortion. I told her from the beginning I never want kids and if she got pregnant and didn't terminate I'd have nothing to do with her or the kid. Will I only have to pay child support and provide insurance? The body: quote:Also I know I'm a pos please don't remind me.
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therobit posted:All in the title on this one: what's the full text cause if he's willing to pay child support and communicated from the beginning he had no interest in a kid I don't think he's the pos here at all.
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therobit posted:All in the title on this one: What else does he think he'll have to do? Honestly as far as deadbeats go, he made his intentions clear and is willing to meet his financial obligations, that's about all you could hope for.
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Reading from the replies he's 18 and okay with having his wage garnished to pay for the kid he didn't want but is unsure if he'll be able to handle medical expenses. She's unemployed. That'll learn him to have sex as a teenager.
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ArbitraryC posted:what's the full text cause if he's willing to pay child support and communicated from the beginning he had no interest in a kid I don't think he's the pos here at all. That was the full text. Still, don't gently caress without wrapping it up if you aren't OK with some possibility of a baby.
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