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Benny Harvey
Nov 24, 2012

Bozza posted:

Can't believe Benny Harvey can't get laid in Glasgow lmao

Why. Where are you fae?


Fartbox posted:

I don't know how it is in America but in basically all my dates with Swedish women here they insist on paying for their own drinks, food etc. Sometimes I'll insist to pay for them because I really like them but usually they take care of their own business - sometimes they pay for me as well :allears:

How many times have you been pepper sprayed?

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noether
May 1, 2017

some kinda cutesy shoggoth

Palpek posted:

Nah, that's a Nice Guy.

The only difference between nice guys and incels is intensity. A looooot of incels do the whole "I'd be so much better a boyfriend than chad, but Stacy only likes douchebags" schtick

My Linux Rig
Mar 27, 2010
Probation
Can't post for 6 years!

-Mr. Virgin Nerdturtle, 2017

also, somebody’s been working on their knot making skills!



Let’s check out the comments for this picture!

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incel801• 3h
13 twists..get it right, otherwise it's not a noose.

Don't be a failure at everything

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Framecel22218 y/o 6'1" acnecel, mentalcel • 10h
Do I spot a normie jawline and hairline? Either mentalcel or poo poo eye area.

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D_Gandy • 10h
Wow that loving dedication and the fact you have a hobby should mean you should have women flocking to you, as long as you are showering aswell.

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wormboard • 2h
isn't this supposed to be a support group

My Linux Rig fucked around with this message at 22:05 on Oct 23, 2017

Fartbox
Apr 27, 2017
What's happening? Dri fu an only two? what is this?
Is this an avatar? I don't know rm dunk

Benny Harvey posted:

Why. Where are you fae?


How many times have you been pepper sprayed?

zero

what kind of question is that lol

My Linux Rig
Mar 27, 2010
Probation
Can't post for 6 years!

Benny Harvey posted:

How many times have you been pepper sprayed?

You know the rules, first you have to tell us how many times you’ve been pepper sprayed.

Palpek
Dec 27, 2008


Do you feel it, Zach?
My coffee warned me about it.


noether posted:

The only difference between nice guys and incels is intensity. A looooot of incels do the whole "I'd be so much better a boyfriend than chad, but Stacy only likes douchebags" schtick
As somebody mentioned itt before - it seems that incels are the next step of the nice guy evolution. I'd say the difference is that nice guys aren't so openly misogynist yet or at least aren't aware that they are. And as with the example of that book author - he sees a specific type of girl as still "worthy" - incels already consider that type of girl a non-existing fantasy so they hate all women with the same intensity. Blackpill is no joke, it's a step into the abyss.

Coolguye
Jul 6, 2011

Required by his programming!

Fartbox posted:

I don't know how it is in America but in basically all my dates with Swedish women here they insist on paying for their own drinks, food etc. Sometimes I'll insist to pay for them because I really like them but usually they take care of their own business - sometimes they pay for me as well :allears:

anecdotal, but i am in kansas city, date regularly, and there's a lot of traditions that are evolving in fits and starts as more women continue to find their economic voice. insisting on paying for one's own stuff is basically separate checks and is generally considered a tightwad or suspicious move. if your date does that on the first date, you are probably not getting a second - not necessarily because you did something wrong per se but because she isn't feeling that connection and wants to make drat sure you don't feel like she owes you something, or she's just naturally very suspicious - one of those sorts of ultra-paranoid people that make you wonder why they're even trying to date. i'll sometimes do this if i just don't like the girl, say something like "i'll handle my portion, it's no problem". it makes it clear i don't intend to call without it being a hard rejection.

more auspicious is just throwing two cards at the check instead of one to split it down the middle, or agreeing to trade off nights out. these generally go with the understanding that you're not going to take advantage of someone's hospitality and shows a lot more trust between two people without really being any less fair if everyone plays by the rules. if someone breaks the rules, well, you find out a lot quicker and easier than you otherwise would.

it's not a perfect system by any means but it all works reasonably well.

Bozza
Mar 5, 2004

"I'm a really useful engine!"

Benny Harvey posted:

Why. Where are you fae?

England but I live in Glasgow.

It's probably the best city I've ever lived in, everyone is super chill and it's really easy to meet people and make friends. I moved knowing absolutely nobody, made tons of pals in the first 6 months.

There's tons of gigs, arts projects and general fun poo poo literally every day of the week.

noether
May 1, 2017

some kinda cutesy shoggoth

My Linux Rig posted:


-Mr. Virgin Nerdturtle, 2017

also, somebody’s been working on their knot making skills!



Let’s check out the comments for this picture!

/r/incels: isn't this supposed to be a support group?

Benny Harvey
Nov 24, 2012

My Linux Rig posted:

You know the rules, first you have to tell us how many times you’ve been pepper sprayed.

Zero



Fartbox posted:

zero

what kind of question is that lol


Was wondering if Swedish women were like German women at all. Pepper spray was an exaggeration but when I lived there they really seemed to relish the opportunity to exercise power over men.


Bozza posted:

England but I live in Glasgow.

It's probably the best city I've ever lived in, everyone is super chill and it's really easy to meet people and make friends. I moved knowing absolutely nobody, made tons of pals in the first 6 months.

There's tons of gigs, arts projects and general fun poo poo literally every day of the week.

Yeah I can't blame the city for my predicament.

Metal gigs here are sausage fest's though.

Guy Mann
Mar 28, 2016

by Lowtax

My Linux Rig posted:


-Mr. Virgin Nerdturtle, 2017

also, somebody’s been working on their knot making skills!



Let’s check out the comments for this picture!

https://www.theonion.com/study-many-americans-too-fat-to-commit-suicide-1819569199

Savage For The Winjun
Jun 27, 2008


Fartbox posted:

I don't know how it is in America but in basically all my dates with Swedish women here they insist on paying for their own drinks, food etc. Sometimes I'll insist to pay for them because I really like them but usually they take care of their own business - sometimes they pay for me as well :allears:

maybe you have low T?

PetraCore
Jul 20, 2017

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noether posted:

fun fact: the author of ready player one is an incel type


Ooooh my god. I mean you certainly don't have to like that kind of porn but calling the women in them 'objects' and 'disgusting' isn't very feminist.

BrigadierSensible
Feb 16, 2012

I've got a pocket full of cheese🧀, and a garden full of trees🌴.

Benny Harvey posted:

How many times have you been pepper sprayed?

Do you honestly think it goes down like:

"So are you going to pay, or should I?"

"How dare you even suggest that I, a woman, pay for my meal with money that I have earned?!?!" *Pulls out pepper spray and sprays her date*

china bot
Sep 7, 2014

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Plaster Town Cop
r/incels is a support group much in the same way that a stool supports your weight as you pull the noose around your neck

Captain Yossarian
Feb 24, 2011

All new" Rings of Fire"

BrigadierSensible posted:

Do you honestly think it goes down like:

"So are you going to pay, or should I?"

"How dare you even suggest that I, a woman, pay for my meal with money that I have earned?!?!" *Pulls out pepper spray and sprays her date*

Before serious posting, check his extensive and hilarious post history re: women lol

Benny Harvey
Nov 24, 2012

BrigadierSensible posted:

Do you honestly think it goes down like:

"So are you going to pay, or should I?"

"How dare you even suggest that I, a woman, pay for my meal with money that I have earned?!?!" *Pulls out pepper spray and sprays her date*

No, I meant to imply that he was getting pepper sprayed for asking them out. Again, it was an exaggeration.

Fathis Munk
Feb 23, 2013

??? ?

china bot posted:

r/incels is a support group much in the same way that a stool supports your weight as you pull the noose around your neck

Fartbox
Apr 27, 2017
What's happening? Dri fu an only two? what is this?
Is this an avatar? I don't know rm dunk

Benny Harvey posted:


Was wondering if Swedish women were like German women at all. Pepper spray was an exaggeration but when I lived there they really seemed to relish the opportunity to exercise power over men.




Not really in my experience, but I guess it depends on the man? I've always been described as pretty dominant (read: not a cocky rear end in a top hat, just assertive and confident) and they seem to like that because it has been going really well so far.

Maybe if they feel like the man is a bit of a pussy they'll take charge?

mind the walrus
Sep 22, 2006

china bot posted:

r/incels is a support group much in the same way that a stool supports your weight as you pull the noose around your neck

mind the walrus
Sep 22, 2006

Benny Harvey posted:

Was wondering if Swedish women were like German women at all. Pepper spray was an exaggeration but when I lived there they really seemed to relish the opportunity to exercise power over men.
The trick is to not tolerate poo poo behavior and move on with your life. Don't renege or indulge bratty behavior and insults, because they only have as much power as you let them.

Benny Harvey
Nov 24, 2012

Yeah but it feels to me that power is handed to them (at least in their heads) as soon as I acknowledge that I find them attractive.

mind the walrus
Sep 22, 2006

Well yeah you make yourself vulnerable admitting that. That means you can get hurt, not that they dictate your actions.

Coolguye
Jul 6, 2011

Required by his programming!
lol then just tell them that bratty behavior is unattractive, in those words, when it comes up

like for real if you are honestly dealing with someone who thinks their pretty face gives them leave to act lovely, just stiffen up and go "wow, that was really...unattractive" when they do something lovely. they're either going to realize that you're dropping the limit down and apologize or continue to act lovely and defend their lovely behavior. if they do the latter well, uh, you now know they're not worth hanging around and you can wish them best of luck with their future endeavors

like I don't even remotely agree that you make yourself vulnerable if you admit you find someone attractive. if they do something unattractive then you just tell them it's unattractive and you're taking that compliment back.

Coolguye fucked around with this message at 09:23 on Oct 24, 2017

Fathis Munk
Feb 23, 2013

??? ?
Look at all of these fools engaging Benny, smh

Engaging benny is cope.

Somfin
Oct 25, 2010

In my🦚 experience🛠️ the big things🌑 don't teach you anything🤷‍♀️.

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Fathis Munk posted:

Look at all of these fools engaging Benny, smh

Engaging benny is cope.

Then I will cope with the best of them.

Benny Harvey posted:

Was wondering if Swedish women were like German women at all. Pepper spray was an exaggeration but when I lived there they really seemed to relish the opportunity to exercise power over men.

Benny Harvey posted:

Yeah but it feels to me that power is handed to them (at least in their heads) as soon as I acknowledge that I find them attractive.

Do you "relish the opportunity to exercise power" when you get a chance?

Why do you assume other people do?

Ghostlight
Sep 25, 2009

maybe for one second you can pause; try to step into another person's perspective, and understand that a watermelon is cursing me



Benny Harvey posted:

Was wondering if Swedish women were like German women at all. Pepper spray was an exaggeration but when I lived there they really seemed to relish the opportunity to exercise power over men.
lmao how would you know this because it sure isn't from personal experience.

Android Blues
Nov 22, 2008

Feeling that someone has an uncomfortable amount of power over you when you admit you like them is kinda natural if you're inexperienced, but also foolish. Most likely a lot of it is just in your own head and they're equally stressed out by your high expectations for them.

Astrofig
Oct 26, 2009
I honestly don't get why these losers don't just suicide and make the world a better place.

NO FUCK YOU DAD
Oct 23, 2008
Because if they had the faintest hint of balls they wouldn't be in their stupid hosed up situation in the first place.

fabergay egg
Mar 1, 2012

it's not a rhetorical question, for politely saying 'you are an idiot, you don't know what you are talking about'


Benny Harvey posted:

Zero



Was wondering if Swedish women were like German women at all. Pepper spray was an exaggeration but when I lived there they really seemed to relish the opportunity to exercise power over men.


isnt that just the national german passtime?

Orange Fluffy Sheep
Jul 26, 2008

Bad EXP received
If I were still op I'd close the thread any time benny harvey or hyphz posted in it, launch a new one, and hope maybe this time things worked.

goethe.cx
Apr 23, 2014


Orange Fluffy Sheep posted:

If I were still op I'd close the thread any time benny harvey or hyphz posted in it, launch a new one, and hope maybe this time things worked.

Make a goon virginity thread like the ones e/n used to have and quarantine them there

ikanreed
Sep 25, 2009

I honestly I have no idea who cannibal[SIC] is and I do not know why I should know.

syq dude, just syq!

Best Giraffe posted:

isnt that just the national german passtime?

They do have that weirdo holiday where women cut men's ties off

My Linux Rig
Mar 27, 2010
Probation
Can't post for 6 years!

quote:

Everday i wake up and realize im a 18 in a body of 24 year old. I never really lived up to this point, i just existed. Its like i need to go to college or school again to compensate for all the missed experiences.
u/dr-problematic
I dont know if theres any chance to recover from here, you cant live as normal functioning human being without your fundamental character forging moments.

Looking back i realize how loving amazing univercity life could be, no job, just passing exams and hangin out. Jesus christ.

gently caress genetics.

I guess 24 is the new 90??

quote:

The most unrealistic about "Horton Hears a Who" is that someone with a jaw liked this had a wife who loved him.
u/claviclcel


Yeah the most unrealistic thing in a Dr. Seuss book is that someone with a weak chin had a wife

ranbo das
Oct 16, 2013


I wish I could go back to my college days too.

I would have paid a lot more attention in my Electronics class so I wouldn't have to re-teach myself all of it two years later for a job

Qwazes
Sep 29, 2014
Fun Shoe

ranbo das posted:

I wish I could go back to my college days too.

I would have paid a lot more attention in my Electronics class so I wouldn't have to re-teach myself all of it two years later for a job

no
gently caress electronics
buncha bullshit

ALFbrot
Apr 17, 2002

Qwazes posted:

no
gently caress electronics
buncha bullshit

if it were feasible to gently caress electronics, incels would probably be much happier

soy
Jul 7, 2003

by Jeffrey of YOSPOS

ALFbrot posted:

if it were feasible to gently caress electronics, incels would probably be much happier

that's been possible for a long time

what they need is the social validation that comes with having a mate

they should just attach a loudspeaker to their e-vagina that yells at them to stop playing video games and a garbage disposal which they have to dump expensive restaurant meals down every weekend

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Oct 15, 2012

To these sing-alongs 🎤of siren 🧜🏻‍♀️songs
To oohs😮 to ahhs😱 to 👏big👏applause👏
With all of my 😡anger I scream🤬 and shout📢
🇺🇸America🦅, I love you 🥰but you're freaking 💦me 😳out
Biscuit Hider
Why are cucktears so homophobic?

1. They frequently try to insinuate that incels must be homosexuals in a mocking and insulting tone. Why do they think being a homosexual is something to be laughed at and mocked?

2. They are forever in a quest to prove incels are homosexuals while simultaneously believing incels to be misogynists/rapists/pedophiles. Why do they think only homosexuals can be misogynists/rapists/pedophiles?

Such rampant homophobia in 2017, Shame.

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