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I kill people to show my love, what does that fall under? Acts of service?
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Nov 21, 2017 20:40
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MF_James posted:I kill people to show my love, what does that fall under? Acts of service? If youre killing other people and leaving them at the foot of the bed then thats being a cat.
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Nov 21, 2017 20:42
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Barudak posted:If youre killing other people and leaving them at the foot of the bed then thats being a cat. gently caress, I am catte
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Nov 21, 2017 20:43
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I Was The Fury posted:In response to a commenter who asked "why only those two positions?" Do these people know you can do more than one position in a single Sex? I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. I'm imagining this girl riding him for like 45 minutes while they're both crying and she's begging him to finish and they just can't figure out how to get out of this situation.
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Nov 21, 2017 20:54
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lemon-lyme disease posted:Once, when I broke up with a girl, her father told me that he was really going to miss having me around but that I was totally dodging several bullets and was glad I had the stones to end it before things got worse. *We don't like the fiance at all and can only hope they don't reproduce before this finally flames out
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Nov 21, 2017 20:55
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Tender Bender posted:Do these people know you can do more than one position in a single Sex? I feel like I'm taking crazy pills. Once you commit to a position you have to see it through without switching or the sex police will fine you, at least in most US states.
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Nov 21, 2017 20:55
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LethalGeek posted:It's really easy when someone is telling you something stupid even if they're your kid. GF's offspring was talking about moving in with their fiance and getting a dog someday but they'd have to keep the dog out of some space of the place as the fiance is allergic to dogs. GF without missing a beat called the kid out on being selfish and that they need to be aware their fiance is a spineless wimp* who will do nearly anything so don't be taking advantage of it. You don't get to have a dog & live with someone that allergic to them, stop it. My fiancee and I got a dog, she is allergic, it was ultimately her choice to get the dog though.
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Nov 21, 2017 20:58
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MF_James posted:Chores are not love language, that's poo poo you do even when not in a relationship, that poo poo shouldn't even be considered, other than the fact that you should thank your partner because they cooked for both of you, cleaned up both your messes, etc etc. 
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Nov 21, 2017 21:05
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On the one hand I appreciate that its a book thats helping rock-brained people facilitate communication and understand that humans are different and their mind isn't the only possible worldview, but on the other hand its like the relationship version of people who open a browser window and type "YouTube" into the google search field.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:09
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MF_James posted:Chores are not love language, that's poo poo you do even when not in a relationship, that poo poo shouldn't even be considered, other than the fact that you should thank your partner because they cooked for both of you, cleaned up both your messes, etc etc. How lazy are people that doing laundry is an “act of service”. Do they not do laundry otherwise or what
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Nov 21, 2017 21:09
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Oh also there was the guy who told me his “love language” was being able to gently caress me at any time and his was that if we ever moved in together he’d do the dishes “sometimes” He tried this before we even kissed, and before he knew I had a loving dishwasher lol He never got that gently caress  ha ha
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Nov 21, 2017 21:12
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blarzgh posted:open a browser window and type "YouTube" into the google search field. Is there something wrong with this?
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Nov 21, 2017 21:15
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Pick posted:Oh also there was the guy who told me his “love language” was being able to gently caress me at any time and his was that if we ever moved in together he’d do the dishes “sometimes” is it even possible to say this unironically where do you keep finding these men, pick
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Nov 21, 2017 21:15
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This love language poo poo is the dumbest thing I have ever heard of. My love language is an endless stream of fart sounds. Is it really necessary to codify and catalogue how people show their love for one another? Turning human intimacy into a set of rules from a supplementary D&D 3.5e rulebook kind of sucks the joy out of loving someone. venus de lmao fucked around with this message at 21:20 on Nov 21, 2017 |
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Nov 21, 2017 21:16
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ZearothK posted:Once you commit to a position you have to see it through without switching or the sex police will fine you, at least in most US states. 
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Nov 21, 2017 21:18
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No, the cum police are the people who get called when your wife and her friends find your jizz encrusted dress shirts in the attic.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:19
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Shugojin posted:is it even possible to say this unironically I've been lurking this thread for a good long while and that post is The One that finally made me go what the hell. I lived in Portland for five years and never met anyone quite like these dudes.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:19
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Shugojin posted:is it even possible to say this unironically I will give anyone a chance and this is actually a terrible policy because frankly you can spot a loser
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Nov 21, 2017 21:20
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Shugojin posted:where do you keep finding these men, pick You say that as if you think for some insane reason that Pick deserves better.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:20
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Shugojin posted:No, the cum police are the people who get called when your wife and her friends find your jizz encrusted dress shirts in the attic.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:20
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pac man frogs posted:I've been lurking this thread for a good long while and that post is The One that finally made me go what the hell. I lived in Portland for five years and never met anyone quite like these dudes.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:23
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Three Olives posted:You say that as if you think for some insane reason that Pick deserves better. How the gently caress did you get a steady boyfriend
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Nov 21, 2017 21:28
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Bertrand Hustle posted:This love language poo poo is the dumbest thing I have ever heard of. My love language is an endless stream of fart sounds. Nobody in modern life understands nuance and subtlety any more. We all need rules and checklists handed to us, and all behavior must be understood in a direct input output format (learn coding, children). I can't claim to be an exception.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:40
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Bertrand Hustle posted:How the gently caress did you get a steady boyfriend Right, because being a catty bitch isn't rewarded socially in the gay community?
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Nov 21, 2017 21:46
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The love languages thing is like the Myers-Briggs personality types. It's a tool designed to make people introspect for a moment and improve communication. For some reason people on the internet use them both like people used horoscopes back in the 70s. Oh I'm INTJ so asking me to leave my goon cave is abuse. Can't ever leave the goon cave, this test says so. La Brea Carpet fucked around with this message at 21:49 on Nov 21, 2017 |
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Nov 21, 2017 21:46
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In the dark year of 2050, all old movies will need to be subbed over with the exact intentions and feelings of all characters, to be understandable by a modern audience.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:47
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Three Olives posted:Right, because being a catty bitch isn't rewarded socially in the gay community? Oh boy this smells like another derail Popcorn.ttf But yeah the love languages thing is odd. I would hope that you would be able to pick up on what your SO is doing to make you feel loved. That book just sounds like it exists so you can say "see? I'm doing this right here I dont need to improve myself at all."
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Nov 21, 2017 21:52
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It's the opposite, it's like if you're an established couple and you both feel unhappy and unappreciated so you go to marriage counseling. It's for self-improvement, both "they love me and I need to recognize what they've been doing to show it" and "I love them and I need to act in a way that will make them feel it more." That one woman is using it in a crazy abusive way, but she could probably turn any relationship book or strategy into a crazy abusive thing because that's how crazy abusers work.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:57
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i like nice words
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Anne Whateley posted:It's the opposite, it's like if you're an established couple and you both feel unhappy and unappreciated so you go to marriage counseling. It's for self-improvement, both "they love me and I need to recognize what they've been doing to show it" and "I love them and I need to act in a way that will make them feel it more." See also: the Bible.
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Nov 21, 2017 21:58
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My (33f) ex husband (37m) divorced 3 years, married 11, has my face tattooed on his chest. I would like him to get it covered but he refuses since it's his body. Is there anything I can do about this?quote:Those of you who follow the front page will note there was a sort of a similar story today. No I am not any of the people from that post however it did remind me that I have this long standing issue out there that most of the time I don't think about, but when I do it drives me f-ing crazy.
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Nov 21, 2017 22:16
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Nothing. I mean his decision was questionable, but it's his body. Though now I'm wondering what the law says if it were a tattoo of something that could be considered libel or slander, and given there is also a history of abuse it gets pretty murky. chumbler fucked around with this message at 22:28 on Nov 21, 2017 |
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Nov 21, 2017 22:22
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No, also lmao
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Nov 21, 2017 22:22
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That is something, I would say a self-own but he clearly doesn't give a gently caress and it's really owning her at this point.
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Nov 21, 2017 22:35
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ArbitraryC posted:Is cooking a nice dinner or baking stuff an act of service or a gift? Seems like it could be described as both. It's not necessarily a chore getting done, it's the other person going out of their way to do something nice for you. Like, making a cup of tea or fetching a pillow or running an errand. Putting the bathroom heater on when you know the other person's about to hop in the shower on a chilly morning or making them a casserole when they're going through a rough patch or helping them apply aloe to a sunburn or whatever. It's thinking of someone and then putting in real actual effort, however slight, to make their life easier/better. But yeah there's some overlap in there for sure.
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Nov 21, 2017 22:36
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MF_James posted:Chores are not love language, that's poo poo you do even when not in a relationship, that poo poo shouldn't even be considered, other than the fact that you should thank your partner because they cooked for both of you, cleaned up both your messes, etc etc. if someone told me this i would just picture them as really gross and messy when they are single
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Nov 21, 2017 22:41
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It's almost as if people with good relationships treat each other with care and kindness. Hmmm
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Nov 21, 2017 22:43
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His body his choice. His retarded, inexplicably bizarre choice
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Nov 21, 2017 22:43
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datajugend posted:if someone told me this i would just picture them as really gross and messy when they are single Reading comprehension seems to be a weak point for you. v-- so I'm the rear end in a top hat here you say. MF_James fucked around with this message at 23:06 on Nov 21, 2017 |
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Nov 21, 2017 22:43
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MF_James posted:Reading comprehension seems to be a weak point for you. about chores being a love language, not you.
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Nov 21, 2017 22:45
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The bad tattoo is more the property of the tattoo artist than the woman, mostly because it's a stylized likeness of a person created by an artist. If the art was obscene or something she might have a case, but laws regarding tattoo ownership are surprisingly complicated http://theconversation.com/who-owns-your-tattoo-maybe-not-you-56050
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