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No couple should have children, because what if they get divorced? They should know better than to make unnecessary ties to their spouse.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:14 |
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# ? May 30, 2024 13:37 |
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Pick posted:Ive done enough interactions with real families What does this even mean?
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:15 |
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As as this story is overall there is least one person who knows what's up: My [16F] boyfriend [17m] got into a physical fight with my dad [58m]. Don’t know what I should do? We’ve been together a year. quote:Reposted because I broke a rule apparently
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:17 |
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Pick posted:What if they get divorced, as is common in couples of all stripes? Do people have no connections beyond blood? Greaaaattt The only issue that could arise vs another donor is if sister and donor brother have a falling out, but that has legal remedies and if they've fallen out then bringing the legal system into the matter isn't going to make things worse besides the financial hit which shouldn't be significant if they're already spending a big chunk of change going through a clinic that makes sure all the paperwork is in order. I'd trust adult siblings who've known each other their whole lives to be able to make the judgement call as to whether the small chance of a falling out is a risk worth taking for the emotional benefit of doing the donation this way.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:20 |
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LethalGeek posted:As as this story is overall there is least one person who knows what's up: Your dad is trash and you will probably go into a deep deep depressive spiral due to your father's actions in shutting your social life down. He will then blame you for that as well. Have fun!
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:21 |
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Yeah that dad needs to die in a house fire, like his daughter will after he nails the windows shut:quote:[–]cambria90 [score hidden] an hour ago quote:[–]CrypticConcretion [S] [score hidden] an hour ago
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:23 |
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My [23M] Dad [50M] is dating someone [49F] whose daughter [21F] is very much interested in me, this is really awkward and unfortunately very much real. Help???quote:Ok this poo poo is real, and very embarassing. so my Dad is now dating someone who happens to have a daughter around my age, who after meeting for the first time yesterday apparently thinks I'm gorgeous or alternatively beautiful- or at least that's what my dad told me. I don't know why he would lie, I get enough comments as is.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:26 |
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LOL that dad is a dirtbag, but I bet the boyfriend is bad news too. Good on him for being enough of a man to stand up but it was a bad decision to get throw a punch first.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:28 |
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Admiral Ray posted:Yeah that dad needs to die in a house fire, like his daughter will after he nails the windows shut: I amend my previous statement. Boyfriend was probably legally wrong, but probably also morally right, to punch dad.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:29 |
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Admiral Ray posted:Yeah that dad needs to die in a house fire, like his daughter will after he nails the windows shut: People like her dad need to be castrated with a chainsaw.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:30 |
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Yawgmoth posted:Jesus loving christ, "he didn't think I was listening so he hit me, but it's okay because he didn't leave any permanent scarring!" A lot of states agree that as long as you don't leave lasting marks (bruising and the like) then it isn't child abuse. America!
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:32 |
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Admiral Ray posted:A lot of states agree that as long as you don't leave lasting marks (bruising and the like) then it isn't child abuse.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:38 |
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[WA] Petsitter lost my cat while taking care of her. Can I take legal action? (self.legaladvice)quote:I think she died under his care and he's not telling me. Or someone broke in and specifically targeted one of my pets. He never got pictures of her either. (He sent daily texts.) The edit was done a few hours later, a little quick on the trigger there pal
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:39 |
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quote:Or someone broke in and specifically targeted one of my pets. Ok, crazy person
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:50 |
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bone app the teeth posted:WHY I USE A WHITEBOARD TO SOLVE MARITAL DISPUTES I hate these people so much because they have Red = Jasmine written in blue ink instead of red.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:55 |
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Meow!
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 19:56 |
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Lone Goat posted:I hate these people so much because they have Red = Jasmine written in blue ink instead of red. Wife, why are you watching those picto-sounds on the tele-vision unit? That is not an optimal use of your time.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:29 |
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My wife [28f] doesn't let me take care of our kids barely at all. I [28m] feel like such a deadbeat father and don't know how else to get her to see my side?quote:We have 4 small children-7 months, 2 year old (twins) and a 4 year old. My wife is very particular about how they're raised, and since she's a stay at home mother and spends the most time with the kids she gets to decide most of the parenting decisions. The problem is, she literally will not trust anybody else to care for her kids-not even me. quote:Me pushing harder has usually made it worse. She attacked me once because I was trying to put the baby to bed and wasn't following the right routine. This lady's going to have a psychotic break and drown the kids in the bathtub to protect them from the outside world
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:32 |
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I [21M] was unable to pick up my [20F] girlfriend from the airport. We got into a fight and haven't talked in two days. What do I do?quote:Ok so a little over a week ago, my girlfriend took a trip to Florida to visit her grandparents. She asked me to pick her up from the airport when she returned two days ago to which I said yes. My friend was having a party the night she was returning and I decided to go to it. I didn't really feel like leaving to pick her up so I texted her saying she needed to find another way home. OP is showing off how much of a Prince Charming he is in the comments. quote:She’s not going to apologize. quote:You made a promise. You broke that promise. You were and continue to be selfish about this.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:39 |
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LethalGeek posted:As as this story is overall there is least one person who knows what's up: Call the cops and make sure to mention that they look for the nails in the window and GPS tracker on the phone before they decide who to believe.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:40 |
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I refuse to believe that that is not a troll.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:42 |
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Doggles posted:I [21M] was unable to pick up my [20F] girlfriend from the airport. We got into a fight and haven't talked in two days. What do I do? Do you remember how I promised Id kill you last, 21M? Yeah yeah, 20F! You did! I lied.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:43 |
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LethalGeek posted:As as this story is overall there is least one person who knows what's up: This girl needs to go into active subversion mode as soon as possible. If she would follow the steps below, her fathers will and heart will break. 1. Her father is deeply conservative. I am willing to bet this girls hair is long. Shaving her head would be a powerful statement. 2. Cut out all pleasant conversation with the father. Yes no answers. Make every bit of information he gathers hard to obtain. When she does feel like talking it should be about some tall handsome guy that is a different race than her own. 3. Create a mini Faraday Cage and keep her phone in it as much as possible. 4. Hide or throw away essential things when the father feels like relaxing. Like throw away the living room TV remote. Keep a stash of dead batteries to replace fresh ones with. 5. Start reading books written by porn stars. 6. Get condoms and leave them in her pockets/purse/car/dresser anywhere they will be found. 7. Secretly obtain her GED and apply to a college. 8. Call the police immediately when he gets physical and run out of the house screaming like he is going to kill you. Hide at a neighbors house until police arrive. 9. Talk to the judge about becoming an emancipated minor. 10. When the man gets to old to take care of himself. Put him in the worst nursing home she can find.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:43 |
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Doggles posted:
That guy is an incredible piece of poo poo!! Reddit commenter: quote:Break up with her so she can be with someone who actually cares about her. You are selfish as hell. quote:She'll never find someone better than me.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:44 |
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The_end posted:This girl needs to go into active subversion mode as soon as possible. If she would follow the steps below, her fathers will and heart will break.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:45 |
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Doggles posted:I [21M] was unable to pick up my [20F] girlfriend from the airport. We got into a fight and haven't talked in two days. What do I do?
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:45 |
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Ham Sandwiches posted:That guy is an incredible piece of poo poo!! Ok, those last two have me convinced that this is a troll by a guy who's "best friends!" with a girl who's boyfriend did this to her, and he's role playing the Chad.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:49 |
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Buzkashi posted:My wife [28f] doesn't let me take care of our kids barely at all. I [28m] feel like such a deadbeat father and don't know how else to get her to see my side? Get a divorce, your wife's brain is super broken and can never be recovered. Eventually she'll turn the children against you by telling them you are trying to kill them through your inept attempts to "get to know them" or "spend time with them". Doggles posted:I [21M] was unable to pick up my [20F] girlfriend from the airport. We got into a fight and haven't talked in two days. What do I do?
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:50 |
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blarzgh posted:Ok, those last two have me convinced that this is a troll by a guy who's "best friends!" with a girl who's boyfriend did this to her, and he's role playing the Chad. It seems like the stories where the OP is lovely seem to call the most "ah, troll post" remarks, as if nobody would intentionally admit that they're lovely so that's a big red flag. So yeah, maybe we're all living in a simulation making all the reddit comments worthless too, one never knows or maybe, some people really are assholes and are either somewhat aware of it and are trying to see it from other perspectives or not fully aware of it when they post on reddit
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:52 |
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good poo poo on dear prudencequote:Q. No asexuals: I just told my boyfriend that I’m asexual. It’s taken me a long time to accept this about myself, and that it doesn’t mean I’m broken in any way, and saying it aloud feels like a weight off my shoulders. The problem is that now my boyfriend says we have to break up. I’ve told him that even though I don’t want to have sex, it doesn’t bother me to have it sometimes if it makes him happy. But he said that felt gross and “pervy.” lol
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:52 |
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Doggles posted:I [21M] was unable to pick up my [20F] girlfriend from the airport. We got into a fight and haven't talked in two days. What do I do? Hey honey, I know I said I would pick you up at the airport but this party came up and I really want to go to it, is there anyway someone else can pick you up or can I pay for your Uber? Oh, no problem, I'm going to be tired anyways, who's party? It's Tom's birthday, he wasn't going to have a party but it came up last minute. I love Tom! Have fun, I'll see you tomorrow, nah, I can pay for the Uber. Love you! Hey honey, I know I said I would pick you up at the airport but this party came up and I really want to go to it, is there anyway someone else can pick you up or can I pay for your Uber? Oh, I've got a bunch of luggage and I'm pretty sure Uber will be surging then, can you please skip the party or leave a little early, it would mean a lot, besides, I miss you a bunch! OK, I thought I would ask but I understand, I'll be there, I can't wait to see you too! Hey oval office, I'm not picking you up at the airport because I would rather get trashed with friends, I would have told you but I was too busy with beer pong. gently caress off.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:53 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:good poo poo on dear prudence Where are you going? All I did was reveal to you a relationship preference that makes you feel like a rapist.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:54 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:good poo poo on dear prudence Wow lol
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 20:59 |
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I loving love how common that response is. it's in like every "came out as asexual" post whether it's from the SO's side or the asexual's, and the asexual person is always baffled that "well I'll still have sex with you! now you just know that it will always be glorified masturbation for you and a chore for me!" isn't a huge deal. and act like that wouldn't be the saddest loving relationship for their "partner." like they don't get it at all as an aside, is there anyone in the world who identifies as asexual who is otherwise "neurotypical?" because it always seems to be paired with "beep boop, you will still receive sex as I will lay still to receive your member 2.5 times per week on average" style logic
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 21:00 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:good poo poo on dear prudence What? We can still have sex but it would just be lifeless and emotionally blank.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 21:02 |
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DragQueenofAngmar posted:good poo poo on dear prudence Seriously, being asexual is fine, but if your partner ISN'T asexual, you can't be surprised when "I'll force myself to be intimate with you sometimes I guess" isn't really an attractive compromise. "It also hurts to find out that my boyfriend, who said he loved me, really just liked sex." is also crazy lovely and manipulative jesus christ. "If you don't commit to a relationship of abstinence and unenthusiastic missionary, you WERE JUST USING ME THIS WHOLE TIME "
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 21:03 |
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Did she get a reply?
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 21:04 |
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quote:A: I’m genuinely excited for you, that you’ve been able to arrive at a more fully realized sense of your own identity! That’s wonderful. I encourage you to give your boyfriend space to do the same thing. It’s not a value judgment on you as a person if he decides he would prefer to have a partner who is also sexual, rather than willing to have sex periodically for his sake. It just means the two of you aren’t compatible sexually. He’s not trying to “punish” you by ending your relationship, he’s saying, “What you want out of a relationship and what I want don’t really overlap.” Nor does it mean he didn’t genuinely love you! Sex may not be a crucial part of how you experience love, but it clearly is for your boyfriend. Sexual activity isn’t a lesser or baser form of expressing love, and just as you wouldn’t want your boyfriend to judge you for being asexual, don’t try to diminish his experience by saying he must not really love you, or that he just wants to have sex all the time.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 21:06 |
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Danaru posted:Seriously, being asexual is fine No, seriously, it's not, it's not a real thing and they should be relentlessly mocked and publicly disparaged for acting like they are in any way an oppressed group that deserves any sympathy or understanding. Just quietly go not gently caress people, you don't matter. And if you dare go into queer spaces and act to be part of our club we should literally chase you out with pitchforks.
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# ? Dec 1, 2017 21:09 |
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That's a genuinely level-headed response that hopefully the OP should take to heart. As a sexual person I consider a non-sexual close relationship a thing you should label as "friendship".
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