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maskenfreiheit posted:Husband has been out of jail for 5 months after assaulting AP (self.adultery) The rorshach-esque outsider-vigilante of the League of Pete.
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maskenfreiheit posted:THAT'S GOLD JERRY Ah, this is giving me that fuzzy Christmas feeling.
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Dec 25, 2017 21:38
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As a bonus, if they do get a divorce, his conviction will help her get custody of the kid.
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sullat posted:As a bonus, if they do get a divorce, his conviction will help her get custody of the kid. Maybe, maybe not. The argument on his side would be "You thought he was a good enough parent to reconcile after his conviction, why would it mean he's an unfit father after you were rejected?"
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Dec 25, 2017 22:08
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My [27 M] with my Fiance [26 F] off 6 years found my hardcore porn. Where do we go from here?quote:Hi Reddit. I'll cut right to the chase. The only proper response to a partner "melting down" over porn use is putting on your best  and saying "I can give you the name of a good CBT therapist who can help you deal with these emotions"
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Dec 25, 2017 22:23
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Most if the people who melt down over porn are women without cocks and balls to torture though 
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Dec 25, 2017 22:27
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Okay it's not all that funny but I read the title and was like lol her boyfriend got replaced by The Thing.quote:My now ex Boyfriend(27M) returned from Antarctica and left me(26F) with a huge mess
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Dec 25, 2017 23:10
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r/relationships: I have told her that despite my porn use, I have always loved her and all of our animals completely
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dangit bobby i got the shingles again, get the porn
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Labes for days posted:Okay it's not all that funny but I read the title and was like lol her boyfriend got replaced by The Thing. People need to realize that Antarctica is the Olympic Village of nerds.
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Dec 26, 2017 02:54
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Barudak posted:People need to realize that Antarctica is the Olympic Village of nerds. the olympic village is the olympic village of nerds Alexis Ohanian is married to Serena Williams for example
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Dec 26, 2017 02:58
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I remember reading a A/T thread about Antarctic researchers. Everyone goes a bit insane (they call it 'going toasty') and doesn't shower much. And they fall over laughing at the end of Madagascar.
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Inescapable Duck posted:I remember reading a A/T thread about Antarctic researchers. Everyone goes a bit insane (they call it 'going toasty') and doesn't shower much. There isn’t any part of this I can’t get behind. Except maybe the Madagascar bit. I think I missed my calling. Is banishment a calling? burial fucked around with this message at 04:28 on Dec 26, 2017 |
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Dec 26, 2017 03:24
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Barudak posted:People need to realize that Antarctica is the Olympic Village of nerds. I hear it is a great place for people who don’t shower. So how many people are joining us from antarctica today?
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lemon-lyme disease posted:There isn’t any part of this I can’t get behind. Except maybe the Madagascar bit. I think I missed my calling.
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Dec 26, 2017 05:01
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I don't think someone should be that hung up about porn but also it's really not that hard to avoid being caught in obvious situations like that. Like, only jack off when they aren't around and take the minimal effort to cover your tracks for gently caress's sake.
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Dec 26, 2017 05:11
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Labes for days posted:Okay it's not all that funny but I read the title and was like lol her boyfriend got replaced by The Thing. Didn't this lady post a while back because she had a bad feeling since he was considering staying another year or something? I'm hoping there isn't more than one philandering Antarctic researcher out there...
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Dec 26, 2017 05:16
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LadyPictureShow posted:Didn't this lady post a while back because she had a bad feeling since he was considering staying another year or something? The must have philandered with each other.
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Dec 26, 2017 05:19
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new phone who dis posted:I don't think someone should be that hung up about porn but also it's really not that hard to avoid being caught in obvious situations like that. Like, only jack off when they aren't around and take the minimal effort to cover your tracks for gently caress's sake. He should not have to hide his masturbation. It is abusive and controlling for her to force her sex negative views on her BF, violating his body autonomy
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Dec 26, 2017 05:34
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maskenfreiheit posted:He should not have to hide his masturbation. It is abusive and controlling for her to force her sex negative views on her BF, violating his body autonomy Porn can impact your sex life and your relationship. It's not the devil like fundies will tell you, but it's not completely harmless, either. You're right that nobody has the right to tell you what to do with your body, but there's a gray area when it comes to relationships. He shouldn't be agreeing to her terms and doing it behind her back, either. It's about communication, which he failed at. I was seeing a girl who decided that shaving her head bald was her new look. She asked me what I thought and I told her that people were either going to think she had cancer or was a lunatic. I told her I hated it and it made me less attracted to her. Yes, I was pressuring her to do something with her body, but there's some give and take in that area when it comes to intimate relationships. I'm also willing to do things like shave or make certain appearance changes like haircuts if the person I'm dating wants me to. If you can't be honest with each other, everything after that point is going to be tainted by lies and resentment.
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Dec 26, 2017 05:45
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maskenfreiheit posted:My [27 M] with my Fiance [26 F] off 6 years found my hardcore porn. Where do we go from here?  from this maniac already.
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Dec 26, 2017 05:51
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new phone who dis posted:Porn can impact your sex life and your relationship. It's not the devil like fundies will tell you, but it's not completely harmless, either. You're right that nobody has the right to tell you what to do with your body, but there's a gray area when it comes to relationships. He shouldn't be agreeing to her terms and doing it behind her back, either. It's about communication, which he failed at. Nice story There’s no gray You were wrong too
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LadyPictureShow posted:Didn't this lady post a while back because she had a bad feeling since he was considering staying another year or something? It's a bunch of nerds, one of the first contingents of people who fall to adultery and poly crap, because they are all about "rational thought" and anyone can rationalize loving someone else if they choose to. You have to find the person who will accept externally imposed terms like "dont gently caress other people".
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maskenfreiheit posted:You were wrong too it's fine and good to have preferences but yeah the dude is a dummy
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Dec 26, 2017 05:56
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maskenfreiheit posted:Nice story LOL okay, man.
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Dec 26, 2017 05:57
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Please everyone remember that you have NO RIGHT to autonomy in sexual preferences. You HAVE to find people attractive no matter what they do.
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Dec 26, 2017 06:15
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Look, when you're in the middle of the Antarctic wastes with lovely internet and your family literally half the world away, it's either start boning anything that smiles or the penguins are going to start looking pretty good.
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LimburgLimbo posted:Please everyone remember that you have NO RIGHT to autonomy in sexual preferences. You HAVE to find people attractive no matter what they do. It's like you people haven't even read Don Quixote!
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Dec 26, 2017 06:20
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new phone who dis posted:I was seeing a girl who decided that shaving her head bald was her new look. She asked me what I thought and I told her that people were either going to think she had cancer or was a lunatic. Wow, that's the stupidest thing I've heard in a while. Well hey at least you admit you were insulting her to pressure her into changing herself for you. You sound like quite the catch for a doormat. She's lucky she dodged that bullet. Jesus.
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Scathach posted:Wow, that's the stupidest thing I've heard in a while. Well hey at least you admit you were insulting her to pressure her into changing herself for you. You sound like quite the catch for a doormat. It was a long and drawn out conversation where all I said initially was that I didn't like it and she just had to know the exact reason why. I don't think it's manipulation when you say you don't like something outright. I didn't have some master plan to break her down with insults or whatever, she continued to press the issue into specifics and I finally told her. There was more to it than just the head shaving. She was acting weird, too. "I think this makes me look like a little Thai boy! Don't you?" Not exactly what you want to hear from someone you're dating. Why would I find a little Thai boy attractive? I stand by my cancer or lunatic prediction and it wasn't cancer.
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Dec 26, 2017 06:42
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new phone who dis posted:It was a long and drawn out conversation where all I said initially was that I didn't like it and she just had to know the exact reason why. I don't think it's manipulation when you say you don't like something outright. I didn't have some master plan to break her down with insults or whatever, she continued to press the issue into specifics and I finally told her. There was more to it than just the head shaving. She was acting weird, too. "I think this makes me look like a little Thai boy! Don't you?" Not exactly what you want to hear from someone you're dating. Why would I find a little Thai boy attractive? I stand by my cancer or lunatic prediction and it wasn't cancer. Leave Brittney Alone!!
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Scathach posted:Wow, that's the stupidest thing I've heard in a while. Well hey at least you admit you were insulting her to pressure her into changing herself for you. You sound like quite the catch for a doormat. It’s a dumb and hyperbolic way of saying it, but there’s no winning there. You tell her you don’t like it, she does it, you break up -> you’re shallow and broke up with her because of petty appearance reasons You’re up front and tell her if she does it you’ll probably break up -> you’re making ultimatums and are abusive You shut up and don’t say anything -> you find her unattractive and it destroys your relationship You’re allowed to want to be attracted to your partner, and if they’re all of the sudden with no warning really committed to making a large physical change which could affect your attraction then you either have to tell them how you feel (again “people will think you’re crazy or have cancer” is the dumbest possible loving way of saying that and the guy is a dumbass) and risk getting poo poo for/it being seen as controlling, or you say nothing and the relationship maybe ends. It’s basically always better to go for the former and gague how much commitment they have for the change. If it’s a lark and they didn’t realize the effect it might have and stop, you’re probably in the clear. If they’re committed, aka they value the change they want to make over your relationship (I’m not saying this in a derogatory way either; that’s a choice people should be empowered to make if they truly feel that way), then you need to see whether you’re able to get used to it or not, and maybe then end the relationship depending on how you feel. Whatever the case dropping a major change like that on your partner is a risk to the relationship and you should always evaluate it with proper context.
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We Americans really really don't take kindly to sexual compromise as a concept.
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I wouldn't have even minded that much if she just buzzed it on a 2 or 3 but she insisted on shaving it with a drat razor every few days.
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new phone who dis posted:She was acting weird, too. "I think this makes me look like a little Thai boy! Don't you?" I'm starting to think it's possible this person was working through some things.
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LimburgLimbo posted:You tell her you don’t like it, she does it, you break up -> you’re shallow and broke up with her because of petty appearance reasons This is always a winning move. Be tolerant in all things other than relationships, always demand perfection in them.
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Admiral Ray posted:This is always a winning move. Be tolerant in all things other than relationships, always demand perfection in them.
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my sister-in-law stole a babyquote:The baby is her grandson. But he's not hers.
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maskenfreiheit posted:My [27 M] with my Fiance [26 F] off 6 years found my hardcore porn. Where do we go from here? One of my most intense middle-school memories was my dad holding me down while my mother read my internet forums post history (not here) while they both laughed in my face about me pretending to be a college student who was smart and knowledgeable while I was in reality about 13 years old. anyway I hope that this guy some day experiences something as utterly humiliating as that. later they felt so bad about it they bought me my own computer (I'd accidentally kept the window open on my mom's computer when I went to go do something) which imho was the wrong move. let the shame guide you away from bad places, and bad choices 
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