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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:You typed this, and yet, you seem to think "clean up after yourself" is a reasonable goal....interesting. Power couple I feel is out of reach for goons since youd not have time nor legal freedom to be here. I choose to believe one of us can learn to put the pizza box in the trashcan without being reminded.
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Barudak posted:Power couple I feel is out of reach for goons since youd not have time nor legal freedom to be here. Post from work.
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La Brea Carpet posted:My (32f) husband (30m) (6 years) has suddenly become unhappy and even bitter with my job. He thinks I lack "ambition." quote:For the past 2 years, I've worked at a Catholic Church. As I grew with the community, got more involved, and made friends and became a part of a real time, it became more than just a way to pay the bills.
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Jan 5, 2018 22:34
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Barudak posted:Power couple I feel is out of reach for goons since youd not have time nor legal freedom to be here. what about "power couple OF SA" i.e. power posting couple just dominating subforums left and right
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Jan 5, 2018 22:42
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If he feels that way he should say it instead of UGH MY WIFE THAT LAZY BITCH or whatever
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Farmer Crack-rear end posted:what about "power couple OF SA" i.e. power posting couple I'm surprised there aren't any. My wife sometimes asks me to show her some PYF threads but she's never wanted to post because she does stupid poo poo like reading books or hanging out with friends instead of shitposting on SA.
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Jan 5, 2018 22:47
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Peaceful Anarchy posted:Maybe this has nothing to do with money or ambition and more to do with her job specifically being with a church and her increasingly treating it as not just a job but a community she feels a part of and is willing to sacrifice her family for. Maybe she's increasingly talking about how great her catholic charity is and it's getting to be really annoying to him as an atheist who thought he married someone who was also an atheist but he feels is drifting towards religion. maybe but that's pretty healthy, any well adjusted atheist would agree there can be positive sides to religion, such as community and a sense of purpose. my city has an existentialist church, a specifically non-denominational offshoot of the unitarians who are practically atheists already if the husband is so wigged out over his wife's job at a religious organization that he's going to start sniping at her resentfully because she lost her atheist way or whatever, that's super not healthy
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boner confessor posted:maybe but that's pretty healthy, any well adjusted atheist would agree there can be positive sides to religion, such as community and a sense of purpose. my city has an existentialist church, a specifically non-denominational offshoot of the unitarians who are practically atheists already This can be generalized. The relationship is doomed because he snipes at her resentfully regardless of what his problem is.
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girl pants posted:If he feels that way he should say it instead of UGH MY WIFE THAT LAZY BITCH or whatever boner confessor posted:maybe but that's pretty healthy, any well adjusted atheist would agree there can be positive sides to religion, such as community and a sense of purpose. my city has an existentialist church, a specifically non-denominational offshoot of the unitarians who are practically atheists already In any case the husband is absolutely terrible at communicating his actual concerns, whether they're about religion, her time, her etsy "job", how much money she makes, her ambition, his own job dissatisfaction, or some other unstated issue she decided not to write about. I'm not defending him here because I have no idea what his problem is or how exactly he's expressing it or how justified he is in his concern. Just pointing out he may be a different kind of insecure idiot than the money is what matters kind of idiot. The solution regardless is for both of them to sit down, communicate, listen and find a way to address both of their concerns whatever they may be.
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Jan 5, 2018 23:02
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"they aren't ambitious" literally always means "I want more poo poo"
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hawowanlawow posted:"they aren't ambitious" literally always means "I want more poo poo" I mean I can relate to her. My day job is pretty laid back and not that ambitious. The ambitious part of it is I can gain lots of knowledge and it's laid back. It lets me work on other things during my time. The husband is also a jerk and resentful over something, but he hasn't communicated what. Khorne fucked around with this message at 23:11 on Jan 5, 2018 |
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Jan 5, 2018 23:07
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Community is good, healthy, and even more important in this increasingly isolated age of technology consumerism, regardless of where exactly that comes. To tear that down simply because you don’t like the package it comes is small-minded and unhelpful.
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Jan 5, 2018 23:09
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My ambition is to work as little as possible, I'm very ambitious about this goal. If that couple aren't struggling financially who gives a gently caress. If one person is making 20k a year and the other 5k a year that's going to cause stress and maybe the other person needs to do more towards getting their income up. But if one person makes 100k and the other person make 10k who gives a gently caress, you're set, settle down, enjoy life.
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Baronjutter posted:My ambition is to work as little as possible, I'm very ambitious about this goal. If that couple aren't struggling financially who gives a gently caress. If one person is making 20k a year and the other 5k a year that's going to cause stress and maybe the other person needs to do more towards getting their income up. But if one person makes 100k and the other person make 10k who gives a gently caress, you're set, settle down, enjoy life. the STEM mind reels at this concept
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Baronjutter posted:I'm surprised there aren't any. My wife sometimes asks me to show her some PYF threads but she's never wanted to post because she does stupid poo poo like reading books or hanging out with friends instead of shitposting on SA. Jose and I are a power couple actually
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Baronjutter posted:My ambition is to work as little as possible, I'm very ambitious about this goal. If that couple aren't struggling financially who gives a gently caress. If one person is making 20k a year and the other 5k a year that's going to cause stress and maybe the other person needs to do more towards getting their income up. But if one person makes 100k and the other person make 10k who gives a gently caress, you're set, settle down, enjoy life.
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Khorne posted:Or he wants her to move forward with her life but instead she's working at a church charity with no upward mobility or additional responsibilities and ambiguously makes "$500" per month from etsy. If you're 20 and carefree then whatever, but if you're older how does this turn into relevant experience or money? The etsy thing definitely could depending on what she is doing but the charity thing probably not given how she has described it. she doesn't necessarily value those things (tho there is such a thing as a career in non-profits and administrative work) and i bet that's the excuse the husband has when it comes to why he sticks to his less fun job my read of that post is that they live in a cheap midwestern area and part of the appeal of living somewhere with a low cost of living is that you dont have to break your balls to have a comfortable life
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I think I (15f) hurt my dad's (47m) feelings because I asked him when he is moving outquote:My parents sat me and my brother's down and told us that they are getting divorce. None of us are surprised because they argue 24/7 about EVER-Y-THING. lol They gave us a choice as to who we wanted to stay with. My brothers chose him and I chose my mom but my dad said that he wants to see me every weekend. They were talking about some other stuff and I was just zoned out thinking about how fun it will be with just me and my mom. I just blurted out, "so when are y'all leaving?" My mom laughed and said that was mean but I didn't mean it in a rude way. I was just asking when they were moving because I was excited for it to be just us two in the house. After that my dad has been really awkward towards me. He won't even look at me or talk to me. When he does talk to me it's just a short sentence that he says under his breath. I didn't mean to make him feel bad and now he's making me feel bad Why sad, Dad?
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My [28M] ex girlfriend [27F] says my dead grandfather told her we will get back togetherquote:Okay, so I was in this relationship for 3 years, two of which we never had one fight. Then the last six months things started to fall apart for reasons thay we're mostly my fault. We "broke up" the day after thanksgiving and she was instantly with another guy we had been friends with.
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I know she’s the villain but that’s so audacious I’m actually kind of hoping she pulls it off.
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fruit on the bottom posted:I know she’s the villain but that’s so audacious I’m actually kind of hoping she pulls it off. The dude is already sleeping with her again, she did pull it off, and a year ahead of schedule!
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I Was The Fury posted:The dude is already sleeping with her again, she did pull it off, and a year ahead of schedule! nah the year is probably when the new guy goes home from his study abroad or whatever
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“Your grandpa says I need to bone this other dude for a while and THEN we’re destined for each other” lmao
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Is this the same one as in E/N or has Hell finally boiled over and the dead are starting to walk the earth?
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datajugend posted:Grandpa texted me to open up the relationship Fixed that for you.
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My grandfather’s dying wish was that we have a three-way with your hot friend from work. Come on, you don’t wanna let my pop pop down, do you? He fought Hitler!
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Chomp8645 posted:My [28M] ex girlfriend [27F] says my dead grandfather told her we will get back together In a weird way I bet their grandfather Tevye is looking down from the bosom of abraham proud that someone else could pull this stunt so successfully.
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Did I ever tell you guys about the time I got a fortune cookie that just said “you will have an opportunity”?
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fruit on the bottom posted:I think I (15f) hurt my dad's (47m) feelings because I asked him when he is moving out dad gone, so what? Also: quote:I don't want to get rid of them. Of course I want to see them but it's gonna be so fun with just my mom. We can spend more time together, we can dress however we want without it being awkward, just like a long girls time Poor Dad.
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i knew a girl in college who would proudly tell us that god told her she was destined to be a pop star/date the hot dude with no interest in her/get whatever else she wanted. looking back i guess the problem was it lacked the personal touch.
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Was I (31f) wrong in asking him (36m) about his past arrests? Seeing each other 2 months. I know, short duration. That’s why I’m here because I don’t know if I crossed a boundary or if I was right in asking. Met Brian through a dating app 2 months ago and things had been going well until last week when he was arrested for a DUI, had his license revoked and possession of marijuana (we live in a non-legal state). He had also quit his job the week before and hasn’t found work again yet. To his credit, he’s had a really hard time emotionally about this. Anyway, I came to know about him having been arrested after he was let out, and was curious if there was anything else he was arrested for but did not tell me (he only mentioned one previous DUI when I asked). I found the old DUI plus two additional records of battery and one trespassing came up. Timing: One from a decade ago (simple battery) and the other from three years ago (simple battery + trespassing). He asked to see me (not knowing I had done this) but I honestly didn’t feel 100% safe unless I knew what these charges actually meant. So I asked for us to talk, I bring up these other past charges, and he tells me that he had broken into his ex’s apartment and broke her things. Then starts telling me that he didn’t need this from me right now and that he’s going through a lot. Before I could get a word in, he said goodbye and hung up (on me, I guess? Not sure since he did say bye). Was I wrong in asking after only seeing him for 2 months? Or is this a red flag? TL; DR: Asked the guy I’ve been seeing for 2 months about his past arrest records, did I cross a boundary too soon? she comes to reason in the comments
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fruit on the bottom posted:Did I ever tell you guys about the time I got a fortune cookie that just said “you will have an opportunity”? I'll take that any drat day over some goddamn advice like "show others your kindness" motherfucker this is an fortune cookie not an """advice" cookie! 
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It came from interpersonal.stackexchange: How to handle my girlfriend finding out about my second apartment? [on hold] quote:
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I mean that dude can bring those concerns up when starting a relationship and find people that are cool with it? It doesn't seem difficult. Present it like a painter's studio without the painting. 
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The GOP Delusion posted:It came from interpersonal.stackexchange: Why the gently caress do you want to be with someone that can't give you your own space? My fiancee paints, when the mood strikes her, I give her a bowl and she locks herself in her office/studio and goes to town. When I need time alone? I go into my office and close the door and unless she really needs something she leaves me the gently caress alone. People that have a constant need to be with someone else are insecure with themselves and need therapy.
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The GOP Delusion posted:It came from interpersonal.stackexchange: I wonder how long it took this guy to make this lie up?
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Really though how on earth do these people get into relationships in the first place? I'm absolutely baffled.
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I rented a second apartment and lied about being out of town for work just so I didn't have to have a conversation with you about how I need alone time.
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Rubellavator posted:I rented a second apartment and lied about being out of town for work just so I didn't have to have a conversation with you about how I need alone time. What type of rear end in a top hat can afford two apartments?
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