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Danaru posted:I [38M] had an affair. I'm trying to find a resolution now with my wife [36F] and the other woman [19F] Livin the god drat dream
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Feb 2, 2018 22:13
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Blade Runner posted:On the one side, it's his decision and nobody else's Maybe he shouldn't associate with people who take their social mores from bad sitcoms then There's nothing wrong with taking your wife's name
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Feb 2, 2018 22:15
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Danaru posted:I [38M] had an affair. I'm trying to find a resolution now with my wife [36F] and the other woman [19F] I'm glad he explained it all logically and calmly now i am on his side and agree to his plan of having two wives, very smart guy.
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Feb 2, 2018 22:16
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Danaru posted:I [38M] had an affair. I'm trying to find a resolution now with my wife [36F] and the other woman [19F] holy poo poo, why would a woman with no resources or skills of her own agree to that pre-nup He's got her over a barrel This fuckin' guy, man. "I slept around on my wife because I have needs. No, we still have sex, I meant I have the need to sleep around. Anyway, I'm just gonna bring in the woman I've been cheating with to live with us so I can gently caress her in front of my wife all the time and she's just gonna have to deal because it's that or starve to death I guess lol where's the cocaine"
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Feb 2, 2018 22:17
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I love the super casual “yeah Ive attempted to trap my wife into a marriage through financial control” Also lmao this dude is a walking two child support and alimony monster
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Feb 2, 2018 22:18
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girl pants posted:I told my fiance that he should change his last name to mine and I'll change my last name to his My partner and I debated this as well, but we really do want the same last name, and neither of us are attached to either of our (very plain, average) last names, and we couldn't think of any brand new names we both seriously liked. We joked about making it Etheridge or DeGeneres, but it didn't really catch on. So we're combining our names into one that sounds reasonable. If anyone gives me any poo poo for "tradition" or whatever...I don't know what they want from us, as lesbian weddings aren't particularly traditional.
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Feb 2, 2018 22:18
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I still can't get over this, he's not asking the Internet if they think it'd be a good idea for him to propose this arrangement, he already did it and his question is "how do I get my wife to stop whining and crying all the time because it's really bringing me down" the guy is literally a soap-opera villain
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Feb 2, 2018 22:20
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I am fairly sure you cannot do that with a pre nup but ianal
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Feb 2, 2018 22:20
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I cant imagine that prenup will hold up in court since theyre only intended to protect assets held upon joining the marriage. Child support will absolutely blast him through the ringer though regardless.
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Feb 2, 2018 22:20
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Danaru posted:I [38M] had an affair. I'm trying to find a resolution now with my wife [36F] and the other woman [19F] I've heard prenups aren't always enforcible in cases like this. God willing
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Feb 2, 2018 22:21
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Did some digging in the comments andquote:it was not officially done with a lawyer but at the time of signing my wife didn't speak English very well, so she is not aware of whether it's official or not. quote:It was not an official prenup but she thinks it is. At the time of signing she did not speak very good English and did not know much about US Law. quote:It is not masculine to give in to a woman when she did not even earn any of that money. She doesn't work and never have. It's ethically not hers. Jesus Christ
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Feb 2, 2018 22:22
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Danaru posted:Did some digging in the comments and "Start Killing People"
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Feb 2, 2018 22:23
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Not ethically hers? Ok. Pay for all those meals she cooked, plus surrogate fees for those children, childcare...
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Feb 2, 2018 22:25
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Danaru posted:Did some digging in the comments and You missed this one quote:Females do not crave variety, only hypergamy. My guess is that he's just an incel troll.
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Feb 2, 2018 22:25
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Hallo r/relationships, people don't seem to like it when I do awful, demeaning things to them and ruin their lives. How can I convince them to do a better job of hiding their suffering from me?
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Feb 2, 2018 22:26
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Danaru posted:Did some digging in the comments and ok if this guy isn't a new villain character some writer is workshopping he's gotta be a troll, it's one or the other
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Feb 2, 2018 22:27
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He is going to get assfucked raw and I wish I could be there to watch (and clean up)
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Feb 2, 2018 22:28
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Danaru posted:I [38M] had an affair. I'm trying to find a resolution now with my wife [36F] and the other woman [19F] How enforceable are prenups? Edit: 
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Feb 2, 2018 22:28
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girl pants posted:How enforceable are prenups? Well, given that this one was secured under false pretenses and also patently unfair and also not actually legal....probably not much. Hope the wife gets a really good lawyer who speaks really good English
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Feb 2, 2018 22:31
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Maggie Fletcher posted:Well, given that this one was secured under false pretenses and also patently unfair and also not actually legal....probably not much. Hope the wife gets a really good lawyer who speaks really good English Dont think they need any more english than to know “present the evidence” and “how many zeroes are you seeking in alimony”
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Feb 2, 2018 22:36
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I hope his wife hits him with a brick. Why did he even get married?
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Feb 2, 2018 22:37
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So dude doesn’t know where Alma lives but Sasha keylogged him to find out where Alma lives? Stdh.txt
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Feb 2, 2018 22:41
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He said in the story she Facebook stalked her and used Google maps to match her house (he didn't say the Google maps part but that's how she would have done it)
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Feb 2, 2018 22:42
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dudeness posted:I'm glad he explained it all logically and calmly now i am on his side and agree to his plan of having two wives, very smart guy. this is how the wife and the 2nd wife start to plot his murder and cover it up as a suicide
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Feb 2, 2018 22:56
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Me 19 F with my boyfriend 21 M two years, is going to jerk off for an artist to paint his his erectionquote:My boyfriend and I live up north, and we are very commited to eachother. Recently he and I have befriended an artist and gallery owner M45ish, and he has been painting my boyfriend naked in exchange for money. Let me clarify that I have no problem with him doing this, and do not think it is a sexual thing.
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Feb 2, 2018 23:07
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He's going to paint his erection all right. With his tongue
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Feb 2, 2018 23:10
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Palpek posted:Me 19 F with my boyfriend 21 M two years, is going to jerk off for an artist to paint his his erection Think really really really hard; harder than you ever have before in your life and maybe just maybe youll be able to puzzle out an answer.
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Feb 2, 2018 23:10
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Danaru posted:I [38M] had an affair. I'm trying to find a resolution now with my wife [36F] and the other woman [19F] Someone help me I can't stop laughing. I'm gonna die.
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Feb 2, 2018 23:26
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Danaru posted:I [38M] had an affair. I'm trying to find a resolution now with my wife [36F] and the other woman [19F] Murder Also your wife is going to ruin you. Also good.
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Feb 2, 2018 23:27
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I just want to point out that this is an amazing paragraphquote:I told her that what I'd IDEALLY like to do is have the other woman and her child move in with us, for a few reasons. first of all, this other woman is financially struggling and she could live with us as a live-in nanny of sorts to our two children. It sounds weird, but she's already told me she's fine with this arrangement. In addition, if I could get my wife on board with a polyamory situation, I could continue sleeping with both women and have TWO happy marriages instead of one. My wife cried when I suggested this but as the days go on I think she might be coming around to it because the alternative is so much more unappealing. He doesn't even know if the kid is his, but his elaborate plans for a treefort house with two wives to gently caress on a fun island adventure are well underway quote:I told her she'd get more of my time, attention, and I'd spend way less time out of the house since this other woman would be living with us. We also would no longer have to spend money on high school aged babysitters we don't trust, rushing to find them in time for date night, etc. And since I want more sex than my wife does, this arrangement would mean less "annoying" propositions from me and more time for her to enjoy herself alone. So you see, I'm basically doing you a favor, it's all upside and no downside Also why does it read like she can go sit in a corner, alone, the way she prefers, lmao Today on wife swap: watch a man propose the Texarrakis of Marriages
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Feb 2, 2018 23:33
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Danaru posted:I [38M] had an affair. I'm trying to find a resolution now with my wife [36F] and the other woman [19F] Will this pre-nup even work? It doesn't sound like it would work.
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Feb 2, 2018 23:35
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Do you know what works? A gun.
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Feb 2, 2018 23:37
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Lol@wanting to be monogamous with your partner makes you a prude now apparently
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Feb 2, 2018 23:41
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The man is a complete loving piece of poo poo but god drat, the balls on him to pull that
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Feb 2, 2018 23:46
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girl pants posted:Lol@wanting to be monogamous with your partner makes you a prude now apparently I have run into this argument here and IRL! *sounds the Blue Train siren*
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Feb 2, 2018 23:48
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Blade Runner posted:The man is a complete loving piece of poo poo but god drat, the balls on him to pull that It honestly sounds like sociopathy. The feelings of his wife or his teenage lover seem never to have crossed his mind.
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Feb 2, 2018 23:49
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girl pants posted:Maybe he shouldn't associate with people who take their social mores from bad sitcoms then Also, for this, whether there's something wrong with it and whether or not you'll get made fun of for it are entirely different things. Unless he just wants to not associate with the vast majority of people, he's gonna get people making fun of him.
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Feb 2, 2018 23:50
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zakharov posted:It honestly sounds like sociopathy. The feelings of his wife or his teenage lover seem never to have crossed his mind. Sociopathy, redpill, same thing.
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Feb 2, 2018 23:53
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zakharov posted:It honestly sounds like sociopathy. The feelings of his wife or his teenage lover seem never to have crossed his mind. I feel like this man lives in a literal skull shaped house, as he is a cartoon villain
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Feb 2, 2018 23:58
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He literally used the term "hypergamy". The dude is either an MRA, Incel, or redpiller or some combination of all three and he can eat poo poo and die.
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