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Lotus foot was also the "perfect foot". It's just a status symbol. It matters because it was decided that it matters. The indicators are the indicators and sometimes it's just because a poet centuries ago described a foot as a lotus and it all spiraled from there until communism decided everyone had to throw bricks at sparrows.
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It sounds like the are both inexperienced and clueless about sex. The sex was going to suck no matter what. Like Mayne fill around for a little while first? If he is a19 year old virgin then he is gonna need some time and some help, and ditto for her.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 06:16 |
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Pick posted:Lotus foot was also the "perfect foot". It's just a status symbol. It matters because it was decided that it matters. The indicators are the indicators and sometimes it's just because a poet centuries ago described a foot as a lotus and it all spiraled from there until communism decided everyone had to throw bricks at sparrows. That was p obvious about control, it's not the feet that were hot it was the cultural situation around it that appealed to people. Like finding fat attractive because it was an indicator of wealth.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 06:18 |
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ArbitraryC posted:That was p obvious about control, it's not the feet that were hot it was the cultural situation around it that appealed to people. Like finding fat attractive because it was an indicator of wealth. Fat women with Lotus feet are the rarest type of sexy.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 06:28 |
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ArbitraryC posted:That was p obvious about control, it's not the feet that were hot it was the cultural situation around it that appealed to people. Like finding fat attractive because it was an indicator of wealth. You're projecting. Sometimes something is just about something stupid that will never really make sense in retrospect, like birds with big dumb feather displays and Adélie penguins giving each other rocks that look exactly the same as any other loving rock on the beach.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 06:28 |
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therobit posted:Ok I have read enough of that to have an idea of what you are talking about, but honestly think you are misinterpreting that data. Men prefer younger looking women with narrow hips for reproductive reasons. That does not translate into wanting women to look like children. If you get hot looking at girls that look like kids, you have something wrong with you. I guess I just used the wrong language to describe it in the first place? Anyway, I searched for “Gilmore Girls” and it seems the show wrecks relationships. I [24F] think the new Gilmore Girl episodes just made me realize my relationship with [27M] of 4 years is over. What do I [23/nb] do with all the stuff my ex [20/m] gave me? quote:... I (23m) cannot get over my girlfriend of 4 year’s interests. quote:... Me [28 M] with my [23 F] girlfriend of 3+ years quote:Let me preface by saying I've made a lot of mistakes. I can be neglectful with my attention, and can get consumed in my hobbies... Gilmore Girls, not even once. There’s more, but doing this on my phone is hellish.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 06:35 |
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I know a guy who worked production on Gilmore Girls and when the show wrapped everyone got their own Gilmore Girls leather jacket with a big Luke's logo on the back. Women practically threw themselves at him to talk about that drat jacket and how much they loved Gilmore Girls whenever he wore it to the grocery store.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 06:44 |
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quote:The kinds of movies and TV she would watch would be good, strong shows like Breaking Bad, Game of Thrones, Archer, etc. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfelqZpapZA
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 06:47 |
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Gilmore girls is not what killed those relationships
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 06:53 |
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How dare women like a TV show that men do not like
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:01 |
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lmao searching for television shows is too easy, stay tuned for examples
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:04 |
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Seriously though if my girlfriend didn't at least like the first 5 seasons of Game of Thrones I would probably dump her.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:07 |
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You gotta have standards and the more capricious they are the better.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:08 |
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Hello the specific type of media that I consume is core to my identity and the common basis for all of my relationships because I am a well-adjusted and rounded person.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:09 |
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My (32m) wife (32f) asked if we could skip going to our weekly family get togethers because she feels uncomfortable. Siblings are upset.quote:We have a weekly get together of the three families. My family, my brother's family, and my sister's family. This is because our parents have passed on, and because our kids are all growing up together and this is important to them.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:10 |
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quote:Brother said that when it was Star Wars time, she didn't even know who Luke Skywalker was.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:15 |
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Ugh gently caress that. Family doesn’t mean poo poo, despite what loving assholes in the older generations seem to think. Toxic people get cut off, as it should be.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:15 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:My (32m) wife (32f) asked if we could skip going to our weekly family get togethers because she feels uncomfortable. Siblings are upset. Lol your family is poo poo. Have fun with the holiday blowup and not talking to your siblings up until your death. cowofwar posted:Hello the specific type of media that I consume is core to my identity and the common basis for all of my relationships because I am a well-adjusted and rounded person. If you don't live, breathe, and poo poo Little Big you can get the gently caress outta my perfectly choreographed life.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:16 |
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Me [22 F] with husband [24 M], of 2 years. He's not okay with a t shirt I have from a popular cartoon showquote:I like the show Bob's Burgers. So does my husband. Recently I went to the mall with a friend and got a shirt with Tina Belcher on it. It has the text 'I put on my bra like everybody else, one boob at a time'. I thought it was hilarious, even though it's silly.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:18 |
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Way to get married in your early 20s
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:22 |
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Yes, men don't think about women with big boobs unless we are prompted.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:24 |
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Jeffnote: you may want to bite down on a sponge or something before you start reading this It's like standing in the eye, and its calm, and quiet, and all I see is him. me 21, two hims: 29 and 23 quote:why did I decide to type this on my phone. sigh
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:25 |
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dudeness posted:Yes, men don't think about women with big boobs unless we are prompted. Thanks for the prompting
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:27 |
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Poor ol Seabiscuit, saw GoT and died.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:29 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Jeffnote: you may want to bite down on a sponge or something before you start reading this Dump your loser shithead bf and gently caress the young guy.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:30 |
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failing forward posted:How dare women like a TV show that men do not like I have actually known a few men that liked Gilmour Girls. In retrospect they were girlymen.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:30 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Jeffnote: you may want to bite down on a sponge or something before you start reading this I smell toast. Also, the BF should OP at his earliest convenience.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:33 |
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Admiral Ray posted:If you don't live, breathe, and poo poo Little Big you can get the gently caress outta my perfectly choreographed life. Little, Big was an awesome book and I really wanted to read more at the end of it.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:37 |
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Jeffrey of YOSPOS posted:Jeffnote: you may want to bite down on a sponge or something before you start reading this She's p insufferable but I dunno what a 29 year old saw in her anyways after their rocky start, dude is probably not much of a catch himself.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:38 |
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Kak posted:Seriously though if my girlfriend didn't at least like the first 5 seasons of Game of Thrones I would probably dump her. yeah, what's with chicks not liking treachery and rape, amirite?
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:40 |
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Khazar-khum posted:yeah, what's with chicks not liking treachery and rape, amirite? This is such a horrible post I don't even know where to begin
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:55 |
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Khazar-khum posted:yeah, what's with chicks not liking treachery and rape, amirite?
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 07:56 |
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Gilmore Girls is a good show because literally everyone in it is awful in some way, except for maybe the Korean chick who just wants to rock out on the drums. Anyway that phoneposting girl is raising some red flags I've seen elsewhere- chances are there's more times than the ones she's mentioned where she's "jokingly" or inadvertently said something inattentive that had a negative effect on her fella's confidence and it's just being compounded by her lack of, well, everything. She should dump him, for both their sakes.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 08:00 |
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Pvt.Scott posted:Ok, you know how we think cats and dogs are cute? That’s mostly due to their facial features being similar to human infants. A cute dog is essentially a wolf pup permanently stuck in adolescence, as we bred them that way. We connected with them better like that. Humans are wired to find babies “cute”. Facial features that are preferred vastly by men fill the same “cute” category. Big eyes, small mouth, small nose, soft features. Having these features broadcasts youth, and thus fertility. There's a difference between the cute response and the sexy response. Men might experience an overlap of cute and sexy in the same body but that doesn't mean you can carelessly conflate them.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 08:08 |
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PetraCore posted:The dude is referring to statistical studies which don't actually mean much about people's innate preferences but instead say more about what is societally encouraged, what's acceptable, and what's discouraged. It's considered acceptable for men to date women consistently younger than them but not for that to be reversed, so that's reflected in the statistical breakdown. And women aren't attracted to 'status factors' as opposed to personality or looks, it's just that there was an explicit societal expectation (and said expectation is still around but implicit) for women to leverage their youth and beauty to 'marry up' because they weren't able to work when married. Turning that into some bullshit biotruths is pathetic, as is acting like that stuff is all innate and natural rather than learned or people going for what they think they can get rather than what they want. Also this is very true. I've noticed it's very common for population statitistics likely attributable to socialization to become reified as biological facts in common perception. Like if women like pink and women tend to have two X chromosomes, suddenly it's 'second X chromosome causes preference for pink'. I guess it's really just a plain old correlation/causation thing in the end. People tend to view biological factors as causative even when it's not warrented.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 08:15 |
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Gilmore Girls makes Guardians of the Galaxy (1 & 2) funnier.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 08:28 |
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areyoucontagious posted:Ugh gently caress that. Family doesn’t mean poo poo, despite what loving assholes in the older generations seem to think. Toxic people get cut off, as it should be. Look, the dude called already called them buttheads. What more do you want?
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 08:43 |
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Searching for “Prius” turned up a solid sitcom plot. My girlfriend (25F) wrongly thinks that I (26M) am a marine biologist, and I don’t know how to fix it. quote:I'm (26M) deeply in love with my new girlfriend (25F), but i'm afraid I'm about to break her heart by telling her the truth.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 08:54 |
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Tell her your company looks for whale oil alternatives.
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# ? Feb 7, 2018 08:57 |
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Beachcomber posted:Tell her your company looks for whale oil alternatives. They just need to be walking on a beach and he can pull a golf ball out of a whales blowhole.
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