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COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN
Look you send some vindictive poo poo like that you shouldn't expect gallant behavior in return lol


I prolly wouldn't post it I guess but I'd understand. I prolly wouldn't still be that salty 4 years later though.

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andrew smash
Jun 26, 2006

smooth soul
Her new boyfriend probably sent it you hosed up weirdo

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN
Lol yeah I bet

Ham Sandwiches
Jul 7, 2000

andrew smash posted:

Her new boyfriend probably sent it you hosed up weirdo

quote:

My first guess is that the new boyfriend got into her phone and sent the picture

From the reddit thread:

quote:

She for sure sent to video. She was holding the phone and recorded her face too. Idk why she would want to hurt me out of the blue like this and after not taking for 6 months.

Well done, detectives

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Ham Sandwiches posted:

From the reddit thread:


Well done, detectives

Lol

big trivia FAIL
May 9, 2003

"Jorge wants to be hardcore,
but his mom won't let him"

can we see the video this needs further evaluation

Three Olives
Apr 10, 2005

Don't forget Hitler's contributions to medicine.

quote:

It's not like he had this money sitting in his bank account. He had to sell off all his investments, while also pulling from his emergency fund (he likes to hangout in Personal Finance). His original goal was to let these investments keep growing so that we could one day get a house. As a result, we were barely able to scrape by the wedding with only a couple hundred bucks to our name.

My husband was planning on our future together and I made him blow it on a one night party, now he is mad.:???:

The vendors weren't sending collections after them, they were checking to see if they had the money before committing to it and the answer was clearly no, we do not. sorry to have wasted your time. She clearly demanded that he use the money they were saving for their future together for a party against his wishes and he should have called the wedding off right then.

Bunni-kat
May 25, 2010

Service Desk B-b-bunny...
How can-ca-caaaaan I
help-p-p-p you?

Wassbix posted:

She shares in the thread she had 0 savings going into the marriage and she *MAY* have pressured the husband to sell all his poo poo to pay for the wedding.

:cripes:

Barudak
May 7, 2007

And he dated this woman for four years and in that time never learned how to sharpen his words to slice her to the bone? Christ, some people just refuse to be educated

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
Weddings are the worst detail, read about Bad Roommate

andrew smash
Jun 26, 2006

smooth soul

Ham Sandwiches posted:

From the reddit thread:


Well done, detectives

That post sounds like she took the video, not seeing anything that means she was the one who sent it except the insistence of the OP. Anyway, my point should have been that I hope COMRADES has the opportunity to discover firsthand whether there’s a “she had it coming” clause in his local revenge porn statute and reports back to us.

girl pants
Sep 21, 2006
I feel a great disturbance in my pants
This is what happens if you just 'mmhmm yep whatever you want honey' whenever your fiancee shows you something: a 30-person wedding party composed entirely of dogs in solid gold heelys.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

girl pants posted:

This is what happens if you just 'mmhmm yep whatever you want honey' whenever your fiancee shows you something: a 30-person wedding party composed entirely of dogs in solid gold heelys.

As god as my witness, I thought turkeys could fly

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

andrew smash posted:

That post sounds like she took the video, not seeing anything that means she was the one who sent it except the insistence of the OP. Anyway, my point should have been that I hope COMRADES has the opportunity to discover firsthand whether there’s a “she had it coming” clause in his local revenge porn statute and reports back to us.

If you really want to know I would have probably been mad and then smoked a few bowls and gotten over it. I'd probably consider posting it but then I'd start worrying about Internet detectives doxxing her or blowing it up into more drama I don't want to deal with and I'd not do it.

If she didn't send it then yeah obv I wouldn't post it but I just read that at face value like yeah she deffo just send it to be lovely and vindictive.

If it was her face in it I def wouldn't have posted it for some reason I was just picturing a vague red cummed on butt.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
Someone hurt my fee-fees. Its felony time

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN
But like look if a dude sends you unsolicited vids of his best impression of meatspin and you post it online idgaf tbh.

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Pick posted:

Someone hurt my fee-fees. Its felony time

Lol

Yeah the local PD would be right on that poo poo

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

COMRADES posted:

Lol

Yeah the local PD would be right on that poo poo

If your point is based on how seriously the police take sex crimes against women I guuuesss you wiiiiinnn!

COMRADES
Apr 3, 2017

by LITERALLY AN ADMIN

Pick posted:

If your point is based on how seriously the police take sex crimes against women I guuuesss you wiiiiinnn!

Oh whatever dude sex crime against women if a dude sends an unsolicited dick pic and they get posted online no one gives two shits but when a woman hypothetically sends a video of her butt to be vindictive and petty it's a serious felony crime to show anyone else?

Pvt.Scott
Feb 16, 2007

What God wants, God gets, God help us all

Al Borland Corp. posted:

The faculty weren't using his website, he was just capturing updates to the official one and duplicating the content into his format, probably through automated scripts

Well, he does say that the faculty started using his site, though the post doesn't say in what capacity (and lord knows how reliable that info is). It is quite possible that he set his site up like you say, with all scheduling etc. still being made on the official site. I will gladly defer to those who have knowledge and experience in such matters. I wonder if his site had a forum or something that made it a more attractive option? Not looking like a Geocities website circa 1995 was probably more than enough, though.

Galaxy Brain
Dec 13, 2017

by Lowtax

COMRADES posted:

Oh whatever dude sex crime against women if a dude sends an unsolicited dick pic and they get posted online no one gives two shits but when a woman hypothetically sends a video of her butt to be vindictive and petty it's a serious felony crime to show anyone else.

Only 38 states have revenge porn laws and most of them classify it as a misdemeanor. The offense to conviction ratio is also minuscule, far less than even rape prosecution.

ass cobra
May 28, 2004

by Azathoth
Is it just me, or are the people of r/relationships Judgmental and rude?

quote:

Just something I've noticed. I come here more than go to that sub for relationship advice. People here are so much more supportive and kind and understanding. Whenever I post anything there, people seem to tear you apart, talk down to you/are condescending. Basically make you regret asking for advice? I mean, isn't that the point of the sub? To get help on relationships/breakups? Why even bother to comment if you're just going to be an a-hole.

Rubellavator
Aug 16, 2007

Don't post it on the internet, that's too impersonal. Show it to her family, maybe a few of her friends, or someone at her work. Just kidding. Don't do any of that cause it's probably illegal.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

Had a sales meeting with Reddit yesterday and they hyped up how positive and caring and invested their users were so clearly this person is wrong.

Also Comments are about to get way more loving unreadable at end of Q2

tactlessbastard
Feb 4, 2001

Godspeed, post
Fun Shoe

Pick posted:

If you want a really bad r/relationship roommate story, check this poo poo out. Makes the average bad roommate a heck of chump!

That was a hell of a story!

Rubellavator
Aug 16, 2007

Report the butt photo to the police and tell them you're concerned about her safety and would like an officer to check on her wellbeing.

Milotic
Mar 4, 2009

9CL apologist
Slippery Tilde
I’m glad that after my break from the tedium of 20 somethings relationship woes, the sub is once again delivering good stuff

Me 22F with a 45M muslim colleague - non romantic proposal (Muta'h)?

quote:

u/holachikita
Hi everyone,

I am working on the translation of a document for a guy. I've been working on this task for about a month. I do not have a relationship with him whatsoever and it was always for business context. I also happen to have a boyfriend.

Today, I met up with the guy, who happens to be muslim, to go over the document. He then explained to me that, him being with me without anyone else was a violation of his culture (sorry, I am not familiar with this stuff as I am an atheist), that even shaking my hand was not permitted.

He then started talking about temporary marriage (Muta'h I believe) and how we should do it so he can be able to be alone with me without breaking any of his laws. I refused as, marrying a stranger makes absolutely no sense to me. He told me it would be respectful for his wife and that he was not expecting any sexual favors, just to hang out and stuff.

I don't want that. It was business only.

After the meet up, I politely refused and got out of there. Oddly enough: he transferred me extra money. He had sent me money for the work I had done in the morning, and sent me an extra 40$, completely out of the blue (I did not accept the transfer). Now he called me and I dodged his call.

Is it normal in that culture? Is it very supposed to be platonic? I cannot condone this, but I am trying to understand. I don't want to judge too harshly just because it's something I am not used to.

Please help me out. Thanks.

tl;dr: Is Muta'h (temporary marriage) platonic or is it necessarily for romantic purpose?

Pvt.Scott
Feb 16, 2007

What God wants, God gets, God help us all

Milotic posted:

I’m glad that after my break from the tedium of 20 somethings relationship woes, the sub is once again delivering good stuff

Me 22F with a 45M muslim colleague - non romantic proposal (Muta'h)?

Smoove.

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost

tactlessbastard posted:

That was a hell of a story!

It truly is marvelous but sadly people are more fascinated by weddings and pooping

Barudak
May 7, 2007

Pick posted:

It truly is marvelous but sadly people are more fascinated by weddings and pooping

It has a sad ending, his didint manage to end the entire bloodline

Khazar-khum
Oct 22, 2008

:minnie: Cat Army :minnie:
2nd Battalion

Milotic posted:

I’m glad that after my break from the tedium of 20 somethings relationship woes, the sub is once again delivering good stuff

Me 22F with a 45M muslim colleague - non romantic proposal (Muta'h)?

Mr Romance here is probably not a Muslim, but likes the idea of Muta'h because it allows him to cheat.

andrew smash
Jun 26, 2006

smooth soul

Pick posted:

It truly is marvelous but sadly people are more fascinated by weddings and pooping

If you liked that one, try these:
https://www.refinery29.com/15786
https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2016/12/berkeley-sarah-lawrence-professor-house-rental-saga/

NO FUCK YOU DAD
Oct 23, 2008
Anybody who's into having their rear end beaten literally bloody is not someone you want to be in a relationship with in the first place. Just text back "lol whatever loon" and go find someone who likes regular fun mid-twenties sex where everybody gets to cum and nobody's rear end ends up looking like Mick Foley after he got done fighting The Undertaker.

Barudak
May 7, 2007

Baby, jake the snake is rarin to go in your hell in a cell

dudeness
Mar 5, 2010

:minnie: Cat Army :minnie:
Fallen Rib
Maybe her new boyfriend is just really really bad at sex and it was all unintentional.

Jeza
Feb 13, 2011

The cries of the dead are terrible indeed; you should try not to hear them.
The classic SA roommate saga, for those that don't know.

girl pants
Sep 21, 2006
I feel a great disturbance in my pants

Jeza posted:

The classic SA roommate saga, for those that don't know.

I used to have this bookmarked for wherever I needed motivation to clean my apartment

boner confessor
Apr 25, 2013

by R. Guyovich

Jeza posted:

The classic SA roommate saga, for those that don't know.

great story but martin random was one of the best during the fakepost era of gbs

he's the guy who also claimed to be an insider at the bush whitehouse and claimed that john ashcroft (google him) could only sleep on top of his desk wearing a full nylon body sock with a reciprocating fan blowing a soft breeze across his body

Pick
Jul 19, 2009
Nap Ghost
Shhhhh we know. It doesn’t matter.

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wizardofloneliness
Dec 30, 2008

My favorite detail was that Dick Cheney wore iced underwear. And Condoleeza smelled really nice.

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