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Al Borland Corp. posted:She's an artist she's not gonna go interview for an office job anytime soon or if she does it will be at some tech studio that thinks facial tattoos are rad I don't think being an artist means you never have to get a day job Pick posted:What stupid “identity” will barely literate pervs adhere to once their wangus takes a chill pill welcome to the Republican party
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Ouhei posted:That stuck out to me too, I read once a week and was like "that seems fairly normal". It is for a 21-year-old. gently caress, I could bone down every day twice a day when I was that young.
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lol if you can't still bone down any time, any where, with any thing
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:as much as the Internet tries, I don't think there's any magical way to phrase this basic idea that "doesn't count" as an ultimatum irl. Almost like the flaw is actually in their "ultimatums are always bad" idea... Zulily Zoetrope posted:It's an ultimatum; ultimatums are not universally evil. Ugh, I was hoping someone would give their hot takes. You both ruined it by giving real answers.
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Clark Nova posted:Business travel is probably the closest you can get to simulating the experience of being a well-fed, under-stimulated masturbating chimp in a zoo
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My (25M) girlfriend (23F) of two years wants to tattoo stars on her face.quote:Usually I have no problems with tasteful tattoos, but I'm definitely not a fan of heavily tattooed bodies and I'm absolutely not into face tattoos. I never thought this would be an issue I'd have to face, but here I am.
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Get her to go for hearts instead.
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Palpek posted:My (25M) girlfriend (23F) of two years wants to tattoo stars on her face. Question time for the thread: Is it an ultimatum if you tell someone "If X happens, I will do Y?" Because dude's allowed to have his preferences just as much as she's allowed to make her choices. Hard mode: remember that "If you cheat on me, I will break up with you" follows the pattern.
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I don’t think this thread thinks ultimatums are inherently bad, which they aren’t
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“Stop beating me or I will call the cops” Wong relationship fooouuulllll
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An ultimatum is something people can use to abuse and manipulate thier partner but its also the only way to communicate clear no-go situations like not wanting to date someone with a tattooed face.
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Al Borland Corp. posted:Jesus, once a week is not a dead loving bedroom. Pick posted:I don’t think this thread thinks ultimatums are inherently bad, which they aren’t You can just say "I wouldn't date someone with a face tattoo". Then when they get a face tattoo you just break up with them. There's no real need for an ultimatum. Ultimatums don't usually work. Usually when you feel compelled to drop an ultimatum the other person isn't thinking with logic but is trying to use logic to backfill an emotional desire. Meaning, "if I just get that face tattoo he'll see how cool it is and change his mind" is far more likely to be their response to "If you get a face tattoo I'm breaking up with you" than "wow he's real serious, maybe I should give it a second thought". The issue is, if they gave it a thought to begin with they'd realize how bad of an idea it was. Khorne fucked around with this message at 17:05 on Mar 28, 2018 |
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Mar 28, 2018 17:00
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Sorry you can only get it up on the fortnight
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Wahhhh sex is only .5% of my waking life, I need it to be .75% and ill poo poo up everything over it!!!!!!
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I'm getting a dick tattooed on my face for all my friends that died of sex overdose.
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Khorne posted:Once per week is "cya we're breaking up" territory for me. I wouldn't call it a dead bedroom. I'd call it horribly mismatched sex drives. So you're gonna go to zero a week
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What the hell is going on in this thread
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Jeza posted:Question time for the thread: Is it an ultimatum if you tell someone "If X happens, I will do Y?" Because dude's allowed to have his preferences just as much as she's allowed to make her choices. Hard mode: remember that "If you cheat on me, I will break up with you" follows the pattern. as much as the Internet tries, I don't think there's any magical way to phrase this basic idea that "doesn't count" as an ultimatum irl. Almost like the flaw is actually in their "ultimatums are always bad" idea... 
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Al Borland Corp. posted:So you're gonna go to zero a week Pick posted:Sorry you can only get it up on the fortnight
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Avenging_Mikon posted:as much as the Internet tries, I don't think there's any magical way to phrase this basic idea that "doesn't count" as an ultimatum irl. Almost like the flaw is actually in their "ultimatums are always bad" idea... Much like with drugs or alcohol, the bad thing is the abuse of ultimatums "If you cheat on me I will break up with you" is fine, "I will call the cops if you beat me" is fine, "I will set fire to your couch and leave in the middle of the night if you gain 5 pounds" is not
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Pick posted:“Stop beating me or I will call the cops” Wong relationship fooouuulllll You just need to communicate better!!
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Words are the tools of abusers, I communicate with romantic partners like this 
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Khorne posted:Man, fortnight is such a confusing word to me. It's 48 hours in my head even though it's supposed to be 2 weeks. Nah, that's tuddays. It's like "tuppence" but with days.
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A Wizard of Goatse posted:whoa what just happened Well the good news is you now have enough time to woo Emily Blunt
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Doc Hawkins posted:Words are the tools of abusers, I communicate with romantic partners like this That’s how my cat communicates he wants kibbles
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Jeza posted:deja vu train exploded while leaving the station I Hate It!
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Barudak posted:Well the good news is you now have enough time to woo Emily Blunt Is this an Edge of Tomorrow reference or an Adjustment Bureau reference?
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Palpek posted:My (25M) girlfriend (23F) of two years wants to tattoo stars on her face. I'd tell everyone it was a prison tattoo symbolizing a murder she committed until she broke up with me.
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But Rocks Hurt Head posted:Is this an Edge of Tomorrow reference or an Adjustment Bureau reference? Depends on how tall you are.
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Barudak posted:Depends on how tall you are. Tall. Very tall. The tallest.
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Pick posted:Bonobos actually aren’t that sexual in the wild, they are perverse as hell in zoos because they’re intelligent but maddeningly bored and unchallenged. Of course this has no implications for any other closely related species Oh friend. I'm not sure who told you this, but wild bonobo males like to gently caress infants Chimps are super sexual, they gently caress just to greet each other They gently caress to bond They gently caress just to pass the time It's a huge part of their culture and even how they communicate and establish pecking order Putting them in a zoos was pretty much a guarantee to it becoming the Nastiest Show On Earth EDIT: Avenging_Mikon posted:And just to demonstrate more of the range of depression, when I was at my worst and contemplating offing myself I used anger to keep going. Anger at all the people who had been assholes to me. Not only did I not want to prove them right, I wanted the opportunity to piss on their graves. That was still super-unhealthy, because if I'd taken that too far, I'd have been putting them IN those graves, and wouldn't have really cared about the consequences. Oh absolutely, burning searing anger was pretty much what got me through at times. Certain people I was/am determined to outlive and pee on their graves, but that requires living. Also, anger at my stupid brain for trying to kill me often. I'm way better now and the ideation has stopped, but it's hard to deny that spiciness was dangerous and could have gone either way. It burned at both ends and could have had disastrous results. Also agreed, Pick pro-av + pro-click right now (until it changes again?) StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 19:44 on Mar 28, 2018 |
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No that’s based on pretty bad research by de Waal and has been roundly criticized. Almost no research on wild bonobos exists, as they live in the highly unstable Congo region.
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You're cherry-picking there. It's my bad for confusing bonobos with chimps proper (they're not), but chimps themselves are absolutely that sexual and so the rep was extended to bonobos.
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If bonobos is so dtf why are they always sending me clothes? How am I supposed to phreak with all these clothes on?
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Pick posted:No that’s based on pretty bad research by de Waal and has been roundly criticized. Almost no research on wild bonobos exists, as they live in the highly unstable Congo region. And yet, you seemed pretty certain when you said they aren't very sexual in the wild.
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