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r/legaladvice [FL] Solicited child support for baby that doesn’t exist u/Krimony quote:11 years ago I got pregnant with my ex-boyfriend. We did a paternity test which proved it was his, but soon after that he decided to cut off contact and totally ghost me. I couldn’t call/text him or get in touch on social media, and he moved away. He knew I couldn’t abort because of my own views and religious parents, but I ended up miscarrying so I thought that was that even though I was very hurt by his actions.
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PetraCore posted:Eeeeh... I mean I've heard of people getting allergy attacks from peanuts that are across a huge cafeteria. Some people have real loving bad allergies. It's very possible her parents have exaggerated her allergy as a means of control or out of fear, but also people shouldn't be acting like it's just someone being sensitive when it's an... allergy...? Allergies are weird. I am SUPREME ALLERGY TO EVERYTHING MAN so I'm gonna chime in. I read about a clinical case where someone went into anaphylaxis 150 foot from a fish market because of the fish. And then there was a study where peanuts were held 12 inches away from severely allergic people and nothing happened. I've had my throat get tight and scratchy being a couple of feet away from some food I was allergic to. I think if you can smell it, it poses a risk.
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CheesyDog posted:r/legaladvice You owe him more than 122K.
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Mar 29, 2018 02:36
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PetraCore posted:Eeeeh... I mean I've heard of people getting allergy attacks from peanuts that are across a huge cafeteria. Some people have real loving bad allergies. It's very possible her parents have exaggerated her allergy as a means of control or out of fear, but also people shouldn't be acting like it's just someone being sensitive when it's an... allergy...? I imagine it went like this: Doctor: your girl is allergic to apples. Parents: can... can she die from that? Doctor: well, you can never be sure how severe an allergic reaction can be. It can sometimes be deadly. Parents: oh no! How far away would she have to be to get a reaction? Doctor: well, people have sometimes had allergic reactions to the allergen just being in the same large room. Parents:  Of course this is even more likely if they asked Dr Google
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Mar 29, 2018 02:40
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pidan posted:I imagine it went like this: I don't know how crazy that is, though. Pollen will gently caress your poo poo right up and that's airborne. She's probably just so allergic they were like "gently caress it, we don't want to allow it on any floor because someone will bring an apple down to her floor" I had a severe allergic reaction on a high pollen count day despite not eating anything.
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Mar 29, 2018 02:43
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CheesyDog posted:r/legaladvice I'd watch this movie
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Mar 29, 2018 02:44
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Gumbel2Gumbel posted:I don't know how crazy that is, though. Pollen will gently caress your poo poo right up and that's airborne. She's probably just so allergic they were like "gently caress it, we don't want to allow it on any floor because someone will bring an apple down to her floor" The doctor in my scenario is telling the truth, it's just that it'd be really really rare to be severely allergic to apples in the first place. Normally "allergic to apples" means you get an itchy mouth when you eat one. The "reaction across a room" stories are normally from very allergenic things like peanuts or latex. And pollen is extremely thick in the air, not comparable to a few particles floating off an apple at all. That said I guess it's not impossible that her apple allergy is that intense, but that would make it extremely hard to live in public. I know from my apple-allergic friends that apples show up in all kinds of processed foods that aren't really apple related at all.
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Mar 29, 2018 02:52
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pidan posted:The doctor in my scenario is telling the truth, it's just that it'd be really really rare to be severely allergic to apples in the first place. Normally "allergic to apples" means you get an itchy mouth when you eat one. The "reaction across a room" stories are normally from very allergenic things like peanuts or latex. I recently developed an allergy to raw carrots. They make my mouth itchy. It's connected to a birch pollen allergy that makes my eyes all itchy. Oddly enough, when the birch pollen is out, being outside is my saving grace. Outside has far better air circulation, and the pollen just becomes stagnant and irritating while indoors, so I end up spending a lot of time outside in spring. Apple allergies are also usually connected to pollen allergies. I might be allergic to them too, since raw apples make my jaw hurt. I wonder how apple allergy girl's apple allergy was discovered.
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quote:[–]NotSirEd [S] [score hidden] 3 hours ago  why IS there a waitlist to get into a car audio club?
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Mar 29, 2018 03:14
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blugu64 posted:I [F19] found out my boyfriend [M20] wears 3" lifts. It makes me very uncomfortable that he's so insecure. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRdx1FSiGaw
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Mar 29, 2018 03:41
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Me [24F] with my Mom [40F], she wants to cut ties because my Fiance [29M] couldn't post her bail.quote:I have been reading this sub for a while now, and have had many interactions with my Mom that I thought about posting here, but never have. I am today because I am at the end of my rope, I have no idea what to do. This just happened about an hour ago.
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Mar 29, 2018 04:03
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blugu64 posted:I [F19] found out my boyfriend [M20] wears 3" lifts. It makes me very uncomfortable that he's so insecure. Even though im an ugly insecure loner at least im not 5 foot 4.
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Mar 29, 2018 04:07
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Haifisch posted:Me [24F] with my Mom [40F], she wants to cut ties because my Fiance [29M] couldn't post her bail. I hope your fiance leaves you if you even think of talking to her again.
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Mar 29, 2018 04:09
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Barudak posted:I hope your fiance leaves you if you even think of talking to her again. No poo poo drat....
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Mar 29, 2018 04:15
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People who blast their bass should have their cars burned in front of them and forced to ride mopeds. Also, someone needs to start an allergy colony where people allergic to ridiculously common things can breathe free instead of living in fear.
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Mar 29, 2018 04:37
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Laurenz posted:Maybe so. I'm 20 and almost every single girl I know care a lot about it. I understand why, they don't want to look down on their man, but some girls really are vicious about it. Most girls however, including my female friends, say they don't care AS LONG AS he is taller than them. Nah, I'm in my 30s, but when I was your age I remember some ladies caring about that a lot for a hot minute. it was especially important for prom pictures and such (truly the most important moment of one's life). of course i didn't agree, and being my own brand of obnoxious, liked to think i was way cooler/better than those OTHER dumb girls (oh young hubris) It falls away pretty quickly though once people start to get older and realize how someone treats you matters more than how they look in a photo with you that or they go on The Bachelor Saeku posted:Peanuts have dust that gets into the air. Apples don't. Apples spray juice when sliced/bitten which can float through the air yeah that said i know nothing of apple allergies and if it would actually trigger them StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 04:51 on Mar 29, 2018 |
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Mar 29, 2018 04:49
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Beachcomber posted:Also, someone needs to start an allergy colony where people allergic to ridiculously common things can breathe free instead of living in fear. There is already at least one town like this. There was a Radiolab episode about it, or This American Life, one of those.
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Mar 29, 2018 04:55
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I don’t know a lot about allergies but the travels through multiple floors thing sounds like some A grade bullshit.
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Mar 29, 2018 04:57
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StrangersInTheNight posted:Nah, I'm in my 30s, but when I was your age I remember some ladies caring about that a lot for a hot minute. it was especially important for prom pictures and such (truly the most important moment of one's life). of course i didn't agree, and being my own brand of obnoxious, liked to think i was way cooler/better than those OTHER dumb girls (oh young hubris) A lot of people with apple allergies could straight up chug apple juice and be fine. It’s quite often an allergy to a protein from pollen that’s still on the skin.
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Mar 29, 2018 04:59
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a quick googling does reveal apples can be fatal and cause anaphylaxis in some people, though rare possible the parents are being terrified that poo poo could travel through the vents but yeah they're not doing her any favors and eventually she'll need to learn to navigate places that at least have apples in the building. StrangersInTheNight fucked around with this message at 05:02 on Mar 29, 2018 |
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Mar 29, 2018 05:00
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MarcusSA posted:I don’t know a lot about allergies but the travels through multiple floors thing sounds like some A grade bullshit. Definitely. People can be crazily sensitive though. Look up mastocytosis, it can be triggered by vibration or physical touch
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Mar 29, 2018 05:00
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StrangersInTheNight posted:a quick googling does reveal apples can be fatal and cause anaphylaxis in some people, though rare One thing that caught my eye when reading about this is that if a person does have a serious reaction to apples they also could have the same reaction to other fruits. Nothing I read on any of the sites even mentioned airborne Apple particles. They all talk about ingestion which leads me to believe that the airborne Apple particles of death isn’t a real thing and this girl really should see a doctor on her own and find out what the real deal is.
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Mar 29, 2018 05:05
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PetraCore posted:Eeeeh... I mean I've heard of people getting allergy attacks from peanuts that are across a huge cafeteria. Some people have real loving bad allergies. It's very possible her parents have exaggerated her allergy as a means of control or out of fear, but also people shouldn't be acting like it's just someone being sensitive when it's an... allergy...? I think it's just cause of how inconvenient it is for everyone and how it's impossible to confirm visually. Like if your class needs extra accommodations for a kid in a wheelchair it's just like w/e no one's going to hold it against them because it's obvious they're not just making it up. My gf is a prof at the local uni and one of her classes involves interacting with people with learning disabilities (special education is her field), basically once a month or so throughout the semester the class would visit a facility for adults with these learning disabilities and interact with them and see what it was like, it tended to be a good experience both for the people in the facility and the students she taught. This class was schedule for lunch time in part because these visits were generally lunches, eating is a good communal activity that most people can participate in. For like an entire year she couldn't do the lunches anymore because one of her students was "deathly allergic" to literally everything, the list covered more things than I could think of weren't on it, including stuff I didn't even know people could be allergic to like apples. Afaik, the only policy to handle this was them not eating during her lunch period class and shifting the trips to other activities which wasn't a huge deal, but considering the number of allergies listed and the fact that there was a period before them in their classroom that wasn't barred from munching on apples I kinda question how realistic her allergy claims were. I guess the part I thought was particularly bullshit when she was telling me about it was that it just turned into a blanket ban on food because her list was so extensive, surely she eats something, just let the other students eat that thing too. ArbitraryC fucked around with this message at 05:15 on Mar 29, 2018 |
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Mar 29, 2018 05:13
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MarcusSA posted:One thing that caught my eye when reading about this is that if a person does have a serious reaction to apples they also could have the same reaction to other fruits. i mean most of the poo poo out there about it seems to be your real basic food allergy stuff so it's hard to tell, but yeah she should go to a doc i'm not saying i believe her, i'm just saying i ain't not doctor and eventually she's going to have to figure out how to reach a middleground (if she can) because finding an employer who will accommodate this will be difficult. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=drr8e0BjT8M
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Mar 29, 2018 05:43
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If you are that alergic to everyday stuff you should just carry an epi-pen with you.
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Mar 29, 2018 05:50
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therobit posted:If you are that allergic to everyday stuff you should just walk around in big hamster ball. I made it better.
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Mar 29, 2018 05:55
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i'd carry an epi-pen then wander into clearly dangerous situations where people are dumb enough to leave that poo poo out for the sweet sweet lawsuit money everyone would learn soon enough to put away their apples around me
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Mar 29, 2018 06:14
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I mean at this point it's just a matter of time before some rear end in a top hat deliberately starts leaving apples around her dorm building.
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Mar 29, 2018 06:28
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the apple bandit
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Mar 29, 2018 06:40
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StrangersInTheNight posted:the apple bandit The Apple Dumpling Gang
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Mar 29, 2018 06:51
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Gumbel2Gumbel posted:Pick you're not like other humans :(
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Mar 29, 2018 06:51
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It sounds like the Uni is doing everything right in order to accomodate a girl with a severe allergy, they even kept her anonymous. It sounds like college kids are still in fact college kids and will talk poo poo and joke about rules like those. Get over it, yeah you'll hear this when walking down a corridor sometimes, cry me a loving river, it comes with the territory. There is no problem, she can attend college, the administration is supportive and the other kids will get the "remember when we were forbidden to eat apples and had to eat bananas instead? They were chasing that poo poo more than weed use, I once snuck an apple out of the cafeteria..." story that they can tell their friends at a dinner table.
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Mar 29, 2018 06:52
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Hopefully she catches some mist from an apple being cut open and dies before passing on her broken genes.
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Mar 29, 2018 07:14
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RoboRodent posted:I like the smell of wet dog. Good. I'm not the only one. Pick posted:20!? get the gently caress out of town! how the gently caress do all these kids keep showing up here, daaamng They are legacies. Bored fucked around with this message at 08:51 on Mar 29, 2018 |
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Bored posted:They are legacies. It’s tru, my older brother is/was a goon so now I’m here making people feel old (22)
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Beachcomber posted:People who blast their bass should have their cars burned in front of them and forced to ride mopeds. That guy’s jackass replies are what I always imagined the internal monologue of Car Stereo Bass Bomb Man would sound like. Clark Nova fucked around with this message at 13:21 on Mar 29, 2018 |
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Mar 29, 2018 13:18
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Gotta kill your imaginary kid and throw a fake funeral
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Mar 29, 2018 15:23
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this has the makings of an entire good season 1 of a netflix show that then rapidly spirals into mediocrity
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Mar 29, 2018 15:24
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What happens if she's on a bus and someone's eating an apple? What if in one of her classes someone is eating an apple?
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Fake Baby Lady and Forced Impregnation Japanese Lady should get together and do a bunch of heists.
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