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I dunno what I'd do as a parent in that situation but that kid is gonna be known as Assbrush from here on out.
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Your brother is going into high school and so it is very easy for you to utterly ruin his life by making sure everyone he is going into high school with knows this embarrassing thing that he did So just leave the post up and go hang out with your friends, because being grounded is retarded as a concept and I hate it
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Mar 30, 2018 01:30
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StrangersInTheNight posted:jesus christ pick "alone with someone else" was a good description someday I'll explain why it was him and nobody else, since I basically know. Scathach posted:loving seriously. I've met just shittons of people in my life and they're mostly predictable and disappointing. Hugh was the only person where I felt real newness in every interaction with him. Anyway I've known a lot of suicides, I'm sorry for yours, I have made a lot of major live decisions based on trauma from the ones near to me.
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Mar 30, 2018 01:30
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Admiral Ray posted:I dunno what I'd do as a parent in that situation but that kid is gonna be known as Assbrush from here on out. Parents should have obviously grounded the brother, made him apologize, and replaced the toothbrush, but tbh I don't feel taking it to facebook was the right thing on her part either.
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Mar 30, 2018 01:32
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Pick posted:"alone with someone else" was a good description Your story is played out and we need new material, Pick Get married to someone else and then leave them for Hugh in order to reinforce your point about how you will always be left for the one that got away
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Mar 30, 2018 01:32
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plot twist: the parents are the ones who stuck the toothbrush up their rear end
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Mar 30, 2018 01:42
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Incoherence posted:Imagine hearing that your 12 year old boy stuck his sister's toothbrush up his rear end and telling the sister "you're making too big a deal of this". It all depends on how it goes down. It's horribly disgusting but if anyone can make too big of a deal about it, it's a teenager.
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Mar 30, 2018 01:43
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Blade Runner posted:Your brother is going into high school and so it is very easy for you to utterly ruin his life by making sure everyone he is going into high school with knows this embarrassing thing that he did You realize that doing this sort of thing just creates an escalation, right? Yes, your parents can't prevent you from leaving the house, but there are tons of other ways to deny privileges like use of the car, buying things, etc. that can get thrown into the mix. You are still utterly dependent on them at 16 and simply refusing to take your punishment just makes your own situation worse.
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Mar 30, 2018 01:47
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Old Assbrush deserves harsh punishment, though.
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Mar 30, 2018 01:48
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new phone who dis posted:You realize that doing this sort of thing just creates an escalation, right? Yes, your parents can't prevent you from leaving the house, but there are tons of other ways to deny privileges like use of the car, buying things, etc. that can get thrown into the mix. You are still utterly dependent on them at 16 and simply refusing to take your punishment just makes your own situation worse. Presumably they are not allowing you to use the car anyway if you're loving grounded, get your own job if you're sixteen
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Mar 30, 2018 01:54
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (16F) brother (12M) did something disgusting with my toothbrush. My parents (40s) are on his side. Her brother was stimulating his prostate with his sisters electric toothbrush.
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Mar 30, 2018 01:56
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Blade Runner posted:Presumably they are not allowing you to use the car anyway if you're loving grounded, get your own job if you're sixteen Depending where you live you may need either your school, your parents or both to sign off to get a work permit. For most teenagers out there, it's not in anyone's interest to blow up the relationship that badly before they get out of school.
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Smirking_Serpent posted:My (16F) brother (12M) did something disgusting with my toothbrush. My parents (40s) are on his side. quote:Oh. and you're wrong about him being embarassed. He's not. He mocks me for being grounded now and told me he's told his friends he got away with it and they think he's awesome. But fortunately: quote:The concensus at my school is that I'm actually very very cool, I've had some kids messaging me saying they wished they'd been brave enough to expose horrible people in their lives so I'm pretty good with my choice, thanks for your concern! and also quote:I'm going to tell my dentist now that I know what caused it, they said gingivitis and inflamed gums from not brushing and flossing at the gum line enough, I'm so so grossed out realizing what it actually was.
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Mar 30, 2018 01:58
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new phone who dis posted:Depending where you live you may need either your school, your parents or both to sign off to get a work permit. For most teenagers out there, it's not in anyone's interest to blow up the relationship that badly before they get out of school. Such a pathetic square that you can't even support teenage rebellion in the face of an rear end brusher Truly sad
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Mar 30, 2018 01:58
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Blade Runner posted:Your story is played out and we need new material, Pick No one's going to have been there at the right time. It's too late 
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Pick posted:No one's going to have been there at the right time. It's too late F
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Blade Runner posted:Such a pathetic square that you can't even support teenage rebellion in the face of an rear end brusher Consider me properly admonished.
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Mar 30, 2018 02:01
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Pick posted:No one's going to have been there at the right time. It's too late Goon project a time machine in the hopes that the flailing retardation of GBS will somehow end terribly and involve you somehow
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Mar 30, 2018 02:02
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Pick posted:No one's going to have been there at the right time. It's too late Psh, you're not even 40 yet. LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT IT BEING TOO LATE!
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Mar 30, 2018 02:04
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new phone who dis posted:Psh, you're not even 40 yet. LET ME TELL YOU ABOUT IT BEING TOO LATE! I'm not even 30...
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Mar 30, 2018 02:05
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I AM THE ONE WHO IS ALMOST 40 GODDAMMIT PICK EVERYTHING ISN'T ABOUT YOU JEEZ LADY.
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Mar 30, 2018 02:06
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At the ripe old age of 24, I am declaring myself to be done with love It is too late for me
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Mar 30, 2018 02:07
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new phone who dis posted:I AM THE ONE WHO IS ALMOST 40 GODDAMMIT PICK EVERYTHING ISN'T ABOUT YOU JEEZ LADY. he was the other badbones kid when I was growing up and didn't know anyone else back when i was sensitive enough that things like oneness, compassion, and shared experience mattered. now assballs, gay butts, piss and turds. e: but my continued passion could be explained with a series of flowcharts (true)
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Mar 30, 2018 02:08
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*Dials the Pick family residence* "Hello butler, is Pick around?" "Oh this is Hugh. Hugh G. Rection" "Yes I'll hold" *snickers*
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Mar 30, 2018 02:09
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Blade Runner posted:At the ripe old age of 24, I am declaring myself to be done with love Goddamit the gem in your hand doesnt start glowing until 30 (25 in asian models)
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Mar 30, 2018 02:09
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just the right amount autistic to explain honest,plaintive, and extremely deep love using flowcharts nothing in the flowcharts, it's meta. it's explained w/ the concept of flowcharts.
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Mar 30, 2018 02:09
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Pick posted:he was the other badbones kid when I was growing up and didn't know anyone else back when i was sensitive enough that things like oneness, compassion, and shared experience mattered. now assballs, gay butts, piss and turds. Assballs, gay butts, piss and turds for life, homie. You're in the gang now. I have some bad news about our tattoo.
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Barudak posted:Goddamit the gem in your hand doesnt start glowing until 30 (25 in asian models) Mastering Omnite was difficult but rewarding Pick posted:just the right amount autistic to explain honest,plaintive, and extremely deep love using flowcharts Your own fault for being able to love anyone or anything in my opinion
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Mar 30, 2018 02:14
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new phone who dis posted:It all depends on how it goes down. It's horribly disgusting but if anyone can make too big of a deal about it, it's a teenager. Like, if their response is "we're buying [sister] a new electric toothbrush and a locked box to put it in, [brother] is grounded for a month for being gross, [sister] is grounded for a weekend for airing her lovely laundry in public", then there probably isn't a thread here.
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Mar 30, 2018 02:14
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Beat both of the children, and then the parents
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quote:The concensus at my school is that I'm actually very very cool, I've had some kids messaging me saying they wished they'd been brave enough to expose horrible people in their lives so I'm pretty good with my choice, thanks for your concern! My rear end.
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Pick posted:"alone with someone else" was a good description Pick, you only felt that newness with him because he gave you so little, you could project the world upon him He held it back in such a way as to stoke your cravings, to make you want to have more, but not because he meant to or is somehow an inherently interesting person, but because he had no idea how to be vulnerable, and each time you got close enough to see the person inside he shut you down. But just those glimpses were enough to tantalize you, and what made him seem so fresh and new was also what hurt you so much. Whenever you're comfortable, I do want to hear more
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Mar 30, 2018 02:17
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Is it common for a post to be removed and locked from commenting within the hour of it showing up here? Because if so I fear we may be doing a disservice to people who need advice, and, more importantly, depriving ourselves of follow-up content.
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Mar 30, 2018 02:18
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Incoherence posted:The Facebook post was maybe a little much, but if her parents really don't have her back here (and it sounds like they don't) then I don't blame her too much for appealing to a more supportive crowd. I'm wondering if there isn't a series of events leading to this that we're missing out on. Is it truly just a random assbrushing or is it some sort of ongoing 1-up thing between them?
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StrangersInTheNight posted:Pick, you only felt that newness with him because he gave you so little, you could project the world upon him The trick is to be mysterious and pretend to only let glimpses of your true tortured personality be seen, but then actually there's nothing there and you're just a bitter and emptily miserable sort of person on the inside, completely owning the person who spent time trying to care about you
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Mar 30, 2018 02:20
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new phone who dis posted:I'm wondering if there isn't a series of events leading to this that we're missing out on. Is it truly just a random assbrushing or is it some sort of ongoing 1-up thing between them? Sister seems to genuinely think there's a bit of goldenchild dynamic going on, if she's being honest about the response where her brother is literally taunting her for being grounded then I'd imagine he's been pushing boundaries for quite some time.
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Mar 30, 2018 02:21
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I wonder how many open and caring men pick met in her life she simply wasn't into because she found them boring and uninteresting.
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Mar 30, 2018 02:22
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SpiderHyphenMan posted:Is it common for a post to be removed and locked from commenting within the hour of it showing up here? Because if so I fear we may be doing a disservice to people who need advice, and, more importantly, depriving ourselves of follow-up content. It’s actually common for posts to be removed and locked within the hour of showing up, period. If a post blows up they blank it out and lock it. r/relationships moderation is loving weird.
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Student befouled my coffee mug. [MA]quote:I’m a teacher in Massachusetts. Absolute legend. Literally tea bagging.
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SpiderHyphenMan posted:Is it common for a post to be removed and locked from commenting within the hour of it showing up here? Because if so I fear we may be doing a disservice to people who need advice, and, more importantly, depriving ourselves of follow-up content. The subreddit mods are very strict. Posts can be removed if they're somewhere else on reddit, if they update too soon or too often, if they get too popular, etc. It's incredibly draconian, comparable only to something like AskHistorians. But it is possible that there's a spy among us...
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